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excuse me...guy having girlfriend does not mean not gay. Some guy have girlfriend is either bisexual or trying to cover up his gayness.

One time, at the stadium gym, this hunk was having sex with a guy at the toilet while the girlfriend was waiting outside. Married men have sexual affair with men.

This china guy was fxxking his male room-mate every night while his wife and children is in home town china.

So dun jude a book by its cover, look deeper you wll be shocked.

I concluded that your gay radar has not failed, just need some servicing, try changing battery or re-boot.

Thanks.

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Guest BigFry

Hi all,

Just want to share tips on how you know if someone is gay by just looking at him?

I am still developing my Gaydar so will like some advice on tell-tales sign for the following :

1) Dressing

2) Body Language

3) Hair

4) Eye contact

And most importantly, how you go about to test your theory whether he is gay?

eg. make eye contact, touch his hand?

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Hi,

I agree with your signs :

1) Dressing : but this is only apply to some, not all .... many gay guys dress normal as others, like me :whistle: ... only some youngsters or sissys that can be recognised :unsure:

2) Body language : I think I often look at his walking style, especially the bottom :rolleyes: and some can see through their hands moving :clap:

3) Hair does not work for me ... many straight men have more gay hair ...

4) Eye contact always works ... but of course only when you have gaydar ... :whistle: ... straight men don't look at you for so long :ph34r:

5) Speaking, voice also can tell about it ...

Touching does not work also ... for me ... many straight men like touching also ... and even gay touch, has no difference ...

touching help you to feel if you are connected to the guy :yuk:

For me, still alittle bit difficult to recoginise who is Bottom, who is Top ? :whistle:

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Erm...no offense...but this gaydar thing sounds like, in fact, stereotyping....

The only way of knowing for sure is if the other party tells you, then the game will shift into whats his intention in telling you.

As castaway already noted, many str8 men also share same fashion sense or mannerism with many of us these days.

There is a possibility that its their way in appearing more sophisticated or trendy and looking less uncouth or threatening to a woman (its the metrosexual thing going on)

But 1 thing is universally true for the gay man...We are definitely more emotional and expressive than the str8man

We are probably the only breed of man capable of being consciously romantic, not to mention being genuinely funny (at least most of the time).

Thats why you hear women say..."Good men are always either married or they are gay" <_<:P

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I also heard about this quote :whistle:

That's why you hear women say..."Good men are always either married or they are gay" <_<:P

A friend of mine also say that "All handsome men are gay" .... :thumb:

One friend told me to test if he is gay by playing your finger with your mouth or lips :yuk:

Never try but anyone here can share your experience ? :yuk:

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Well guys...I just feel that there are no define sets of ways to determine who is gay...this is a kind of innate reaction that you will automatically knows whenever the same kind bypasses u.....I always sense these......and by looking at them...and they return their look intensively....that confirms it....I dunno abt you guys...but have always been accurate for almost 90% of the time....hehe...just sharing.

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I also heard about this quote :whistle:

That's why you hear women say..."Good men are always either married or they are gay" <_<:P

A friend of mine also say that "All handsome men are gay" .... :thumb:

One friend told me to test if he is gay by playing your finger with your mouth or lips :yuk:

Never try but anyone here can share your experience ? :yuk:

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er...how to 'innocently' play your finger with your mouth and lips without giving yourself away? (it just looks like you wanna suck him or something) :huh:

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Give him a good cheeky look, then a friendly but seductive smile.... when he shy'ly smile back ... your bait is hooked, that always works for me.

All handsome men are GAY... arnt we ALL!!!!! YEAAAHHH!!!!

See what I mean by genuinely funny at least most of the time? :smokin:

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I thought the topic is how a gaydar works mean how we can recognise he is gay , not how to seduce him :whistle:

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its like a 暗号 (english: password) ma... :ph34r:;)

No la, that is for cruising, you provide 暗号 for others to pick out.

Gaydar is the ability / skill to detect the same species by just observing the target.

Eg - My gaydar tells me that he is one. If my type, I'll bring out my buaya instinct and move in.

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Hi all,

Just want to share tips on how you know if someone is gay by just looking at him?

I am still developing my Gaydar so will like some advice on tell-tales sign for the following :

1) Dressing

2) Body Language

3) Hair

4) Eye contact

And most importantly, how you go about to test your theory whether he is gay?

eg. make eye contact, touch his hand?

