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It's funny how real ghosts appear whereas when humans ghost you, they disappear.

Was there yesterday afternoon, was properly satisfied. Started off with the stream room, had a petite mature guy suck me good, almost made me cum in his hungry mouth just 10 minutes after arriving. Had to stop a few times to catch my breath, with him smirking asking why I don't want to cum in his mouth. After sometime, went upstairs to explore, crowd was thin, ended up watching some science fiction show on level 5. A grandpa came and sat beside me, started to caress me. Didn't want, but also didn't stop him, and the caress went on for about 30 minutes. Finally rejected him and went back to the stream room. By then stream room was crowded, everyone was forming groups, touching each other, some kneeling down and sucking another. Walked into the dark corner, got pulled into another group fun, and some guy guided my cock to him hole. Was quick high already, and I shot my load very quickly. Left just before 6pm, very satisfied.

In fact, i would prefer to play with married men cause they know the boundaries when it comes to hook up (i mean they wouldnt be over clingy, ghosting, stalking on you) Those goes well, would ended up becoming FwB or regular fuck buddies which i am more appreciated. The only no from playing with married men for me are they will "put you aeroplane" suddenly LOL cause wife/family asked them to do something Back to the discussion, okay for me because i feel bad for them that they dont have the courage to be "themselves" so i will be their sanctuary (they can be themselves when they are with me)

the best kind is gaping but inside you can see your kids painted around the inner hole 🤐

Went with my 'friend', Indeed very nice crowd... Wanna shout out to the gym fit guy for sharing your personal shampoo with me... The shampoo smells nice... Thank you

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For believers think just avoid dark places like parks or near tombstones (iykyk) since is like their “month long holiday” Imagine… Guy A: “hey thanks for the bj…” Guy B: “huh? I didn’t.. I thought u were giving me one?!” ………….. RUN

Spotted a gym-hunk in the audience at the concert hall. I was there to catch Chloe Chua’s performance (no relation to Tanya Chua), Singapore’s very own Ling Ling. Before the concert began, I casually scanned the audience across the Circle and couldn’t help but notice him—standing out effortlessly among his friends, all hunky and well-built. He was seated at least 50 meters away, yet that muscular frame was impossible to miss. Not bad for a little eye candy before the music started. When I exited, I noticed that he was walking in front of me. As he turned right to head down the stairs, I finally got a good look at his face—not exactly handsome, but unmistakably manly, with sharp cheekbones and a sun-kissed complexion.

Thanks Ken for the massage service. No doubt you are handsome and nice person. Apology on being so shy to let you touch my dick. You are so naughty when I am asking you stop teasing my dick…..hahaha Btw, you cock really hard when I touching it…. 😈

Hotel security guard entered the sauna to check on the activities? I had expected one of the two masseurs to do the job. I wonder if the hotel security guard gets excited seeing all the naked men in the onsen. 😁

looking for someone i can go with..!

It takes 2 to make a relationship work, and you figure out the dynamics. From what you've shared, the relationship seemed one-sided, on your part. You are the one giving in, bending over, making the effort to make the relationship work. Sometimes, you need to acknowledge to yourself that it is not working. You give, he takes, there is no reciprocity. Breakups are a crystallization process. It helps us learn more about ourselves, and how we want our next relationship to be like. Grieving over the loss of a relationship is normal. Give yourself all the time you need to grieve. Well, what you are feeling is that your love has been rejected, and it is hurtful. However, the problem is not you. He is not ready to receive. your love, hence the rejection. You cannot force that upon him, or anyone. It hurts now, but you the pain will end some day. Just don't act out of insecurities or your worst impulses.

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Date: 22 Aug 2025 Slightly more than 1 week before the pool ia closed for good. Managed to get time to swim there today. The pool is always very nice to swim. No complaints. Meanwhile, the shower room this afternoon has been a tad more cruisy than usual. No hanky panky caught in the act but lots of ‘passive’ cursing going around. I’m not complaining! It’s a feast to the eyes. I like how spontaneous the few guys were. None of those I want to see you, but I refuse to let you see nonsense. Summary: 1. Uncles flaunting whatever they have (or lack of it) 2. Younger man walking out proud and loud. Some grooming w be essential. Hehe 3. Bears/chubs with piercing and cock ring. Big round of applaud to all. Keep it UP (pun unintended).

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is it an absolute no-go for you, or do you feel it s ok, as both are consenting adults who know what they are doing?

