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I'm from Malaysia. Yesterday I made an order through food delivery app, after waiting for a moment, the delivery guy (Chinese) called me to come downstairs to pick the food. I got horny so I took of my shirt, pants, and undies entirely completely naked. Then I went downstairs starting jerking off and waiting for him.

 

Very soon he reached and saw the whole scene, he immediately looked away and pretended didn't see. I kept jerking for more than 5 seconds in front of him. Then I walked towards him and picked up the food. He then immediately drove his motorbike running away from there without saying anything.

 

Unfortunately today, just now after I order food delivery again, something bad happened. But this time I didn't do anything inappropriate. I am still shirtless but just upper body, I have pants on this time. When I went downstairs to pick up the food, the delivery guy (Indian, which is not the same delivery guy) has his phone camera pointed to me, and starting capturing pics or videos! I know that because the phone's flash is light on the whole time. I immediately walked behind him. And he immediately turned his phone facedown to prevent me seeing him capturing pics!

 

So, what should I do now? I have no idea what will happen next. I am very scared that the food delivery company is handling my pic to the police or uploading to the social website. Luckily this time I am not completely naked, only upper body shirtless. I am so scared now. Please anyone tell me what should I do now. I'm still a virgin boy, don't want getting into trouble for my horniness towards straight guys....

 

 

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How old are you?

 

Unless there is CCTV the first delivery guy did not capture you jerking. I would just deny.

Hopefully nobody was able to see your act on the first time.

 

But I just wonder why you are so smart to order food with the same delivery company. For sure they put up a warning on their system for you not behaving appropriately and delivery riders to be cautious. 

I guess the guys talked to each other and shared what you did and then the Indian guy was asked to capture pictures of you.

 

But I wonder in a country like Malaysia, someone can be so immature to do something what you did.

Any straight guy would think you are an exhibitionist and pervert and need to be sent to Mental Health check.

 

You wanted to be famous. Maybe soon you are...

 

 

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How did he identify himself to the delivery guy as gay?

 

Exhibitionist sufferers do not just exhibit in front of women but all , men and women and even kids. We had one exhibitionist in our area and he did not mind showing off in front of us kids 5 - 6 y olds.

 

Please attack the Malaysian public jerker on his behaviour but refrain from calling out on him as "giving gays a bad reputation".

 

For any straight guy or girl, whom the Malaysian guy exhibited himself, he just stands as a mental sick perverted exhibitionist who enjoys showing off while doing sexually explicit acts in front of others.

 

I don't think everyone will directly jump onto a conclusion he is gay.

(only if he made inviting gestures or was asking the delivery driver to flag his own "batang" for him to play or made a move to touch the other guy...) But this the Malaysian pervert did not write in his post.

 

 

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2 minutes ago, Guest Gas said:

Man purposely expose and jerk off in front of another man is not gay, who are you kidding.

 

 

Either study Psychology or google on the internet about exhibitionists before coming with quick unreflected responses.

 

See here a definition: Does it mention anywhere the word "gay" , homosexual or homosexuals only flash or jerk in front of men?

 

There are plenty of twitter exhibitionists accounts who flash their dicks or jerk in front of anyone passing by.

 

From MSD, Global Medical Knowledge:

 

Exhibitionism

  (Exhibitionistic Disorder)

By George R. Brown , MD, East Tennessee State University

Last full review/revision Aug 2019| Content last modified Aug 2019

 

Exhibitionism involves exposing the genitals to become sexually excited or having a strong desire to be observed by other people during sexual activity. Exhibitionistic disorder involves acting on exhibitionistic urges or fantasies or being distressed by or unable to function because of those urges and fantasies.

 

Exhibitionism is a form of paraphilia.

Exhibitionists (usually males) expose their genitals, usually to unsuspecting strangers, and become sexually excited when doing so. They may be aware of their need to surprise, shock, or impress the unwilling observer.

 

Actual sexual contact is almost never sought, so exhibitionists rarely commit rape.

Exhibitionism usually starts during adolescence. Most exhibitionists are married, but the marriage is often troubled.

About 30% of male sex offenders who are arrested are exhibitionists. They tend to persist in their behavior. About 20 to 50% are re-arrested.

Exposure of genitals to unsuspecting strangers for sexual excitement is rare among women. Women have other venues to expose themselves: dressing provocatively (which is increasingly accepted as normal) and appearing in various media and entertainment venues. Participation in these venues of itself does not constitute a mental health disorder.

For some people, exhibitionism is expressed as a strong desire to have other people watch their sexual acts. Such people want to be seen by a consenting audience, rather than to surprise people. People with this form of exhibitionism may make pornographic films or become adult entertainers. They are rarely troubled by their desire and thus may not have a mental health disorder.

