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Anyone cruising tonight?

Dear Mr. @Jasonkhoo93 Thank you for reporting on me and commented that I made "Rude comments and super unprofessional". I guess you are right, it was exactly my intent to be rude. As to "supper unprofessional", I will leave it to others to decide. I had directed the post at the guest who had wrote that he purposely go and spread HIV to people. As a person whom have had many fights with guest and members, members knew that that is my style. You are new in the forum, so welcome. My style will be something you will have to get to know more later. Cheers!

Hello, Just wonder if there is any like minded married man who seek a discreet bicurious man with similar status, to explore in this adventure together as a regular? I'm in my 30s, keeping myself in shape, with a nice tool. If the above fits your bill, do drop me a PM. Thank you.

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Always sarong and white pagoda brand T-shirt.

Singlet and short haha

If he wear the swimming trunk to gym i bet he sweat alot and lucky you to have his sweaty trunk.

Any compression wear lover residing near Marine Parade? HMU

For whereby, set up an account and select "join a different room", then enter the url of the room you wanna join! I use my phone but it should work from a laptop too.

Seeking to unload or seeking a load in sembawang.. pm me.

So if 4 hr limit is imposed after midnight, it would be so sad to be made to leave at 4am. Can only loiter the streets until first train/bus if don’t want to take taxi or Grab. After 4.30am always seem quite exciting. Some guys wake up horny and roam around the maze and hunt those sleeping on the common bed.

Dont waste a lovely day 😁

Any horny guys keen to meet up for BJ in sembawang.. Pm me..

Just as a matter of clarification (and I won't go into lengthy replies justifying my point, no worries). I never said or meant to say GAY sex stands for ANAL sex (only). With gay sex I meant sexual activity with another guy. They can do what they want and enjoy. On the history, sorry I belong to the generation that received a general education and did not have the attitude just to learn some subject to pass an exam and then to forget all but to learn for live. History can assist to explain a lot. I would have advised some older man with a funny hairstyle and strange facial tan who is sitting in a colonial building in white colours in the capital Washington to look more into historical events (even into the history of his own country), but I doubt he has the intellect. But he could have taken some lessons. On the labels: Maybe I m not convinced on these labels or creating more and more labels. It is like creating more political directions, just causing fractions in society (and in the end maybe more problems). And some of the labels are even turning to be insults to gays. I m quite outspoken against this "straight curious", just be honest to yourself, you play with guys and enjoy it or find it sexually arousing than you might have a homosexual tendency, you can still enjoy sex with girls if you enjoy both, but don't try to tell me you are straight in such scenario and make it look as if gay is something disgusting. Most people fit very well into the main labels, but as always there are exceptions. I gave my personal view on this issue in previous posts, just read it again. I don't intend to repeat. I still find the TS is confused mainly because of his lack of serious experimentation and lack of sexual experience. Let's resolve the first step before we go into marriage and kids. If he finds out he has no real attraction to girls sexually, he would not need to explore further on this road. No worries, I accept your personal view, life experiences can result in different views on matters of life. I made mine, you made yours. You draw your conclusions, I drew mine. Life is full of lessons and new experiences, don't be shy to step out.

Just curious - is the S$100 the first payout to Singapore citizens? It seems quite small. Much earlier in the year, Hong Kong gave all permanent residents HK$10,000 (S$1,700) to help the local economy.

