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I have been thinking for quite some time now that we have Singapore's Gay Missed Connection. Why not we make a Malaysia Edition for Malaysian gays?

Time Should I waste my time on you who i can't control Should i waste my time on things that is of my beyond Can't we see the time that went tick tock Is this the right time or is it not? They say time flows like a stream To a land where there are many dreams But you told me you did like to be a place full of surprises and supremes There are no other choices but this is the way its seems. I do not know what to say The world is so full of grey You say I am imperfect and this I know Yet I still think you are gold I may be kind and silly but it’s not fine. Your avoidant ways clearly shows through time Time will reveal who you are And you can really be a pain in the arse Letting you go should keep you afar As there is nothing left to be my fuss Finally I can get on my path. E.T. 13.01.2019

I am finding so difficult to approach a Bangla or Indian workers for a quick bj for their big cocks. Can you guys share tips...... I could not find any latest forums on this.

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Seeking for decent, str acting top for buddy and truelove. Some one who can make me laugh and support my dreams. 43, local chi, 181, 94 here. If you would like to know me ,telegram me pls. @True079

Well, lets discuss where do the gay always cruising in Tanjong Malim. Hope this forum will help you to meet your luck.

Well title is as direct as it can be. Fellas what would you do, that poor girl just being a cuck like that would you expose him or nah? Thoughts?

Ok 1st off,yes I'm the same guy who complained abt liking the guy I share the suite with in NUS. Apologies to the moderators for posting his photo. It's a dick move I know. Tbh I just had to get it off my chest.. just like how I got off my load a few hrs ago cause I think if not I'll just implode or sth. After posting ytd,I couldn't take it anymore. I had to see my suite mate in action with his gf. I told him that I was going home cause I was not feeling well. I faked my absence from the suite so that hopefully they'd have less inhibitions to do naughty stuff in the common area. You know what? Sth even better happened. I somehow managed to have a fairly good view of the inside of his bedroom (don't ask me how.. that's gonna take another post). Tbh I think last night is gonna be the only chance I had. I knew they liked to have sex on Tuesday nights cause both didn't have lessons on Wed mornings. So yea,I waited out. So fucking worth the wait. At 1st they came in just as normal. They were talking abt some drama back in her own hall I think. Soon enough though,they started making out. I was already getting a hard on then. Then the magic happened. He took his shirt off. Those who didn't read my previous post which got locked,he's a very athletic guy so his muscles are really ripped - solid pecs and freaking 8 pack abs. He was already slightly sweaty,which made it all the hotter. She obviously loved it lah. Her hands were all over his pecs & abs,& the best thing was just how each pack flexed under her touch. He flexed for her somemore,so his muscles looked even more ripped. Fuck... I almost came watching that but I knew we hadn't even got to the best part. It's quite clear they loved foreplay. I won't go into how he foreplayed with her breasts & pussy of course. But whoa.. his gf sure knows how to appreciate a good body. There was this 1 pt he just put his hands beneath his head & watch as she slowly kissed & licked her way from his face to his dick. Think she mumbled sth abt how she can nvr get tired of his abs or sth.. (yea of course you wouldn't.. biatch..) She was licking & sucking on his slightly pointy nips. Then when it came to the 8 pack,she really took her time. She kissed every individual pack softly,& licked the lines in between (his abs cuts are quite defined). I could make out some saliva in between his abs. & of course,his dick. It's abt 7 inches? I rmb her licking it up & sucking it for a while. He was so fucking hard,as was I by then. Then came the main course. I thought that since they were so active,their sex would be wild & fast. No sia. They were really tender with each other. I'd never seen that side of him & it made me so jealous of his gf. They did missionary & her on top of him. There was this 1 pt when she was on top of him,she got his dick out of her pussy & started rubbing her pussy on his 8 pack for a while. SO FUCKING HOT OMG... & to watch his 7 inch dick go in & out of her pussy,whoa.. that's a sight I don't think I'd ever exchange for anything in the world. He was so sweet too. Kept asking her if she's ok & whether he should go faster or slower. All this while,his pecs & 8 pack were flexing & contracting & getting so sweaty.. He went really deep inside her,like all the way in. Bitch was moaning so hornily (I don't blame her), telling him to hit some spot (I think what.. G spot?) & he was grunting in his sexy low tone... They fucked for abt half an hr I think. & when he came,he discharged everything inside her (they didn't use condom). So hot looking at him with such an intense expression & he was actually still pumping into her as he came. When they were done,they cuddled up,& the bitch was sniffing his armpit at 1 pt.. I came already by then,but it almost made me hard again to see her still enjoying his body even after climax. No wonder she'd want to have sex with him almost everyday lah. Dude's ripped af but so sweet & tender on the bed. Couldn't sleep the whole night after that. Don't know how I'm gonna face him later without a horny smirk on my face. He'll probably get up to make breakfast for the both of them. Haiz... Just had to share this cause if I keep it inside I'll surely die from horniness. If you think this is fake (which some of you are gonna think),haha good for you. But better for me who actually got to watch the show. But now I think I'm liking him even more.. Don't regret the spying but I think if I stay with him any longer,I might end up molesting him in sleep or sth.. Ok just kidding. I know my limits...