To me , Eye contact is the most "Effective & Reliable" Gaydar ...

Once, the eye "signal" is established with a few interval of glances at each other ...

Then, just walk to the person, give him a friendly smile & ask "R u in the same line?" or "R u a PLU?". You will have your answer immediately. No need to waste time to play Hide-&-Seek & that's what I will do, mostly due to curiosity despite he's my liking or not. And my hit-rate is 100% PLU-Confirmed so far.

But of course, this case is with assumption that the other party shows interests in you ...

Hary,

... Majority, Gay men give away their identity w/o even knowing it themselves ...

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To me , Eye contact is the most "Effective & Reliable" Gaydar ...

Once, the eye "signal" is established with a few interval of glances at each other ...

Then, just walk to the person, give him a friendly smile & ask "R u in the same line?" or "R u a PLU?". You will have your answer immediately. No need to waste time to play Hide-&-Seek & that's what I will do, mostly due to curiosity despite he's my liking or not. And my hit-rate is 100% PLU-Confirmed so far.

But of course, this case is with assumption that the other party shows interests in you ...

Hary,

... Majority, Gay men give away their identity w/o even knowing it themselves ...

This one must be a top lah...so 'out there' wor...

Then again, not all of us got your 'marksmanship' ah-ma...

so, must practice abit of tact lor, else 朋友都没得做 (English: can't even get to be friends) :unsure:

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Most of your solution is is eye contact , smile then ask ....

1) Hmmm .... if you make eye contact, smile back .... the guy smile back ..... how many percent % are you sure if he is a gay ???

Then you go and ask him if he is a PLU ..... what if he is just being friendly .... WAAA ... so malu if he give you the disgusted dirty look .....

2) And if the guy dont smile back ..... he might be still gay .... just that he is not interested in you ma ... hahahaha

Got any better methods or not ?????

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I heard this trick from someone but not sure how accurate it is.

Ask the person to look at his own fingernails and observe how he positions his hands.

-> If his fingers are stretch out with his palm facing outside, he is gay.

-> If his hand is clenched and palm facing towards his body, he is straight.

:blink:

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Why not directly say to a person your type..eg.."Excuse me, i'm horny and looking for a relieve. Can you help me?"

..or.."Hello! if you dont mind me telling you that i'm gay. Do you know where i can find a man for sex?"...

or "Hi! you look like my long lost friend that i loved. May i see your cock?".

or just pretend to scratch your crotches as a body language..

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Why not directly say to a person your type..eg.."Excuse me, i'm horny and looking for a relieve. Can you help me?"

..or.."Hello! if you dont mind me telling you that i'm gay. Do you know where i can find a man for sex?"...

or "Hi! you look like my long lost friend that i loved. May i see your cock?".

or just pretend to scratch your crotches as a body language..

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Then it means you don't have ... or don't use .... your gaydar already ... :whistle:

How do they walk and how do their hands move?

Some gays has very soft palms and lithe hands that you can easily recognise ...

Some gays walk very sissy, legs still ok but the butt can show everything :whistle: ... that's why there is term called "straight acting" ... :whistle:

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I heard this trick from someone but not sure how accurate it is.

Ask the person to look at his own fingernails and observe how he positions his hands.

-> If his fingers are stretch out with his palm facing outside, he is gay.

-> If his hand is clenched and palm facing towards his body, he is straight.

:blink:

hahaha when i read "Ask the person to look at his own fingernails and observe how he positions his hands."

i immediately looked at my nails and and its "clenched and palm facing towards his body"

hmmmm

mabbe cause i'm bi? haha

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hahaha when i read "Ask the person to look at his own fingernails and observe how he positions his hands."

i immediately looked at my nails and and its "clenched and palm facing towards his body"

hmmmm

mabbe cause i'm bi? haha

why not try at the public pool toliet. using gaydar , 2 guys naked in the shower area. if the gay guy look at yr penis and his got erected . does it means he is gay?

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why not try at the public pool toliet. using gaydar , 2 guys naked in the shower area. if the gay guy look at yr penis and his got erected . does it means he is gay?

if a "gay" guy look at ur penis and his got erected, of course he is gay! (coz u mentioned that he is a gay guy already)

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  • 4 months later...

:whistle: I wonder if i wanna find a man but i don't know whether he is a gay or not? Could you share with me about this?.. =)) I'm 18 a little bit tall.. Nice to make friend with you guys.

