yoyo74 Posted January 7, 2021 Report Share Posted January 7, 2021 On 1/6/2021 at 11:49 PM, Guest Guest said: And someone do not mind people coming out of the closet, but he just want to strike fear in gays for having sex, by making statements such as "Some bad tops doing anal sex half way will pull out the condom hoping the bottom who is in the high state would be unable to stop him etc" and "Even if dont get HIV, there is also STD infection as well". I am letting people know the prevention of HIV and to be aware of of bad guys taking advantage of but yours is spreading rumours of several gay guys dying of HIV without any proof. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 7, 2021 Report Share Posted January 7, 2021 (edited) 9 hours ago, tomcat said: "So far, there is only a couple of people that I can remember who has requested their accounts to be deleted away completely: one of them is RA, and the other is the ex-moderator Glyph. There might be more, but I can only remember these handful." I might do just that when it is time to look elsewhere. Knowing what I know about the folks in here, anything and everything you say can be twisted and used against you. What you share candidly here in good faith and humour can come back to haunt you. There is a simple solution for this: Carry on your life in such a way that there is only little or nothing in it that can make you feel ashamed. Compared to the tragedy of being ashamed of your own life, whatever can come back from BW twisted against you should be no more than... insignificant and even laughable. . Edited January 7, 2021 by Steve5380 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomcat Posted January 7, 2021 Report Share Posted January 7, 2021 (edited) 22 minutes ago, Steve5380 said: There is a simple solution for this: Carry on your life in such a way that there is only little or nothing in it that can make you feel ashamed. Compared to the tragedy of being ashamed of your own life, whatever can come back from BW twisted against you should be no more than... insignificant and even laughable. . oh not a matter of shame or regret at all but certainly irritation. it is very irritating to have something taken out of context, spun into a new narrative and weaponised. and it is tiring to have to subtantiate and explain thoroughly to the lowest of intellects. though it certainly fits in today's zeitgiest of fake news and misplaced social justice. people in here tend to just take things and run with it. ironically, truth, humour and a flair of witty repartee stands for very little these days when people are offended by the very air they breathe. a stupidly lethal mix! heehee note: it is nice and surreal to be on US time! Edited January 7, 2021 by tomcat yuquidam and Steve5380 1 1 Quote 🌑🌒🌓🌔🌕🌖🌗🌘🌑 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 7, 2021 Report Share Posted January 7, 2021 1 hour ago, tomcat said: oh not a matter of shame or regret at all but certainly irritation. it is very irritating to have something taken out of context, spun into a new narrative and weaponised. and it is tiring to have to subtantiate and explain thoroughly to the lowest of intellects. though it certainly fits in today's zeitgiest of fake news and misplaced social justice. people in here tend to just take things and run with it. ironically, truth, humour and a flair of witty repartee stands for very little these days when people are offended by the very air they breathe. a stupidly lethal mix! heehee note: it is nice and surreal to be on US time! LOL! Conversely, it is nice and surreal to be on Singapore time. It does not help continuous conversations though. Hopefully we don't see the need to substantiate and explain everything thoroughly to the lowest of intellects. After a little try if it doesn't work, it's their head! Aside from truth, my experience is that humor and a flair of witty is a perfect lubricant to smooth out my side of conversations here. It does not always align with the other side, again.. my best wishes but that is their karma. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuquidam Posted January 7, 2021 Report Share Posted January 7, 2021 (edited) I suppose if the majority understood what we said, and perceived our intentions correctly, then there is little that we need to un-twist from the deliberate twisted interpretations of a minority few. No matter how much one tries to explain or substantiate it will never get through. Edited January 7, 2021 by yuquidam fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomcat Posted January 8, 2021 Report Share Posted January 8, 2021 54 minutes ago, yuquidam said: I suppose if the majority understood what we said, and perceived our intentions correctly, then there is little that we need to un-twist from the deliberate twisted interpretations of a minority few. No matter how much one tries to explain or substantiate it will never get through. very true. just like how we can have many positive feedback, but somehow a single bad comment can derail all the good. well, i've made my peace and moved