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  1. I posted this about 5 years ago and we are currently celebrating 6 years together. So, relationship with younger man CAN work abide all our issues and differences. Giving up is easy, trying to get relationship to work needs effort. LOVE + EFFORT + PATIENCE + UNDERSTANDING = RELATIONSHIP STILL PROGRESSING
  2. Well, if you are like this str8 girl. I am pretty sure you won't find a boyfriend. https://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/eat-drink-man-woman-16/looking-date-guy-mid-20s-35-a-5808403.html
  3. Gay Men: Are You a Jock, Otter, Bear or Wolf? Updated on November 20, 2017 John Hollywood This body type: Gym rat, muscular and built | Source Gay men often use descriptive terms to identify and label other men within the wider gay community. No doubt you’ve heard of some of these labels, like jock, otter, bear, cub, wolf, and so forth. But many gay men often wonder what these terms actually mean. How many times have you approached your friends and asked them, “What am I? Which group do I fall into? And what the heck is a wolf?” Maybe you’ve even sent them a bathroom mirror selfie wanting some answers. After conducting extensive research on gay body types, collecting survey opinions from gay blogs, and plugging the data into high-grade statistical analysis software, the typologies of gay male body types can now be revealed. Much of the analysis draws upon search phrases via Google’s algorithms. Nothing was left to chance. To simplify the process (and for giggles), I've used popular film and television celebrity photos as a point of reference. At the end of this article, there’s a link to a gay census website where you can punch in your information to find out your potential category. Please note that I have not included all of the groups here and the ones that are here may have a subgroup. It is entirely possible that your group is not listed. Finally, some may disagree with these labels as there continues to be ongoing friction regarding what they mean. This is simply an attempt to offer clarity. Can you identify your gay body type? Let's jump right in . . . Gay Body Types Type Build Hair Age Example Celebrity Notes Otter Thin or athletic Lots Any age Scott Caan Part of the extended bear community Wolf Lean, muscular Semi-Hairy Any age Joe Manganiello Sexually aggressive; Silver or grey wolf is an older wolf Bear Big, often with a belly Lots Any John Travolta Very masculine Cub Husky Lots Young or younger-looking Jack Black Sugar cubs and muscle cubs are sub-types Chub Real big Maybe Any John Goodman Distinct from bears Pup Slender No Young Joe Jonas Energetic, cute, and naive Bull Super-built Maybe Any Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson Twink Slender No Young Justin Beiber Self-centered, usually between 18 and the mid-20’s Twunk Muscular but slender No Young The muscular version of Beiber A more muscular Twink Gym Bunny Sculpted Maybe Under 50 Shemar Moore Fitness associated with gym, not sports Jock Muscular and athletic Maybe Any David Beckham Fitness is associated with sports Gym Rat Very lean and well-built Maybe Any Addicted to working out The Frolicking Otter! (CC BY 2.0) | Source The Otter Build Hair More Info Thin to athletic Lots of hair Part of bear community, but smaller than both bears and cubs In the gay world, an otter is considered a thin gay male that is hairy and may or may not use a trimmer to shorten body hair. Some otters have beards, and some do not. Otters usually have smaller frames when compared to the heavier cub or bear and look a lot like what you would see in a picture of an otter . . . hairy. This might surprise some people who typically think of otters as smooth. Athletic but not super built, a person can be an otter regardless of age and they are considered to be part of the larger bear community. Think of otters being somewhere between cubs and bears. They’re not as massive as bears and are certainly smaller than cubs. Celebrity Otter: Scott Caan Scott Caan Has Otter-Like Features | Source Scott Caan might be a good example of an otter. Notice in the photograph how he is slightly hairy and might even trim to reduce the hair on his chest and torso. You might remember Scott from a number of movies and TV shows, including films like Into the Blue and Hawaii Five-0. He is 5’5’’and was born in Los Angeles. CC BY 2.0 | Source The Wolf Build Hair More Info Lean, muscular, and attractive Semi-hairy, often have facial hair Considered sexually aggressive and part of the larger bear community Semi-hairy, muscular, lean, attractive, and sexually aggressive, wolves are sometimes considered as part of the larger bear community or on the bear spectrum. They can be any age and normally have facial hair. Some might also describe wolves as slimmer bears but there is a lot of disagreement on this. Subgroups of wolves can be found in aging wolves, which are gay men with wolf-like features that are starting to turn a bit gray. And then there are full-on silver or gray wolves, terms that describes an older wolf with gray or white facial and body hair. Celebrity Wolf: Joe Manganiello Joe Manganiello Makes a Good Wolf | Source Joe Manganiello would be a celebrity example of a younger wolf, since he’s lean, hairy, and attractive. Interestingly enough, Manganiello played the part of a wolf in the HBO hit series, True Blood. Hugh Jackman might be good