theres an open shower near the cafe toilets, might wanna check that out

Well agree to disagree as I always say. For me it is not about the academic or historically references of what it is supposed to mean or most would look at it. I take my context of how I see it being perceived and used in present day, like how some folk use it here in relation to their comments or stories of relationship seekers, sexual romping misalignment and the sad part is, it's becoming somewhat misuse, wrongly perceived and by that token has led to problems and sad tales of un-relinquished love or lust. heh For myself, I've drawn a line in the sand and promote an opinion looking at it from a more 'logical'(?) approach if anything, be fair, co-exist more civil and not add further confusion trying to shove a square object into an oval shape hole. SEX is SEX. Sex in itself is confusing enough by itself. Google sex and you see the numerous practices and examples that pops out. You see it more black and white. A gay purist? But I see gray. Tons of gray in fact. And calling it Gay Sex is too simplistic when trying to fit it in each unique context. I call it ANAL SEX. I do not call it GAY SEX for example. Trying to box everything up with neatly with labels tags using SEX Preference as primary focus just muddy the water when we have a lot of border-line cases. Smart chap like you, I am certain you navigate all this well enough in life and in BW given what read of your writings. But in the wild, it causes conflicts, division and misinterpretation. BW is an established lighting rod that attracts a huge assortment of sexual creatures and deviants if that has not sunk in. Sometimes BW can give you this impression, there are a huge percentage of gays folks in Singapore. But really, it is just a tiny percentage in a country of 5+ million people? A good portion in BW are not gay. I bet you, could be up to half are not but a wide spectrum 'others'. Look at the multiply thread titles, go in and read what they write or seek..etc It is very, very telling. So when I comment on something I try to keep those people in mind. The gay man will always be the gay man. He knows it, and he needs don't need anyone to tell him in BW. But even there are various kinds of gays guys too including those who do not do anal sex or BJ too. Strange as that may sound. But it's demoralizing when a Bi or some other sexual persuasion comes in seeking pointers, joins a conversation or commentaries and BANG!! What he sometime gets is blatantly JUDGED or told he is too silly to not admit he's gay. Tribalism kicks in. Let people make up their own mind. What do we gain or lose to let those seek their own path, realize their consequences of choice? Don't even attempt any of those gay conversion agenda in BW. Our views all may differ but for me what's more important is playing fair and understanding. Just like our thread starter. He wants to still find a girl and marry, but he still has a yearning for some male-on-male fun (in a specific manner he said). So he is not gay. He has a Kink. Fine. He can have his fun sure. But if he brings a woman into the picture and talk marriage. HE CAN DO THAT, SO LONG he gives up his male fun for life. That is a necessary life choice for any decent human being. Marriage is choosing to commit to A LIFELONG UNION between 2 persons. Sorry but in real life, this is something you can only choose ONE way or no way when it comes to Human Relationship be it Str8 or gay. You can not your cake and eat it by yourself. Our thread starter have to ask some very serious question about his life choice if having a wife and kid(s) is one of his goals. AND beware the consequences THAT'S ON HIM if he chose to be unfaithful with another female or male on the side after marrying. You do not get to play the victim card. Any male here who think he can have it both ways at the same time. You are a sad story that has not come its end yet. So I respect your POV. If anything it serves as a good reminder to me and make me question mine to see if it still stands or I need to change it.

Anyone free for bj or fun now 😛

I am organising a group fun this Saturday, Sept. 25th. Please read the details below carefully before voicing your interest: Place: Hotel in Kuala Lumpur (TBD) Cost: Shared (TBD) = maximum RM30 per pax Organiser's Stats: 28y/o 170cm 60kg slimtoned 7" vers Malay Participants' Criteria: 24-42 y/o, non-chub, straightacting, clean Forbidden: CF, Bareback. Pax (incl. Organiser): 5 (min), 12 (max) Thanks for reading. Please PM here/Wechat (cruxHex). I will reply to you ONLY once you have provided your (age, height, weight, race, position, favorite things to do in bed).

Hi Im 36,local chn, Top who lives in the East. Size: Lean/Slim-fit Outdoor Interest: Jogging, Gym, cycling, kayaking, OCR and anything fun Indoor Interest: Singing K, movies, Board Games, Tabletop wargame, card game, meeting friends, hugging and cuddling Preferred local chinese who is not drama queen or sissy or chub. Abit sporty will be a plus. Prefer someone of age from 30 - 40. If the above simple introduction does pique your interest, please reply me back

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A $$$$$-making mill

Spa laksamana is much better than Healthland & Thai best. I also thinks that Thai best really getting lousy

Better perhaps not to make sweeping statements which are inaccurate without the caveat that it refers to a personal view. A narrow Middle Eastern concept originating far back in the mists of time which cannot be proved can surely not be discussed as a universal truth.

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I still do that on occasion if the whimsical takes me... but I think I am too manly for it.. with a COVID19 goatee that is hahahahah.... Always have my sexy stocking and crotchless panties on the ready if that happens.. hahahah. It's a tactile feeling physical wearing something usually never draped on me majority of the time, it arouses something sensual and kinky. It is more a mind-fuck to the senses and heightens my sexual activities but I can't say it happens all the time. But during some of those days of my life, throwing that kinky stocking or costume can really take my fun to another level. Solo or with someone. I know (locally) many are not like into that; but I am comfortable in my own skin to do it. Maybe because I was initiated into it by 'trannies' back in the days I hung with in my formative sexual exploration years but I can relate with it. It's not a part of me as per say. I am still very masculine and a temperament that goes with it. But it can 'click' once in a while. So a few nights in a year, I get into that mood. There are no fix rule for what makes you feel good or bad UNLESS you choose to, for one reason or another. You just have to listen and know yourself well enough. I just think if you do not try it, you might never know what you might be missing out on and do a dis-service to yourself. Sex and all its trappings, CAN go through evolutionary changes with EACH of us.

I want to wear girl clothes and hang out at ussc.

