Greenliv Posted October 17, 2020 Report Share Posted October 17, 2020 If you are having hot sex with another person in the sauna open area, and another came in to snatch the hottie, would you growl and chase off the third party? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted October 17, 2020 Report Share Posted October 17, 2020 (edited) The more the merrier. Spread the cheer. Edited October 17, 2020 by doncoin Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted October 17, 2020 Report Share Posted October 17, 2020 (edited) As the saying goes.. "There are no honour among thieves" That applies to so many things in life. More so in circumstance like this at a pickup spa or joint. You snooze, you lose. If 3rd party has no problem doing with more people and self invite himself to join and your TOP do not mind, but you are only want one-on-one, in the heat of that sexual moment, you think people will think logically or honourably? Likely, your TOP has no issue doing you both and leave you since you show reluctant. I think you have not been doing the sex cruising scene for long. This does happen and not just in spas but in any cruising joint especially when you encounter hard core regulars types. Everyone is looking to score and if you got yourself someone who is the hot pick at the scene, expect things like this to happen. If you are afraid to get your feelings hurt or rejected, cruising for sex is not for you. Edited October 17, 2020 by upshot Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greenliv Posted October 17, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 17, 2020 (edited) 2 hours ago, upshot said: As the saying goes.. "There are no honour among thieves" That applies to so many things in life. More so in circumstance like this at a pickup spa or joint. You snooze, you lose. If 3rd party has no problem doing with more people and self invite himself to join and your TOP do not mind, but you are only want one-on-one, in the heat of that sexual moment, you think people will think logically or honourably? Likely, your TOP has no issue doing you both and leave you since you show reluctant. I think you have not been doing the sex cruising scene for long. This does happen and not just in spas but in any cruising joint especially when you encounter hard core regulars types. Everyone is looking to score and if you got yourself someone who is the hot pick at the scene, expect things like this to happen. If you are afraid to get your feelings hurt or rejected, cruising for sex is not for you.sp Speaking like a true master dispensing sound insights. RESPECT. Btw, I was the TOP. The BTM came onto me and got flirty later with 3rd party who took the opportunity to come in for the warmth after I set the heat on. Edited October 17, 2020 by Greenliv Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted October 17, 2020 Report Share Posted October 17, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, Greenliv said: Speaking like a true master dispensing sound insights. RESPECT. Btw, I was the TOP. The BTM came onto me and got flirty later with 3rd party who took the opportunity to come in for the warmth after I set the heat on. heheh...well as you get more into it, you will witness more crazy, pushy or selfish stuff happening.. The sexual dynamic that happens can be something you like or over time will get out of it. And yes there are the slutty btms personas, and they have their own sexual play when on the prowl for best Tops they target. Whatever your orientation, don't take it to heart. What ever happens just take it as it comes, not comfortable with it then stop. Sometime what is expressed can not be taken too seriously or sincere in a 'cruising arena'. People talk really sweet till they get what they want heheh... I have more than my share of that over the decades, your skin gets thicken over time. Edited October 17, 2020 by upshot Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Animal Kingdom Posted October 17, 2020 Report Share Posted October 17, 2020 Am I in animal kingdom?.🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greenliv Posted October 17, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 17, 2020 1 hour ago, upshot said: heheh...well as you get more into it, you will witness more crazy, pushy or selfish stuff happening.. The sexual dynamic that happens can be something you like or over time will get out of it. And yes there are the slutty btms personas, and they have their own sexual play when on the prowl for best Tops they target. Whatever your orientation, don't take it to heart. What ever happens just take it as it comes, not comfortable with it then stop. Sometime what is expressed can not be taken too seriously or sincere in a 'cruising arena'. People talk really sweet till they get what they want heheh... I have more than my share of that over the decades, your skin gets thicken over time. Hehe, truly a master in indifference. Yes, I should not take it to heart, as after all, I did not initiate, and I can still attract others. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greenliv Posted October 17, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 17, 2020 (edited) 20 minutes ago, Guest Animal Kingdom said: Am I in animal kingdom?.🤣 In the savannah where alpha males fight over watering holes. Edited October 17, 2020 by Greenliv Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kar Lark Dai Posted October 18, 2020 Report Share Posted October 18, 2020 Very satisfying to see cradle snatchers rejected. So painful for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilfgene Posted October 18, 2020 Report Share Posted October 18, 2020 10 hours ago, Greenliv said: If you are having hot sex with another person in the sauna open area, and another came in to snatch the hottie, would you growl and chase off the third party? Depend on the quality of the 3rd party, and even more importantly, your mood at this time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted October 18, 2020 Report Share Posted October 18, 2020 (edited) 8 hours ago, Greenliv said: Hehe, truly a master in indifference. Yes, I should not take it to heart, as after all, I did not initiate, and I can still attract others. I am not a master, every gay guy who have been around the playing field has encountered this more times than they would let on. The players would not admit they do these and the newbie too burned to admit they got played. And even if you did everything right, you can still get flipped off. heheh.. I just feel bad for those who get the short end of the stick or penis hahahah.... I feel it is a lot more aggressive in sex spa and one reason why I give up on it decades ago. Edited October 18, 2020 by upshot Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted October 18, 2020 Report Share Posted October 18, 2020 Some like this kind of feeling, the snatching of prey ~ then small tussle. Quite satisfying feeling at times haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greenliv Posted October 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 On 10/18/2020 at 3:22 PM, Kimochi said: Some like this kind of feeling, the snatching of prey ~ then small tussle. Quite satisfying feeling at times haha Yes, the sense of winning territory. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 20, 2020 Report Share Posted October 20, 2020 Fight .. fight ... winner gets the mating rights! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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