example of an older or aging wolf. He’s the mid-40s hottie who you saw in the X-Men series and The Wolverine. Source The Bear Build Hair More Info Big, usually heavy or muscular Lots of hair Fairly large, protruding belly is typical characteristic; very masculine Characteristically, a bear is a large, possibly heavy gay man that could also be muscular. A fairly large protruding belly is a defining characteristic of a bear. Masculinity is also a key feature of bears, and some bears are so caught up in projecting a masculine image that they shun other would-be bears who appear to be too effeminate. That said, many bears consider themselves to be harmless and even playful. There are several subtypes of bear, which include: Muscle Bears: Bears whose size comes from muscle and not from fat Polar Bears: Older bears with gray or white facial and body hair Sugar Bears: Effeminate bears that are shunned by more masculine bears Celebrity Bear: John Travolta John Travolta: Gym Bunny Turned Bear | Source John Travolta (born in 1954) is a good example of a bear. At one time, Travolta was considered to be a gym bunny or even a wolf, but as he’s grown older he’s developed key bear body traits (especially a belly). Other celebrity bear body types include the now-deceased James Gandolfini (best known for his role as Tony Soprano) and actor and comedian Robin Williams (also deceased). CC BY 2.0 | Source The Cub Build Hair More Info Husky Hairy but may or may not have beard A younger male that is not quite bear size For gay men, the term cub is used to describe a younger (or younger-looking) male that is usually husky or heavier in body type and is almost always hairy. While many cubs have a beard, it is not a requirement to fit this category since body hair and huskiness are the dominant features for this gay descriptor. Cubs are sometimes partnered with bears in passive relationships or with other cubs and they can sometimes be considered an apprentice to a bear. Here are a few subtypes of cubs: Muscle Cubs: Body size is attributable to muscular composition as opposed to body fat Sugar Cubs: Effeminate cubs Celebrity Cub: Jack Black Jack Black | Source Jack Black might be a good example of a cub. Born in Santa Monica, California you might recognize Jack Black from movies like School of Rock and High Fidelity. We don't have a lot of male celebrity examples of cubs. Almost all cubs aspire to become bears within the larger bear community. Source The Chub Build Hair More Info Overweight or obese Maybe Distinct from bears; chub-chasers are men who prefer chubs In the gay world, chubs are a distinct subgroup within the gay male population and are often confused with bears. Many bears reject extremely large or obese chubs and do not consider them as part of their subgroup. Chubs even have their own events, such as Mr. Chub International. According to my research, an extremely large chub is referred to as a superchub. Along with chubs, I should note a group of people called chasers. These individuals are attracted romantically and physically to chubs and are typically much smaller than chubs. Chub Celebrity: John Goodman John Goodman | Source John Goodman is a good example of a chub or superchub. You have seen him in a number of films and TV shows, most notably Roseanne. John Candy (deceased), actor from films like Planes, Train & Automobiles, is another example of a chub. Source The Pup Build Hair More Info Slender Smooth Body-type similar to twink, but are new to gay world A pup is a gay male who is fairly young—we’re talking late teens to early 20s more or less. Pups are known for their lack of experience in the gay world, as well as for being naïve, energetic and cute. They may have similar body types to twinks (see end of article) however, pups usually are super new to the gay world whereas twinks are not. Though they share some similarities to cubs, pups are not involved in the bear community and likely do not even know this community exists. You often hear seasoned gay men tell very young gay men who are just coming out things like, "You are just a young pup—you have a lot to learn." or "You are just a pup—you’re just a baby!" Celebrity Pup: Joe Jonas Joe Jonas Has Pup Characteristics | Source Early 20-something Joe Jonas is a good example of a pup body type. Joe and his brother Nick starred in their own Disney Channel Original Series, Jonas. Taylor Lautner (Twilight series) and Sterling Beaumon (Astro Boy) are other pup body type examples. Source The Bull Build Hair More Info Super massive body-builders Maybe Often found in herds In the gay community, bulls are body builders that weigh between 215 and 300 pounds. They are not necessarily part of the bear community and usually herd together as a bull might in its natural environment. Celebrity Bull: Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson Dwayne Johnson Good Bull Example | Source Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, the 40-something California-born movie star and wrestler, is a good example of a bull body type. He used to be a professional wrestler with the World Wrestling Federation (WWF). 