After mopping the floor 😂

Not always, only to the gym and nothing under the tights. Base layers are nice too... but will need to ensure my top can cover at least half my crotch area.

sweaty sex and musky manly armpit with no perfume and deodorant on, like after workout or work, and during hot intense sex

I hope to revive this thread. In my 30s and I am not into kinky action. Anyone like me, wearing tights all the time?

I'm an experienced, attractive Master in his 40s looking for a younger, fit slave. No experience needed, and I am open to a variety of dom-sub or master-slave relationships (live-in vs. not, flexible with limits, etc.). Send a message if interested.

Line funboxx keen for grp fun n more

If your ashamed of yourself then better don’t live! At least don’t pretend to be someone else when your are exposed already!

@redtea92 post ur ad in Looking for room to rent (compiled)

Any young lean Indian/Punjabi in Singapore keen in a meet up tonight? Can host.

Last Sunday, I decided to try and repeat my wonderful dream with the mature masseur M at Berjaya Brickfields that I had written about previously, but was disappointed to find that he was fully booked for the day. So I asked the counter uncle for some recommendations, for someone that I have not tried before (the uncle knows me well haha), someone who's similar to M in terms of age and skills. He suggested Mr E to me. I asked for more description, he said this masseur often sits in the waiting area of the center. I had a rough idea about who he is and I have received some feedback from other BW member about this uncle before, that his massage is just so so, but I decided to try it out, cause I have basically tried most of the mature masseur (regular or freelance) at this blind massage center already. So I arrived on time for my appointment. I saw Mr E sitting in the waiting area, he's a Chinese guy in his 50s, not handsome, but decent looking and looked average in body size. I was led to room 3, the air-conditioning was already blasting and the room was freezing, loved it. To match the icy temperature in the room, I asked for the light to be switched off, to create a cold and dark mood haha. Stripped and positioned myself on the elevated massage bed. Mr E started the massage and I find his massage technique to be very unique and was something I never tried before. According to the feedback that I got from a member here, he said that Mr E's massage is more like touching. 10 minutes in, I started understanding how it works. Mr E's technique feels like he uses his fingers to pinch your muscles and quickly releasing them repeatedly. He used more of his fingers and knuckles instead of the base of his palm like other masseurs. It sounds dumb, and sounds like he's just touching you, but oddly, every time he pinch and grabs my muscle, it's on the points on my back and body that needed to be massaged. His pinching technique enables muscles that are not usually easy to find to be pulled, stimulated and relaxed. Honestly I found it quite enjoyable. I had limited vision due to the darkness around me, and I felt his every pinch. It was especially satisfying when he did the back of my thigh and untied the knots accumulated due to lack of exercise on my part. Imagine if massage techniques were weapons, and if other blind masseurs were more like mace or sword, straight to the point and hack the fuck out of your fatigued muscles, Mr E's massage technique, I think would be a dagger, seemingly harmless but hit you at the right spots, chipping you away bit by bit until the job's done. Confusing I know, but I personally think it's good. Up to this point, the massage was serious and not sensual...yet. After he was done with my back, he ordered me to turn around with his very Chinese tone. I turned my body and he started doing my arms. It was a bit painful for me because he was really attacking the points on my arms that was really fatigued. Then, it was time to do my thighs... It started like any other normal thigh massage. Then his hand started travelling nearer to my crotch area but not touching it. He stood in front of me, pushing his palm from the side of my knee, slowly up the thigh areas, and then taking an "unintentional" turn toward the space between my thighs and brushing the base of my balls with his palms (Now you use palms huh, I see what you did). He repeated the motion a few times, while massaging my inner thighs, and I started getting hard. He continued doing the seductive motion, running his hand over my thighs, then balls and moving up the base of my shaft before withdrawing his hands. Precum started oozing at this point, I was stark naked, in the dark, being touched this way by a blind guy, lol. Then he went to do my legs, like whyyy bro? Your sequence is wrongggg lol. He then did my other leg and after he was done, he went back to my other thighs and same motion, this time standing right beside me. The difference is, no more subtle signals. He grabbed my erect cock, applied some oil on his palms and started to give me a handjob. My wandering hand landed on his clothed body, underneath his tee was a stocky body and a pair of erect nipples. It seemed like he just wanted to get me off, so I kept my hands away and let him jerked me to perfection. I shot so much cum onto his hand I felt really bad. Right after i stopped pulsating, he covered my cock with a towel, said thank you and walked out without waiting for me to tip him. I thought to myself, maybe I took longer than he expected to cum. So I got dressed, exited the room and found him at the counter. I paid RM45 to counter lady for the one hour session, and gave him all my small change as tips. He said thank you to me twice and asked me to cum again. *Come. I later found out my small change amounted to RM31 It was a different but enjoyable experience for me. Just keeps getting surprised these days... And I think, Seduction > Extra for me, any-day. P/S: This is a review based on my personal experience. Please have your own discretion before deciding to use any reviews to spend your money