Many signs. Each "type" exhibits differing signs. Body Language, dressing & styling, mannerisms, glances given, attention paid to physique, are just some of the many.

Warning: we are bordering on stereotypes now.

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Swtiched on the TV last night and there was this cooking demo program called Top Chief.

I could single out almost all the guys taking part in the program, including the 'student', by their mannerisms (which include hand gestures) and their choice of words in their expression.

It was as a whole very unmanly. To top it all, the chief was heard saying, in one breath: "Oh my goodness, Good gracious me!" Those are giveways.

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Very simple. Do these body language to see how the guy respond either he join you -- he's gay! OR if you get bashed up -- he's st8. But, please don't blame me for that.

The guy in the video clips is very funny.

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i thought this is a very interesting thread. How do you recognize and approach someone who you think may be gay. I have been observing someone in my factory who i see do take glances at me as well. Sometimes our eyes meets then we both just shun away immediately. You might say he is gay too. But he holds a wedding ring... so this further complicates the matter...

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Guest Dannybear

i thought this is a very interesting thread. How do you recognize and approach someone who you think may be gay. I have been observing someone in my factory who i see do take glances at me as well. Sometimes our eyes meets then we both just shun away immediately. You might say he is gay too. But he holds a wedding ring... so this further complicates the matter...

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This is an interesting topic back in the day gays would wear bandanas in there back pocket to intdicate they were gay the diffrent colour and if on left and right side secretly told those in the know not only that they were gay but there sexual prefrences. This has fadded out of fashion execept in a few places but was known as the Hanki code.

Then gay men started to wear chains but this got coppied by the fashion industry.

Abercrombie and Fitch clothes becames popular as they often sported labels like pitcher or catcher a not so . to once more tell other gays they were gay and what they liked but once more they proved so fashionable that this is also n o longer reliable.

Im afraid the only way to realy tell if someone is gay is if they spend time checking out your manhood bulge in your trousers :)

Unless you bring the hanki code back to singapore :)

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Very simple. Do these body language to see how the guy respond either he join you -- he's gay! OR if you get bashed up -- he's st8. But, please don't blame me for that.

The guy in the video clips is very funny.

That is overkill! :D

I guess another reliable way is to check for the right ear piercing.

Metrosexuals pierce both while straight men pierce their left.

WE PIERCE THE RIGHT! :clap:

I don't wish to be everything to everyone... but I would like to be something to someone.

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For me I sometimes purposely wear singlet or clothes for SMA. (NUM is like str8 people's clothes as well...) Those who are gay will definitely turn heads more than once... :yuk:

For str8 people they will just look at you for a split second the most...

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If guys have the followings, usually >90% of them are gay..

1. wearing colourful flip flops...those with thin strings ie. japanese type but not the china type of flip flops..

2. almost skinned head with more hair on top of the head..i.e mohegan hair style

3. ear ring on right..typical

4. one size smaller round neck shirt or tank top ( usually gay will not wear collar)

5. Physique top heavy bottom small ( workout upper body but didn't do much on lower body)

6. white bermudas.

7. Red or white shoes without socks

8. if office attire - usually very neat and tailored made..

9. Uses alot of hand movements when talking...etc feminine traits..etc..

10. stick to a group of girls not 1 girl...

The above refers to those slim , well, stocky built type...etc There are gays who are sloopy also or fat like me ...then a bit diff to tell ...

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  • The Fashionista Gay:
  • Branded stuff e.g. LV, D&G, etc.
  • Colour matching or brand matching accessories, bags, etc.
  • Hang out at cafe, high tea, hotels, etc.
  • Stands out amongst the crowd when they shashe elegantly
    The Gym Gay:
  • Branded NUM, Nike, Addidas, etc.
  • Color matching or brand matching accessories, shoes, bags, etc.
  • Hang out at gyms, cafe, in their tight shirt with bulging muscles.
  • Stands out amongst the crowd when they swagger with their arms sticking out from their body.
    The Executive Gay:
  • Branded or Tailored wear like Armani, Prada, etc.
  • Matching accessories like Tie and briefcase, leather shoes, etc.
  • Enjoys good food, into fine dining and wines, etc.
  • Carries Blackberry, Palm and or Slim Notebook e.g. MacBook
  • Stands out as someone with impeccable taste and you never see them sweat even when they are in their suit.
    The Chubby/Bear Gay:
  • Not really into brands, more towards comfort fit with oversize Ts or baggy Check Shirt with short sleeves
  • Carries electronic gadgets like iPhone or Mac.
  • Avid gamers, comic books collectors, etc.
  • Spent much times at home with computers socialising using Facebook, IRC chat, etc.
  • Stands out with very short hair cut, with beard or goatee and burly built.