30-something, Australian-born actor Chris Hemsworth, based on his appearance in the movie Thor, is another good example of a potential bull body type. Hemsworth stands at a whopping 6'4 and his weight has varied between 195 and 215 pounds according to recent interviews. Source The Twink and the Twunk Build Hair More Info Twink Slender Smooth Self-centered Twunk Lean but muscular Smooth Same as above Twinks In gay terms, twinks are younger, slim men with minimal body hair and no hair on the face. They’re usually between 18 and the mid-20’s, give or take a few years. A wrap on the twink is that many think the world revolves around them. Twunks Twunks are a more muscular version of twinks, and some have assigned feminine and masculine characteristics to twunks. For example, sugar twunk describes an affectionate twunk. Some make the mistake of confusing twinks and twunks with tweakers when they’re actually not related. Tweakers are younger gay men that use party drugs, like E and crystal meth and are very thin as a result of not eating enough. However, one does not need to be a tweaker to tweak. Celebrity Twink or Twunk: Justin Bieber Justin Bieber Could be Twink or Twunk | Source Justin Bieber has at times exhibited both a twink and a twunk body type, depending on what photograph you’re looking at of him and when the photo was taken. CC BY 2.0 | Source The Gym Bunny Build Hair More Info Sculpted Maybe Usually under 50, related to gym rats; often considered pretty Gym bunnies are native to both straight and gay worlds. They can be any age but are usually younger than 50. Gym bunnies spend an obsessive amount of time working on their physique and are muscular and sculpted as a result. Bunnies are similar to jocks except that their fitness is not usually connected to sports. They work out to create a physique others will notice and look at. You will often find gym bunnies at the beach and they are typically considered pretty. Celebrity Gym Bunny: Shemar Moore Source Shemar Moore might be a good example of a gym bunny body. You might recall him from the soap opera Young and the Restless and he now appears on CBS's Criminal Minds. The Jock Build Hair More Info Athletic Maybe Physique associated with sports For gay men, jocks are almost always considered attractive, muscular males with low body fat. A jock can be of any age but they are generally considered to be younger because of their athletic abilities and they are usually linked to playing sports and being active. Years ago, the term "jock" used to have a negative connotation in the straight world. However for gays, being called a jock is a compliment. Celebrity Jock: David Beckham David Beckham is a Jock | Source David Beckham, the English-born footballer (soccer player) is a good example of a jock body type. The Gym Rat Build Hair More Info Muscular Maybe Men addicted to working out Gym rats are somewhat similar to gym bunnies but are distinguished by their addiction to working out. While they may enjoy attention from others in public, that is not their motivation for being fit. Their primary motive for long, daily lifting sessions relates more to an obsessive need to get bigger. They are typically lean and very well-built. Like a rat lives in the basement, gym rats live at the gym and are always there. The straight equivalent would be a muscle head. Gym bunnies and gym rats are closely related. Again, the primary difference is that gym bunnies care most about sculpting their bodies whereas gym rats are typically concerned with adding muscle size in hopes of becoming a bull. Some Final Thoughts There has always been disagreement within the gay community around descriptive terms for body types and their associated characteristics. It is possible that some readers could feel they don’t fall into any of the above categories. If this is the case, there is always the "average" category, which is an area that many gay men fall into and simply means that the person is average in most areas, including body weight, height, and hairiness. Note that the term "daddy" not used here. This is because a "daddy" is not connected to a specific body type. Wolves, bears, chubs, and otters can all technically be daddies. A great video to stream or download is The Adonis Factor, a documentary that goes into fairly deep detail on gay body types. And hey . . . if you would like to learn more about your body type, you can always take the Gay Cliques Census online which tells you where you may fit in, based on the data you put in. Please be sure to share this article with your friends to help educate them and others on the many gay body types within the community. Also, if you are so inclined, please like Gay Pop Buzz on Facebook. - Mister Hollywood
  4. Wongchongli vs Gachimuchi

    You suay lor, 路见不平拔刀相助! I just happened to see your idiotic post and I thought I should help your parents teach you some manners. I don't need to remove your post because I want them to see how you deserve the wash down by me. I am sure those who read your post can see for themselves, how rude and insulting you are in your comment. I am like you, I say what I feel. I am sure many forum members, knows I am the type who speak my mind. 一个有教养的人是不会随意说一些刻薄伤人的话,你可以有话直说用刻薄的字眼来说别人,别人就不能有话直到说你没教养吗,什么道理? 敢说人就要能承受被人说。不然的话,就少说一些刻薄的人的话。像你这么自以为是的人,还是修一下口德,不要让人认为你没家教。
  5. Wongchongli vs Gachimuchi

    There is no need to bitch about whether he is super handsome or famous. That is uncalled for. Different masseur bring different experiences for different customers. If his rates is not to your liking, just move on. He knows his value, you don't. And yes, you are very offensive and I am sorry your parents didn't bring you up properly. Just saying what I feel too.
