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After exercise pictures V2
ijjy96 and 4 others reacted to Kkfitmature for a topic
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After exercise pictures V2
slimsucker and 4 others reacted to niceguyjoe for a topic
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Always fantasize my busty Thai wife becoming a slut, molested and Humiliate by other man. Force her to suck your cock, use her body as you wanted. Scene like she at beach in bikini, when shower in toilet, stranger peep her, tear off her bikini n fxxk her. Anyone same fantasize? My telegram : joncs74 points
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will you date someone who have zero relationship experience?
sum1outhere_03 and 2 others reacted to milky_boi for a status update
will you date someone who have zero relationship experience?3 points -
After exercise pictures V2
slimsucker and 2 others reacted to 1Fliegendlehrer for a topic
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5字成句(Chinese Version of Make A Sentence From 5 Letters)
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忍射憋不住 Y W D T D2 points -
Finished night run.2 points
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Men enjoy anal sex better than women?
mate69 and one other reacted to repressednerd for a topic
I like it when I can feel the top inserting his cock in my hole and pulling out and inserting back in my hole. Feels really good even not hitting the g spot.2 points -
No Gym Day 1: Can only run and swim.2 points
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Share girlfriend/wife fantasies
JessieJames and one other reacted to Chubby_Zul for a topic
Married bi mly guy here. Also fantasize of seeing my wife being fcuked by another guy. Too bad its just a fantasy bcoz my wife she sexually boring ahhh. Not open to new sex ideas. Bought for her sexy lingerie also paiseh to wear. Bought some sex toys also not keen to use. When we talk about our sex life, she like avoid it.. hahahaha. so dun tell me communication is key ahhh.. hahahah Another reason also why I like so see my wife being fcuked by other guy guys is bcoz maybe I want to see her sexually satisfy as im below average down there hahahaha.2 points -
Gay Men and Drugs: Chemsex in Singapore
Ng Ngai Lam reacted to GachiMuchi for a topic
Gay Men and Drugs: Chemsex in Singapore Posted by transformativejusticecollective25th Jul 2021 Posted in Uncategorized In recent years, drug use, in particular ‘Chemsex’ – the use of drugs during sex – has gained prevalence among gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) in Singapore. With dating and sex apps such as Grindr, drugs and chemsex have bcome more easily accessible to GBMSM. In the region of Southeast Asia particularly, drugs like crystal meth are most typically used. In Singapore, conventional narratives of drug users suggest frivolous, self-interested individuals with little regard for the harms caused to families or society at large as a result of their drug use. At the same time, these narratives have justified the state’s punitive ‘zero-tolerance’ approach to drugs, including the use of capital punishment against users and traffickers of drugs. How accurately do such narratives reflect the experiences of GBMSM who engage in Chemsex in Singapore, or drug users in general? Dr. Rayner Tan, a researcher at the Saw Swee Hock School of Public Health, National University of Singapore, delves into this question. Contrary to more simplistic narratives that we encounter, Tan uncovers a myriad of motivations among GBMSM in Singapore in their turn towards drug use. Crucially, many of these motivations remain connected to the stigma of growing up gay or bisexual in Singapore society. In this context, sexualised drug use serves as a means of coping with underlying stressors and pressures that affect GBMSM. In several interviews, Tan’s interlocutors described chemsex as a way to deal with the shame brought about by the stigmatisation of gay sex in Singapore. Mental health issues linked to their experiences of homophobia, religious trauma, familial neglect, and sexual violence were also mentioned. In addition, Tan attributes the fact that GBMSM often engage in more sexual relationships due to the lack of non-sexualised spaces for these men elsewhere in Singapore. Specifically, in the absence of queer-inclusive sexuality education as well as the criminalisation of homosexuality among GBMSM under Section 377A of the penal code, sex in private (including chemsex) has become one of few outlets for GBMSM to express desire, attraction, and sexuality without feelings of shame. Within the queer male community in Singapore, some respondents talked about HIV-related stigma and racism creating feelings of shame, anxiety and low self-esteem. One said, “[drug use] became the only place where I could be myself.” Many respondents talked about the ease of access to chemsex as a norm within Singapore’s queer male community. The lack of safe, non-sexualised spaces for queer men in Singapore also means that many come to associate their self-worth with their sexual attractiveness. Beyond sexual shame, Tan’s respondents also underscored