The above are just some stereotypes, of course, there will be those which could fly below the gaydar and are undetectable. Those I find harder to detect are the Beng gays, the Married gays and the uncle gays.

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Guys whom you can easily detect as gay are not my cup of tea....much prefer guys who are so str8acting, you can't tell they are gay unless they tell you...and even then, you think they are joking...

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  • The Fashionista Gay:
  • Branded stuff e.g. LV, D&G, etc.
  • Colour matching or brand matching accessories, bags, etc.
  • Hang out at cafe, high tea, hotels, etc.
  • Stands out amongst the crowd when they shashe elegantly
    The Gym Gay:
  • Branded NUM, Nike, Addidas, etc.
  • Color matching or brand matching accessories, shoes, bags, etc.
  • Hang out at gyms, cafe, in their tight shirt with bulging muscles.
  • Stands out amongst the crowd when they swagger with their arms sticking out from their body.
    The Executive Gay:
  • Branded or Tailored wear like Armani, Prada, etc.
  • Matching accessories like Tie and briefcase, leather shoes, etc.
  • Enjoys good food, into fine dining and wines, etc.
  • Carries Blackberry, Palm and or Slim Notebook e.g. MacBook
  • Stands out as someone with impeccable taste and you never see them sweat even when they are in their suit.
    The Chubby/Bear Gay:
  • Not really into brands, more towards comfort fit with oversize Ts or baggy Check Shirt with short sleeves
  • Carries electronic gadgets like iPhone or Mac.
  • Avid gamers, comic books collectors, etc.
  • Spent much times at home with computers socialising using Facebook, IRC chat, etc.
  • Stands out with very short hair cut, with beard or goatee and burly built.

The above are just some stereotypes, of course, there will be those which could fly below the gaydar and are undetectable. Those I find harder to detect are the Beng gays, the Married gays and the uncle gays.

hmm, i think i belong to none of these categories. maybe can add another category called the guy-next-door gays?

generally i feel that gays who are more 'out' and have more gay friends are easier to detect. Whereas on the other hand, the closeted ones or those who have few gays friends are harder to detect. Apart from this, it is also up to the efficiency of one's gaydar. after having activated the gaydar for some time, the above few categories of gays mentioned by GachiMachi should be easy to detect. sometimes if you are unsure of your gaydar, get your friend beside you to confirm it for you. It works pretty good for me whenever i activate my gaydar together with my buddy. Most of the time we are spot-on when the target is slightly more challenging to detect.

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If guys have the followings, usually >90% of them are gay..

2. almost skinned head with more hair on top of the head..i.e mohegan hair style

4. one size smaller round neck shirt or tank top ( usually gay will not wear collar)

5. Physique top heavy bottom small ( workout upper body but didn't do much on lower body)

6. white bermudas.

7. Red or white shoes without socks

8. if office attire - usually very neat and tailored made..

10. stick to a group of girls not 1 girl...

The above refers to those slim , well, stocky built type...etc There are gays who are sloopy also or fat like me ...then a bit diff to tell ...

I also agree with the above points. May I add on abit.

2. Gays usually have nice sideburns.

4. To me, collar or non-collar, it must be tight. To show off the chest and biceps.

6. Tight tops + bermudas = 90% confirm gay

Most gays also carry tote bags or shouldered duffel bags. Some like to wear shades even when indoors. All in all, can't deny the fact that most gays have good fashion sense. :thumb:

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Guys whom you can easily detect as gay are not my cup of tea....much prefer guys who are so str8acting, you can't tell they are gay unless they tell you...and even then, you think they are joking...

well said

Pleasure first; Questions later!

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for my opinion the easiest way to detect a guy is when a group of guys talk about sex include gax sex in and see the reaction or some will say yucks 50% they are gay some will say walk away 60% they are gay some will listen but keep quiet 70% gay some will talk and talk until he realy into the topic wah that confirm gay lor

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