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I've never tried a real 3some other than some little play during outdoor cruising last time. 

 

I have a bf now for a few years. And we love each other. But I was wondering if it'll be interesting for sex life if we can find a guy to join us for 3some? The problem I have is both of us have totally different taste. I like boys that looks like him (twinks), and he likes guys that looks like me (slightly more muscular). 

 

Also, we have been on an exclusive relationship. Means we don't encourage each other to have fun outside. So I don't know how to even ask him. 

 

Anyone with similar experience can share? Will it help to build the relationship? Spice up sex life? Or does it make it worse? 

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19 minutes ago, Guest Hornyboy said:

I've never tried a real 3some other than some little play during outdoor cruising last time. 

 

I have a bf now for a few years. And we love each other. But I was wondering if it'll be interesting for sex life if we can find a guy to join us for 3some? The problem I have is both of us have totally different taste. I like boys that looks like him (twinks), and he likes guys that looks like me (slightly more muscular). 

 

Also, we have been on an exclusive relationship. Means we don't encourage each other to have fun outside. So I don't know how to even ask him. 

 

Anyone with similar experience can share? Will it help to build the relationship? Spice up sex life? Or does it make it worse? 

It can reallly go both ways :S 

 

depends on whether both of you are secure enough with each other and how you guys react to the person. 

 

I got so many stories on this lol. I will fill this in later haha

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20 minutes ago, Peterjty said:

It can reallly go both ways :S 

 

depends on whether both of you are secure enough with each other and how you guys react to the person. 

 

I got so many stories on this lol. I will fill this in later haha

 

Cant wait to hear those real life complication stories.

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For my bf and I, we are mostly exclusive, and we have an agreement to always play together. While we never planned to go into a 3way, it just happened organically where one thing led to another. The key is it is a conversation you both need to have prior to inviting someone into your sex life. You need to know what are your comfort and his comfort zones. I.e. no contact information, no kissing in the mouth etc. You both need to figure it out. Once you had that discussion, don't obsessed over planning it to make it happen. Let situations flow you both into it. 

Love. 

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Pardon me, you are really a BS. The truth is you want to have fun other than your so call exclusive partner. Making up all this kind of excuses for yourself to justify your reason to satisfy your lust. if I am your partner I will leave you, period.

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On 1/29/2019 at 10:42 AM, Peterjty said:

It can reallly go both ways :S 

 

depends on whether both of you are secure enough with each other and how you guys react to the person. 

 

I got so many stories on this lol. I will fill this in later haha

 

You have had such experience? 

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On 1/29/2019 at 11:50 AM, Guest FBS said:

Pardon me, you are really a BS. The truth is you want to have fun other than your so call exclusive partner. Making up all this kind of excuses for yourself to justify your reason to satisfy your lust. if I am your partner I will leave you, period.

 

If you leave him for that,  he will be fortunate having got rid of you.

How can you criticize someone for wanting to have fun?  Life doesn't offer too many opportunities for fun,  and sex is one of them.

If you are a loving partner, you will like for him to enjoy himself. With you or with someone else, where is that huge difference?

What is important is that he loves you, and if you accept his needs for fun, he will love you even more.

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2 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

If you leave him for that,  he will be fortunate having got rid of you.

How can you criticize someone for wanting to have fun?  Life doesn't offer too many opportunities for fun,  and sex is one of them.

If you are a loving partner, you will like for him to enjoy himself. With you or with someone else, where is that huge difference?

What is important is that he loves you, and if you accept his needs for fun, he will love you even more.

Hi bro,

I think we should and can do what we like. But for forum post, we should be encouraging a more correct mentality and behavior, especially or the younger and confused.

He can be single if he cannot behave like a couple.:thumb:

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On 1/28/2019 at 8:21 PM, Guest Hornyboy said:

I've never tried a real 3some other than some little play during outdoor cruising last time. 

 

I have a bf now for a few years. And we love each other. But I was wondering if it'll be interesting for sex life if we can find a guy to join us for 3some? The problem I have is both of us have totally different taste. I like boys that looks like him (twinks), and he likes guys that looks like me (slightly more muscular). 

 

Also, we have been on an exclusive relationship. Means we don't encourage each other to have fun outside. So I don't know how to even ask him. 

 

Anyone with similar experience can share? Will it help to build the relationship? Spice up sex life? Or does it make it worse? 