  6. Ouch! This is the reality of freeballing in jeans.
  7. Let me recall. Primary school with primary school classmate, now married. Checked. Secondary school with secondary school classmate, now married. Checked. Army with army friend, now married. Checked. Work with colleague, now married. Checked. Str8 men are just as curious/horny to experiment and experience sex.
  8. 20 Same-Sex Hookup Stories From Straight Guys Real talk from straight and straight-ish guys. Posted on April 19, 2017, at 4:01 a.m. We recently asked straight men of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us about their experiences hooking up with other guys. Here's what they said: And as a heads up, some of these stories get kinda graphic and NSFW. Mheim3011 / Getty Images 1. This spontaneous threesome: "A guy once gave me his number out of the blue at a restaurant. A few weeks later I was bored and horny (and a little stoned) so I called him. He invited me over to his place to watch porn with him and his roommate. It wasn't long before we were all in bed having a threesome. I'm happily married to a woman now, but I'm glad I did that back then. It was fun and it felt good. "You don't have to be gay to enjoy playing with a dick at some point!" —32/Male/Straight 2. This fleeting moment of experimentation: "I was in a weird place after a messy breakup with a long-term girlfriend when I was about 24. I don't really know how or why I started, but I began watching and getting off to gay porn. The thing is, outside of watching porn, I don't find men attractive at all. I have never checked out or noticed another man in a real-life situation, but I can completely fantasize about it if I'm watching gay porn. "So after a few months of regularly getting off to gay porn I decided to seek out an opportunity to experiment and met with a guy in a parking lot of a local store. We went for a short drive and talked for a few minutes and I started backing out so he took me back to my car. We pulled up beside my car and he gave a last shot at keeping things going and asked if I just wanted to try holding his dick, and I agreed. He took it out and I started giving him a hand job, which lasted about a minute before I just went for it and started blowing him. I blew him for a few minutes in his car and then we decided I'd jump in my car and follow him back to his place just a few minutes away. We got to his house and I got back to sucking his dick on his couch, and he got my shorts off and rubbed my dick some while I blew him. "After a few minutes he wanted to switch and go down on me, that's when everything sort of hit. He was really excited to blow me, but I wasn't the least bit hard and nothing he was doing was making it happen. I was just over it at this point — told him I was sorry but I needed to go, and bailed quickly. I felt bad ditching the guy. He seemed nice enough, but I had my moment of experimentation and realized it wasn't what I was into." —39/Male/Straight Seanzerothree / Getty Images 3. This opportunity to date a great guy because why not: "I met a friend of a friend who was somehow into me. I was single and 23 at the time and selfishly thought, 'Welp, somebody thinks you're funny and attractive, you'd totally do Chris Hemsworth, why not give it a go?' He was a super great guy, we had a lot in common and enjoyed each other's company, and we unofficially dated for about a month or two. "Fooling around with him was fun, but when it came down to actual *sex* sex (I'd top and he'd bottom), I wasn't as nearly attracted to it as I am with women. I distanced myself without officially breaking up, and I never heard from him again." —26/Male/Straight 4. This exhibitionist makeout sesh: "I was at a typical high school party in sophomore year and my best friend Matt and I were egging on some girls to make out. They told us that we have to first if we want them to, so being close bros and all, we started to make out. More girls started looking and were actually getting quite turned on so we started getting more into it because we knew if we give it our all we'll get something better after. The reward afterwards was totally worth it! "We're still the best of friends, and I'm still straight but he's bi (not sure if it's something he realized after this event and I don't want to ask). We just laugh it off as a good story now." —20/Male/Straight Georgerudy / Getty Images 5. This whiskey-drinking date: "My first hookup with a guy was a few years ago with a guy I met on Whisper. I'd been curious for a while before this happened. He identifies as gay. We drank some whiskey and one thing led to another and we ended up sucking each other's dicks and making out for a while." —26/Male/Identify as straight 6. These hand jobs between BFFs: "I considered myself totally hetero at the time. I was hanging out with my BFF since fourth grade, who's gay. We were probably both 19 or