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很难说得上是幸福还是不幸福。一如异性婚姻，也不知能一齐走完人生路的能有几个？可以肯定的，已婚而有白头偕老的居多，因为有法律保障，也有子女牵制。但我偏偏还是对上了一个已婚的好男人。怎么办？

This is a collective plea from all of us here at BW for you readers to share your sexual experiences. Come on don't be shy! I am sure everyone has some unique experiences to share. Do not worry about writing in broken english. It in fact provides a distinctive flavour to the post. Since we have allowed posting to be made anonymously (you do not need to be a registered member to post), your identity will not be exposed. I am attaching an example of a great post written in somewhat working class singlish. Up to today, I get hard reading it. I am sure many of you guys have similar stories to tell. Kindly share. ==================================================================== SteamedFish Unregistered User (4/8/04 7:23 am) FishingMan Last weekend I was drinking with friends at the NTUC Club. When we said goodbye, I thought I'll go to the nearby seaside to get some fresh air. There are some lovers and 2 men fishing. I walked to the far side to sit near the man to see how was his luck. The lights were quite dim but I can see him. Quite a stout chap with a handsome fair face about 30+. After a while, he got up, unzipped and peed into the sea. Hehe, I of course looked at his cock. Nice. He saw me that. He sat down and carried on his fishing. I asked him got any fish. He said no but got cheekopek. I know he was referring to me. But I was thick-skinned. I said we all men why say until like that? See also no harm right. He said don't know why ah quas like to peep at him. Happened so many time already. I said he's handsome, that's why. He say he old cock liao and got 2 children already. So I say he got man flavor. He said I got very sweet mouth. Is it I want to makan him. I say I dare not, wait he beat me up. He said don't bluff, last time that kelong owner also behaved like me. Seems like he's got naughty story so I asked him to tell me. He said last time he fishing at Changi, got one man saw him and told him he got kelong and he can fish there many fish. Since he said it's free, so he went because the kelong's nearby. When they got on the kelong, there were 2 workers there. The owner told them to go mainland to do something so they left. While he's fishing, he caught many fishes. The owner took a big pail to put in the fishes. But one time, he accidentally spill water on him. The owner said sorry and told him to wash with the clean pail of water. He said here nobody so can just wash naked nobody see also. So he got naked and washed. Then the owner also strip naked and his cock was hard already. He said he also want to wash. So they washed. Then the owner washed his back for him. Then told him to relax while he massage his back. He put a big canvas cloth on the floor and told him to lie down. He told the owner he's not gay. The owner said never mind, only help him relax. The owner massaged until his cock stand also. Quite nice. Then he asked him want to release fire or not? He said no. But the owner already shaking his cock until he cums. The owner also masturbated till he cummed. I said his story made me steamed. He said he also steamed. He asked me whether I got let people play backside. I said very seldom. He said he want to fxxk my backside. I said cannot, here so dangerous. He said I am so hamsup, he want to fxxk me also think twice. Wait he changed his mind then it's too late. So I said go someplace can or not? He said can if not far away. So he kept his fishing line and carried his big bag. We walked to Marina South and saw a big lorry park that's quite dim. There's one big lorry so we climbed on. He lay his canvas on the floor and we striped naked. He asked why I not shy to let men fxxk. I said not always but must be handsome like him then I willing. If not, then I don't want also. He laughed, like that he can fxxk any men if he want. I asked he got condom or not. He said no. He say how? I said if not then we just shake out. He said cannot that means he not handsome enough is it? I said no condom dangerous. He said I clean backide or not? I said should be, I washed before going out. He said he got plenty of water. He said he has an idea. He took out a plastic bag and inside was a big sandwich wrapped in lots of cellophane. He carefully removed the cellophane and put the sandwich back into the plastic bag. He wrapped the cellophane a few times round his cock and tie round his balls. I touched it and it felt quite strong with the few layers. He said I am like a wolf. But then no lube. Again he opened the sandwich bag and took out the small piece of wrapped butter. Wah lan eh, he said this time it is like people said I "bua" butter on my backside and kan karchng. I must say he's quite a good fxxker with all the right moves. I got my legs on his shoulders and told him he's good. He smiled and pumped me slow and fast. First I cummed then he after. We used his water to wipe clean and put on our clothes. He said it was fun. I said next time we better go hotel. ======================================================================

