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Is it normal to shower with your straight friends?


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5 hours ago, yuquidam said:

Playing with bird bird ok leh. Many straights luv keeping bird bird as pets. 

 

Playing with holes a bit more atas. Golf memberships dun come cheap ...kekeke

 

Especially no playing of birds flying into the holes for those so called straight ones.

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never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want.

 

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On 12/14/2020 at 12:53 PM, yuquidam said:

Playing with bird bird ok leh. Many straights luv keeping bird bird as pets. 

 

Playing with holes a bit more atas. Golf memberships dun come cheap ...kekeke

Playing tiny hole with long long stick on table my hobby 😜

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It is normal but a few always wonder who is bigger haha 

 

I do have open shower with a few of my straight and open straight  friends...after work even talk chat etc haha 

 

But it still conservative to most straight man....

 

I always get compliment of my hard earn ripped physique. Share tips to them how to burn bodyfats and how you need to contract your abs when you workout...no point gyming workout etc if you don't feel anything something is wrong there....

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Interesting question. I think openness in the shower is one thing but asking you to shower with them can be a whole new level without existing comradery. 

 

Straight guys who have comrade with other bros though usually will be willing to go many good with the trust together! 

 

I’m quite curious of how to seduce straight guys though? Anyone can share your successful stories to learn from too?   

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Haha seduce is so easy....

 

Just be normal doesnt matter your sexuality....pls do not be damn desperate totally rip off.....

 

It is good to have some common interest with them....join in any kind of convo...and be pls be real...no drama 360...

 

And if you are close to any women in office etc is plus point coz some straight guys are shy type... U have the advantage haha 

 

And no need to be Malu pee in cubicles that say some about you already easy to tell haha 

 

And if happen to be in sure just shower put more soapy soap and turn front and back haha it works for me haha 

 

Sometimes I always get what I want without doing anything 😏 beside I am very good with women they love me ....

 

Just be yourself...no need to try hard...both men and women can tell if you are trying to hard...

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So far my experience with straight guys showering together was because it was an open shower area.

 

Or there were no other shower cubicles available for a start. Rushing for time, we then shared a shower cubicle but always with doors open to begin with.

 

Whether things happened along the way was another matter all together la ;)

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Ya it's normal especially when you are close. My straight friends and i are pretty close, when we go to chalet or trips together we just joke around. Hump each other for fun or did some swinging if there are girls. No girls we just watch some on pornhub to release. One time we see who shoot the furthest, loser treat dinner. 

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In Europe (especially Germany) this is very common, from swimming pool changing rooms, to showers, to even your regular mixed gender saunas... so it's common to know how your friends look like naked. Just don't be a perv and get hard, though I've seen some boners in the showers as they tend to stretch and pull back their foreskins to wash and keep them clean haha.

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On 11/1/2020 at 6:57 PM, caindukker said:

I had this happen to me once. It was a company trip so we had to stay at a hotel. 2 guys in one room. I was super lucky to be paired with a new staff. He was 19 and super handsome. Had a deep voice and made all the girls in the office crazy. 

 

The moment we arrived in our room, he stripped to only his underwear and started taking selfies. He was average built, nothing much to see. 

 

I went to the toilet to poop. To my surprise, there was no lock and the doors were transparent. 😅 But it wasn't facing the bed so I didn't care too much. While I was doing my business, he just barged in and took off his underwear. I remembered yelling at him and trying to cover up. I remembered him telling me to shut up. He just walked into the shower and started talking to me about sports stuff. It was nice being able to gawk at a nice handsome naked boy. His dick was kinda average flacid too, maybe a little better than average. I calmed down, finished up my business and went out. 

 

We end up spending our trip always in our underwear when in the room. It felt amazing being able to spend time naked with another guy without having it being sexual. It's like a bro thing to me. Lol. 

 

I would have done more if I wasn't seeing anyone back then. Oh well. 😅

So hott

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Aeons ago during NS was the first time having a shower buddy.

 

Was attached to a particular platoon and there was one guy: fit dude who always go HQ gym when there was free time.

 

Obviously was very proud of his body and liked showing it off in the buff in the showers and in the bunk.

 

Somehow he liked chatting with me (i'm the quiet shy type) and talked about everything, listening to music together and also confided in me about relationship & sex stuff like issues with his then gf.

 

Even though he was very confident with his body i was still a little shocked when he would initiate showering together and asking me to scrub his back and shoulders.

Plus i was kinda worried i might get a boner showering so close and touching him coz i must admit i was kinda attracted to him and he also offered to scrub my back and shoulders. 🥰😅 

 

He also buay paiseh when he has morning wood or has a semi in the showers. Body positivity already back in those days. 🤣

 

It became quite a regular occurence showering together incamp, communial showers during overseas training and also open showers afters runs at campus track sports hall showers when we met up outside camp. 

 

Sadly we lost contact after NS when I went overseas for several years and I didn't end up in the same reservist unit as my NS mates.

 

A great guy who was into fitness & gym, cheeky sense of humour, confident of his body and a horny dude based on his confiding his relationship. But a straight dude coz nothing sexual ever occured even though we were physically close friendship those 2.5 years.

 

 

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Always done that when doing road trip to MY or Thai with a group of 5-6 str8 married or attached friends. We stay in cheap hostel that came with shared bathroom. Nothing awkward. 