so. On two occasions, we put on some porn, starting masturbating, then gave each other (very excellent) hand jobs. I enjoyed the hell out of it until he came, and was freaked out/grossed out by encountering another dude's semen. I never even considered getting involved with another guy for years after, and am happily married to a woman. But as I've gotten older and shed some cultural baggage, I've allowed myself to be attracted to men, and would totally date/sleep with the right guy. "It was a very positive experience; I learned a lot about myself and LGBT issues, and the guy is still my BFF." —32/Cismale/Somewhere between straight and queer Sanyasm / Getty Images 7. These anonymous hookups: "I had been curious about my sexual preference for a while, but I was a FratBro so there was no way I was gonna do it for fear of someone finding out. So once I went to grad school in another state, it seemed like the perfect time. I downloaded Grindr and had quite a few hookups. I eventually realized that I was doing all these anonymous hookups out of physical attractions and mostly boredom. Hooking up with guys is a lot easier than girls. Now I consider myself straight and looking for the right girl with the occasional guy hookup when I'm bored." —25/Male/Straight-ish 8. These adventures in masturbation: "When I was in middle school, a friend and I used to 'experiment' when one of us would spend the night. Nothing ever went too far, typically just masturbating together and occasionally jerking each other off. He was the one who initiated it; it came about as a truth or dare game. I was hesitant at first but eventually came around. It was fun but nothing that I would do anymore." —19/Male/Heterosexual 9. This not-entirely-great first time: "I was 18 and just lost my virginity to a girl. I had always wondered if I was actually gay, so I started looking at both genders on Tinder. I matched with a 22-year-old guy and we ended up having sex in the woods near his house. He was actually really strange and I didn't feel comfortable about it at all. I've hooked up and had sex with other guys since then, but always in a period of severe loneliness. I'm not really sure I'm gay, but I'm probably not entirely straight either. Looking back on it, I don't regret all of my male sexual experiences, but the first one has always left me feeling a bit disgusted with myself." —20/Male/Most likely straight Antonioguillem / Getty Images 10. This frat party with a happy ending: "During my second semester in college, I ended up moving out of the dorms and into the apartment of a friend I had from a fraternity I was in. I kind of sensed that he was attracted to me, but I never paid any mind to it. Everyone was pretty sure he was gay, but none of that mattered. I myself was known for sleeping around, and I was in an on-and-off relationship, but never considered myself gay. "One night, we had a small party at our place, with people coming and going all night. Things got wild, and I ended up trashed. Everyone did. "Everyone ended up leaving, and I went to my room to wind down. My roommate ended up stumbling into my room and landed on my bed. I just laid there and blew it off. He started getting handsy, and I immediately knew where this was going. He told me to relax, and I was pretty horny anyways. He ended up giving me a blowjob, and it was completely mind-blowing. We ended up doing things the rest of the time I lived with him. I eventually reciprocated, but we never did anything aside from oral or masturbation. "Looking back, I have no regrets about any of it. I don't think it defined my sexuality, because I still identify as straight. It was a good experience, and I wouldn't change anything." —26/Male/Straight 11. This hookup after a buddy came out as bi: "When I was 13, one of my best friends told me he was bi. Later that night at his house, we were watching a movie and he started playing with my crotch with his feet, and ended up unzipping my pants. He asked if he could give me a blowjob and I said sure. He did, but I couldn't give one to him because it was too weird for me at the time. That was my first sexual experience in general, let alone man-on-man experience. I didn't end up having sex with a girl until I was 18, five years after that gay experience." —20/Male/Straight Antonioguillem / Getty Images 12. This ~ride~ home: "One of my high school best friends is gay. One time I gave him a ride home and he jokingly said, 'I'd offer to blow you but my tits are in the shop.' I was 18 and probably just hearing 'tits' was enough to get me hard. So I unzipped my pants and took my dick out kind of joking, kind of not. He started sucking and I kept driving until we got close to his house and he told me to pull over and I blew my load in his mouth and then he said he was going to eat my ass. He got out of the car, walked around to the driver's side and opened my door. I