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one of my biggest realizations since starting therapy is coming to the realization that how you do one thing in life usually shows up in similarly in other parts of your life. its also extremely comforting to know that he is also a gay man because there's dynamics that only we would understand.

33 178 77c here. bi. looking similar, pm

I recently went through a breakup with my avoidant ex, and it feels like my entire world has collapsed. At that time, I didn’t even know what “attachment styles” were. I just thought love, patience, and compromise would be enough. I gave in almost every time, tried to adapt to his moods, and bent myself in ways that broke me, just to keep us together. But no matter what I did, it always ended the same way—distance, walls, silence. It’s only now, after the breakup, that I learned about avoidant attachment. And it was like a cruel lightbulb moment—everything suddenly made sense, but only when it was already too late. I wish I had understood earlier, because I would have tried to approach things differently. The most painful part is knowing that despite all of this, we did love each other deeply. It wasn’t a lack of love that destroyed us—it was the way he was wired to pull away, and the way I kept trying to close the gap. What absolutely shattered me was how quickly he moved on. Within weeks, he was already hooking up with other people. Probably more than one. To me, it felt like the relationship we had meant nothing. How could he let go of something so intense, so quickly, while I’m left here picking up the pieces? It makes me question if any of it was real, or if I was just fooling myself all along. That thought is enough to rip me apart inside. The only reason I’m still here is because of the few true friends who stood by me in this mess. There were nights I wanted to give up completely, to disappear and not wake up. The pain was that unbearable. My friends pulled me back each time, reminding me that I still mattered even if he made me feel like I didn’t. But the truth is, I’m still broken. I still wake up every day with the weight of it all on my chest. I still replay our moments, the love we had, and wonder how it all turned into this. I still feel discarded, like I was so easy to replace. Writing this here is my way of letting some of it out, because it’s too heavy to carry silently anymore. Has anyone else gone through this with an avoidant partner? How do you survive when the person you loved deeply moves on so easily, while you’re left drowning in grief? How do you live with the feeling that love wasn’t enough? If you’ve been through this too, I want you to know—you’re not alone in this kind of pain.

Well, you've had a very good run and now it's time to retire... Thanks for being a conducive venue for my laps (and then some), Kallang Basin pool. 😘

28 chi bi here looking for friends and chat. preferably people around my age. telegram me with intro if keen. (Abit Beng-ish looking lolol) Telegram @trimeow

Any lean chn need receive a bj?

No… I’m shy. Hahaha.

anybody seek manhood pls tele me I host at cck condo tele me bigboss2046 60 min therapy I am local chn

just ask who wants to wank and do it together everyone needs to wank nothing to be shy about

Which part? ECP long stretch haha

never been to a sauna and been interested to try tmc but a bit shy. any tips?

Any sucker around hg area

i prefer foreplay hehhe. liike kissing, hugging etc

The whole point is to display for all to see and drool 🤤 😝

Much more happening during 7th month 😂🤭

Anyone around? Need to unload..

Agree! I was still a young man back then and lots of uncles and kor kors standing beside me showing off their family jewels. I don’t know why nowadays men at the swimming pools so 姑娘。Must hide in the toilet and latched the door. Put on the clothes inside and walk out with his clothes and pants wet wet. 🙄🙄

Any str sensual to recommend by younger masseur? lmk pls telegram @trimeow

Any btm keen to bj for me at buangkok now?

My days in 90s or before, all shower openly n no partition panel in pool or camp toilet. We seen each other washed our own dick by pull back the foreskin. No shy.

Looking for tops for fun in tmc. I never been there before. Love to train in anal sex.

I usually wank when I shower, but will imagine my straight friends having sex with me and will moan their names. Lol

Hi there " Welcome on board to the Blowing Wind forum"♥♥♥"

Wah his eyes better than superman's x-ray vision hor, can diagnose some more leh... Then you better not waste any money on doctors when you get cancer or appendicitis, go see that guy will do , right? If your brain cannot tell the difference between rubbish and logic, why are you eating good food? Feed from the rubbish bin should suffice your craving for rubbish.

