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4 hours ago, begleitung said:

Is it really safe?

 

trump plans to ban it. 

Yes watch news that tik tok has people spying on it as well 

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22 minutes ago, begleitung said:

Cool. We can talk bout this as it is not local politics, rite?

It will indirectly link to politics. Because this move is also a political move. 

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