I recently went through a breakup with my avoidant ex, and it feels like my entire world has collapsed. At that time, I didn’t even know what “attachment styles” were. I just thought love, patience, and compromise would be enough. I gave in almost every time, tried to adapt to his moods, and bent myself in ways that broke me, just to keep us together. But no matter what I did, it always ended the same way—distance, walls, silence. It’s only now, after the breakup, that I learned about avoidant attachment. And it was like a cruel lightbulb moment—everything suddenly made sense, but only when it was already too late. I wish I had understood earlier, because I would have tried to approach things differently. The most painful part is knowing that despite all of this, we did love each other deeply. It wasn’t a lack of love that destroyed us—it was the way he was wired to pull away, and the way I kept trying to close the gap. What absolutely shattered me was how quickly he moved on. Within weeks, he was already hooking up with other people. Probably more than one. To me, it felt like the relationship we had meant nothing. How could he let go of something so intense, so quickly, while I’m left here picking up the pieces? It makes me question if any of it was real, or if I was just fooling myself all along. That thought is enough to rip me apart inside. The only reason I’m still here is because of the few true friends who stood by me in this mess. There were nights I wanted to give up completely, to disappear and not wake up. The pain was that unbearable. My friends pulled me back each time, reminding me that I still mattered even if he made me feel like I didn’t. But the truth is, I’m still broken. I still wake up every day with the weight of it all on my chest. I still replay our moments, the love we had, and wonder how it all turned into this. I still feel discarded, like I was so easy to replace. Writing this here is my way of letting some of it out, because it’s too heavy to carry silently anymore. Has anyone else gone through this with an avoidant partner? How do you survive when the person you loved deeply moves on so easily, while you’re left drowning in grief? How do you live with the feeling that love wasn’t enough? If you’ve been through this too, I want you to know—you’re not alone in this kind of pain.

I love Safra TPY on Saturday evening. So peaceful in steam room. 😬

Hosting now any tops wanna group unload ? below 35 pls

30 years old not a heavy lifter bit lazy

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Anyone here I am here horny

26chn 171 63 here looking to get sucked now hehe at Tampines. Can host Anyone keen?

Looking for a human urinal to piss on. Cant host. Pm if interested

man, thanks for reminding its closing next week. been quite busy with work, but really hope i can squeeze in a final visit next Thursday to bid farewell to a familiar place. anyway to clarify, u mean there are guys parading with cock ring there? haha wow.

Looking for receive massage .. can’t host. Can travel. Pm

hello looking to get suck today near southwest, unable to host though.

new update on my DP and Background pic

Certain manhood massage can help delay ejaculation if done regularly. Can make the nerves less sensitive over time. Got to go for the professional one not those hanky panky.

Hihi, 21 Indian here. Looking to give or receive a massage between 6+ - 8pm either in the west or Central Area. Can’t host, anyone interested?

I would like to be undressed, groped and touched by someone next to me while on whereby video cam with other men.

Anybody want to share pics of their thongs/gstrings? Here's the ones I've been wearing for past few days.

I think I understand your predicament. Just the other day as I was heading home from work, a colleague complimented, "oh Mr xxx works out at the gym!" My face turned red and I was out of the office faster than she could take her next breath. I was then wearing a white T which hugged my pecs pretty snuggly. I appreciated the compliment but not so much the attention. Lady colleagues will be like poking my arm or touching my shoulder to get my attention. "Eyes see hands don't touch!". And if I go running shirtless, I would choose to do so past midnight or in the wee hours before the rooster itself is awake. Shy lah! I want my body to look this way, muscular but not over the top such that I find it a chore to shop for clothes. I am slowing accepting the fact that my physique is often noticed, especially by old friends who remember me as the skinny kid in school/uni. Whatever the case maybe, I like the way my current body looks as I get to excite my fun dates as they have a little bit more to feel, touch and rest upon.

27 183 62kg chn here prefer maturess ideally stay in the west or drivess. would love to get groped, molested and jerked.