the use of chemsex to cope with challenges and stressors relating to work, finances and family — issues not unique to queer men. The absence of formal support, along with numerous barriers to care, obstructs GBMSM’s access to rehabilitation. This includes the lack of trusted aftercare centres for queer people, as well as the lack of legal protections. Furthermore, GBMSM who have strained relationships with their families, in particular those whose families may not be so accepting of different sexualities, are also deprived of family support needed during rehabilitative efforts. There are other challenges, however, that many of these GBMSM face which are not unique to their demographic. As Tan explains, Singapore’s Misuse of Drugs Act continues to create conditions for light users of drugs to become longer-term, more dependent drug users. Specifically, doctors and counselors must report drug users to the authorities. This disincentivises many drug users, gay or otherwise, from seeking access to care and support in the first place. To address this, Tan suggests: We need trauma-informed counselling efforts trained to create safe recovery environments for individuals and offer therapeutic solutions. Peer support programmes, LGBTQ+ specific services, and trauma-focused therapies are essential. More advocacy and education promoting literacy around substance use and addiction can go a long way towards destigmatising drug use. That which is illegal is not always immoral. Safe spaces should be provided for intracommunal discourse on chemsex. Drug and HIV/STI-prevention interventions can take place at sex-on-premises venues and online apps. Section 377A, which criminalises sex between men, should be repealed to encourage uptake of sexual and mental health services. Singapore’s Misuse of Drugs Act, and the Singapore Medical Council’s regulations, should be reviewed. Anonymised health and addiction recovery services and harm reduction services should be provided to all drug users in Singapore. Tan’s study shows that chemsex among gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men in Singapore is much more complex than is portrayed in mainstream media narratives. Understanding these queer men’s experiences on individual, intracommunal and societal levels helps us grasp the motivations behind their practice of chemsex, which is often a way of coping with trauma, marginalisation and shame. Apart from addressing the structural conditions that lead these queer men towards chemsex in the first place, community-based organisations and policymakers should also find ways to destigmatise drug use and provide safe spaces for drug users to seek support, care and rehabilitation.1 point -
U go Tamp right? Every time i see the queue when arrive my mood goes down by half...1 point
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Covid Situation in SG discussion (compiled)
gc0805 reacted to jeremy409854 for a topic
LOL clearly you are mathematically weak as you couldn't even understand properly the explanation in the Yahoo article. What you say is totally NOT what the article says.1 point -
Quiet meh?? Queue so long. Its stress loh. You don't get to de stress during the stroke...1 point
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Malay Men Discussion + Liking For & Sex with Malay Men (Compiled)
mate69 reacted to Naveyafluz for a topic
I like Malay tops, they are very man and hot.1 point -
Not So West ~ Choa Chu Kang, Yew Tee, Senja, Bukit Panjang, Bukit Batok
westiesissy22 reacted to top_suck for a topic
Anyone tried having fun towards the end of pang sua canal after choa chu kang way? Went to the area during my jog and the place is quiet dark and conducive..1 point -
Discreet Bi Curious Guys
timber_wolf reacted to greg01greg for a topic
make sure you tell them you cannot travel far. If you want to travel far… then make sure you can afford taxi fare and stop whining about distance. If you going to host - you being 31 yo - stop sneaking guys into your room while others are sleeping… And stop wasting other people’s time. be clear, there were guys complaining about you wasting their time. and grow up ok? No point telling ppl you gym a lot but then you can’t use your brain to function properly.1 point -
Anyone in Sembawang now that need a suck?1 point
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Not So West ~ Choa Chu Kang, Yew Tee, Senja, Bukit Panjang, Bukit Batok
ScratchedDiamond reacted to Kiko for a topic
Bbatok? Anyone? Help.me unload1 point -
West ~ Jurong East, Jurong West, Lakeside, Boonlay, Pioneer
hairy40'sgindian reacted to Anonymous79 for a topic
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Any one need help? Under 30. I’m a bear1 point
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Are you vaccinated? Go get vaccinated early.
Steve5380 reacted to Le Petit Chinois for a topic
I take annual flu vaccines, I have higher risk than most people who never take vaccine. Also I regularly do take vaccines for hepatitis etc… I grew up in a family where we believe and take action to protect our health. I’m Chinese and believe in 防范胜于治疗 Just sit and pray will not help.1 point -
What Are Your Biggest / Deep Dark Fantasy /Secret?