on! let's hope she moves on too! 5 hours ago, Steve5380 said: Hopefully we don't see the need to substantiate and explain everything thoroughly to the lowest of intellects. After a little try if it doesn't work, it's their head! i feel you, haha. and it is always one or two that seem to latch on parasitically. even though noone else has any reaction, it will always be them who will say something, try to counter your point or be contrary just for the sake of it. what's sadder is when you see it is them yet again. however, if you just tell them to get a life, that is basically an invite for a fight. so ironically, the onus is on us to be extra delicate and careful when coddling these degenerates, haha! what a joke! yuquidam and Steve5380 2 Quote 🌑🌒🌓🌔🌕🌖🌗🌘🌑 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eded90838 Posted January 9, 2021 Report Share Posted January 9, 2021 @kestershaun anyone knows him? Used to chat with him and last was 26 July... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuquidam Posted January 12, 2021 Report Share Posted January 12, 2021 On 1/9/2021 at 9:19 AM, Eded90838 said: @kestershaun anyone knows him? Used to chat with him and last was 26 July... Maybe got married liao whatever that means. Could be married to a gal or a guy, or just dedicating his life to helping abandoned pets. Maybe, he finds pets and animals easier to luv and care for than....? NVM....peace ya fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Princess Syndrome Posted January 12, 2021 Report Share Posted January 12, 2021 On 1/8/2021 at 1:45 AM, tomcat said: oh not a matter of shame or regret at all but certainly irritation. it is very irritating to have something taken out of context, spun into a new narrative and weaponised. and it is tiring to have to subtantiate and explain thoroughly to the lowest of intellects. though it certainly fits in today's zeitgiest of fake news and misplaced social justice. people in here tend to just take things and run with it. ironically, truth, humour and a flair of witty repartee stands for very little these days when people are offended by the very air they breathe. a stupidly lethal mix! heehee note: it is nice and surreal to be on US time! You are the one going around posting unnecessary bitchy and smart ass replies to people's earnest postings, yet you cry victim when people respond to your taunts by mocking your inconsistencies and inadequacies? That's rich, coming from you a damsel princess wannabe in this forum. Poor little old you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Old Guest Posted January 12, 2021 Report Share Posted January 12, 2021 I really miss BW and some of the old members during the period from 2009/2010 - 2014/2015. Back then i think BW was at its prime also cos people stop posting at Trevvy/sgboy forums and move to BW. There’s good and meaningful discussion & posts from both members and guests. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted January 12, 2021 Report Share Posted January 12, 2021 12 minutes ago, Guest Old Guest said: I really miss BW and some of the old members during the period from 2009/2010 - 2014/2015. Back then i think BW was at its prime also cos people stop posting at Trevvy/sgboy forums and move to BW. There’s good and meaningful discussion & posts from both members and guests. Luckily I joined in 2010. yuquidam and tomcat 1 1 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuquidam Posted January 12, 2021 Report Share Posted January 12, 2021 3 hours ago, fab said: Luckily I joined in 2010. Sadly I missed all those guys as I joined only on 18Dec 2015. But you'll be surprised who intro me to BW in Nov 2015. It's a 19yo lean fit Mly dude from a technical institute. He was bi (duno now). Not sure if he is missing in BW, or hiding or happily married ever after. Lol tomcat and fab 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted January 12, 2021 Report Share Posted January 12, 2021 1 hour ago, yuquidam said: Sadly I missed all those guys as I joined only on 18Dec 2015. But you'll be surprised who intro me to BW in Nov 2015. It's a 19yo lean fit Mly dude from a technical institute. He was bi (duno now). Not sure if he is missing in BW, or hiding or happily married ever after. Lol Late is better than never. yuquidam 1 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eded90838 Posted January 12, 2021 Report Share Posted January 12, 2021 11 hours ago, yuquidam said: Maybe got married liao whatever that means. Could be married to a gal or a guy, or just dedicating his life to helping abandoned pets. Maybe, he finds pets and animals easier to luv and care for than....? NVM....peace ya Ah, you narrated the scenario to be soooo nice, comfy n peaceful... Hmm, thank you for giving me picture to leave my thoughts in here. Cheers. yuquidam 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomcat Posted January 13, 2021 Report Share Posted January 13, 2021 23 hours ago, yuquidam said: Sadly I missed all those guys as I joined only on 18Dec 2015. But you'll be surprised who intro me to BW in Nov 2015. It's a 