got out and leaned onto my car and he ate my ass for a long time. This was on a suburban cul-de-sac (he loves puns so maybe that was part of his plan). Anyway it was unreal. It felt so good my legs were shaking. I kinda came again but there wasn't much and he said, 'You don't have any more for me?' And I thought that was so hot that someone wanted my cum that much. "I finished driving him home and stayed up all night kind of grossed out, but not? Also I'm embarrassed to admit I worried about AIDS. I was so nervous to see him at school. But he claimed not to remember anything ’cause he was drunk. He wasn't that drunk though. Nothing like that has happened since. "We're still friends; he'll be a groomsman in my wedding next year. No girl has ever offered to eat my ass. I've met a few of his boyfriends and wonder if my dick is bigger than theirs. This all makes me sound pretty gay but I'm really not." —26/Male/Straight 13. This longtime friendship with benefits: "We were friends that had known each other since first grade. About the time we were 10 or 11, we changed in front of each other and started to compare body parts. The two of us comparing body parts continued to grow, and as we grew into our adolescent years we began feeling each other, experimented with hand jobs, blow jobs, and we ended up going all the way. We were each other's firsts for everything sexually speaking, and it started out as just being curious and figuring out what felt good sexually. "My friend and I still remain friends to this day. While we were experimenting, we would both talk about what we were doing with each other, and say that we both liked girls and didn't feel gay, but we were confused about why we would always do homosexual things with each other. He was the only guy I have ever hooked up with, and as far as I know, I was the only dude he's hooked up with. The sexual things we did together stopped soon after high school, and we haven't brought it up since." —25/Male/Straight 14. This epic blow job that has you wondering if you're straight after all: "Me and my friends were out at the pub last Wednesday, and we miiiiight have drunk a bit too much. One thing led to another and we were talking about how long it had been since each of us had sex. We joked about giving each other blowjobs, and one of my friends happened to be gay. He leaned over and whispered he was going to give me the best blowjob of my life. Because I was so drunk, we went to the bathroom together. I have to say it was a pretty good blowjob. "I thought I was straight. Now I'm not so sure." —21/Male/I don't even know anymore Melaniemaya / Getty Images 15. This impulsive hookup: "It was just a random hookup with a guy I met in town. It was purely just for fun and for a different experience. I don't really think much about it now. "It took me a while to tell anyone about it but now I'm quite open and comfortable with my sexuality." —25/Male/Married/Straight 16. This effective stress-relief strategy: "For me it happens spontaneously when stressed. I go through most of my life not even considering gay sex, then I get some kind of stress, usually work-related. Next thing I know I'm literally bumping into guys cruising for sex and I'm almost on gay autopilot. Afterwards I usually feel less stressed but guilty as well." —32/Male/Straight 17. This visit to a gay spa: "I've never been attracted to men, but I was curious for a long time about what it'd be like to play with another person's cock. Eventually I ended up visiting a gay spa and sucking off some random guy through a gloryhole. "I think my strongest memories were of being surprised at how warm his cock was and how strongly I could feel his pulse through it. I also had variations of 'I can't believe I'm doing this' running through my head for most of the time, but that just made it better in a strange way. "Basically, it was a fun experience. It didn't teach me anything about my sexuality that I didn't already know, but it certainly satisfied my curiosity." —27/Male/Straight Jasam_io / Getty Images 18. This party dare that turned into oral sex: "I hook up with girls, mostly. I'm straight and proud, just a little curious...but then again, isn't everyone? "It happened two years ago, at the cliché setting of a frat party. Half drunk, half sober, and fully turned on. I'd known the guy since sophomore year of high school, and didn't think much if it at the time. A dumb kiss and a little grinding, just guys having fun and occupying another while bored. My (now ex) girlfriend had ditched me, and I was left with him and a few friends. It wasn't my first party, but I felt as if it was. I spent most of the night eating candy from the snack table, and drinking an odd mix of three different liquors. We were close, used to one another, and we wanted to get rid of our boredom, so dancing together wasn't a big shit of a deal. A group of girls