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  1. I haven't quite found "the one," but I have been looking and would like to share some thoughts on this. Firstly, we forget how small this community is, and hence how challenging the odds are. Assuming 5% of the male population are gay, and a typical cohort size of say 40,000-50,000 Singaporeans born each year, we are talking about 1,000 - 1,250 gay men of the same age. That's smaller than a secondary school. Compare that to a straight male who has access to a theoretical pool of about 18,000 women. Hence, it is no wonder that larger age differences are more common among gay relationships: your chances of success are better if you expand your target pool by age (or nationality for that matter). Against that, we like to further select our partners on other criteria such as looks, sexual compatibility, lifestyle, race, etc. Every time a new requirement is added, the odds of finding "the one" decreases. I am not suggesting that people settle for less than what they desire. But given the odds, it does mean that if you are really looking for "the one," you need to work hard at it. Go out and meet more people, reply to messages, take the initiative to meet guys for coffee. Even if some chap may not be the perfect guy at first glance, give it a chance. The more chances you give yourself, the more likely you will find a man that you share some personal chemistry with and would like to spend the rest of your life with.
    2 points
  2. JYAG-sim

    Can You Swim?

    I had never been able to swim and water scared me. I still remember vividly back when there was a compulsory 'Learn to Swim' programme for non-swimmers in Sec 1 and I was one of them. While I attended a few sessions, I also played truant when I found the chance to, so much so that I would wash my dry trunks when I got home, pretending that I had gone for it. Well, years passed and in JC, swimming was part of the PE curriculum (since there was a swimming complex in my sch) and the phobia returned to haunt me, though I had more fun learning how to swim this time (but still couldn't master any stroke). During NS, I was in the non-swimmer group and even before ORD, I couldn't swim a full length. Ironically, it was after ORD when a few of us army buddies met and made swimming our Sunday activity. Slowly with the "kick, glide, pull" (can still recall my PTI's instruction for breaststroke), swimming for me became a breeze. Too bad my Sunday swimming ended too quickly due to study and work commitments, but now I make it a point to swim whenever the weather and my schedule permit. Now I go for the continuous lap section at the pools to build up my stamina. So far so good! Of cuz, the eye candy at the pool helps to distract me if I ever think of taking a rest.
    2 points
  3. how about mine? I swam often.
    2 points
  4. Just reposting. haha. Hit me up.
    2 points
  5. bluerunner

    2 Choose 1

    Bubble pecs of course lor. Business shoe or snickers?
    2 points
  6. finally back home.. hohoho! its finally snowed decently.
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  7. 25 chn 180 70 here, gyms at safra, looking for sincere and discreet bf. Enjoys movies and outings. Looking to settle down and prefers monogamy rs.
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  9. Prepping for CNY interrogation. "Why don't you have a girlfriend?" Possible answers/scenarios: 1) "I just broke up with my girlfriend 5 years ago" 2) "studies come first" *breaks open lecture notes* 3) *points at zodiac chart* 'not my year' 4) *opens tinder* "Nope, nothing"
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  11. So did I did anything wrong?
    1 point
  12. Sorry ... I can't disclose due to respect and privacy matter.
    1 point
  13. Hello mates. new student in Singapore looking for friends fun and open minded for anything more. Love to meet open minded and creative guys. traveled in 10+ countries so love to meet new people and like to try anything possible. ..
    1 point
  14. Prof @lovehandle, 你真狠心。让那些无助可怜的宝宝小虾自生自灭。。
    1 point
  15. 恭喜老爺賀喜夫人! if you see baby shrimps it means your tank is conducive for the shrimps. Do check your filter as some of the baby shrimps might accidentally got sucked into it. I noticed that in my filter so got to rescue them out.
    1 point
  16. Seems like not a lot of crossdresser here.
    1 point
  17. sgwestJE

    Car Fun (Compiled)

    anyone in jurong?
    1 point
  18. @kaze we love the teamm8 Astro Brief too! Tell us which is your favorite teamm8 underwear or swimwear and stand a chance to win a pair of FREE teamm8 ankle socks in our Jan Giveaway.
    1 point
  19. bluerunner

    2 Choose 1

    Tan bronzy skin here. Hehe single eye lid or double eye lid?
    1 point
  20. bluerunner

    2 Choose 1

    V-shape V-shape. Very difficult to get V shape. Triceps or biceps?
    1 point
  21. Hello everybody. I'm 33, chinese, into officewear and erm.. other wilder fantasies but I'd love to make friends with anyone who wouldn't mind having me for company.
    1 point
  22. 23 mly 170 68 dont know if that matters but yeah.. likes to bake, cook and play mmos.. not very good at them but still =/ currently studying in unisim. likes to joke around and probably offend people but i guess thats just how i show affection? lol
    1 point
  23. bluerunner

    2 Choose 1

    Lifetime relationship (if it ever exists) natural colour for hair OR dye colored hair for CNY?
    1 point
  24. need a good blowjob at yung kuang area. anyone? 20/165/60 circumcised chinese, thick juicy cock for you
    1 point
  25. Who feel thirsty to drink the sperm?
    1 point
  26. deathblade88

    Can You Swim?

    Got my silver and long distance. And I think that is during my secondary sch days. Since then, the number of times I went in to the pool is countable sia............. I want to start a swimming regimen again.
    1 point
  27. Yes. 1st time staying alone.
    1 point
  28. Adult life isn't exactly what i hope it would be like.
    1 point
  29. Cube3

    Top or bots- leaders?

    I know so many bosses who are bots...
    1 point
  30. 20 lean chn here. 173 53. seeking someone with place, who is into kinky bdsm fun like edging and teasing my cock head:) line @tatterneon
    1 point
  31. Late nite horniness after watching gay porn
    1 point
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  33. Hello everyone. I am 26, Pan-Asian, 5'9 (175cm) tall and 150 lbs (68kg) Athletic. Always identified as straight, but lately have found myself becoming a little curious. So long story short, would be nice to talk to someone, and take it from there maybe? Though caveat is that anything that does happen has to be discreet and at a pace that I am comfortable with. Send me a message if this appeals to you! Thanks!
    1 point
  34. My favourite kind of tan is not really a "line" but a gradual tone from dark (starting from lower legs) to light (thighs and butt). Ombre effect. So sexy
    1 point
  35. Quite a recent survey; http://www.underwearexpert.com/2015/01/mens-underwear-trend-report-2014/
    1 point
  36. looking for ltr here chinese, 21/175/65 line: ng01
    1 point
  37. Letme explore youu lol
    1 point
  38. 22yo chinese here haha trying my luck here lol.
    1 point
  39. pro photographer. background education: visual communication design
    1 point
  40. Hello, currently serving army right now im 20 chinese mixed Would love to meet up with fellow nsf's or people in general still pretty new to this line: youngnwild
    1 point
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  42. canberra

    Scuba Diving (Compiled)

    That'd be awesome! We should plan one gay diving trip with all the divers from here. Haha!
    1 point
  43. Aaaww thanks shyc.
    1 point
  44. massage until precum leak.. btw.. this youtube user coming to singapore soon...
    1 point
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