I seldom use food delivery service, so not sure how the apps works. But personally I think, if the person who ordered, added a remark: (bw), maybe the delivery person who pickup that order, could also reply with a message stating: (bw) too. Provided he has the time to have fun, as I understand that most guys in delivering service are rushing for time to take more orders. So when both parties got the pass code, and are sure that they had got the correct person, could save time doing the `Guessing game` when met in real person at the door. Next step, Delivery guys just ask to use the toilet, and host simply just follow behind him, then the rest of the action, just follow thru. Haha that's a way I can think of, maybe I try it myself next time and see whether I get any good response from it But everyone stay safe k. Be it during sex or for covid or for house safety reason. If the other party gave u a uncomfortable feel, just forget it and move on. 😛 Btw, if kena a straight person asking u, what's the meaning of (bw) hahaha just say, it's shortform for (best wishes) hahahaha

Just visited Kim in People Park Complex 02-52. Since CB, I have not visited his shop for massage, until today. Before CB, I am quite regular to his shop like once or twice a month visiting him. My last visit to Kim is around Feb/March before the CB kicked in. In fact, I have not gone to any massage to any home based masseur or shops at all since CB. You need to scan "safe entry" when you enter his shop ( I think all shops oblige the same ). When I reached there, I saw two other masseur outside waiting for customers too. I know they are Zhang and Tan. I have used Zhang before few times in the past but now prefer to stick to Kim as regular as his massage skill is suitable for me. There is new masseur, called Sam, also a mature masseur. When I reached there, Sam was working on other customer. Only after I finished my massage, I saw Sam. Kim introduce him to me as well saying in my next visit can also patronize Sam. Kim massage still very good. Strong and skillful, and always press the correct points. I asked him to focus on my lower back and neck area which for me he has done excellent job. I always feel relax after my session with him. Massage price still the same $50/hour and this time no interruption at all during massage. After massage, I leave the place energised and happy....

To the Mods, Can we have some kind of regulation of threads that are about a specific therapist (and not the general ones for discussion)? Especially the frequency of their refresh rate. in my opinion, their ridiculous refresh rate (daily or a few times daily) basically allows them to hog the main page forever since this isn't regulated. I have tried discussing with them in private over this but the answer i got back in return is something in the lines of "every man for his own", with no consideration for the other therapists whom are also making a living but are courteous and polite enough not to hog. I understand posting once every few days is still fine. But daily? It's evident that the person is hogging the top spot for himself and if everyone is doing the same just to get some air space, then what's the point, really? I hope the Mods can look into unnecessary and selfish hogging / posts that are simply a waste of web space. Of course, there will always be exceptions and client feedback / queries. To those of you guilty masseurs / therapists who think i'm a dick, yeah, i can be a huge dick cuz you don't know how to be a proper human being with manners. Spare a thought for the rest of the therapists who get out-squeezed by your actions. Your questionable therapist, Ming

Both clients and therapist have their own peeve of their own dos and don'ts. Please respect each other as therapist we are doing this for a living so dont assume all clients want HJ when they come for a massage while clients respect as a therapist know this is our living so if you make a appt please do come and if you cant make it or don;t like the way we look at least have the decency to cancel the appt.

At first I thought the OP is trying to be a princess with his list of anticipated demands from his clients, but after thinking about it it's sad that we live in a society that there are people (the clients) who take it for granted that they pay so they expect the royal treatment. Some people are really just buey zidong and expect their filipino maids to clean up after them, or simply don't have the basic courtesy to accord to others just because they think the are customer on the receiving end. When you blast at them they will get defensive and play victim.... then probably come on here and start bitching about how rude the therapist is. Very sad... hopefully the therapists on here can keep and share an offline list of such Karens and never have available slots for them when they call and ask for a session.

Can this be pin up to "Massage & Grooming Services" cause this will really help all the massage therapist here.

Uhh dude, you got some issues here. The fantasizing part is ok unless you act on it, then that's a no no. You find your current bf cute but not physically attractive? (What does this even mean) and has age gap (so you basically saying age Gap is a problem to you but you still stay with him) Sleep behind his back when you could have discussed it with your bf on how to spice up your love life and finding your sex life lack luster. You just like to sleep around and basically just holding your bf hostage because you can't bear growing old alone.

lol i cant even score an ordinary guy let alone celebrity. Not even a C lister

Wouldn't wanna throw anyone under the bus, bus my short answer is yes. (Don't even bother private messaging me for names - I'm not revealing them.)