Guest QuincyHarleyJames Posted May 21, 2020 Report Share Posted May 21, 2020 Being gay we mostly don't have a lot of gay friends compared to straight guys. Mostly we have some 2 or 3 closer gay friends, with whom we share life, events, spend leisure, do sports or travels. What if one the close friends has disappointed you extremely and something what would qualify to break off the friendship. What should I do? let go or look to get the friendship back on track. should I ignore him for 3 months but then out of the blue ask him out again? Do you have any idea or suggestions in my situation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
single42 Posted May 21, 2020 Report Share Posted May 21, 2020 LET IT GO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted May 21, 2020 Report Share Posted May 21, 2020 When there's no expectation, there's no disappointment. Before anyone can advise, would you like to share how has he disappointed you? Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repressednerd Posted May 21, 2020 Report Share Posted May 21, 2020 If it bugs you, let it go otherwise it will gnaw you to no end. Then once if you feel you can live with coexisting with him then take him back, otherwise move on for better encounters. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
earth_tone Posted May 21, 2020 Report Share Posted May 21, 2020 (edited) - Edited September 12, 2021 by earth_tone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted May 22, 2020 Report Share Posted May 22, 2020 15 hours ago, Guest QuincyHarleyJames said: Do you have any idea or suggestions in my situation? In general, if the disappointment is so grave, it should be discussed with the friend instead of just letting the friendship vanish into thin air. You may have good reasons to end the friendship, in which case he should know about these reasons and agree, implicitly or explicitly, that your reasons are valid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben S Posted May 22, 2020 Report Share Posted May 22, 2020 it depends on the degree of disappointment severity ... each person differs, so, would need case by case review. You stated below "What if one the close friends has disappointed you extremely and something what would qualify to break off the friendship." it should answer itself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caindukker Posted May 22, 2020 Report Share Posted May 22, 2020 So what did he do? I'm curious. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phewphew Posted May 31, 2020 Report Share Posted May 31, 2020 Well i always say if u are considering to end something, u r just prolonging the inevitable. If the friendship is worth the trouble, why not talk it out. If they dont listen then break it off? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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