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Hidden rules among classes
riverrobles and 6 others reacted to HendryTan for a topic
https://www.wordonthestreets.net/Articles/481670/Hidden_rules_among.aspx Hidden rules are the unspoken cues and habits of a group. If you are in a group, you understand the hidden rules of that group and the danger is you take these for granted that they are for everyone. The following table from her book illustrates some of the hidden rules of groups defined by the resources they have. These can be; financial, emotional, mental ability, spiritual, physical, relationships and support systems. (Dr Payne relates this to class although we might be uncomfortable with that attribution). POOR MIDDLE CLASS (COMFORTABLE) WEALTHY POSSESSIONS People. Things. One-of-a-kind objects, legacies, pedigrees. MONEY To be used, spent. To be managed. To be conserved invested. PERSONALITY Is for entertainment. Sense of humor is highly valued. Is for acquisition and stability. Achievement is highly valued. Is for connections. Financial, political, social connections are highly valued. SOCIAL EMPHASIS Social inclusion of people they like. Emphasis is on self-governance and self-sufficiency Emphasis is on social exclusion. FOOD Key question: Did you have enough? Quantity important. Key question: Did you like it? Quality important. Key question: Was it presented well? Presentation important. CLOTHING Clothing valued for individual style and expression of personality. Clothing valued for its quality and acceptance into norm of middle class. Label important Clothing valued for its artistic sense and expression. Designer important TIME Present most important. Decisions made for moment based on feelings or survival. Future most important. Decisions made against future ramifications. Traditions and history most important. Decisions made partially on basis of tradition and decorum. EDUCATION Valued and revered as abstract but not as reality. Crucial for climbing success ladder and making money. Necessary tradition for making and maintaining connections. DESTINY Believes in fate. Cannot do much to mitigate chance. Believes in choice. Can change future with good choices now. Noblesse oblige. LANGUAGE Casual register. Language is about survival. Formal register. Language is about negotiation. Formal register. Language is about networking. FAMILY STRUCTURE Tends to be matriarchal. Tends to be patriarchal. Depends on who has money. WORLD VIEW Sees world in terms of local setting. Sees world in terms of national setting. Sees world in terms of international view. LOVE Love and acceptance conditional, based upon whether individual is liked. Love and acceptance conditional and based largely upon achievement. Love and acceptance conditional and related to social standing and connections. DRIVING FORCE Survival, relationships, entertainment. Work, achievement. Financial, political, social connections. Looking at the last row for example, it illustrates that the driving forces of the poor are survival, entertainment and relationships whereas for the middle class, the criteria against which most decisions are made relate to work and achievement. For the wealthy, decisions are considered based on the effect on finance, political and social connections. Using money for security is grounded in the middle class and wealthy. Those in poverty see money as an expression of personality and it is used for entertainment and relationships. Words are used to resolve conflict by negotiation in the middle class and wealthy but what if you don't have the necessary words or even respect them if you are in poverty? Violence is often the way to resolve issues.7 points -
I would love to suck on your nipples, if you allow me to... I wanna see if it’s sensi
ArchDragon and one other reacted to royalcheesecake for a status update
I would love to suck on your nipples, if you allow me to... I wanna see if it’s sensitive, and if it will make you grow horns...2 points -
28yo 161 45 Looking for a btm to practice, can host in the east After 11pm2 points
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In Singapore, YES.2 points
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Car Fun (Compiled)
BlowingForFun90's and one other reacted to Jack7888 for a topic
Bored can't sleep. thinking of giving a blow. anyone? i drive2 points -
After exercise pictures V2
baddie42 and one other reacted to TheRareSolstice for a topic
post workout? there. post run. count?2 points -
Do tall build guys have bigger cocks?
hairyboycunt and one other reacted to FlippantMount for a topic
It's highly dependent on the condition of their development while in the womb. https://www.scimex.org/newsfeed/penis-development-in-womb-requires-more-than-testosterone If they have the right combination of hormones levels, they will have a bigger penis. Just like if they have the right set of genes, they grow to be tall. Science apart, I do feel that taller guys (>1.75m) with an average size penis (5-5.5inch) looks extremely adorable. 😍2 points -
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Hydro relaxation. Enjoying my stayca2 points
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Clementi to dover now? Looking for someone to watch me strip and cum1 point
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Transfer your OA to your parent RA has no tax benefits- main benefit is your money earning 4% instead of 2.5%. Instead of using your cash to VC to all 3 accounts (or to OA and SA effectively if MA always at BHS), why don’t you use the cash to top up parent RA first? Got some tax benefits. Anyway, to your question about parent payout giving you back the cash, to earn better interest (your main aim I think), you could either (a) VC to all 3 accounts (b) refund back to OA only, provided you have used CPF before for your housing (can be public or private, no diff). You aware of this option? You can put back lots of $$ to OA this way if you have the cash. Now can do this online, I used to have to submit hard copy forms!!1 point
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5字成句(Chinese Version of Make A Sentence From 5 Letters)
Maturechnman reacted to Guesst_Married for a topic
射?还是再幹?☺️ P J F D Z1 point -
Shenton Way, Raffles Place, One-North, River Valley Over here, so many hot, hunky angmoh around my place...see also drool, lol1 point
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All on USA & USA's Political Discussions (Compiled)
Nightingale reacted to Steve5380 for a topic
Yes, the black keys on the piano are a little higher. But their sound is of the same quality as the white keys. No discrimination.1 point -