said we were hot together, so we kissed. And it actually affected me more than I thought it would. Before I knew it we were going down on each other in my poor pal's room. I regret messing up the bedroom, not having sex. "I never regret sex. And hey, he got me off right?" —22/Male/Straight 19. This post-shower naked hangout that led to other things: "My best friend lived with me for a time when we were 14. We shared a room and one day he got out of the shower and walked around the room totally naked and didn't seem to think it was awkward. Later that night when I took a shower I did the same thing. We were both pretty fit for 14 year olds since we both swam competitively. At that point I really realized I was attracted to guys. That night we fooled around and made out and eventually more. I've hooked up with a few guys in between relationships — even friends — since then, but entirely for sex." —20/Male 20. And this super sexy serenade that led to a series of hookups: "Four years ago, my best friend and I were hanging in my house and playing Borderlands. I had recently read online about the 'I have a CRUSH on you' achievement, and thought it would be easy enough to do. When I asked him to help me with it, he turned a vibrant shade of red. After teasing him a little, I asked him if something was wrong. He then not only came out to me, but confessed that he had a crush on me. I was a little shocked, but I told him, 'Wow. One: I should have known, considering you have the entire musical Wickedmemorized. Two: You really have poor taste in men.' "He playfully pushed me over and straddled me, saying 'While both are true, remember I'm the same guy; I can still kick your scrawny ass.' We laughed, until I realized we were making dick-to-dick contact through our athletic shorts. I got hard, he got hard, we both got hella embarrassed. He took a deep breath, leaned in and started singing a song I now know as 'Dead Girl Walking.' When I tried to squirm away he leaned in and kissed me. "After the kiss, and once he got to a particular line, 'I've decided I must ride you till I break you,' I realized how sexual the situation could be. I sat up, realized that it could be fun, and said 'Fuck it,' and we went at it. Let's just say he meant what he sang. We messed around occasionally until we graduated, and then went our separate ways. I sometimes wish I still could — he was honestly better in bed in every way than my current girlfriend." —19/Heteroflexible To experimentation/heteroflexibility! Peopleimages / Getty Images Responses edited for length and clarity.
  9. You must have had your ass licked until you shiok, then he tells you that he putting his cock outside your asshole and slide in and out until it goes in and you still feel shiok. You just need to disengage your brain and your hole and just enjoy the ride and the good feeling of your hole, can already. Hehehe. You are not straight lah. You want to organise mass orgy for guys, how can you be str8?
  10. I sense that you are/were a cocky, arrogant prick who gets many bottom coming at you for years. From a psychological view point. I believe you were mistreated / rejected when you were younger, which toughen you, which made you who you are today. You might had met someone you really like and decided to try being a bottom to him and it clashed with the values you hold now. You realised that you enjoyed it and now you are confused. Top or bottom is just a sexual choice one chooses. Without someone wanting to be a bottom for you, you can't be a top. You need a bottom as much as the bottom needs you. Sex is between you and you partner, working towards achieving the highest climax, regardless who is bottom or top. Your pride has nothing to do with the sex. That is your ego talking. You left your ego at the door and you realised that you had enjoyed that 1st session being a bottom. I am sure, if you leave your ego at the door every time you have sex with others, you will realised that you don't have to keep having to be in control all the time and just relax and let others take control for a change and sex would be a more enjoyable experience and not a stressful experience trying to perform to a certain KPI or routine. Whether you are still a top or bottom only you and those you are having sex with will know. But you are certainly not pure top now. Manly or not, that will have to depend on what others sees you as. Not for you to say. You can say you are manly but others might think you are a macho Mary. If you are going to be so anal about your pride and your manliness, you really need a good fuck to your ass to loosen it up. You better thank that person who managed to help fucked some sense into you. Pun intended.
  11. 你的理想情人加分題篇 看圖片太無趣對不對?這次文青講給你聽~ 完整影片網址: 好想知道你的100分會給怎樣的人!你的理想情人加分題篇~ 這次還特地拍了影片處女秀來講解唷(因為選項太多) 第一次自導自演自拍攝自剪接自尻自己上字幕(? 希望大家會喜歡~~留下你的意見跟我分享吧! 快來看看你是不是大家喜歡的熱門人選唷 #如果把趴數就當成分數你能拿到幾分呢?
