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Hi TS, I moved out when I was 21 and the reason was just because I was already 21, I want to be independent and free. Those were my reasons and like what @xenophile mentioned, you really do not need a reason to move out. Parents will understand and actually what you are doing is the inevitable, that will happen if you are a parent. It is expected. I would like to just give you a reminder, do ensure that your number 1 reason is not because of your boyfriend , if ever something happens, don't give big problems to your parents and be a baby and go back /stay at your parents house and cry forever, spare them this. Always prioritize yourself, once you prioritise yourself you will be the best version of you and from there you can help your parents , friends and society at large. Just do it!

Planning to move out myself and will be hitting 35 soon. My parents was of course against my decision but I told them I need my privacy and space especially my video games, what with my mom telling me to throw away my PS4, handheld, games. You don't need a reason to be honest, just move, you can still visit and sleepover the weekend at your parent's place in the future.

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I do apologise if it sounds harsh. And it really isn't about Asian values or not. It's an Asian custom, not a value. You can remain the filial son even if you move out. It's about decision making. If you have decided to be independent, then whatever legitimate reason you have is valid for you. You can't go on over thinking reasons to stay. If the reasons to stay are valid, then stay. If you think you have no valid reasons to move out primarily because you don't want them to think you are gay, then stay. But, that is not a valid reason for compromising your own future and happiness.

To give a reason may be a bit hard landing. Why not just stay a day out per week followed by 2 & then 3... With change management, it will be easier for all parties to accept it. My parents are the traditional kind & no reason will be good enough for me to move out. But with the above method, they only realize it one day that i am not longer staying with them ;p

You are definitely thinking too much. You want to move out. Then just move out. If they think you are gay, what will happen? You'll get kickout of the house? It really just sound more like you are creating excuses not to move rather than finding a reason to move. It's really not whether they are ready or not, supportive or not. You are a gay man with no prospect of marrying a girl and moving out. You will never have a "legitimate" & "discreet" reason to move out. Question is, are you ready? If you are still making excuses to stay with parents, then you are not.

I think you had made your point. Stop spamming the forum or I will make you stop!

Moving out of the house doesn't mean being a disloyal son *roll eyes*

Just say that you want to have an independent life. If you have a strong will to move out, nobody can stop you.

I gave my parents a few reasons 1) there's no privacy here, with the kids and siblings still ard 2) I wanna be independent and just stay on my own without troubling them 3) I'm a grown man But, honestly, You don't need a reason to move out. Just move out...