19yo lean fit Mly dude from a technical institute. He was bi (duno now). Not sure if he is missing in BW, or hiding or happily married ever after. Lol damn, wah i am even later than you. joined in 2016! i was definitely on trevvy/sgboy chat in 2010, and even met my partner through that. 2011 to 2016 was probably busy building up career. but strangely i was also introduced to BW through a cycling mate that was also bi, he already married, probably a papa now. since this is public access, i guess it is more conducive for bi and curious guys. trevvy/sgboy had a very strong gay presence and branding, BW is a bit more neutral, but the topics in here are way more...."advanced" lol dazza1201 and fab 1 1 Quote 🌑🌒🌓🌔🌕🌖🌗🌘🌑 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coolbriz Posted January 13, 2021 Report Share Posted January 13, 2021 Just realised I joined in 2013! Super old member 😅 tomcat 1 Quote Be cool, like a breeze... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 13, 2021 Report Share Posted January 13, 2021 2013 is super old member ...? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
passinthenight Posted January 13, 2021 Report Share Posted January 13, 2021 3 hours ago, Coolbriz said: Just realised I joined in 2013! Super old member 😅 You're a spring chicken. 2008 here, time flies when you're having fun. I'm more of a reader than a poster. Coolbriz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 13, 2021 Report Share Posted January 13, 2021 has @imchaser ran out of sarcasm and shriveled away? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coolbriz Posted January 13, 2021 Report Share Posted January 13, 2021 1 hour ago, Guest Guest said: 2013 is super old member ...? I like the monkey 😄. Unfortunately I can’t give a like to your post. Quote Be cool, like a breeze... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 13, 2021 Report Share Posted January 13, 2021 On 1/12/2021 at 12:40 PM, Guest Old Guest said: I really miss BW and some of the old members during the period from 2009/2010 - 2014/2015. Back then i think BW was at its prime also cos people stop posting at Trevvy/sgboy forums and move to BW. There’s good and meaningful discussion & posts from both members and guests. What happen now? How come BW no more at its prime? Will BW ended up like trevvy/sgboy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 13, 2021 Report Share Posted January 13, 2021 (edited) On 1/5/2021 at 11:16 PM, LeanMature said: Also be more respectful and sensitive of others culture and belief by not imposing your own as the best model. Your recommendation should be better directed to institutions that have real power, like the governments, the churches, and... society in general. For an insignificant individual like me posting in an anonymous gay forum, this 'directive' is out of place. Should I not promote my Ang Moh culture, my agnosticism, my best models of healthy living, my learnings from experience? There is nothing wrong with all this. The only limitation is to refrain from comments that are hurtful to others. And this is somewhat subjective. What should be or not should be hurtful to others is a rational call of the poster. We should not be so sensitive and insecure that what some anonymous poster says about our culture hurts our self esteem, and if reading about someone else's belief shakes our own beliefs, this can only be positive since as humans we should have a healthy amount of rational thought and protective skepticism. In matters of belief, the only force that matters here at BW is the policy of the site that prohibits discussions about religion. On 1/6/2021 at 2:06 AM, Guest sgboy said: i remember some users here were also users of trevvy / sgboy (omg feel so old) LOL! You should not feel old because you remember something 10 years in the past. I can remember 60 years in the past And like it was last year, I remember trevvy as a vibrant forum full of interesting posters with whom one could discuss multitude of topics of all kinds. I remember my discussions about music with Brents, serious conversations with Sexton, Integrity, Kennikoh, Ecity, Touch_Therapy, my friend the late Sailor, chatting with Boyboy56, Gstc82, Bigbulge, DarkLord, Bodyholic, Gamsg, my fights with Jetguyz aka lazer-8, some dealings with Alphaeus and the other moderator (whose name I don't remember) by the name of SAS, who was the 'G_M' of trevvy, etc. etc. I joined this forum in 2007 and I am still a member there, although it now gives me the feeling of a cemetery, with the graves of old threads and many older ones they have deleted, burned to ashes. Sad, sad sight! I never understood what led to the demise of trevvy... Thinking of this past, makes me realize that what I post here today will be the PAST in the future, 10, 15 years in the future, and maybe I will look back at today with some nostalgia. . Edited January 13, 2021 by Steve5380 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 13, 2021 Report Share Posted January 13, 2021 On 1/12/2021 at 4:00 AM, fab said: Late is better than never. Yes, and 'late' is very, very relative. It is better to think that it is NEVER late. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 14, 2021 Report Share Posted January 14, 2021 13 hours ago, Steve5380 said: Your recommendation should be better directed to institutions that have real power, like the governments, the churches, and... society in general. For an insignificant individual like me posting in an anonymous gay forum, this 'directive' is out of place. Should I not promote my Ang Moh culture, my agnosticism, my best models of healthy living, my learnings from experience? There is nothing wrong with all this. The only limitation is to refrain from comments that are hurtful to others. And this is somewhat subjective. What should be or not should be hurtful to others is a rational call of the poster. We should not be so sensitive and insecure that what some anonymous poster says about our culture hurts our self esteem, and if reading about someone else's belief shakes our own beliefs, this can only be positive since as humans we should have a healthy amount of rational thought and protective skepticism. In matters of belief, the only force that matters here at BW is the policy of the site that prohibits discussions about religion. LOL! You should not feel old because you remember something 10 years in the past. I can remember 60 years in the past And like it was last year, I remember trevvy as a vibrant forum full of interesting posters with whom one could discuss multitude of topics of all kinds. I remember my discussions about music with Brents, serious conversations with Sexton, Integrity, Kennikoh, Ecity, Touch_Therapy, my friend the late Sailor, chatting with Boyboy56, Gstc82, Bigbulge, DarkLord, Bodyholic, Gamsg, my fights with Jetguyz aka lazer-8, some dealings with Alphaeus and the other moderator (whose name I don't remember) by the name of SAS, who was the 'G_M' of trevvy, etc. etc. I joined this forum in 2007 and I am still a member there, although it now gives me the feeling of a cemetery, with the graves of old threads and many older ones they have deleted, burned to ashes. Sad, sad sight! I never understood what led to the demise of trevvy... Thinking of this past, makes me realize that what I post here today will be the PAST in the future, 10, 15 years in the future, and maybe I will look back at today with some nostalgia. . trevvy still around, just that no longer active website. But still on and off have people posting. Actually BW also started become not so active as before, as many regulars no longer come in to post and also the BW chatroom now become a ghost town. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Meaty Posted December 2, 2021 Report Share Posted December 2, 2021 Why Abang seems no longer active? Any news from him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Don't Ask Don't Tell Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 On 12/3/2021 at 7:08 AM, Guest Meaty said: Why Abang seems no longer active? Any news from him? Not sure whether he has enlisted himself into nursing home. The last we read, many years ago, he wasn't in his best of self. Read all his previous posts to draw your own conclusion and let the matter rest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 Not only abang. Many of the Blowing wing members are almost disappear from the forum. Eg Action Kid, Longge, Oral B. Miss all of them. Ng Ngai Lam 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mith Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 i remembered ABANG too... btw, many of my friends had the nursing home check-in as their final plan. since many of us are single, choose to or otherwise, it seems when we are too old to take care of ourselves, we plan to check ourselves into nursing homes for our final days... has anyone thought of forming a close group of friends to take care of each other/one another in our old age? somewhat like THE GOLDEN GIRLS. will it work? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 In another thread, some one mentioned he already passed away a few years. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 有些已经从良, 有些离开基地, 有些来不及说再见 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nick Yepard Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 On 12/3/2021 at 7:08 AM, Guest Meaty said: Why Abang seems no longer active? Any news from him? I think in the end we will all face that final lap in the run of life. The final last few hundred meters to the final destination. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 消失的记忆 Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 On 12/3/2021 at 11:16 AM, lonelyglobe said: 有些已经从良, 有些离开基地, 有些来不及说再见 有些忘了如何说再见（dementia) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tylers nipples Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 On 12/3/2021 at 2:32 PM, Guest 消失的记忆 said: 有些忘了如何说再见（dementia) 有些再见不如不见。。 