  12. Gay father’s adoption case shows limitations of S’pore’s legislation By LEOW YANGFA, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR, OOGACHAGA I refer to the article “Gay Singaporean doctor to appeal failed adoption of his biological son” (Jan 5). The family as a basic building block of society is an important social value readily accepted by most Singaporeans. As a registered social worker in an agency working with many lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, queer and gender-diverse (LGBTQ+) individuals, couples and families, it is something we see many of our clients cherish greatly, too. International research informs us that outcomes for children raised by same-sex parents are no different from their peers in other families. Studies also reveal that a deciding factor impacting a child’s overall well-being is the stability of the family unit. In this case, as a result of the court’s ruling, the child and one of the parents now have differing nationalities, which can only lead to potential challenges for the family unit in future as the child grows older. How this is still “in the best interest of the child” is unclear. What this case reveals are the limitations that our current legislation faces in handling the realities of diverse, modern families in a developed country like Singapore. Love and relationships may define a family, yet legal recognition from the State accords certain rights and protections. As our society continues to evolve into a more inclusive one, we appear to be deliberately leaving some behind, to the extent of excluding them. Even as we love, accept and understand our own families, perhaps we can consider extending such empathy to other families, too. What is it like for us, as a nation, to deny a Singaporean parent the same citizenship rights for his biological child? Similarly, as the rest of the world moves ahead in these changing times, can Singapore afford to be left behind?
  13. Some bottoms can be very obvious while some are much harder to spot. The easier to spot bottoms are those whom had accepted themselves as bottom and don't mind other gays knows they are bottom. Then, there are those who don't like people to know they are bottom or whom are not so obvious to spot as bottom. In the sauna, if you want to know who is bottom, there are few signs to look out for. From outer appearance 1. some bottom will try to snare you by wearing their towel very low, showing their butt crack 2. some will walk in a feminine way or will try to act sexy 3. for those not so obvious, see if they carry condom or lube or little bottles in their hands. Lube & small bottles means they are bottom. condoms, likely top. most bottom prefers the top to carry condoms. From touching 1. bottoms will touch your cock to see if you have a big or small cock. some will want to suck you and see how big your cock will grow, if it passed their size test, they will offer themselves to be fucked. 2. when you stroke/touch the butt of a bottom, they will know that you want to fuck them. A top will move your hand away from their butt. 3. Flex will be harder to spot because some will depends of how much they like you before they let you fuck them, or when they enjoys the foreplay with you, Maybe then, they will let you top them. 4. In some rare cases, some top who feels that you are a better top then them and they want to try it for themselves to be bottom, they might let you top them. The universe must be in the right alignment of the Heaven, Earth and human before a top lets you fuck them. They are called the closet bottom because they will tell you that they are top and don't get fucked, and they will also tell you that no one knows they bottom to the right person and will ask you not to tell others that they bottom for you. The above explanation may sound complicated, it is, because humans are very complex and gays are even more complicated when it comes to sex.
  14. Lightening the load: Thai men gripped by penis-whitening trend James Rothwell 5 JANUARY 2018 • 5:35PM Thailand's public health ministry has issued a warning over a new and bizarre trend of penis whitening, which has been linked to the country's assocation of paleness with success. Skin whitening is popular across south east asia as darker skin is associated with outdoor labour and being poorer, with a wide range of bleaching products on the market. In Thailand the phallic fad has unexpectedly extended to men who believe a paler penis and groin area looks more attractive. But health officials have urged people to rethink undergoing the procedure, which can lead to scarring, inflammation and "nasty looking spots." "Penis laser whitening is not necessary, wastes money and may give more negative effects than positive ones," the health ministry's Dr Thongchai Keeratihuttayakorn said in a statement. The warning was issued after video footage of a clinic carrying out the unusual procedure went viral online. Internet users were shocked and amused in equal measure by the video, which has been shared more than 19,000 times, with one of them commenting under the clip: "It can be used as a torch light. Let it shine!" A spokesman for the clinic told the BBC that the procedure, which breaks down melanin in the skin using lasers, cost around $480 for five sessions. "Patients started to ask about penis whitening, and so we started the treatment a month later," said Popol Tansakul, the marketing manager of Lelux Hospital. "They are popular among gay men and transvestites who take good care of their private parts. They want to look good in all areas." Around 100 men visit Lelux Hospital each month for the procesure, Mr Popol added. "I wanted to feel more confident in my swimming briefs," one patient who had his penis whitened told the BBC's Thai service. Skin bleaching is controversial in Thailand and has been linked to racism, with one cosmetics firm withdrawing an advert which linked success with fairer skin. "In my world there is tough competition. If I don't take care of myself, everything I have built, the whiteness I have invested in, could be gone," Thai actress Cris Horwang said in the advert. Her skin then turns black and another, paler woman walks into view of the camera, at which point the actress says: "If I were white, I would win." Seoul Secret withdrew the advert quickly and issued an apology, saying they only wished to promote self-improvement of "personality, appearance, skills, and professionalism."