So here's an update to my personal observations. For context, I am now in my early 50s. I was in a throuple situationship with two twenty-something until about a year ago. The sex part was definitely fun and having two younger guys into daddies, definitely boosted my ego etc. BUT here is where things don't quite work. For example, on a Friday or weekend nights, I much prefer to relax at home, or go some place low key. The guys would come over, we did have some fun, maybe watch a movie after, order dinner, etc. but come 11-ish, they will want to go out and party. I can appreciate that, as I was once their age, and did the same thing, but I was ready to go to bed. So usually they will head out, and come back to my place around 3 or 4 am. It worked sometimes, but honestly, it annoys me sometimes when they come back and wake me up from my sleep. Sometimes, yes, if they are horny, it was worth having my sleep disturbed, other times, I just want to be left alone. After those 2 guys, I dated another 20-something. I think he is more mature than the other 2, but really, I have nothing in common with him. I think I fulfill some daddy fantasy for him, which I don't mind, but sex is just sex. I supposed I am looking for a connection. Then a friend set me up with a colleague, a nurse practitioner working at the same hospital as my friend. He is in his late 30s. Great guy, we got along well, had fun, but his schedule can challenging, given that he works night shifts some weeks, then day. It can be difficult to make plans. Recently, I met a 53 year old guy. Close enough to my age. Met him at a party. We sort of know of each other for a long time as we have friends in common but either I was in a relationship then, or he was. We went on a date, made out, and the sparks are there. However, somehow he is a little flaky, and I am too old to play games. We would make plans to have dates, he would reschedule last minute, and when we finally did meet again, it was all fun, but I feel like he is testing my patience. I supposed my point is, 20-somethings are great for sex, especially if they are into daddies, and you fit the fantasy. Their bodies are firm, and their asses are perky, and nothing turns me on like a twink moaning away like a slut. The 30-40 something are more mature, and more career-focused, which is not a bad thing. However, be ready to be #2 in their life priorities. The 50-something year old guy, checks many boxes, but flakiness is something I have little patience for. At some point, i supposed I have to decide if I want to call him back, but since the last "reschedule" 2 weeks ago, I have held off. I think the 50-something has a lot of potential, I did enjoy the time I spent with him, lots os things in common. We shall see.

well u could just say u going downstairs to get something then do it at the hotel lobby toilet. i have been to a 2 weeks family trip so was sharing room with my bro, end up we just do it tgt. haha

Chinese married discreet bi, 41 years old. Professional working adult in cbd. Looking to know other married guys. Not into fun.

Hi brothers. Just turned 46yo. Chi, 181, 87kg. Discreet bi here. I'm attracted to respectful discreet manly men to have discreet brotherhood & companionship over drinks and chat. Benefits is secondary. Btw, I'm into pure side only (Frot cuddle Jo and such). PM if keen to connect.