What’s it like to be in a big age-gap relationship? Gay men with partners significantly older or younger talk about their relationships Sam Stanley and Laurence Hicks (Photo: Sam Stanley | Facebook) 9 November 2018 8:44 GMT David Hudson Why are people so curious about large age-gap relationships? In the world of opposite-sex relationships, it’s not unusual to read about an older man married to a much younger woman. Look at… um, Donald and Melania Trump. When it’s the other way around, like with French President Emmanuel Macron and wife, Brigitte it prompts more comment. When older and younger gay men get together, there can be assumptions about a wealth imbalance or power mismatch in the relationship. For example, when the actor, broadcaster and writer Stephen Fry married Elliot Spencer in 2015, eyebrows raised at their 30-year age difference. Stephen Fry and husband Elliott Spencer in the music video for Tim Arnold’s What Love Would Want (Photo: YouTube) Diver Tom Daley and screenwriter Dustin Lance Black are another couple who have been on the receiving end of bitchy comments over their 20-year age gap. Rugby player Sam Stanley, now 27, came out in 2015. Besides being an openly gay player, many other gay guys were equally fascinated that he was in a long-term relationship with Laurence Hicks, who is 34 years older. The two, who met eight years ago via the dating site silverdaddies.com, are planning to marry. Despite this, some accused Stanley of being a ‘gold-digger’, and Laurence of being a ‘perv’. Given gay people have fought society’s notions of who they should fall in love with, there still exist ideals when it comes to partners, whether it’s in looks or age. Martin and Yvan Martin, 36, met his partner, Yvan, aged 56, via a gay dating website. They met a week later at a gay bar and Martin says it was ‘love at first sight.’ ‘We went camping the next weekend, and it was clear that we found each other attractive, intellectually, emotionally and physically. The week after we decided to commit into a relationship. ‘I remember Yvan told me he was really concerned about the age gap at the beginning. From my part, I wasn’t concerned about it, as I was used to being in relationship with older men. I had only one relationship that the other one wasn’t older than at least 10 years. When I first had sex, I was only 17 years old, and the other one was 34.’ Yvan, two decades older than Martin, says he did have concerns at first. ‘I was afraid of generational conflicts and the difference of mentality and maturity; and also afraid of what others would think of it, would they think I am a sugar daddy, or that I’m out walking with my son.’ However, rather than any negative reaction, he says he received encouragement from those close to him. ‘All my friends and colleagues told me that I was stupid to stop myself from possibly having a good relationship because of the age.’ Martin and partner Yvan (Photo: Supplied) ‘We often joke that we have the same mental age’ Martin and Yvan have been together six years. They live in Montréal, Canada. ‘We often joke that we have the same mental age,’ says Martin. ‘I was, and still am, more mature than people of my age: calm, reserved. While Yvan looks younger than his age, and also his personality is younger than the same people of his age, always joking, cheerful. ‘Our relationship is the longest and the best I ever had; we had some downs, but the arguments we had were few and short.’ Martin says he’s had no negative reaction from friend and family to his relationship with Yvan. With regard to those times when he’s more conscious of the age gap, Martin says it’s rare. However, ‘Yvan is retiring next year, and we shared some concern regarding this change of life. Most of our friends that already are retired said they were even more active than before, so I’m not specially concerned. ‘I know we have a good communication together and we will adapt as events will go on.’ For both Martin and Yvan, the age gap is not an issue. ‘No, the difference has never been a problem, because mentally Martin has a maturity of a 40-year-old.’ Jake and Ned Jake, 25, is a recent college graduate in Newark, New Jersey. His partner, Ned, is 64 and retired. They met three years ago via Grindr. They do not currently live together. ‘At first we just wanted to hookup,’ Jake tells Gay Star News. ‘But eventually we started to click. We enjoyed each other’s presence and started going on dates. We became official after 3-4 months. I told him I loved him on the Staten Island ferry and he luckily felt the same way too. It’s been three years ever since and we are still together.’ Jake says he’s not exclusively attracted to older guys, and has dated men of all ages. However, both he and Ned had initial reservations over the age gap. ‘We both had doubts. I came out about a year before I met him and he was worried that because of my inexperience, my love for him would be finicky and short-lived. ‘Also, he was afraid that I might cheat on him with younger guys and possibly transmit an STD, which was why we used condoms during the beginning of our relationship. ‘Another reason was that since I was just starting my career, I would evidently move to another state and leave him. I promised him that I would take care of him, but he felt like he would be a burden to me. ‘As for me, I felt like I could not help him physically and financially. I was still saving up for a car while we dated! I also felt he should find someone closer to his age to relate to since he is much older and needs someone who will be close by and provide better companionship. Nonetheless, we gave it a shot and now we are three years strong.’ Family strife Despite being committed to one another, Jake and Ned haven’t told their respective families about the age-gap between them. ‘Both of our families know we are dating but they have never seen us. ‘My immediate family knows I am gay but they are not quite accepting of it. They would rather just ignore it, which is fine with me. My brother is the only one who has met him and he is very supportive of my relationship.’ He says Ned’’s family are ‘not homophobic whatsoever.’ However, the age gap is another thing. ‘One of his nieces got into a relationship with a man four years older than her and most of the family was outraged, including his immediate family. Because of this, he is very hesitant about introducing me to his family.’ Are there times when you are more conscious of the age difference than at others? ‘Yes, especially during the beginning of our relationship. My boyfriend lives alone and most of his family live out of state. He could get physically injured one day and there won’t be anyone around to help him. They are also both aware that at 64 years old, Ned is might face failing health or illness as he ages. Like Laurence Hicks, they also had concerns about Ned being questioned for his choice of partner. ‘I look younger than my age,’ says Jake. ‘There are times when [Ned] would be afraid the police might be called upon for possible pedophilia.’ This is despite the fact Jake was well over the age of consent when they met. These concerns aside, generally, ‘Our age difference is a non-issue and very rarely comes up… except maybe during pop culture references.’ Bart and Ekachai Finally, there’s husbands Bart and Ekachai. They live in Los Angeles, and there’s a 28-year age gap between them. Ekachai, 33, is originally from Thailand but emigrated as a teenager and is now a US citizen. They met in 2003 via a gay dating website called Bigger City, and have been together ever since. They married in 2015. Bart, 61, says he has always been attracted to younger guys. He has had previous relationships with men 5-10 years younger. ‘I didn’t see the age difference as a problem I have always felt my spirit or mentality was youthfully geared so dating younger guys was never an issue for me.’ Similarly, Ekachai had always been attracted to bigger, beefier guys who tended to be older. ‘Ekachai’s family being traditionally Thai was not as accepting’ Bart says they faced a varied reaction from their families to their relationship. ‘My family wasn’t too concerned about the age difference, they just wanted us to both be happy with our relationship. ‘Ekachai’s family being traditionally Thai was not as accepting but they’ve become accustomed to our relationship and eventual marriage. ‘Friends were for the most part supportive and encouraging for our relationship and for that we’re grateful. ‘When we first started dating I did have some concerns, primarily about communication,’ says Bart. ‘It was very vital to me that we were both on the same page when it came to all things concerning our relationship. ‘There was definitely a learning curve as I had not been involved with someone so much younger than myself. ‘But I found that Ekachai was very mature for his age and often we both found we shared the same views about topics that related to us both, so working through any issue was actually pretty easy.’ Photo: Sam Stanley | Facebook Making it work There’s an assumption that big age-gap relationships don’t work the same way as relationships between people similar in age. However, none of the men who spoke to Gay Star News confirmed this viewpoint. In fact, difference in age aside, their relationships worked pretty much like any other relationship – although it obviously helps if your family are supportive. All relationships take work and will have their ups and down. Bart’s advice for making age-gap relationships work is the same as one would offer any couple. ‘Always remember to listen and understand where your partner is coming from. You might be older or younger but that just means you have to be more open minded about it. ‘Make sure you communicate with each other openly and honestly. Put any issue each of you might have out on the table and deal with them so nothing can crop up later that could cause problems.’ And for those outside of such relationships, don’t make assumptions about them. After all, as we’re fond of telling the homophobes: Love is love. Some names in this article have been changed.