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18 hours ago, Guest ArmyShowerBuddy said:

Aeons ago during NS was the first time having a shower buddy.

 

Was attached to a particular platoon and there was one guy: fit dude who always go HQ gym when there was free time.

 

Obviously was very proud of his body and liked showing it off in the buff in the showers and in the bunk.

 

Somehow he liked chatting with me (i'm the quiet shy type) and talked about everything, listening to music together and also confided in me about relationship & sex stuff like issues with his then gf.

 

Even though he was very confident with his body i was still a little shocked when he would initiate showering together and asking me to scrub his back and shoulders.

Plus i was kinda worried i might get a boner showering so close and touching him coz i must admit i was kinda attracted to him and he also offered to scrub my back and shoulders. 🥰😅 

 

He also buay paiseh when he has morning wood or has a semi in the showers. Body positivity already back in those days. 🤣

 

It became quite a regular occurence showering together incamp, communial showers during overseas training and also open showers afters runs at campus track sports hall showers when we met up outside camp. 

 

Sadly we lost contact after NS when I went overseas for several years and I didn't end up in the same reservist unit as my NS mates.

 

A great guy who was into fitness & gym, cheeky sense of humour, confident of his body and a horny dude based on his confiding his relationship. But a straight dude coz nothing sexual ever occured even though we were physically close friendship those 2.5 years.

 

 

 

Same happened to me also.

Until today I m not sure whether he was eventually gay or bisexual.

The guy loved to show of his nude body at the common shower and spend quite some time in the nude at the shower area, often with a semi hard or near to hard tool.

 

But as an 18 year old I kept a low profile and surely didn't have the intention to "out" myself at the military. (so just took the viewing pleasure of it, ha ha).

 

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I was living in dorm in Korea, they have communal shower. My Indo friends always do not have interest in having bath in communal shower.

So I am the only Indo who take bath in communal shower with other korean, I have no problem seeing korean naked ahhh beautiful sight but I am not hard even I seen various  D. one night I went for shower and got surprised that all my Indo friends take bath in communal shower. take bath together and seeing others naked is not common in Indo. when I see my friends D, i can feel my blood quickly pumped to my D, and I quickly go to corner backing them and hide my boner. pretend to take long shower until they gone. after that there are few encounter, I realize that I shouldn't see my friends D.

 

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Nice story! When you saw your Indo friends, their D became the forbidden fruit, causing you to get hard. Meanwhile, Korean D are common to find and not appetizing!

 

It's a pity, sometimes we can't just "act normal" and enjoy the experience bathing with straight friends.

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Yesterday I encountered a strange thing in Heartbeat@bedok

I heard a strong voice is singing in Chinese and went to see what is going on.

It was a guy in his 30s fully naked having a shower singing so loudly while the door is open and all can see what is going on.

 

 

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It is very fun and normal. You can help soap one another up. Help your buddies wash where they can't reach.

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On 3/15/2024 at 11:12 AM, kumaru said:

Yesterday I encountered a strange thing in Heartbeat@bedok

I heard a strong voice is singing in Chinese and went to see what is going on.

It was a guy in his 30s fully naked having a shower singing so loudly while the door is open and all can see what is going on.

 

 

Free shower and save home water

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On 3/15/2024 at 11:12 AM, kumaru said:

Yesterday I encountered a strange thing in Heartbeat@bedok

I heard a strong voice is singing in Chinese and went to see what is going on.

It was a guy in his 30s fully naked having a shower singing so loudly while the door is open and all can see what is going on.

 

having a shower in a public place => homeless 

singing loudly and leaving door open while having a shower in a public place  => crazy

homeless + crazy => BEWARE

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Is it normal to shower with your straight friends?

 

Actually, the word "normal" seems not adequate. What is normal?

 

I mean after some sports with your straight friends, why not taking a shower afterwards, even in nude.

I don't see any problems with that.

 

But sharing a hotel room (due to costs) with a straight colleague and then showering together at the same time, not sure that would be the norm.

While it seems to happen, but surely it is not very common.

 

At Sentosa the showers at the beach, there are straight guys who shower openly nude. So what?

 

 

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6 minutes ago, Guest Dan said:

I encountered 2  handsome Malay straight hunky  guys together in a shower cubicle 

 

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I have mostly been involved in sports with people from all walks of life.

I recall more than 10 years ago, all my dragon boat friends used to shower together at a communal shower.  Nothing sexual about it - everyone was so fatigued usually every rowing for 2 hrs.  But there was one occasion I really embarrassed myself.  Since then, I always closed my eyes to avoid 'accidents' as all desires start with the eyes :) And they worked. haha.

 

And it's pretty much the same with many other sports. 

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2 hours ago, AgentFit said:

I have mostly been involved in sports with people from all walks of life.

I recall more than 10 years ago, all my dragon boat friends used to shower together at a communal shower.  Nothing sexual about it - everyone was so fatigued usually every rowing for 2 hrs.  But there was one occasion I really embarrassed myself.  Since then, I always closed my eyes to avoid 'accidents' as all desires start with the eyes :) And they worked. haha.

 

And it's pretty much the same with many other sports. 

Ya the shower at old SDBA. everyone was so close to each other. 

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