 

The more you know about your bf, the better.  Sometimes the way to know is to ask.

He cannot get too upset if you ask because there is a basic reason:  to know.  This should calm him down.

 

He might not have dared to ask you this question.  And he may not be against it.  But consider that what you ask for can be a source of conflict, even if the two want to do it.

The way you two see each other reacting to the 3rd guy can  cause jealousy.  There is also a slight chance of catching new STDs.  And if you two don't equally like the guy, it will be only a one time experience, and the one who liked him will miss him. 

 

Have you thought about befriending a couple that has similar composition and tastes as you have, then getting together and swapping partners?   You with the other twink and your bf with the other hunk? 

 

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8 minutes ago, Garyl said:

Hi bro,

I think we should and can do what we like. But for forum post, we should be encouraging a more correct mentality and behavior, especially or the younger and confused.

He can be single if he cannot behave like a couple.:thumb:

 

You state that you are not looking for fun or anything. So you have a mentality different from others here.  What makes you think that yours is the correct mentality and that of others are not?  Your idea of the ideal behavior of a couple may coincide with that of a priest, a rabbi, an imam.  Once you have a little more experience you may realize that what defines and keeps a couple together is mutual love,  not necessarily strict monogamy.

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1 minute ago, Steve5380 said:

 

You state that you are not looking for fun or anything. So you have a mentality different from others here.  What makes you think that yours is the correct mentality and that of others are not?  Your idea of the ideal behavior of a couple may coincide with that of a priest, a rabbi, an imam.  Once you have a little more experience you may realize that what defines and keeps a couple together is mutual love,  not necessarily strict monogamy.

Ok, no comments since you think yours is the right mentality too. Its a "free country" .:thumb:

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I am fortunate to have a very understanding boyfriend. 

During the initial stage of our relationship, it was just the 2 of us. 

He asked if im ok with having a 3rd person. I wasnt comfortable with it. 

It is my 1st relationship and i thought it should only be the 2 of us and nobody else. 

 

 

He 1st start by us going to the sauna. He would let other guys touch me and told me that it is fine. Noting to be afraid of...

We would have sex there and once a while we have a 3rd person in. 

 

Sex is just sex. Once the session is over, its over. We still love each other. 

 

Our rules is that, we have to have sex with each other presence. And no exchanging of contacts with other guys.

 

He understand that we will eventually be sick and tired of each other. He know that i like a certain type of guys. We will venture out to find guys that we like and invite him or them to our sexual experience.

 

Only a couple of years ago, he admit that he like to see me get fucked by another man. 

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23 minutes ago, Guest 3somes said:

I am fortunate to have a very understanding boyfriend. 

During the initial stage of our relationship, it was just the 2 of us. 

He asked if im ok with having a 3rd person. I wasnt comfortable with it. 

It is my 1st relationship and i thought it should only be the 2 of us and nobody else. 

 

 

He 1st start by us going to the sauna. He would let other guys touch me and told me that it is fine. Noting to be afraid of...

We would have sex there and once a while we have a 3rd person in. 

 

Sex is just sex. Once the session is over, its over. We still love each other. 

 

Our rules is that, we have to have sex with each other presence. And no exchanging of contacts with other guys.

 

He understand that we will eventually be sick and tired of each other. He know that i like a certain type of guys. We will venture out to find guys that we like and invite him or them to our sexual experience.

 

Only a couple of years ago, he admit that he like to see me get fucked by another man. 

 

wonder which is worse, 

 

prostitute, 

 

gang rape victim,

 

Libertine swingers,

 

50 shades of Gay,

 

Like to watch partner being fucked by other men.

 

Rank please.

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1 hour ago, Guest tyer said:

 

wonder which is worse, 

 

prostitute, 

 

gang rape victim,

 

Libertine swingers,

 

50 shades of Gay,

 

Like to watch partner being fucked by other men.

 

Rank please.

 

The worst of the worst is to have the extremely closed mentality of thinking that all the items in your list should be ranked by "worst".

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10 hours ago, lonelyglobe said:

Mentality between gay and straight are really far apart....no straight husband will allow their wife to go and let other man fuck and likewise no wife will allow husband to go around fucking other women....

 

Mentalities in the 21st century are different from mentalities that belong to the 19th century.

