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Joined 28 Nov 2005. Wow... that really takes me aback when I think about it. It wasn't much about joining BW to seek out 'Sexcapde'. For me by that time, I already know who and what I want. And cared even less about labels. But there are those who started discussion in BW who were not as fortunate. Those were early days. Days when especially non-sexual information about gay lifestyle was not as forthcoming and varied unlike today at a click of the mouse. If there was a way to give back in return for folks who helped me in my clueless years, Blowing Wind just seem like the best place for it. BW's forum functions beyond just a place for promiscuity but played more importantly, for the local boys especially, an underground haven for getting answers, stories to learn by, sharing fears; hopes, dreams, strength and find solace in a community that stands with and understand them. We have come a long way with Blowing Wind. BW have kept it's core format from day one and that's good. It's predictable and it feels like home. Singapore and most of Asia still have a long way to accepting the LGBT community and our right to exist on equal terms. But forum such as BW will always serve to keep the movement strong to reach that goal and beyond. Thank You. Am appreciative for the good work Henry and his team have done over the years in keeping Blowing Wind moving forward and giving us a place to come together. Congratulation for reaching the 10th Anniversary Milestone. And now on to the 50th !! :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: Happy 10th Birthday Blowing Wind :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:

Selamat Berpuasa Semua... Meriah tak bazaar Ramadan? Gonna miss it coz overseas...

Looking for a guy who don't mind spending the afternoons over a cup of tea and enjoying the simple things in life together. 4more mths til I ord but for the right guy, my leaves are reserved solely just for you. Chinese 170, 62. Don't mind being top or btm if its the love of my life.

Anybody up for fun? Only for gym fit ppl

Any body can offer or would like to practice your Massge skill ? Have place in west Any body can offer or would like to practice your Massge skill ? Have place in west

Redwall now anybody?

I was very lean before and I don't take supplements. Whey and the rest just not doing anything to me. Tried Creatine capsules for some time. Stopped after awhile. Been ''supplement-less'' since then. You just need to eat possibly every 2 hours. Not necessarily like a buffet. Best to cut down on cardio since we burn very fast. And carry heavy weights. Just remember, if you end up taking supplements, what works for others may not work for you. Good luck.

Me. Yup

what r stats

anyone wanna help me suck?