10 SIGNS THAT A GUY WANTS YOU JUST FOR SEX by NATALIE | Nov 16, 2006 | Emotional Unavailability | 16 comment 1. He tells you. There are a whole lotta lines that guys trot out that equal “I’m just in it for the sex” or that they don’t want a relationship. And a lot of the time, we’ll ignore this because we don’t want to see him or ourselves in this way. When they say that just want to have “fun’ and aren’t looking for a relationship, or they make noises about “going with the flow” and not getting any ideas about a relationship, they’re saying that it’s just about sex (or whatever else they’re getting). What it isn’t about is a relationship. Instead of rationalising and hoping that he will change his mind after the event, don’t and move on. 2. He is sexual towards you. Be wary of guys who steer the conversation down the sexual route very quickly. This is Fast Forwarding, and it’s often ignored and mistaken for a strong attraction and connection. It’s that “He just can’t help himself because he’s so into me” syndrome. Intensity isn’t the same as intimacy. He’s not into you; he’s into the idea of shagging you. Making a lot of sexual innuendos? Steering the conversation onto sex? Staring meaningfully at your breasts and crotch? Yep, it’s highly likely that he’s got one thing on his mind and it’s not getting to know you; it’s getting into your knickers. If you haven’t met him yet, but there’s already sexual talk or even requests for nude photos or sexting, flush. 3. He tries to do more than a kiss on the first date. No matter how great the sparks are between you both, generally speaking, guys that really do like you can keep their penis in their pants and their hands above board for at least one evening… And that’s not because having sex on the first date is “wrong” (it isn’t). It’s about intentions and recognising your discomfort. If you’re wondering if it’s just about sex, odds are that you can stand to wait more than one date to sleep together. 4. He suggests that you become f*ck buddies, Friends With Benefits, casual-something-or-other. It’s not because he’s not ready for a relationship yet; it’s because he just wants to have sex and is emotionally unavailable too. That’s two not so great qualities for the price of…well…your sanity! His mind is on sex and enjoying the fringe benefits of a relationship without the responsibility and commitment of one. 5. He expects something in return for taking you out to dinner and paying for the meal. Some guys think: paid for date = getting laid tonight. They are the worst. Their sense of entitlement means that they treat women like prostitutes. They’re likely to act all wounded if you don’t invite them back or express discomfort at their advances. This type of mentality doesn’t bode well for a relationship, never mind a date! 6. He doesn’t want to try to get to know you. A guy doesn’t need to know what colour knickers you’re wearing in order to get to know you. You’ll also find that a lot of the conversation is surface and that it tends to serve the greater purpose of making you feel comfortable enough… to have sex. 7. He seems to call only when it’s 1) dark, 2) late and 3) to arrange when to have sex. It’s amazing how this can creep up on you. Step back and consider when they call and how much the relationship has progressed (relationships based around sex don’t). Suddenly it will become clear that they’re using you. 8. Your ‘relationship’ hasn’t progressed past buying you drinks/dinner and ending up in bed. It’s a permanent date (or “pop-up romance). Despite what seemed like initial promise, the relationship has faltered or come to a halt because the focal point is the sex. The only thing he’s interested in building on is his hard-on. If you try to do coupley things, he’s likely to be very uncomfortable or will go along with things but create conflict, so he’s effectively sabotaging any chance of progress. Remember that with this type of guy, every time they think you may want, need, or expect too much, they’ll do something crappy. 9. He doesn’t want to do anything that involves talking to each other properly unless it leads to sex. Try having a conversation with him that reeks of two people in a relationship and note his patent discomfort. 10. Once the sex is over, he makes a hasty exit. While some will stick around and dignify you with a cuddle, many don’t like to stay the night lest you think things are getting serious. The ones that do stay over and hang around are astute enough to play the game to avoid creating conflict, but that doesn’t change the fact that they just want sex. A rule of thumb is that if you feel as if you’re being used, it’s because you are. And if it feels like it’s all about the sex or sex seems to dominate or you have to be reassured that it’s not just about the sex, it’s because it’s all about the sex!

