Guest What's your advice Posted September 20, 2019 Report Share Posted September 20, 2019 So I met a guy just over a week ago and we have been on a few dates and we like each other and I am thinking he mi be boyfriend material, we have not done anything together yet The thing is I have regular FFriend and due to meet 3 next week for some fun Do I cancel the fun or go ahead with it as nothing has been decided between me and this guy and I don't know he also might still be having fun with others at this time What do u guys think ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted September 20, 2019 Report Share Posted September 20, 2019 2 wrongs don't make 1 right. Quote 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fallmerees Posted September 22, 2019 Report Share Posted September 22, 2019 That's one of the things I don't like about this hook-up culture. You'll never know if the person you like is also hooking up with other people... But I'd say... prioritize what you think it's important to you. Since you guys have gone on a few dates, it seems like he's also into you. WheelofTime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted September 28, 2019 Report Share Posted September 28, 2019 On 9/20/2019 at 7:58 PM, Guest What's your advice said: So I met a guy just over a week ago and we have been on a few dates and we like each other and I am thinking he mi be boyfriend material, we have not done anything together yet The thing is I have regular FFriend and due to meet 3 next week for some fun Do I cancel the fun or go ahead with it as nothing has been decided between me and this guy and I don't know he also might still be having fun with others at this time What do u guys think ? Forever need to discuss. Be open about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tony Chen Posted September 28, 2019 Report Share Posted September 28, 2019 Usually if you truly like a person and look forward to a Long term relationship, you would hold off having your fun. In fact, if you truly like the person so much, most of the time, he is all you can think of , and want to see. Like what someone above said, two wrongs don’t make a right. You don’t need to have a parallel counter to him potentially sexing someone else. You don’t “lose out” even if he is having sex with someone else & you are not. There is no such thing. It all boils down to how much you value the relationship & your effort to make it work. Everything else is an excuse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fif Posted September 28, 2019 Report Share Posted September 28, 2019 it's hard to find a relationship that is not based on sex. If you guys like each other, just go for it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jason Posted September 29, 2019 Report Share Posted September 29, 2019 Just continue with your fark buddies and let him have his too. Remember, human are not meant to be monogamous. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted September 29, 2019 Report Share Posted September 29, 2019 20 minutes ago, Guest Jason said: Remember, human are not meant to be monogamous. What a lousy excuse fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repressednerd Posted September 29, 2019 Report Share Posted September 29, 2019 There is no right or wrong. Just outcomes resulting from what you choose. If you are unsure, conduct a cost-benefit analysis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted September 29, 2019 Report Share Posted September 29, 2019 4 hours ago, Guest Jason said: Just continue with your fark buddies and let him have his too. Remember, human are not meant to be monogamous. https://m.ranker.com/list/animals-that-mate-for-life/ranker-science Quote 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topper Posted September 30, 2019 Report Share Posted September 30, 2019 (edited) My advice is to keep it simple; until both of you have decided to commit to being bfs, there is nothing owed to each other at this stage. Edited September 30, 2019 by Topper Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WheelofTime Posted October 3, 2019 Report Share Posted October 3, 2019 On 9/29/2019 at 1:23 AM, Guest Tony Chen said: Usually if you truly like a person and look forward to a Long term relationship, you would hold off having your fun. In fact, if you truly like the person so much, most of the time, he is all you can think of , and want to see. Like what someone above said, two wrongs don’t make a right. You don’t need to have a parallel counter to him potentially sexing someone else. You don’t “lose out” even if he is having sex with someone else & you are not. There is no such thing. It all boils down to how much you value the relationship & your effort to make it work. Everything else is an excuse. That's what happened to me. But I got my heart broken in the end. After that it's mostly meaningless occasional fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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