evianguy Posted October 21, 2019 Report Share Posted October 21, 2019 TS, what is the objective of knowing? Quote Grab a free 2GB cloud storage https://www.dropbox.com/referrals/AAAJnehBHgoOOjc5L-VZWsZTCvvaieR0P2c?src=global9 Play DC Heroes & Villains! https://dcheroesandvillains.page.link/V9ZwnTv7So74AFGEA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GetSomeKicks Posted October 21, 2019 Report Share Posted October 21, 2019 Totally understand how TS feels! Infatuated with a colleague and we shared glances many times. Dying to know too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Terry Chan Posted October 21, 2019 Report Share Posted October 21, 2019 Respect him and give him his own time to come out to you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
header69 Posted October 23, 2019 Report Share Posted October 23, 2019 Try touching his thighs. No straight guys will let you rub his thighs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 23, 2019 Report Share Posted October 23, 2019 Let him notice you surfing Blowing Wind on your handphone and check his reaction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fatty Posted October 23, 2019 Report Share Posted October 23, 2019 Just be direct and ask him “oui, you ah qua?” Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abgsam001 Posted October 23, 2019 Report Share Posted October 23, 2019 On 10/21/2019 at 10:49 AM, Guest catcher said: Try not to fish for personal info too blatantly. Some people are by nature more reserved, value their privacy, or just shy. Especially when it comes to sensitive topics like sexual orientation, which not everyone is comfortable discussing. Or the person might still be grappling with the issue himself. If your object of interest happens to be like that, and you come across as being too prying, you’ll get his guard up and chase him away rather than attract him. Instead, you can get him comfortable with you by talking about neutral stuff first. Find some common ground, like work (since you are colleagues); or make some other light small talk (the latest food fads, currently trending entertainment, etc). Then subtly reveal your inclinations and interests, for example by commenting casually about some hot guys at the gym you ‘admire’, and complimenting your object of interest on some relevant traits of his. If he’s not straight and clueless, he should start catching the drift at some point and can choose to respond accordingly when you then invite him to get a drink together one day after work, just the two of you. Just remember one thing, even if he does turn out to be gay, it doesn’t mean he’ll be interested in you. So for your own sake, just keep your expectations minimal. If things go well, bonus; if not, you can move on with minimum heartache. Agree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 23, 2019 Report Share Posted October 23, 2019 I usually peek at handsome guy phone if he got download grindr app. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innocentguy Posted October 24, 2019 Report Share Posted October 24, 2019 Show him yr water.n see whether he produce water after seeing yr cock. That's the way to test the water. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest infatuation Posted October 24, 2019 Report Share Posted October 24, 2019 same here... i am suspecting a colleague being PLU for a long time... have been taking time to find out more about him and his interest... do not wish to jeopardize current working relationship with him... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lauvly Posted October 24, 2019 Report Share Posted October 24, 2019 find out his interests im sure there is a loophole somewhere Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 25, 2019 Report Share Posted October 25, 2019 1 tip i used is to check out his instagram to see who he follows. If he follows alot of fit models but they are not known for posting workout video just pics and pics of their hot bod there is a slight chance he is gay. Also, if u click on the model, u can see what kind of pics he has like so u roughly will know if he is liking those underwear only pics XD. u must add him first in order to see who he follows. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted October 25, 2019 Report Share Posted October 25, 2019 Tell him you came across this acronym PLU in an article. Ask him if he knows what it stands for. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Neh Neh Posted October 25, 2019 Report Share Posted October 25, 2019 Invite him to attend next year pink dot event. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest same same lah Posted January 5, 2020 Report Share Posted January 5, 2020 Look into the eyes. Gays usually have hazel eyes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repressednerd Posted June 2, 2020 Report Share Posted June 2, 2020 On 10/25/2019 at 12:32 PM, Guest Guest said: 1 tip i used is to check out his instagram to see who he follows. If he follows alot of fit models but they are not known for posting workout video just pics and pics of their hot bod there is a slight chance he is gay. Also, if u click on the model, u can see what kind of pics he has like so u roughly will know if he is liking those underwear only pics XD. u must add him first in order to see who he follows. I had a colleague like that. He was buff and look a bit mixed (he's Malaysian Chinese). He helped me with my work, although I keep telling him no need. He also asks very lame questions like if Marina Square has XX outlet etc. One day he probably forgot to see his phone secretly, so I saw muscular models as his phone wallpaper. Next day he changed the phone wallpaper. Back then I was still attached. I think if he took any bolder steps, I would tell him, "I have a boyfriend". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 3, 2020 Report Share Posted June 3, 2020 On 10/25/2019 at 3:03 PM, lean n mean said: Tell him you came across this acronym PLU in an article. Ask him if he knows what it stands for. Actually without googling, i would not know what it stands for. I have seen that term here many times though. people love unit? polyamourous lesbian unisex? Party life united? Please lets unbutton? Haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 3, 2020 Report Share Posted June 3, 2020 18 hours ago, repressednerd said: I had a colleague like that. He was buff and look a bit mixed (he's Malaysian Chinese). He helped me with my work, although I keep telling him no need. He also asks very lame questions like if Marina Square has XX outlet etc. One day he probably forgot to see his phone secretly, so I saw muscular models as his phone wallpaper. Next day he changed the phone wallpaper. Back then I was still attached. I think if he took any bolder steps, I would tell him, "I have a boyfriend". If u were not attached, would u have gone for him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 3, 2020 Report Share Posted June 3, 2020 On 10/21/2019 at 6:10 AM, Guest Try Try said: its been months, we meet only 1 time, but he remembers my name . gaydar hes one of us. how to check it out. ? I went thru another colleague to get his contact...I got it...what next ? So what happened in the end? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phewphew Posted June 3, 2020 Report Share Posted June 3, 2020 On 10/23/2019 at 2:55 PM, header69 said: Try touching his thighs. No straight guys will let you rub his thighs. NO GO XD please do not do this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repressednerd Posted June 3, 2020 Report Share Posted June 3, 2020 9 hours ago, begleitung said: Actually without googling, i would not know what it stands for. I have seen that term here many times though. people love unit? polyamourous lesbian unisex? Party life united? Please lets unbutton? Haha People Like Us Used frequently in 90s and 00s, but not popular anymore in Singapore. Still popular in Malaysia. 9 hours ago, begleitung said: If u were not attached, would u have gone for him? Maybe not? Probably it was just lust. I can't deny I fantasized about hugging him and having sex with him though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begleitung Posted June 3, 2020 Report Share Posted June 3, 2020 46 minutes ago, repressednerd said: People Like Us Used frequently in 90s and 00s, but not popular anymore in Singapore. Still popular in Malaysia. Maybe not? Probably it was just lust. I can't deny I fantasized about hugging him and having sex with him though. Thks. That term made some people like they have some plagues or diseases..... that guy must have been hot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Dart Posted July 23, 2021 Report Share Posted July 23, 2021 All gay men have natural inbuilt Gaydar in us. It's an intrinsic part of us to connect with one another. The eye stare, facial expression, body language and even a subtle body scent are all part and parcel of the attributes of Gaydar. Tell me this is not a gift of nature! Scientists have been baffled over this natural instinct. Today, this intrinsic value among gay men is well distributed among the straights. Be careful, Gaydar has also been immitated to set as a trap to lure gay men. fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sparkle Posted August 17, 2021 Report Share Posted August 17, 2021 On 10/21/2019 at 5:04 PM, evianguy said: TS, what is the objective of knowing? i know right. Why the ask Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest Guest Posted July 13, 2022 Report Share Posted July 13, 2022 1 : you and his eyes met when walking past each other. 2 : you both will continue a long stare until the electric from your eyes and the electric from his eyes connect. 3 : after you both parted in different directions, you both will turn head at same time continue looking at each other. 4 : confirm can give signal to him and proceed toilet liao. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted July 15, 2022 Report Share Posted July 15, 2022 (edited) The gaydar is a grading system. If there are only 1 or 2 signs, it is hard to tell for sure. But when there are many signs pointing at it, the grading is high enough to lend certainty that someone is gay. The best tell-tale sign is if the person has a lot of mutual gay friends on Facebook or Instagram. Note that this is more effective to identify the outgoing gays. Edited July 15, 2022 by derryfawne Quote “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 16, 2022 Report Share Posted July 16, 2022 On 7/14/2022 at 12:16 AM, Guest Guest said: 1 : you and his eyes met when walking past each other. 2 : you both will continue a long stare until the electric from your eyes and the electric from his eyes connect. 3 : after you both parted in different directions, you both will turn head at same time continue looking at each other. 4 : confirm can give signal to him and proceed toilet liao. I do get stared at quite often when I go out, usually by guys. Not sure if it is because they are attracted to me, or they just want to beat me up. Because I can never tell based on their expression. Hence I tend to get nervous and look away whenever I get stared at. Even one time when I went out with a colleague, he said, "Do you know that a lot of guys look at you when they walk past you?" It's overall not a nice feeling, because you feel like you have no privacy when you go out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted July 17, 2022 Report Share Posted July 17, 2022 On 7/15/2022 at 10:06 PM, Guest Guest said: I do get stared at quite often when I go out, usually by guys. Not sure if it is because they are attracted to me, or they just want to beat me up. Because I can never tell based on their expression. Hence I tend to get nervous and look away whenever I get stared at. Even one time when I went out with a colleague, he said, "Do you know that a lot of guys look at you when they walk past you?" It's overall not a nice feeling, because you feel like you have no privacy when you go out. Npnt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hidoshi Posted September 28, 2022 Report Share Posted September 28, 2022 How do you know if someone ia gay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 22, 2022 Report Share Posted October 22, 2022 On 9/29/2022 at 2:55 AM, Guest hidoshi said: How do you know if someone ia gay? Seduce him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Eng Posted October 23, 2022 Report Share Posted October 23, 2022 On 7/16/2022 at 10:06 AM, Guest Guest said: I do get stared at quite often when I go out, usually by guys. Not sure if it is because they are attracted to me, or they just want to beat me up. Because I can never tell based on their expression. Hence I tend to get nervous and look away whenever I get stared at. Even one time when I went out with a colleague, he said, "Do you know that a lot of guys look at you when they walk past you?" It's overall not a nice feeling, because you feel like you have no privacy when you go out. the advantage (or disadvantage) of having above average good looking face lol but to spot if he is straight or gay even if they stare at you, the straight one will only stare at you for the first 2-3 seconds after that he bo chup liao, the gay one will keep going back to chekc you out, you can easily caught them stealing glance at you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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