There are so many couples, straight and gay,  who like to swing!  Here is some data on swingers from Wikipedia:

 

"Relationship quality[edit]

Research on swinging has been conducted in the United States since the late 1960s. One 2000 study, based on an Internet questionnaire addressed to visitors of swinger-related sites, found swingers are happier in their relationships than the norm.[1]

60% said that swinging improved their relationship; 1.7% said swinging made their relationship less happy. Approximately 50% of those who rated their relationship "very happy" before becoming swingers maintained their relationship had become happier. 90% of those with less happy relationships said swinging improved them. Almost 70% of swingers claimed no problem with jealousy; approximately 25% admitted "I have difficulty controlling jealousy when swinging" as "somewhat true", while 6% said this was "yes, very much" true. Swingers rate themselves happier ("very happy": 59% of swingers compared to 32% of non-swingers) and their lives more "exciting" (76% of swingers compared to 54% of non-swingers) than non-swingers, by significantly large margins. There was no significant difference between responses of men and women, although more males (70%) than females completed the survey. This study, which only polled self-identified swingers, is of limited use to a broader application to the rest of society (external validity) owing to self-selected sampling.[citation needed]

Some believe sexual attraction is part of human nature and should be openly enjoyed by a committed or married couple. Some swingers cite divorce data in the US, claiming the lack of quality of sex and spousal infidelity are significant factors in divorce. One study showed 37% of husbands and 29% of wives admit at least one extramarital affair (Reinisch, 1990), and divorce rates for first marriages approached 60%. "

 

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6 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

 

The worst of the worst is to have the extremely closed mentality of thinking that all the items in your list should be ranked by "worst".

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yeeeeeeeeeeeee........

 

define closed mentality please , how closed is closed , and how open is open,  

 

what is the yardstick you use to measure ? 

 

your dick size or the size of your opened mouth or the mice brain size.

 

Is it an objective measure ?

 Can u already see where your argument is already heading before I blast your arguments into outer space, 

 

be careful what you next say , because your argument is alreadyba sinking ship....toot ...toot ...toot  . Titanic hit Iceberg sinking , sinking, sinking.

 

I am ready to fire my salvo to sink your argument , are you ready to be sunk.

 

I am back........

 

The one who exposes Caucasian hypocrisy .....i have been lying low for a while .....my brains are revving to process and put holes in your arguments....

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3 hours ago, Guest tyer said:

 

define closed mentality please , how closed is closed , and how open is open,  

 

 

This is easy.  Your mentality closeness is here defined by the items in your list for selecting a "worst".

 

"Like to watch partner fucked by other men":   What's bad with this?   We are all entitled to our likes and dislikes.

"Libertine swingers":  What makes you qualified to judge the "libertine" of people?  Swinging can be moral.

"50 shades of gay":  What is "worse" in an erotic novel about gay life? Aren't there 100 shades of gay in a gay website like BW?

"prostitute":  You have no idea how wide this term applies.  A young girl marrying a rich and respectable old man could qualify.  And the two can be happy. 

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3 hours ago, Guest tyer said:

 

 Can u already see where your argument is already heading before I blast your arguments into outer space, 

....

I am ready to fire my salvo to sink your argument , are you ready to be sunk.

...

I am back........  The one who exposes Caucasian hypocrisy ....

 

I am ready to sink into laughter at any time.

Why you expose Caucasian hypocrisy and not hypocrisy in general?  You have something against Caucasians?

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14 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

 

Mentalities in the 21st century are different from mentalities that belong to the 19th century.

There are so many couples, straight and gay,  who like to swing!  Here is some data on swingers from Wikipedia:

 

"Relationship quality[edit]

Research on swinging has been conducted in the United States since the late 1960s. One 2000 study, based on an Internet questionnaire addressed to visitors of swinger-related sites, found swingers are happier in their relationships than the norm.[1]

60% said that swinging improved their relationship; 1.7% said swinging made their relationship less happy. Approximately 50% of those who rated their relationship "very happy" before becoming swingers maintained their relationship had become happier. 90% of those with less happy relationships said swinging improved them. Almost 70% of swingers claimed no problem with jealousy; approximately 25% admitted "I have difficulty controlling jealousy when swinging" as "somewhat true", while 6% said this was "yes, very much" true. Swingers rate themselves happier ("very happy": 59% of swingers compared to 32% of non-swingers) and their lives more "exciting" (76% of swingers compared to 54% of non-swingers) than non-swingers, by significantly large margins. There was no significant difference between responses of men and women, although more males (70%) than females completed the survey. This study, which only polled self-identified swingers, is of limited use to a broader application to the rest of society (external validity) owing to self-selected sampling.[citation needed]

