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16 minutes ago, Neh Neh said:

10/10/2020 (十全十美) coming, received a few wedding invitations :( pocket money bleeding in Oct. Can not travel oversea to siam now.

How many wedding invitations have you received for 10/10/2020?

None! As gay marriage is prohibited in SG. 🤣

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Most rich people can afford to host a gay wedding or either their parents are very supportive of their gay son's marriage they insisted that there has to be a properly ceremony to recognise the couple.


As for "ordinary" folks, they just went about quietly in their life. No blessings, no recognisation, no song nor dance nor big fan fare to talk about their togetherness.  I always have the perception that those "wed couple" tend to have strong bond as compared to "silent couple".  It seems the formal wanted to make it more "legitimate" looking than the latter.


I could be wrong, but I still think silent is golden if your boyfriend is not those high profile or very high SES class of people or still prefer to stay in the closet. 


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