Punggol park
Freedom18 reacted to lov_shorts for a topic
Hi. No malice intended. But I suddenly got really curious. Anyone at the park now?1 point -
I'm thirsty. Anyone serving? Can host. East. Anyone wants to get a suck?1 point
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Meeting in Yunomori Onsen & Spa
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Any slim/lean/skinny poly or army boy wants to go for a good soak?1 point -
Hi guys, anyone around Kepong, Selayang, Gombak area?1 point
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The way some ah lian speaks is so embarrassing. Even the command of her supposedly stronger language is half bucket at best. Got tylers nipples, protruding.1 point
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Car Fun (Compiled)
Kikoo reacted to hornyformature for a topic
anyone up for some kinky car fun now?1 point -
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CCK MRT 7.30am You: boarded the train at CCK MRT (towards JE) and we exchanged glances a few times - wearing a jacket (logo: BD) I assume its a pharmaceutical company? PM if you read this1 point
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Regardless how tough it is, keep on going. Weekend is 4 days away.1 point
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Canto-pop 2020s
detour reacted to steppenwolf for a topic
Love this song, both the original and cover too!1 point -
Yes u have to. Did that1 point
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What is the country of destinaton? IELTS is a test on the competence in English for immigrants into UK and commonwealth countries like Canada, Australia & New Zealand. Check for more detailed info with relevant academic instituition or the embassy.1 point
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Post Your Random Thoughts
anaphro10 reacted to PlayersGroup for a topic
Have u ever had fun with someone who u remember fondly all of a sudden, someone meaningful, for no reason? I had someone in late teens 20s years ago, who was a single child from a single-parent household. We met a few times and then his parent passed away. I remember him crying, remember cuddling him to sleep cos I thought he needed the intimacy, the warmth to make his mood better. It was surreal, it's the only time I supported a guy who I met initially for fun by going to the parent's wake cos he says very few ppl are at the wake. Yet now, I cannot recall his name or face already, it was so many years ago. He must be older n more mature now. I hope he is doing well.1 point -
https://wowmale.com/archives/16702 Driving naked daytime😁1 point
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What time to cruise around pudu tunnel ?1 point
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Hug cuddle buddy
joel994 reacted to CleanFunNeed for a topic
Raining day. Anyone into nude cuddling ?1 point -
experienced thick top looking for: 1) tight btms who want to be stretched 2) btms who want to be pounded fast and deep1 point
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Went swimming again earlier and it just felt nice and tiring (in a good way).1 point
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In the shower after gym this morning. Hang on there for the long weekend.1 point
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Seeking for sucker
fieldguy27 reacted to Bishaner78 for a topic
Bishan.. Anytop wanna cum inside me? I can rim you as well1 point -
Looking for gym buddy @Safra Gym
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Need a Personal trainer but can't afford one? Well, this is almost the same thing and that's it's FREE... I've been gyming/bodybuilding for almost 2 decades... then got out of shape and now trying to get back into the fitness routine... I'm looking for gym buddy / buddies any level: noob, newbie, beginner, bodybuilder, intermediate, expert, pro, champion, etc, etc. Any age (18+) Any race Any size Any shape Preferably Male(s) Purpose: •to help spot and motivate each other •Share tips and advice on fitness, •nutrition and health •social distancing 😷 fitness •PM me... 🆓️ no charge •Get strong 💪build lean muscles •Lose weight 🧸📉 burn fat •Nutrition tips 🍌🥕🥒🍒🍎🍏🥑🥚 •Supplements guide 💊 •Health ⚕ advice •Motivation📣🎶🎵 support •Stay safe always 🙏 •Stay strong 💪🏾 #bodybuilding #gym #gymbuddy #buddy #workout #pt personaltrainer #energyone #safra #fitness #health #nutrition1 point -
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Have you been forced to swallow cum?
fetish69 reacted to Leonblowing for a topic
I played with a muscular btm at a sauna on Monday. So Fucking turned on by his pecs and him moaning when I played his sensitive nipples. Since I was about to leave and hadn’t cum yet, I decided to surprise him with my load while he blew me. While he sort of knew I was cumming, he was left choking and coughing when I shot my first few shots down his throat. But like a whore, he sucked my cock harder and faster to milk out my entire load. I guessed my cum went somewhere else too. He gave me a totally stunned look while sneezing some cum of his nostrils when we cleaned up. I was busy laughing 😂1 point -
Boyzillian Waxing / Hair Trim / Removal Recommendation (compiled)
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Please contact Practitioner Masseur as below Telegram; Line or WhatsApp: https://t.me/PM_Practitioner_Masseur or line me http://line.me/ti/g/00sCCAm6ve or WhatsApp 848281301 point -
Regardless of race you can build that strong friendship together. I have a good group of friends we will travel to together and lucky is that we all are gays so we can just talk without any restrictions regarding sex. We would have potluck at home or beach and twice a month we would go for eatery joins or hotels buffet or brunch. Is how we portray ourselves and expectation. Have a clear mind in friendship that build base on trust, honesty, sincerity and integrity. Be there a pillar on one another great listener, advised and exchange views is every aspect of life.1 point
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Telegram for Yunomori onsen Merged with Yunomori Onsen 1-1 Tele Group (compiled)
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I can't tell if you are furious about people hosting Naked Satanic Ritual OR that they didn't show up that disappoint you LOL...1 point
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North ~ Woodlands, Admiralty, Sembawang, Yishun
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Any sucker at north?1 point