Some believe sexual attraction is part of human nature and should be openly enjoyed by a committed or married couple. Some swingers cite divorce data in the US, claiming the lack of quality of sex and spousal infidelity are significant factors in divorce. One study showed 37% of husbands and 29% of wives admit at least one extramarital affair (Reinisch, 1990), and divorce rates for first marriages approached 60%. "

 

Not accurate as research is us and not sg or asian which are more conservative, thats why ashley madison was banned in this part of the world.

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4 hours ago, Guest Blank said:

My bf don't like to see me talking to another guy too closely. He even sit in between his friend and I during a drinking session lol

Such overly possessive bf is not a good thing as u wont be able to have a close friend in this case.

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seriously people.. if ur bf wanna cheat.. let him go.. 

 

if u wanna get laid, tell ur bf to dump u.

 

if not go get urself an escort, pay the money, have the deed done. no emotional baggae involved. business transaction done. easy.

 

go back to ur bf or allow ur bf to come back after, pretend to love each other, lives moves on. case close. 

 

can we have a  better intellectuual topic please..?

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On 2/5/2019 at 1:05 AM, Zackling said:

 

can we have a  better intellectuual topic please..?

 

If you cannot deal with the social, emotional and physical aspects of human relations in this conversation about "3some with bf",

how will you be able to handle other intellectual topics? 

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On ‎1‎/‎29‎/‎2019 at 10:42 AM, Peterjty said:

It can reallly go both ways :S 

 

depends on whether both of you are secure enough with each other and how you guys react to the person. 

 

I got so many stories on this lol. I will fill this in later haha

still waiting for u to fill this in hahahhaha

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Guest guest

 

 

JUST DO IT.

 

JUST DO IT.

 

JUST DO IT.

 

Buddha says one of the suffering afflicting humans is that we have this pseudo made up concept called Morality.

 

Can we touch morality, smell morality, eat morality . The answer is no.

 

All the answers above make an assumption that good morality, "correct " morality is necessarily good.

 

Not always so and not always applicable.

 

Morality is manmade.

 

orgasms are to be enjoyed.

 

The trouble with humans is we are fickle minded and can change at a drop of a hat.

 

You maybe tight assed now about having a threesome becos of " moral reasons", 

 

but one Supreme truth Buddha said is everything is impermanat and will change.

 

just go with the flow.

 

People who taken the plunge to throw morality aside are enjoying sex fully.

 

Sex is to be enjoyed . Morality is man made , then ascribed to a higher being dictating divine laws, man made also.

 

Dont let morality hold you back, refrain for logical reasons, like scared to catch STD , that is practical reason.

 

but morality , throw it in the rubbish bin. 

 

its all man made.

 

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On 2/2/2019 at 9:10 AM, Steve5380 said:

 

If you leave him for that,  he will be fortunate having got rid of you.

How can you criticize someone for wanting to have fun?  Life doesn't offer too many opportunities for fun,  and sex is one of them.

If you are a loving partner, you will like for him to enjoy himself. With you or with someone else, where is that huge difference?

What is important is that he loves you, and if you accept his needs for fun, he will love you even more.

 

For that.... that is the reason I have forgo 15 relationships and still remained single. I cannot share him with others. Sorry to say that.

 

Maybe this is the new trend of relationship, cause have countless of friends who are attached and playing outside but back home....loving as ever. Even nowadays....so common to see 2 guys going to saunas and looking for 3P.... they look like couples to me. 

 

Just one question, is it not awkward to see your other half so slutty-ly enjoying another cock of another guy in front of you?

I only believe one thing, Humans are humans if they can get something from someone that you cannot provide.... why still stick to you? Just like going shopping, if this shop cannot fulfill your order, then another shop have the stock that you wanna buy... will you still patronised that shop and get things that will not satisfy your need anymore? Unless you telling me you are one that is into brand loyalty... anything will do or if you are still to that shop because you have top-up funds in that shop so you cannot afford to forgo that fund to shop elsewhere. 

 

Judging from experiences, once they exchanged contact behind your back. Things will make a turn no matter what.

