Guest Help Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 Hi guys, I been dating this guy for 4 months now. We are very happy together, this is one of the longest relationship I ever had. He is always flying around due to job as a pilot, and whenever he is not around, my hormones tend to be even more active. I tried to settle it by myself, but sometimes I can’t help to check other hot guys out. Recently I got very bored, and decided to make more friends from this circle. I even indicated in the description that I’m just here for friends. There is this new guy who is quite good looking and fit looking, asking me if I wanna bang. The temptation is there but I rejected him. So how do I carry on this? The temptation and the desire of having fun with other people is high but I’m trying my best to control it. I’m afraid one day I might end up cheating on him(bf). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Beginning Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 There you have it! As already self predicted. " .. one day .. end up cheating on him" If you are already not in self control and nothing stopping you from wanting to "make more friends from this circle" plus he-is-always-flying-around = your increasing boredom, what better thing can you suggest yourself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest justdoit Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 just do it it's a rare opportunity to play with hot guy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest yes, do it Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 2 hours ago, Guest Help said: Hi guys, I been dating this guy for 4 months now. We are very happy together, this is one of the longest relationship I ever had. He is always flying around due to job as a pilot, and whenever he is not around, my hormones tend to be even more active. I tried to settle it by myself, but sometimes I can’t help to check other hot guys out. Recently I got very bored, and decided to make more friends from this circle. I even indicated in the description that I’m just here for friends. There is this new guy who is quite good looking and fit looking, asking me if I wanna bang. The temptation is there but I rejected him. So how do I carry on this? The temptation and the desire of having fun with other people is high but I’m trying my best to control it. I’m afraid one day I might end up cheating on him(bf). 1. 4 months already too long 2. happy now and you can be happier 3. already experienced longest relationship 4. it is his fault to work as pilot and not accompany you 24/7 5. not healthy to suppress your active hormones 6. you already tried to settle it yourself 7. not your fault that there are always hot guys out there 8. boredom can kill 9. yes, large quantity of friends is better than 1 pilot bf 10. friends can also be F friends 11. you rejected to get bang so that when the bang happen, there will be no guilt - good thought! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wtf no Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 Wtf no. Please do not listen to all the people up there. I guess the question to ask yourself is how much you value the relationship. If your rs w your pilot bf is not serious, then yes go ahead cos it seems like you do not even have the end in mind. But you posting this thread seems to suggest that you do not want to cheat and that you care about the rs, then just learn to control. Your hormones getting more active might have to do with the thrill of cheating? Idk whether it makes sense. Basically doing smthg risky and feeling the high. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest justdoit Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 what makes u think ur pilot bf don't cheat especially he has the luxury to have fun with gays around the world and inviting them to his hotel room don't be gullible. It's so much more tempting to eat outside without u knowing at all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tyan Posted April 5, 2023 Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 On 9/2/2019 at 10:34 PM, Guest justdoit said: what makes u think ur pilot bf don't cheat especially he has the luxury to have fun with gays around the world and inviting them to his hotel room don't be gullible. It's so much more tempting to eat outside without u knowing at all Agreed. Many cabin crew & pilot cheat oversea. Cos at foreign land, lots of them ons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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