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I perform orgy in Media Corp broadcasting for all viewers1 point -
Looking for Giving Or Receiving Blowjob / Get Suck / Be Sucked (Compiled)
reinbowl reacted to Freeballer for a topic
Seek hungry mouth. Place available.1 point -
Army Days / NS Stories & Everything About Military Life (Compiled)
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Happen to my platoon mate where the BMT fitness instructor told him to trim his armpit hair(damn thick bush) as it is exploding in everyone face when he is doing pull up. Just too gross to look at and hygiene purpose.1 point -
Chub And Chaser (Compiled)
Randomthings reacted to Noahcent69 for a topic
23 172 99 chn flex top chub seeking chaser for fun1 point -
Keybox Sauna @ Upp Circular Rd (No Ads or Bitch fight)
less_sugar reacted to G_M for a topic
Get back to the Topic on Keybox!1 point -
Encounters with ang mohs in public toilet
KChen reacted to riverrobles for a topic
This is a juicy topic but let me share my list of old ang moh encounters pre-covid and Craigslist era 👻: 1. Farrer Park - usually tourists from the hotels around, here, there is one regular white guy who comes and visit, he is fit anf bald with gray eyes 2. Clarke Quay toilet beside Le Noir - if you will just be patient and try to wait beside urinals you would get one, the lay-out of the urinal is curved hence you'd be sighting and checking out a lot 3. Dhoby Gaut MRT - passersby or tourists - no fuck just handjobs and suck 4. CHIJMES - I remember the old Insomnia and it would be packed on Fridays and Saturdays, toilets are outside and I can say secluded, it was a perfect spot to see an array of white cocks on weekends, mostly drunk and horny expats, no privacy shields in between urinals 5. Tanglin Mall - there was a white guy who became my regular, sucking me on weekdays when his wife is not around, he only wants to do it In Tanglin Mall, I didnt ask, I just want to be sucked 🙂 6. Fitness First One George Street urinals/showers/changing areas - well of course you need to be a member but its haven of public nudity esp for fit whie guys, you won't complain, done discreetly , going inside while he is showering, or when you got cruised, you'll give a signal to follow him in one of the shower cubicles or the steam room 7. Fitness First Paragon urinals/showers/changing areas - well of course you need to be a member, same as item 7 but its more open, the people know what they came here for, it is a meat market. If you want imported white meat with perfect cuts, this would be heaven 8. Lucky Chinatown Mall in Chinatown, the basement toilet was happening, howevere now it became restricted , it would give you tourists who are looking for the nearest toilet and again to be successful, you have to be at McDonald's and sitting near the entrance door, so you'll know if someone would be going to the basement and piss. that would be your cue. 9. Kinokuniya at Tang's - the toilet was cruisy before and the layout is perfect since the urinals are hidden, its parallel to the view of the mirror so you can see from the mirror if something has been standing there for a long time, the secluded toilet cubicles I really like because you can even peep since there is a gap on the doors. The wildest one I had white men or not was here. Imagine would you go over to the next cubcicle by climbing the ledge 😈 when you get bored with the understall action 10. The Verge Mall - the mall has closed but the memories I still keep. Yes the regulars here are mostly Indian race but there was a time a white university student was posting in Craigslist that he wants to be sucked at this mall. He was really fit, handsome and really yummy, the cock was fresh and pink , its because oh him I got to know this mall and he really like to be worshipped and feasted upon.1 point -
Updates to " Singapore Home-Based Massage List ( H M L ) For Men Updated 15/1/2015"
somas reacted to 30yochinese for a topic
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Chub And Chaser (Compiled)
Justbear reacted to kwikpikachu for a topic
21yo chinese chub here, 170cm 100kg, looking for friends, fun and more! (I'm a bottom if it matters.)1 point -
Normally I jerk off roughly once a day. I was asked to hold my load before meeting so
westiesissy22 reacted to jackomaki for a status update
Normally I jerk off roughly once a day. I was asked to hold my load before meeting someone. Wew. Already leaking so much precum on day 1. How am I gonna last haha.1 point -
Looking for a cuddling buddy who will be able to host. Preferably around east area. I’m sg chinese 31 174 86, slightly stocky not fat. Heavy due to my heavy bones. Love hugging and kissing. Maybe some nipple teasing will be good too. Pm me for my telegram.1 point
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Looking for chubs to spank and molest me in my dark blue fbts. Not interested in bj or sex sorry 😕 please have a place thanks! My Line ID is gabshappy1 point
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It was a long tug of war on Sin Heng Heavy Machinery, 1. Bought 26300 units on 26/4 at $0.38 per unit. Total investment $10028.59. 2. Collected dividend on 18/5 = $1315. 3. Sold partially 23000 units on 15/7 at $0.385 = $8824.09. 4. Took 4 more days to dispose off remaining 3300 units at $0.385 = $1242.83. Total gain = 8824.09 + 1242.83 + 1315 - 10028.59 = $1353.33 No easy money, ha-ha...1 point
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Hi bro, dun think so much, I have a married bi guy yesterday who ask me to turn on on cam and show body. I told him cannot now. He blocked me also. Just move on and ignore such ppl. Better also not to know them. Not worth your time.1 point
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Looking For Room To Rent (Compiled)
Jven reacted to GymFitopSGuy for a topic
Farrer Park Common Room Available for single male. Rental $850 per month Come with table, queen size bed , full length mirror, 1 x aircon unit, WIFI , washer & dry area available. Cupboard upon request. Includes utilities depending on trade of work. MRT entrance right downstairs of Farrer Park NEL station. Linked to Farrer Park MRT & City Square 1 station away from Little India MRT Interchange ( NEL/ DTL) 2 stations away Dolby Ghaut MRT Interchange ( NEL/NSL/ CCL) 3 stations from City Hall MRT Interchange ( NSL/ EWL) Only light cooking available. Utility fee to be charged extra if over capped e.g. WFH or overutilised. (To be discussed) No visitor allowed. Prefer Single Male Malaysian or PR. Pls state nationality and race as public housing has quota restriction. 2 months deposit. Viewing of room available upon initial msg on personnel screening.1 point -
Car Fun (Compiled)
westiesissy22 reacted to booyaj for a topic
Later around 8pm will be driving from SP to yewtee, anyone need a lift?1 point -
@fab has the answer1 point
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When he is married, he is supposed to be monogamous legally. I don't need to explain to you he is morally wrong too right. Here there is no need to even involve orientation.1 point
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Is it wrong to have fun with married man? Will you avoid it?