I like the sixth paragraph! The Most Important Question of Your Life Source: http://markmanson.net/question Everybody wants what feels good. Everyone wants to live a carefree, happy and easy life, to fall in love and have amazing sex and relationships, to look perfect and make money and be popular and well-respected and admired and a total baller to the point that people part like the Red Sea when you walk into the room. Everyone would like that — it’s easy to like that. If I ask you, “What do you want out of life?” and you say something like, “I want to be happy and have a great family and a job I like,” it’s so ubiquitous that it doesn’t even mean anything. A more interesting question, a question that perhaps you’ve never considered before, is what pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for? Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out. Everybody wants to have an amazing job and financial independence — but not everyone wants to suffer through 60-hour work weeks, long commutes, obnoxious paperwork, to navigate arbitrary corporate hierarchies and the blasé confines of an infinite cubicle hell. People want to be rich without the risk, without the sacrifice, without the delayed gratification necessary to accumulate wealth. Everybody wants to have great sex and an awesome relationship — but not everyone is willing to go through the tough conversations, the awkward silences, the hurt feelings and the emotional psychodrama to get there. And so they settle. They settle and wonder “What if?” for years and years and until the question morphs from “What if?” into “Was that it?” And when the lawyers go home and the alimony check is in the mail they say, “What was that for?” if not for their lowered standards and expectations 20 years prior, then what for? Because happiness requires struggle. The positive is the side effect of handling the negative. You can only avoid negative experiences for so long before they come roaring back to life. At the core of all human behavior, our needs are more or less similar. Positive experience is easy to handle. It’s negative experience that we all, by definition, struggle with. Therefore, what we get out of life is not determined by the good feelings we desire but by what bad feelings we’re willing and able to sustain to get us to those good feelings. People want an amazing physique. But you don’t end up with one unless you legitimately appreciate the pain and physical stress that comes with living inside a gym for hour upon hour, unless you love calculating and calibrating the food you eat, planning your life out in tiny plate-sized portions. People want to start their own business or become financially independent. But you don’t end up a successful entrepreneur unless you find a way to appreciate the risk, the uncertainty, the repeated failures, and working insane hours on something you have no idea whether will be successful or not. People want a partner, a spouse. But you don’t end up attracting someone amazing without appreciating the emotional turbulence that comes with weathering rejections, building the sexual tension that never gets released, and staring blankly at a phone that never rings. It’s part of the game of love. You can’t win if you don’t play. What determines your success isn’t “What do you want to enjoy?” The question is, “What pain do you want to sustain?” The quality of your life is not determined by the quality of your positive experiences but the quality of your negative experiences. And to get good at dealing with negative experiences is to get good at dealing with life. There’s a lot of crappy advice out there that says, “You’ve just got to want it enough!” Everybody wants something. And everybody wants something enough. They just aren’t aware of what it is they want, or rather, what they want “enough.” Because if you want the benefits of something in life, you have to also want the costs. If you want the beach body, you have to want the sweat, the soreness, the early mornings, and the hunger pangs. If you want the yacht, you have to also want the late nights, the risky business moves, and the possibility of pissing off a person or ten thousand. If you find yourself wanting something month after month, year after year, yet nothing happens and you never come any closer to it, then maybe what you actually want is a fantasy, an idealization, an image and a false promise. Maybe what you want isn’t what you want, you just enjoy wanting. Maybe you don’t actually want it at all. Sometimes I ask people, “How do you choose to suffer?” These people tilt their heads and look at me like I have twelve noses. But I ask because that tells me far more about you than your desires and fantasies. Because you have to choose something. You can’t have a pain-free life. It can’t all be roses and unicorns. And ultimately that’s the hard question that matters. Pleasure is an easy question. And pretty much all of us have similar answers. The more interesting question is the pain. What is the pain that you want to sustain? That answer will actually get you somewhere. It’s the question that can change your life. It’s what makes me me and you you. It’s what defines us and separates us and ultimately brings us together. For most of my adolescence and young adulthood, I fantasized about being a musician — a rock star, in particular. Any badass guitar song I heard, I would always close my eyes and envision myself up on stage playing it to the screams of the crowd, people absolutely losing their minds to my sweet finger-noodling. This fantasy could keep me occupied for hours on end. The fantasizing continued up through college, even after I dropped out of music school and stopped playing seriously. But even then it was never a question of if I’d ever be up playing in front of screaming crowds, but when. I was biding my time before I could invest the proper amount of time and effort into getting out there and making it work. First, I needed to finish school. Then, I needed to make money. Then, I needed to find time. Then… and then nothing. Despite fantasizing about this for over half of my life, the reality never came. And it took me a long time and a lot of negative experiences to finally figure out why: I didn’t actually want it. I was in love with the result — the image of me on stage, people cheering, me rocking out, pouring my heart into what I’m playing — but I wasn’t in love with the process. And because of that, I failed at it. Repeatedly. Hell, I didn’t even try hard enough to fail at it. I hardly tried at all. The daily drudgery of practicing, the logistics of finding a group and rehearsing, the pain of finding gigs and actually getting people to show up and give a shit. The broken strings, the blown tube amp, hauling 40 pounds of gear to and from rehearsals with no car. It’s a mountain of a dream and a mile-high climb to the top. And what it took me a long time to discover is that I didn’t like to climb much. I just liked to imagine the top. Our culture would tell me that I’ve somehow failed myself, that I’m a quitter or a loser. Self-help would say that I either wasn’t courageous enough, determined enough or I didn’t believe in myself enough. The entrepreneurial/start up crowd would tell me that I chickened out on my dream and gave in to my conventional social conditioning. I’d be told to do affirmations or join a mastermind group or manifest or something. But the truth is far less interesting than that: I thought I wanted something, but it turns out I didn’t. End of story. I wanted the reward and not the struggle. I wanted the result and not the process. I was in love not with the fight but only the victory. And life doesn’t work that way. Who you are is defined by the values you are willing to struggle for. People who enjoy the struggles of a gym are the ones who get in good shape. People who enjoy long workweeks and the politics of the corporate ladder are the ones who move up it. People who enjoy the stresses and uncertainty of the starving artist lifestyle are ultimately the ones who live it and make it. This is not a call for willpower or “grit.” This is not another admonishment of “no pain, no gain.” This is the most simple and basic component of life: our struggles determine our successes. So choose your struggles wisely, my friend.

Yes! Drool... miss those days when fit soccer players with big strong thighs and well toned bubble butt wearing those glanz short shorts! If they don't intend to make the soccer shorts as short as before, then at least bring back the shiny glanz material! Many of us would like to post our pics here to share. But it is really troublesome to post pics here.

Sounds fun!

It's via this forum that i managed to gather a big group of nice, like-minded drinking buddies. We've been having numerous sessions (drinking and more haha) since 2012 and we're still going strong. Without BW, i guess i should still be drinking with mostly straight friends, so thank you and Happy 10th Anniversary. For those that have not signed up for the upcoming Anniversary Party, i would urge you to do so before registration is closed. You've got nothing to lose and it's hard to come by.