善哉 善哉 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Perma Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 Perma ban by people here. also claim got lawyer protect but lawyer who protect them kenna perma banned too. Juicy smollet case cannot discuss liao Don lemon also cannot. Chris Cuomo kenna suspend also cannot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BTW Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 Good luck. I don't miss being here. Got another taiwanese gay site the guys are younger and hook ups are much better there anyways. next time NEA visit just comply okay. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GachiDebu Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 Same person as above yeah where is Abang I remember his post too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koolkai Posted December 3, 2021 Report Share Posted December 3, 2021 (edited) On 12/3/2021 at 11:11 AM, fab said: In another thread, some one mentioned he already passed away a few years. Really? 🤔 He is not really very old, right? Could he have left Singapore? Edited December 3, 2021 by koolkai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Papaya Posted December 4, 2021 Report Share Posted December 4, 2021 On 12/3/2021 at 11:06 AM, mith said: i remembered ABANG too... btw, many of my friends had the nursing home check-in as their final plan. since many of us are single, choose to or otherwise, it seems when we are too old to take care of ourselves, we plan to check ourselves into nursing homes for our final days... has anyone thought of forming a close group of friends to take care of each other/one another in our old age? somewhat like THE GOLDEN GIRLS. will it work? There is this multi purpose retirement hdb village, just suite our need when become old, think nursing home lack of ptivatsy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted December 4, 2021 Report Share Posted December 4, 2021 On 12/3/2021 at 10:16 PM, koolkai said: Really? 🤔 He is not really very old, right? Could he have left Singapore? Prolly late 50s if he still around? Think his health deteriorated after his mum passed away. Dementia too. Ever asked who m I after few line chatted with him in bw pm. Sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mith Posted December 4, 2021 Report Share Posted December 4, 2021 On 12/4/2021 at 2:56 PM, cutejack said: Prolly late 50s if he still around? Think his health deteriorated after his mum passed away. Dementia too. Ever asked who m I after few line chatted with him in bw pm. Sad. thanks for update. sad indeed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted December 4, 2021 Report Share Posted December 4, 2021 On 10/21/2019 at 12:57 AM, fab said: Lol. i know what you did there. Actually I m curious what happens to a bang. On 10/23/2019 at 11:04 PM, Guest RIP said: He passed away. Exactly a year ago. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted December 4, 2021 Report Share Posted December 4, 2021 On 3/25/2020 at 9:01 AM, Guest Guest said: Why has to be in the mind of each of us this final step, when we fly into the unknown? If there is really an Intelligent Creator, and I can face him, he will hear from me why he is not an INTELLIGENT creator at all but a force of EVIL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Miss Dolphine Posted December 5, 2021 Report Share Posted December 5, 2021 On 1/8/2021 at 12:53 AM, yoyo74 said: I am letting people know the prevention of HIV and to be aware of of bad guys taking advantage of but yours is spreading rumours of several gay guys dying of HIV without any proof. Depends. Different folks, different stroke. You can't please every fish that swam in the ocean of social media. Best is to enjoy the tour, and not get over agitated by the tonnes of salt within. If you are still seasick, don't blame the fish, it is what it is. Stay on land and be safe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted December 5, 2021 Report Share Posted December 5, 2021 So many regular members have stopped coming to BW. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danvin Posted December 5, 2021 Report Share Posted December 5, 2021 I missed brother Buaya & his contributions to this forum. Hope he doing well and good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest No lost love Posted December 5, 2021 Report Share Posted December 5, 2021 On 12/5/2021 at 9:48 PM, danvin said: I missed brother Buaya & his contributions to this forum. Hope he doing well and good. He cruised excessively and blogged about it. As years passed with topic getting less sexy, he chose to drop out because it wasn't his cup of tea anymore. Thus, his avid fans follow suit. But hey....these people still peep but didn't comment. Who knows, they might end up "guesting" instead of signing in. Just guessing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted December 6, 2021 Report Share Posted December 6, 2021 (edited) Missed those who make this forum interesting by providing entertaining info instead of some current members and guests who are always arguing about stuff. Edited December 6, 2021 by lean n mean yuquidam 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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