Tunisia is forcing men suspected of being gay to undergo anal examinations Tunisia, in north Africa, punishes same-sex conduct with up to three years in prison An illustration of a forced anal examination in Tunisia (Courtesy of Human Rights Watch) 9 November 2018 0:57 GMT Rik Glauert Tunisia is prosecuting people suspected of being gay under the country’s anti-gay laws. Authorities use private information on suspects’ phones to extract confessions, according to Human Rights Watch (HRW). What’s more, Tunisia forces suspects to undergo anal exams. HRW denounces these as ‘cruel, degrading, and inhuman’. Article 230 of Tunisia’s penal code punishes consensual same-sex conduct with up to three years in prison. ‘The Tunisian authorities have no business meddling in people’s private sexual practices, brutalizing and humiliating them under the guise of enforcing discriminatory laws,’ said Amna Guellali, Tunisia director at HRW. HRW urged parliament to quickly abolish Article 230. It should also enact a law to protect people’s privacy. Furthermore, public prosecutors should abandon sodomy cases and investigate police ill-treatment of LGBTI individuals. In June, it looked as though Tunisia may decriminalize gay sex. The country’s equality committee recommended to reform the law. LGBTI activists in Tunisia are very active, despite the threat of punishment. Earlier this year they held demonstrations protesting the gay sex ban and even hosted the country’s first LGBTI film festival. But, police shut down the demonstrations for the protesters ‘own security’. Locked up and pushed out HRW spoke to six people that had been prosecuted under 230 in the last two years. It reviewed a further five cases in court documents. Some men spent months in prison. Three fled Tunisia and sought asylum in Europe. Furthermore, police mistreated those arrested suspected of being gay. Authorities forced them to confess and denied their access to lawyers. Police arrested a 17-year old three times under the repressive sodomy law, according to HRW. They forced him to undergo an anal examination. He also spent months in detention and undergoing conversion therapy. A 32-year-old, that HRW spoke to in June 2018, went to police to file a complain after he was allegedly gang-raped. Police conducted anal tests on him. Authorities tried to determine if he was ‘used to practicing sodomy’. ‘How is it their business to intrude into my intimate parts and check whether I am “used to sodomy”?’ he asked HRW.

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This is a onsen where people from all places come to relax. Please do not assume and be reminded that the fun factor is risky and can get caught . Good luck though ~

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@Dashy_Boy, why don't you "report" to the gym first? You can decide to gym first or swim first later, as it doesn't matter. Once you have a locker, you just need to wrap a towel and walk out/in from another door (diagonally across the main entrance) to swim. In this case, you carry nothing with you, except the towel and locker key (wrap around wrist or leg) eh.