Thanks, Bern. Too bad I'm too far! I am sure you will have a great anniversary party. You all deserve it.

I really enjoy gentle when i'm extra horny and sensitive, sporting a raging hard on and working my btm boy's hole raw. Slow gentle but firm strokes allow my cock to feel the tightness and warmth of the sweet boy hole; and vice versa for my btm to feel the hardness and thickness of my cock, and appreciate with his ass the full structure from the cockhead, shaft, to the base. it's usually the most intimate moment during sex, best done in the missionary position with the btm at the edge of the bed. both my btm boy and myself will be moaning and grunting with the intensity of the pleasure until it builds up to a point when the horny devil takes over me and I just had to fuck the brains out of my boy at turbo speed till I cum deep into his boy cunt :twisted:

I'm really interested in Malays (have always admired their cut *youknowwhat*!) Any Malays interested in a young Chinese serving the country? prefer non chub and straight acting! Would love to meet Malay daddies too!

the last book I read was susan sontag's on photography. its non-fiction and it discusses how photography is used as a tool, an expression, and an art form. the current book I'm reading is also non-fiction and it is on Pranayama, on how the yogic pranayama practice can benefit the constitutions of our body.

I think I would take #2 but it really depends. I'm not too big myself so I'd probably chose the one easier to "handle" lol.

thks guys

Still there? Got any fun?

Huh?

1. Kind 2. Understanding 3. Monogamous 4. Open minded 5. Humorous I find myself attracted to guys with a big heart, big hands but small ego!

1. pleasant character 2. educated/can hold a conversation 3. funny/witty 4. share similar interests with me 5. non-smoker Wanted to add high EQ and nice or cute face but that would be more than 5

1. huge dick 2. firm ass 3. 8% body fat 4. model face 5. 175cm+

Seem like brain and looks are the few impt factors all looking for...non seem to look into the heart.. Not wonder i am still a loser... O_o

1. Decent singer 2. Good-looking 3. High sex drive 4. Witty 5. Protective but not possessive

1. Humble 2. Witty 3. Confident 4. Honest 5. Nice eyes

1. educated 2. independent 3. chemistry 4. hygienic / well groomed (no need to be grooming like a model 24/7) 5. a hand to hold on through thick and thin

1) Simple 2) Clean/Well groomed 3) Educated 4) Not high profile/attention seeker 5) Comfortable with his sexuality

1) Knows what he wants in life 2) Knows what he wants in himself 3) Knows what he wants in me 4) A face that makes me smile when I see him across a crowd of people in the train station 5) A hand that will hold mine tightly haha

We have on a number of occasions declared that this forum is meant for people 18 years and older. However, it was never made "official" as we had never in our experience encounter any teenagers wanting to hang around here. Well, things have changed. Anyone keeping up with the news, both local and international, know that nowadays in every country, the law is making special efforts to go after adults who want to have a sexual relationship with a teenager or someone even younger - in the PLUs world, this mean a boy or child. In our local context, it is even more precarious for an adult to have any relationship with a boy or teenager. Getting caught mean long jail sentences, caning and public humiliation. Read an article describing the new laws that our government is implementing. Due to a recent episode here involving a young man (nick: Wdlboi) not yet 18 years old (he declared to us this morning he is not yet 18 years old) posting in this forum, we were alarmed enough to immediately ban his nick from this forum. We have also decided on the following measures: 1) All nicks containing the words "boy", "boi" and their derivatives are immediately under close supervision. Examples of such nicks are "Astroboy", "Thaiboyz", "Slaveboy", "cuteboi", "confusedboi", "boiboi23". If your nick contain the words "boy" or "boi", please send a simple PM to HendryTan, our admin to confirm that you are at least 18 years old. If you fail to do so by 15th May 2006, your nick WILL be banned and you will not be able to use it anymore. 2) Starting immediately, NEW nicks with the word "boy", "boi" will be banned. 3) Any postings indicating the poster is under the age of 18 will be deleted. We hope that guests and members can help us identify such postings. 4) Any postings describing or hinting of a sexual relationship between an adult and a child will also be deleted. We seek your understanding in what we are doing. It really pained us to have to resort to such measures but with the local environment as it is, we have to show that we are making every reasonable effort to prevent and discourage relationships between adults and underage kids from being discussed in this forum. It is a tough task to tell people how to live their lives but where these kind of "relationships" are concerned, this is a position that the admin and moderators of this forum want to take. We sincerely appreciate your understanding and co-operation in this matter.