Le Petit Chinois reacted to fab for a topic
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Indian / Bangla / Punjab / Sikh Guys (Compiled)
MonstaInYoMind reacted to tomcat for a topic
just pop in to share in this rare thread. not many appreciators of indian man, which is a shame. i met one indian daddy via app in dec. tall and beefy, my type. and he said he is working here, but maybe im thinking he also living here with family. my neighbourhood has quite a lot of new citizens from india with families. sometimes see young indian hunks playing badminton. previously, our selection was only labourers, but these are new generation indians. some are also "desi" from mumbai, bangalore or delhi. anyway, the daddy came over, and i immediately put my hand over his bulge. even soft, the bulge was fat and full. pulled him into my room to unwrap the package. he was wearing jeans, so it was a bit of struggle, but he got it open and i pulled it to his knees. the bulge was already semihard then, and he was wearing clean pristine white microfibre briefs. i usually just let it out and start, but a hard black indian bulge in white briefs, it was an amazing sight i just had to enjoy and play with his monster for a bit. i pushed my head to the bulge and worked him even with it on. bite, sucking gently, no smell, just hint of soap. the thing was close to exploding as the briefs got very tight. i still JO thinking about the fat bulge in white. it has become one of the hottest images i keep replaying lol. eventually, i asked him to take out. and he gave the cutest gesture, to ask "take off completely or how?". and just to be cheeky, i asked him to show me how he take out his dick to pee. he fished the briefs, and pulled his dick out the side. very compliant and nice guy, and i worked his dick like that until he was moaning and begging. the rest went as expected. the head was huge and juicy, and i figured he was straight or bi, but had male action in the past, cos he was not squeamish around my cock and balls. he jerked me off here and there, and when i had precum and scooped it to my lips, he was so excited. i also scooped his precum and tasted it. then ate his like a lollipop. that was the operative word, usually with indian straight/bi guys. just need to say "lollipop" or "ice-cream" to them, lol. not to be stereotypical, but most indian guys i have had the honour of having fun with can be quite intense. he grabbed my head and literally skullfucked me, til i was choking. aggressively pounding my ass top speed before grunting and stopping. once he got stamina, he flipped me over, spread my cheeks and pile drive my hole again. very different style from chinese, malay, thai, white etc. they literally want to devour you, so if you have rape fantasies, you know who to find. i didn't really used to have but i had some experiences in India, which turned me on to them, so i like the rough fun with indian guys. even though this daddy was rough mid-play, i appreciated that he went slow at the beginning. his head pushing into my hole, hot stuff, and once in, he just melted and kissed my back and neck. so very sensual (at the start), haha. when he left, i tried not to be weird, but hugged him tight as he was getting dressed. when the briefs were back on, I cupped them again. two cums later, they were still full and heavy. i dont think i have ever met a basket as plentiful as his, can fight with spaniards/italians. i kissed his bulge goodbye, and led him out. after that cannot find on app anymore, and we never exchanged contacts either. his profile was offline, and last time i saw was many thousand kilometres away. so it was a one time fun with that daddy. since we have more choice now for indian guys, i hope they become more accepted, and less discriminated. all colours of men are beautiful. i have had a few sessions with india guys. some are pakistani. mostly engineers, grad students, or workers. do let me know if you like me to share more, or also share your experiences too!1 point -
Not So West ~ Choa Chu Kang, Yew Tee, Senja, Bukit Panjang, Bukit Batok
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