Malabird Posted May 28, 2023 Report Share Posted May 28, 2023 (edited) On 5/28/2023 at 3:55 PM, Guest Guest said: Husband had relationship with male lover …. Is it considered cheating by law? 🤔 Any extramarital affair with male or female is immoral but it’s never under jurisdiction of law ~~ it can be used to file for divorce but doesn’t impact much on the maintenance fee, it is however be a factor to decide custody of children if any. Edited May 30, 2023 by Malabird Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted May 28, 2023 Report Share Posted May 28, 2023 4 hours ago, Malabird said: Any extramarital affair with male or female is immoral but it’s never under jurisdiction of law ( it can be used to file for divorce but doesn’t impact much on the maintenance fee, it is however be a factor to decide custody of children if any. Most countries departed from looking at an angle of guilt when it comes to divorce, so adultery doesn't matter but only the fact that couples can't reconcile and prefer to part. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gregzeters Posted May 29, 2023 Report Share Posted May 29, 2023 On 5/26/2023 at 6:15 PM, Malabird said: True. two wrongs don’t make anyone or either one right My silly friend married a temperamentally volatile and insecure woman, she continued meeting with her ex bf whenever he returned for term breaks from UK study. She refused virginal sex with her hubby for three years. With the marriage snagged, my friend accepted a two years oversea assignment to Korea where he got to know a Korean gf, she was great and he enjoyed her cooking esp ginseng chicken, he was next posted to Taipei, had a Taiwan gf, in a rare occasion when the Taiwanese girl was away on biz travel for two weeks, my friend was seduced by the gf’s brother and since then they did fun regularly at her back. During these four years back in sg, the wife’s ex BF returned from his UK law study, she told her ex bf that she was ready to divorce her hubby (she kept her virginity from her hubby for seven years, only for the ex bf, a ‘very faithful’ mind in this distorted extramarital affair!), they had sex but only to be told by the ex bf that he has already married with a girl while in UK, he ditched her mercilessly. In despair she hooked up with her lecturer in the private school of her external degree study, then nudged him to divorce his wife. He agreed but conned her into some scams / investment which went default, a hefty sum of S$300k (in year 2002). That ended up in a big mess in court. The lesson is that wrong plants can’t survive in wrong soil especially if there were many plant pests and parasites around. It is very dramatic indeed and the story can easily make into a 300 episodes of Taiwanese tv drama series. the court mess do not involve ur friend at all right? After all, its all about the wife. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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