Now let's glide!

https://www.instagram.com/p/DNiUbSKPXGW/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=N29tMGxwemRjZW9h

Many people wearing like this in cw?...

To be honest, every time I go, I secretly look forward to seeing some naked guys. When I do, it gives me a special kind of thrill—I can’t help but think, “They look so delicious,” hahaha.

Knowing how to arch properly and take dick is pretty sexy. Its like how bottoms in missionary looking you in the eye while shifting their legs to your shoulders, giving you permission to go deeper.

Every Monday night at KB, their theme is always "1069 Skin Nite". It literally means 1号(Top) 0号(Bottom) and 69 position. 😅😅😅😅😅😅 And Skin Nite is also Nude Nite 😁😁👍👍👍👍

About myself Age: ；40/166/75/Chinese Role : -Flex Btm/ Side -Fine without anal as well Interest -Culture , traveling, experimental cooking, photography, arts. Looking for -Someone with initiative -Plus /Minus 5 yrs of my age (preferably but who knows) - ideally top/ flex top/side -preferably chi, others are fine too as long as we can click. -old fashion dating (movies/ meal) -Preferably a non-smoker, -Non-chub( no offence please) -str8 acting, non loud, non scene -Stable job, good sense of humour. -Someone who is looking to doing simple things as a couple together. If we reach the stage when we exchange our contact : - telegram only, not using "line" - don't send me any of your pic with mask/shades etc.

Pm me

Saw guys in grey sweat pants freeballing. Aren’t they worried about visible pee stain? I fantasise about watching a freeballing Jc or poly guy in sweat pants sporting a growing boner when standing right in front of me in a crowded mrt train. If it’s uncut, will be able to see the outline.

Thanks everyone for the comfort. Whatever happens, it’s part of life. I don’t usually share my problems — I’m normally the one listening to others — but sometimes you just need a space to rant. This relationship felt different. Of all the people I’ve been with, he made me feel like he was truly “the one.” I’ve never felt that before. I guess I just need time to heal. I never expected this when I opened my heart.

Seeking to watch someone masturbate in person. Any exhibitionists in the area into this?

26chn 171 63 here looking to get sucked now hehe at Tampines. Can host Anyone keen?

Hi there, Any discreet str8, curious bi or married seeking to explore discreet bromance with another guy? Am seeking for someone's decent &drive. Pm me to know me. 46yo ch. Bi here. Not married. Thank you.