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Hi all, I seek connection with any matured above 40s / Tall lean Chinese top. Hopefully you're discreet and decent looking. I'm 42, local Chinese. 181..90kg. PM me.

Hi, folks . When is your first ' blowjob' ? And where ?

what are your views with sex with colleagues? I got friends who are VERY scared of bumping into colleagues when cruising. I understand if they are toilet cruising but what if you are in a gay spa? What is there to be afraid of? If they are there, they are also gay? If so, will you have sex with them?

Hi , I'm in early 40. Tall Decent looking chn. Consider myself good-natured soft spoken person. Hope to form discreet relationship/ friendship, with straight act and manly individuals. Look for someone whom can feel comfortable with and that can have deep intellectual conversation with. I may not be good at talking but i can be a good listener to You. PM for more if u r in 40 and 50s . I'm single fyi 🤠

If two guys are in a serious LTR, how often do you think it’s normal for them to meet up? Once a week? Fortnight? Monthly? Every other day? Is it possible to be too frequent or too infrequent? How much time does an average couple spend together? Is it common for gay partners in Sg to move in together? For those in LTR, care to share about your own experience of how much time you spend with your BF/partner?

“但爱像泡沫 如果能够看破 有什么难过” 走过 笑过 甜过 爱过 背叛 原谅 背叛 再原谅 背叛 再原谅 因为我没真正爱过我自己 气过 恨过 难过 放过 因为我没有想象的那么可怜 没有爱 我还是我爱的我 at 19, I met my first bf. then I went into the army and we parted at 24, I met my second bf. then after 23 years, we broke up had I knew that all will end as such, I would not have invested everything now I invest nothing time is short and precious, I'll move bolder and live happier love is now for the young and idealistic p.s. At my younger days, Thanks to @DMassage I've gotten some really good advice which is still very useful today 😃

Lately, it seems that the more I make up my mind to live a Life that makes sense to me, the more I must isolate myself from certain shared activities. And these decisions sometimes hurt and I ask myself am I being selfish? I sometimes feel obligated participating in what is ment to be leisure, and I find myself getting increasingly angry and resentful. What's going on here? I enjoy it when I make time for some solitary recreation, yet I fear being seen as unobliging or even stuck-up when I place my own needs foremost. Why? I admit that I used to enjoy being needed - but lately I am finding it a pain, and I even rationalize away calls for help. Am I so uncharitable? Perhaps it is the innate call to start focusing on what I want to have and experience in my own Life - I'm afterall turning 30 soon. Is this is simply the inexorable pull of Life calling? I do not know... All I know is lately I keep asking myself when am I going to stop talking about doing it and start doing it? Or maybe I am just overloaded and need more than ever to get away from it all...

To be frank, I seldom see gay couples at the city area during weekends.

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