 

The only cases that I know is....when one of the couple rely financially on the other. No matter what goes behind the back or in front....the guy will still come back faithfully like a dog. Which i seem quite a lot of cases like that....but just that they are in denial of it and it all comes under the Sheet of Love. 

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1 hour ago, HydroNaut said:

Maybe this is the new trend of relationship, cause have countless of friends who are attached and playing outside but back home....loving as ever. Even nowadays....so common to see 2 guys going to saunas and looking for 3P.... they look like couples to me. 

 

Just one question, is it not awkward to see your other half so slutty-ly enjoying another cock of another guy in front of you?

I am wondering too, if its the trend or that I happened to realize other couples are doing that.

I was at a group fun session, supposedly 3 of us: the couple (A) and me. Then they gotten another couple (B) to join. Spoken to one half of couple (B), and he said is a very turn on for him to see his bf being F.....

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5 minutes ago, thorzguy said:

I am wondering too, if its the trend or that I happened to realize other couples are doing that.

I was at a group fun session, supposedly 3 of us: the couple (A) and me. Then they gotten another couple (B) to join. Spoken to one half of couple (B), and he said is a very turn on for him to see his bf being F.....

I also have this fantasy of going to a prostitute house together with a straight guy. And watching him fuck the girl or spray his semen on her body. And then my turn to fuck the girl. Very turn on. With the messy semen still on her body. And him watching me fucking. 

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6 minutes ago, thorzguy said:

I am wondering too, if its the trend or that I happened to realize other couples are doing that.

I was at a group fun session, supposedly 3 of us: the couple (A) and me. Then they gotten another couple (B) to join. Spoken to one half of couple (B), and he said is a very turn on for him to see his bf being F.....

 

Yes, sad but true....now it is a trend among the youngsters. 

It also happened to me before, I hooked up with a young guy in the sauna. He was a malaysian guy, he told me he was here with friends to celebrate his birthday.

While changing, he told me he is gonna stay over at the sauna overnight as he dun really hv a place to stay for the night. I offered my place to him as I am also staying alone. But he asked me whehter can he also asked his friend along who happened to go over from Malaysia and he is meeting also. 

 

Cut the story short, both of them stay over my place and I learnt from them over a drinking and Karaoke session at my place that they are couple. I can feel that they are looking for some action with me...but was rather and I actually asked them to hook someone online themself and have 3p instead. In the end, they managed to get 2 guys over and have it at different timing. But i must say it was quite a sight to see them in the act but I never really join in but just watched. Only in the morning, before they leave...they asked another btm guy over which is quite my type then I joined in a 4P.  Lol....

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4 hours ago, HydroNaut said:

It seem....couple like to see their other half being man-handled by another guy. 

Weird thinking which I cannot fathom but quite kinky and nice to watch though. 

Try a threesome first see if it suits you ?

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21 hours ago, HydroNaut said:

Only in the morning, before they leave...they asked another btm guy over which is quite my type then I joined in a 4P.  Lol....

Hahaha...

 

21 hours ago, HydroNaut said:

It seem....couple like to see their other half being man-handled by another guy. 

Weird thinking which I cannot fathom but quite kinky and nice to watch though. 

Is like watching "live porn" in front of you and I admit is rather kinky too.

 

Back to the topic heading - if the couple are really into 3some or more, then maybe is pure enjoyment to be with them. However, if one half of the couple were to get jealous....well, to each its own. So long they enjoy and don't get me involved into their argument.

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On 3/22/2019 at 9:53 PM, Kimochi said:

Try a threesome first see if it suits you ?

 

 I try the 4some liao lor.... :)

The way the slutty small boy hunger look.... quite a turn on actually. That is why i find porn satisfy my lust more....cause they have more facial/verbal expressions and while making out.

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On 3/23/2019 at 3:18 PM, thorzguy said:

Hahaha...

 

Is like watching "live porn" in front of you and I admit is rather kinky too.

 

Back to the topic heading - if the couple are really into 3some or more, then maybe is pure enjoyment to be with them. However, if one half of the couple were to get jealous....well, to each its own. So long they enjoy and don't get me involved into their argument.

 

Yeah...it is very kinky.