Harbour Rd, Wan Chai. Hi just want to share during my working trip to HK. This was not my first time as I been to numerous times there all I can say that this particular trip was different in the sense of I was told to stay there much longer than I thought. I was very pleased and happy with the hotel as I was upgrade to executive floor. They put me at the hotel very nearby to my office. As usual I was very familiar with my immediate colleague as well with the surroundings. After long discussion I excused myself to the restroom release myself as I walked to the restroom it was locked, and it show not in use as some repair work needs to be done. I walked back to my office and asked the receptionist any restroom than she direct me to one floor up. I walked to the lift waited for the lift to bring up to one floor up to release me. As the lift door opened, I saw one muscular guy in nice well-tailored Italian suit. As door opened our eyes meet, I could smell his nice perfume mix with sweat as it was in the afternoon as the weather blazing hot. I was in my black CL shoe and pair it with my sheer socks together socks and shirt garters. Somehow, I felt notty I wear my Edge thong as I wear my slim cut pants to match my light pink shirt and pair with nice cashmere sweater hand around my shoulder to keep warm incased, I felt cold as I don't carry any bag just my black BV document folder bag. As the lift opened our eyes meet and we to same floor. He nodded and smiled I also did the same. I walk toward the restroom I saw him go into one of the offices. Due high tide I went to the urinal and unzipped pants and start to piss as I piss, I could hear the toilet door been opened as there is a food step. I just continue what I was doing and piss I saw the guy I bump into at the elevator. This time he only in shirt and tailored vest he in 3pcs suit. He unzipped his pants and say hi as his hand start to touch my butt and compliment it as he continues to pee. My pants were drop around under my butt area. As he pissing, he keeps looking my cock as eventually getting hard as the piss start to drip as I clear my bladder. Soon the urine stop he hold my cock and played it. He says that he like cut thick long cock with metal thick donut. Soon after he done within split second kneel down sucking my cock like a boy hunger of ice-cream or lollipop. He stands up and pulls me inside the cubicle and we start kissing I saw wearing jockstrap. As we kiss we hear footstep pissing at urinal we pause for short while waiting for him to be done at urinal pissing. Soon he is done I close the toilet bowl and sit down pull his bulge closer near to my face. I slowly sniff it as i do that I find that is not a fresh jockstrap as smell very musky like been wear it to gym. I get very horny and rub his bulge on my face and take a deep sniff once I done, I turned him around I rim his ass he starts to moan, and my heartbeat race so face he is asking me to insert my cock I say no as I feel I been away for too long for toilet break. I explained to him he nodded but asking me to face fuck him few min which I did real deep till he is drooling and wet his shirt and tie which I could see his saliva spot on it. I say we should stop and meet after working hours which agreed we exchange contact number I felt skeptical of meeting as philosophy I don't shit where I eat but he unresistible no doubt I saw wedding band. I quickly dress up out from there and back to my office the moment I step in he texts me if we could meet for dinner. Since I got no plan that night for dinner as I had lunch with my colleague. Soon the time strike 5.30pm as everybody start to leave and we all leave the office together. As the I out from the elevator he texted me saying that he needs to stay a little late till about 8pm. As I walked back to my hotel as it is very near to my office as where we are. I say Ok as have not hit to the gym for the day I replied to him that I be at hotel gym just texted me when he is ready as I told him where my hotel which very nearby. I went back to the hotel to get ready to gym and workout. I thought he not meeting as the clock pass 8pm as I start to cool down by stretching and planking the text messages come in it was him as he apologies for being late and I tell him that I just end my workout. I could hear him panting for walking very fast. As waited for the elevator he texted me saying he at the hotel lobby. I went down to meet him, and I say sorry I was very sweaty from the gym. As we walked toward the room, I could feel that he going to eat me up. The moment reaches to my room as the door closed, he grabs me, and we are kissing like as we are couple. Our tongue met I say I was dirty as I soaking wet like I just run my 5km. He says good with it this time round he strips me piece by piece and sniff every of my sweaty gear and take a very deep sniff. My cock straight away hard as I was in the same undies as he saw later today at the restroom. He kneels down in his suit as he strips himself piece by piece. He licks my soaking wet thong that I wore to work than to gym. He so hungry start to suck me like a hungry boy for ice-cream or lollipop he real nasty as he opened my piss hole tease with his tongue and suck all the precum as we still near the door. He seems so kinky I just grab his head and crawl to the sofa where I opened leg wide and start to lick my wet sweat musky slimy asshole, he says he loves it I say take it licked clean those slimy from my work our he nodded. Once I was done, I start to kiss him as I can smell my sweaty ass around his mouth, I totally get crazy. I unbuttoned his vest as his jacket at the door and strip him piece by piece till left his shirt on undies and sheer socks on. I saw him wearing socks and shirt garters which turn me on. As for build he almost same size as me. I push him to bet lick him the moment we change his position his shirt gave way around the arm area leaving big hole and is beyond repaired or restitching. I say sorry he says don't bother I continued what I was doing I as I lick his whole body, he put his feet on my face, and I was lucky his feet only smell the leather he was wearing the same design and brand as I do. I grab my poppers we both take a deep we get so high We do what we supposed to I gave him nice spank as I ate his sweaty ass and his asshole very smooth, I tongue bite his ass and gave a horny moan as I saw his asshole twitching I suck his asshole like eating spicy chut chut real hard till my both cheeks sunk in. He begging to get fuck I turned him around I rip off his shirt lift him in jockstrap and socks on. I gave him nice deep throat till he grabs hard