Where can we found spa w the jacuzzi or bath water still flowing, even if it is massage time?? something like that: the natural water flowing sound is very surreal

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There are generally 5 such establishment (don't count hotels that don't allow individual access and condos): 1. Yunomori onsen 2. Gspa 3. Spa 1 4. Hot Spa 5. Hotel Jen Tanglin (I have not tried) Just my 2 cents : Facilities & Amenities: 1. Gspa 2. Yunomori onsen 3. Spa 1 4. Hot spa Gspa top the list as they not only have hot pool, but a nice dining area and lounge area. Their lounge seas are new and has lots of movies. I love that they provide toothbrush, shavers and free flow towels and shorts as and when you need them. And they are open 24 hrs. Beat that! Yunomori is a newer establishment, hence second place. Of course they have the best pools. Spa 1 is newly renovated. But some of their cool features need additional payment. Hot spa is just plain boring. Food: 1. Gspa 2. Hot Spa 3. Yunomori Onsen 4. Spa 1 Gspa has sufficient variety of both food and drinks. Furthermore it's freeflow. Even after 10 when their kitchen is closed, they have some food at the buffet spread such as dimsum, porridge, and some meat. Drinks are always available. Hot spa serves good local food. And freeflow too. Hence above Yunomori. Yunomori onsen serves good food, but gets rather boring. It's quite expensive too. Spa 1 is pathetic after they "rejuvenated" their place. Only one serving of set meal, which is quite bad. Massage (I only tried once each, so may not be fair): 1. Yunomori onsen 2. Spa 1 3. Gspa 4. Hot spa Yunomori gives you a few choices for the oil scent. Spa 1 I only tried one, but was really good. Gspa not bad too. Hot spa massage was painfully good, but lack the ambience. Value: 1. Gspa 2. Yunomori onsen 3. Hot spa 4. Spa 1 Gspa entry is 24 hours, so potentially it can be of the best value with all 6 meals covered. Onsen is worth it during promo period. Hot spa has cheap deals on Groupon last time. Spa 1.... Nuf said. Eye candy (just a bonus): 1. Yunomori onsen 2. Gspa 3. Spa 1 4. Hot spa Onsen has both eye candy and bittergourd. But since it's compulsory to be nude gspa has 10% young crowd spa 1 has 0- 10% young crowd hot spa I've never seen any young guy there, yet. Gays population (just a wild guess on my very poor gaydar) Yunomori onsen 50% gspa 5% Spa 1 10% Hot spa 10% Yunomori Onsen cruising can be quite scary for New comers or straight. Esp during late night. My personal ranking: 1. Gspa 2. Yunomori onsen 3. Spa 1 4. Hot spa These are my 2 cents. What is your favourite?

Reading most of the posts here and can't help but to roll my eyes over the ethnic preferences. Lol. Sure beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder but the moment give yourself some restriction for sure you'll find it challenging to find that so-called relationship you're looking for. My advice? Go out, travel, observe and live a life. The journey is not limited to only Eastern oriental looking peeps. Lol. Good luck to all those finding. Remember it's always important to love yourself before you start to find love.

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My most sincere apologies. Below is a post made by Bearhunt which I inadvertently removed. ===================================================== Thanks for your reply. I would however like to clarify on the subject of Reiki. Reiki is one of the 5 Schools of Qi Gong currently being practised worldwide. Distilled from a set of Buddhist scriptures by Dr Mikao Usui, it differs from the other 4 schools in that it is considered "passive" ie the Reiki practitioner does not have to actively raise or direct the energy in any conscious way. The source of energy used in Reiki is Qi, Ki, Chi or Prana, which is considered a Universal form of energy present everywhere. The Reiki practitioner is "attuned" to this energy by a Reiki Master through a series of energetic infusions foundationed by specific Reiki symbols and the intention of both Master and student. Reiki is considered an intelligent healing module which flows according to its own principles. Any attempts to direct or manipulate the energy towards other purposes than healing has been thus far not been successful-the energy simply switches off. It is this self-guiding property that renders Reiki safe even for total beginners to use on themselves and others. It is also the reason why Reiki does not require any belief nor faith to use any more than a hammer does. Reiki is not a religion nor a belief. It is a healing tool, a viable lifestyle choice and its own philosophy. A typical Reiki session involves the practitioner placing their hands on specific sites of the body. Reiki can also be transferred without touching, and even over long distances. Because of the restorative and self-guiding properties of Reiki energy, it is well suited to be used in conjunction with a lot of other healing modalities, alternative or otherwise. As Reiki is commonly transferred through the hands, many people who do massage and other forms of bodywork using the hands extensively decide to take Reiki attunements so as to incorporate Reiki energy into the treatments. Reiki by itself does not involve any form of massage. I have not come across any Reiki practitioners who also offer extra services during the treatment. That is simply not what Reiki is about. If any of you are curious, just go Google the web for Reiki treatments in Singapore and check it out. However, please be aware the the Reiki community (as far as I know it) is largely not interested in providing sex-worker services. Like I said, Reiki is not tat kind of "relaxing". It is an entirely different kind of experience altogether.