“ 當年，得知兒子張鐸要娶陳松伶，張媽媽氣哭了:“她不但比你大8歲，還沒名沒錢，你圖她什麼？”不料張鐸的一句話，頓時讓張媽媽啞口無言。 2011 年的民政局門口，秋風卷著落葉打著旋。張鐸攥著剛領的結婚證，突然抬手撕成了碎片。 陳松伶驚呼著去搶，卻被他按住手：“撕了，這輩子就離不了了。” 她望著眼前這個比自己小8歲的男人，眼眶突然紅了——誰能想到，這個在她最落魄時闖入生命的人，真的陪她走過了六年風雨。 2005 年的香港街頭，陳松伶拖著行李箱走在雨夜中，渾身濕透。 經紀人卷走了她所有積蓄，父親剛病逝，醫院的診斷書還揣在兜里：卵巢瘤，終生不孕。 曾經紅極一時的 “TVB 花旦”，如今連個落腳的地方都沒有。 就在這時，《血未冷》劇組打來電話，邀她去內地拍戲，她抱著最后一絲希望上了飛機。 劇組里，24歲的張鐸第一次見她，就被這個總是躲在角落啃面包的姐姐吸引。她明明眼底有光，卻總低著頭，像只受驚的小鹿。 張鐸借著對台詞的由頭接近她，給她帶熱咖啡，在她咳嗽時遞上潤喉糖。當他鼓起勇氣表白時，陳松伶苦笑一聲：“我比你大 8 歲，還不能生孩子，你圖什麼？” “圖你笑起來好看。” 張鐸的眼神亮得像星星，“有沒有孩子，我都想跟你過一輩子。” 這話讓陳松伶的心顫了顫，卻還是狠下心拒絕：“你爸媽不會同意的。” 張鐸卻攥著她的手腕：“我的人生，我自己說了算。” 他說到做到。第一次帶陳松伶回家，母親指著她的鼻子罵：“她又老又沒錢，還不能生，你是不是瘋了？” 張鐸把陳松伶護在身后，輕聲說：“媽，我也普通，沒名沒利，能遇到愿意跟我過日子的人，不容易。” 母親被噎得說不出話，摔門進了屋。 轉機出現在張鐸父親病重時。張鐸在外地拍戲趕不回來，是陳松伶跑前跑后，動用自己在香港的人脈請來了權威專家，在醫院守了七天七夜，給老人擦身、喂飯，比親閨女還盡心。 父親醒來后拉著張鐸的手說：“這姑娘心善，你要好好對她。” 2011年，兩人終于領證結婚。張鐸撕結婚證的舉動，像個孩子氣的誓言，卻讓陳松伶記了一輩子。婚后，他對外說 “喜歡丁克”，把不能生育的秘密扛在自己肩上。 可紙包不住火，三年后母親還是知道了真相，哭著勸他離婚：“張家不能斷了香火！” 張鐸把陳松伶攬進懷里，對母親說：“我娶她，就沒想過要孩子。她這輩子受的苦夠多了，我不能再傷她。” 那些年，婆媳之間的摩擦從沒斷過。母親摔碗，陳松伶就默默收拾；母親冷言冷語，張鐸就拉著陳松伶出門散步，回來時手里準提著她愛吃的蛋撻。有次陳松伶忍不住問：“你會不會覺得累？” 張鐸捏捏她的臉：“護著你，怎麼會累。” 如今兩人結婚十幾年，張鐸走到哪都牽著陳松伶的手。 他會記得她不吃香菜，記得她冬天手腳冰涼，記得她看恐怖片時會攥緊他的胳膊。在綜藝里被問到 “愛情保鮮的秘訣”，張鐸笑著說：“哪有什麼秘訣，就是她皺眉時，我知道該哄了；她難過時，我知道該擋在她前面了。” 陳松伶在采訪里提起過往，總說自己是幸運的。在人生最黑暗的時刻，遇到了愿意為她撕毀結婚證的人，愿意把 “不能生育” 的秘密藏一輩子的人。而張鐸的愛，從來不是轟轟烈烈的誓言，是在每個瑣碎的日子里，用行動證明：“選擇你，我從未后悔過。” 娛樂圈的感情總被說太浮躁，可張鐸和陳松伶的故事卻像杯溫水，慢慢喝，才品得出其中的甜 —— 原來最好的愛情，不是年輕時的一見鐘情，是年長后的不離不棄；不是承諾有多動聽，是無論風雨，他都站在你這邊，做你的鎧甲。”

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Hi there, Anyone else discreet str8, curious bi or married seeking to explore bromance with another guy? Pm me to know me

sad that this pool is closing soon. soon, all these old school pools will be gone.

“ 如果我哪裡不對， 你一定要告訴我， 不能偷偷的減我的分， 所以希望我們以後的路， 能互相體諒輪流低頭，彼此珍惜。”

Passed by a massage spa at Clementi just now. Saw a Chinese male masseur inside, look 175cm tall (about my height) and slightly stocky in built. Look like at his late 30s. Went in to check on the price. 10% for service above $88. From Price list, body massage 90 mins, $98. Paid for $88 after 10% off. Slightly more expensive than WL, Wonderfoot ($85 for 90 mins), but much cheaper than NL. Decided to give this massuer a try. First floor mainly for foot massage, He brought me to 2nd floor. Body massage is done in a proper massage room with shower room. He gave me a disposable undie to change. Started off with a dry massage (~ 45 mins). For me, He has a good skill. Use the mix of fingers acupressure and forearm long stroke technique to unknot my muscle. Can tell he has years of experience. He said he was from China and been in massage industry in China for long time. 2 half- oil massage. He is not those touch-and-go kind. Even with oil massage, he used proper strength and technique to massage my upper body. Their disposable undie is slightly longer type (like a shorts), When come to lower body, surprisingly he helped to rip off the bottom of the disposable undie so that he could give my butt a thorough massage. He accidentally hit some of my sensitive spots when massaging my butt and inner thighs. Seeing me enjoying… then the “enjoyable moments” started, even when doing the front massage. ☺️ Had an enjoyable session today. Gave him a reasonable tips after the session. Unfortunately he told me his last day here will be 31 July. Will be back to China on 1st Aug, wont be back here anytime soon due to some family commitments. Hope to have chance to try him again somewhere, one day.

I like this cute NMP Raj Joshua Thomas. Nice yummy big bulge

Going to do my run at Bedok Reservoir tonight at around 945pm