may head as I keep giving deep throat his body start to quiver and moan within split second; he gave a huge erupted lave inside deep in my throat it feels so warm thick gooey down by throat and swallow every bit of till clean. I saw his whole-body jerk like into fits and his sweat like after gym as for his body like drunken prawn. I just leave him alone to catch his breath. I offer him a drink as soon he finishes his drink he say fuck me I here and do it raw after I mention him about prep and doxcy prep. I say sure but I want to fuck in your suit attire than I fuck you really well till you see stars he is laughing. He replies that his shirt is torn, and I get up to get him my fresh clean shirt worries he may not into those worn ones as been wear for whole day. As passed him the shirt he says no I was shocked by his reply. I say this is clean shirt he says no I don't want fresh clean shirt I want the one I wear earlier to work this morning. I say is not clean as I sweat on it as I walk back from office. He replied that what he likes most I still at the bed as he asking where is my shirt that I wore earlier, I say inside the laundry bag. As I feel like drinking wines soon i take a bottle out from the bar counter as serve it to him as well. Since got nice view I turned the armchair toward the window while enjoying nice mountain and sea view as I sipping my wine enjoying the view as music which I played from my Spotify tru my travelling speaker. As enjoyed my moment he came and kneel down in front of me with my shirt on plus my sweaty socks in his mouth and he is holding my compression tights gear and sniff it. Deep in me he must very raunchy guy. I say let have some wine than we continue he pulled another chair beside me. I though we have nice chat as I turned enjoyed the view as the day start to be dark only left those lights from the building. I say he drank up his wine down and kneeling sniff my sweaty thong I hold his face up order him to open his mouth and I spit on it and gave that dirty raunchy horny bottom. I asked him you want me to use this hot stick up in your mouth and filthy dirty ass he nodded ok if that, so I want you crawl to side drawer there take my toy lovense3 wet the bulb area with your saliva insert it in your man pussy and stay where you the stand up insert it and kneel down he obey it. The moment he kneels I order him to give deep sniff my workout attire I saw him enjoying it what he was doing is doing tru reflection from the glass window as he enjoying it. Than I order him to take few deep sniff poppers and on bed and lay down. Soon after he followed my order I switch on my sextoys as he operates via Bluetooth straight away, I tune to level 5 which it will vibrate very fast and furious he screams so loud and moan I quickly stop the vibrator. Lucky there no complain from the hotel. Then I strip off my thong and sniff it I infront of him. He getting horny than I strip him left only his shirt on as well his sheer socks. He lay down as his feet on my face. I straight away pulled down his jockstrap and sniff it. I put on my sweaty thong on him and rim his ass as the sex toy inside his ass. As soon I done rimming I put some lube and finger him to loosen him up. As he loosen up I push in my cock slowly could feel as his anal stretching as my king cobra goes inside his Secret Garden of Eden. He moan from pain change to pleasure and begging me to fuck him harder the same time I push the sex toys deeper and increase the vibration. I could feel the sensation as it vibrate my cock deep in as get very horny and ramp him real hard as he moan as I grind him deep while his hand playing nipple. Again I pick up the momentum and fuck him real hard till I could hear the slapping sound. As I soon feel I gonna cum I stopped for awhile gave him nice grinding and increase to level 5 before that I stuff his mouth with my sweaty ankle socks. As soon it hit level his toe curl up he auto cum non stop fill up his entire body his cum super thick and goes. As he flex his muscle I fill my cum anytime going so shoot. I take few min as I reduce the speed of vibrator to number 3 than I pulled out my cock and without any sign I pushed real deep and squirt after squirt I only pulled out when I feel I'm done. I say his thick cum I licked it and slurp it as is all clear we swapped by hot deep kissing. He told it was not enough and saying he was hungry I told him let shower and we can order room service he is saying not food more of my cum this cum no more breeding but but to swallowed my cum.As it getting late, we take shower and fuck him under shower as he push out all the cum. His asshole opened up like hibiscus after shower he excuse himself with bathrobe outside the room as hear the door is opened. I don't bother to asked who he taking to.He say he enjoying it no doubt he feeI little bit sorebbut worth it and he say he loved spend time with me over weekend. I so delighted and saying sure you most welcome but I asked him are you attach or married he answer that he is married men if I mind, I say no if is a good session I go for. He told me that earlier he calling his wife and saying that he is in China urgent meeting. I was very happy as weekend filled up.He mentioned to me he need to shop downstair under the hotel to buy some clothing and underwear i reply to him is ok wear mine as bring spare he delighted instead from over the weekend, he stays tru out my stay there. He invited me to go to Macau for few days with as he good a timing as he decide to leave on my last day at HK. I text my office saying that I want to take few days of leave as is approved I change my flight departure. Almost our session he in suit I fuck on his desk and meeting room as there is no camera inside his office as he is one of the Head Chief Director. When we slept, I make sure my cock stay warm as is insert his asshole. Never know married men can be very rauchy and I wonder how he feels through the day wearing my sweaty shirt and undies even he wore my suit as we both almost same size. I always looking forward for working trip to HK as I know I won't be alone as we meet every time I was there in HK. At times we even have 3 sum. He mentioned that he don't like to see me breed or let other bottom as we 3sum. Than not to disappoint him we had safe sex only during 3sum as we both enjoying roast pig guys and double fuck them usually we find way that wr could have each other cum for ourself. My suit session with him the best. Even I arrived HK nighttime like after dinner time instead check in at hotel check in at his office and have my organic protein. We keeping intouch till now even visiting me here.