If a couple were to do that, they really have to be very accommodating and open to sharing... Like that Malaysian top bf whose i invited over. While we are having our rounds of drinks...he even told me, he know the present bf from his ex bf whose bought the current bf in as a regular 3some buddy. Even if the top bf (whole stay in KL) go out to find flings.... the btm bf (stay at JB) just have to know then he is ok to do what he want. 

 

But really cannot fathom....if the freedom to play outisde is so liberal, why you need to have a bf ? 

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2 hours ago, HydroNaut said:

 

Yeah...it is very kinky.

If a couple were to do that, they really have to be very accommodating and open to sharing... Like that Malaysian top bf whose i invited over. While we are having our rounds of drinks...he even told me, he know the present bf from his ex bf whose bought the current bf in as a regular 3some buddy. Even if the top bf (whole stay in KL) go out to find flings.... the btm bf (stay at JB) just have to know then he is ok to do what he want. 

 

But really cannot fathom....if the freedom to play outisde is so liberal, why you need to have a bf ? 

 

The Top's cock got grow barbs and hooks,  if he goes bare, you bottoms will be hooked for lifetime, 

 

if the Top fucks so well , that bottom can feel his power and strength, surr willing to be surrogate bf, just to feel the cock regularly without the need to be commited in an exclusive one to one .

 

its sometimes a Sophie  's Choice situation,  

 

choice 1, share it and get a good rogering  regularly

 

choice 2, insist on exclusivity and Top just dissppears into thin air , never to be felt internally again.

 

Most , would choose 1,

 

enjoy the pleasure while it lasts, a good Top will not come along anytime.

 

Such is the addiction to a good and powerful TOP.

 

got barbs growing on the cock.

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9 minutes ago, Guest guest said:

 

The Top's cock got grow barbs and hooks,  if he goes bare, you bottoms will be hooked for lifetime, 

 

if the Top fucks so well , that bottom can feel his power and strength, surr willing to be surrogate bf, just to feel the cock regularly without the need to be commited in an exclusive one to one .

 

its sometimes a Sophie  's Choice situation,  

 

choice 1, share it and get a good rogering  regularly

 

choice 2, insist on exclusivity and Top just dissppears into thin air , never to be felt internally again.

 

Most , would choose 1,

 

enjoy the pleasure while it lasts, a good Top will not come along anytime.

 

Such is the addiction to a good and powerful TOP.

 

got barbs growing on the cock.

 

Ouch! The way you put it... "Barbs", "hooks"....it seem like some Qing's Dynasty 10 Torture Trials (清末十大酷刑). So scary....

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8 hours ago, HydroNaut said:

 

Yeah...it is very kinky.

If a couple were to do that, they really have to be very accommodating and open to sharing... Like that Malaysian top bf whose i invited over. While we are having our rounds of drinks...he even told me, he know the present bf from his ex bf whose bought the current bf in as a regular 3some buddy. Even if the top bf (whole stay in KL) go out to find flings.... the btm bf (stay at JB) just have to know then he is ok to do what he want. 

 

But really cannot fathom....if the freedom to play outisde is so liberal, why you need to have a bf ? 

To some, having a bf doesn't equate being exclusive to each other (sex wise). It may also be a case of being bored and needed new excitement in the bedroom.

Someone told me - fun is just fun. Deep inside my heart, we still love each other very much. Seems like this couple is able to separate their lust for other's meat VS the love they have for each other. Well, maybe they are right. They are still happily together now, after 15 years. :)

 

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On 3/22/2019 at 8:12 PM, Guest End said:

Is this also a sign the end of the world is coming just like in the city of sodom n gomorrha.

 

Maybe scientists have it all wrong thinking that Global Warming comes from increased CO2.  Three-some may be the real cause!

 

On 3/22/2019 at 4:09 AM, thorzguy said:

I am wondering too, if its the trend or that I happened to realize other couples are doing that.

I was at a group fun session, supposedly 3 of us: the couple (A) and me. Then they gotten another couple (B) to join. Spoken to one half of couple (B), and he said is a very turn on for him to see his bf being F.....

 

For those who are not strictly monogamous,  maybe a good way to deal with it is to agree to have together sex with others. Go to gay saunas to have 3-some,  get together with other couples and swap partners, etc.  This can help the relationship to last, without "fidelity", "cheating", "jealousy" and other poisons, and maybe decades later the two partners will not mind if each one looks for sex on his own and then they share their experiences in good mood and harmony.  And maybe they help each other to get what they want!

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