any coach into sounding? keen of trying

I really enjoy my times at TMC - so many incredible moments 💯 agree on the two previous post on privilege perspectives, as a Chinese person, we are blind to the prejudice that we can’t see because we’re the majority in Singapore, you can understand that difference when you find yourself in a foreign country especially in the west, it’s definitely real and not a good feeling. -and having too many 📸 cameras around. Lots of the time you can see them pointing it straight at you , tmc should really look into that, our lives can be destroyed with just a single pic leak considering what we could be photographed doing on the rooftop. ALL kinds of people go there some of them really can’t behave in a responsible or considerate way. I saw was a guy rinsing his mouth with provided mouthwash and then dropping his used wet cup back into the box. I asked him why he did that and he said “ oh I didn’t see where I dropped the cup” or this other guy who just cuts in when I’m using the smith machine at the gym without asking. There are really some thoughtless people need extra rules to ensure that we’re all in a safe place at TMC. Hope the management see this.

they should ban mobiles on the top floors... too many cams

My biggest kink/fantasy for now is to be used as a canvas. I love body writing and I want to be ordered to write stuff on my body with permanent markers and send you pics. Can even go as far as colouring in parts of my body black with the marker. If you’re interested in that dm me?

Well, you can always get fucked while fully suited in the changing area. I am sure the patrons will understand the need, the fetish, and more than that, I am sure they will enjoy the display and performance. I would! 😁 But I would stress that the patrons will not take too kindly to fully dressed people going into the rooms and other areas for "sightseeing" purposes.

Met a good friend in a sauna.. didn't recognize each other since we were without glasses inside, played for a while, helped each other cummed, still remembered my cum shot up to my chest area. Only recognized each other at the locker.. I left quite quickly, maybe due to embarrassment, since he knows my wife as well. Resumed texting, he identified himself as gay, and knows I'm just out for fun an is cool with that. Awkward, but who knows, maybe will lead into a different kind of friendship

Will be at komanwel park around 9+... Chinese, 53, 168/68 vers...

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Recently moved back to the east. Any gym buddies bedok/kembangan?

chocolate for me

I am married, 29 175 70, came across this thread and would like to meet some other married men for fun and/or hanging out.