Most people with exhibitionistic tendencies do not have a disorder.

Exhibitionists may have a coexisting personality disorder (usually antisocial) or conduct disorder.

 

 

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13 minutes ago, Guest Gas said:

So you can say you just like to suck cock and play with man but you are not gay, blah blah blah............................

then write until so long...................

up to you lah, no time for people like you.

My previous post already long? 😱

 

I think you did not understand the point I made.

 

 

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10 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

I am convinced you are in denial if you think the average citizen would think he is not gay in exhibiting to another male

In denial of what?

 

That most exhibitionists don't bother whether the other person who he exhibits to is male or female and just the act to flash their manhood to a passerby is important?

However, most exhibitionists flash in front of women, because the shock effect on women is higher which adds to the personal "satisfaction" of the exhibitionist.

 

 

Go and ask some psychiatrist to gain some more knowledge on exhibitionists.

 

 

I could make another point:

Did the Malaysian exhibitionist know beforehand, the delivery person will be a guy or a lady?

 

 

We don't need to sidetrack into less relevant issues here.

 

 

All in all the behaviour of the Malaysian guy was wrong and he should have better controlled himself.

I still remain to say that for Malaysia, such guy would be seen more as a pervert and mental sick person than directly being judged as a "gay".

But we would need to gather some insights from some straight Malaysian citizen to come to a conclusion. Not sure there are some here. ha ha

 

 

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3 minutes ago, Guest Realistic said:

Be realistic..... He is actually posting on a gay forum and puts his hand up to jerking off to a straight male

100% a guy like this has homosexual intentions.

Do not attempt to gloss over the facts.

 

Please read my posts carefully. At no point I said, the Malaysian who jerked in front of the food delivery guy is not gay.

 

I m just discussing the point that he might not immediately be judged or "categorised" as a gay by the first food delivery guy in the context of Malaysia and just seen as an exhibitionist pervert.

Do you get the difference?

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Firstly, if you are just shirtlessbin the second instance, you did nothing wrong. In fact, the delivery guy has intruded into your privacy by taking your picture. 

 

Secondly, not sure what you mean by going downstairs. Is downstairs a public place or your own private lobby of your house eg landed property? If downstairs is your own private property, you can always claim you are jerking off in your own property. But if it is a public property without CCTV, then you can always deny and say that the first delivery guy saw wrongly and you were wearing a pair of shorts. 

 

Lastly, hope your worry now makes you think twice about doing it again in the future. 

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6 hours ago, Guest Public said:

I got too horny especially reading this topic. And I masturb in front of the delivery guy. But now I got into trouble and need some advice.

 

The whole story here

 

Did you ever think that u would be caught for being naked in public place? And jerked off in front of a stranger somemore. Alamak.

 

My advice will be just deny it if there is no evidence shown that you did it. 

Please think about the consequences next time before you act. Take care boy and hope you are safe.

 

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1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

Firstly, if you are just shirtlessbin the second instance, you did nothing wrong. In fact, the delivery guy has intruded into your privacy by taking your picture. 

 

Secondly, not sure what you mean by going downstairs. Is downstairs a public place or your own private lobby of your house eg landed property? If downstairs is your own private property, you can always claim you are jerking off in your own property. But if it is a public property without CCTV, then you can always deny and say that the first delivery guy saw wrongly and you were wearing a pair of shorts. 

 

Lastly, hope your worry now makes you think twice about doing it again in the future. 

but not sure the right to your image (photo) as in Singapore is the same in Malaysia. I read their privacy laws are still quite underdeveloped.

As to my check, in Malaysia people in public can take photos of you even if you don't consent, if you are in a public area. But law might have changed recently.

 

Would need someone with expertise from Malaysia to enlighten us.

 

What means, the second delivery guy, can just take his picture if it is so and if you were in a public place.

 

 

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19 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

not sure what you mean by going downstairs. Is downstairs a public place or your own private lobby of your house eg landed property? If downstairs is your own private property, you can always claim you are jerking off in your own property. But if it is a public property without CCTV, then you can always deny and say that the first delivery guy saw wrongly and you were wearing a pair of shorts. 

 

 

 

It's not my private property. The house structure is something like an apartment flat. So the stairs and downstairs area belong to the public. And there's no CCTV nearby.

 

 

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18 hours ago, Guest right to image said:

but not sure the right to your image (photo) as in Singapore is the same in Malaysia. I read their privacy laws are still quite underdeveloped.

As to my check, in Malaysia people in public can take photos of you even if you don't consent, if you are in a public area. But law might have changed recently.

 

What means, the second delivery guy, can just take his picture if it is so and if you were in a public place.

 

 

 

I think you are correct about privacy law is still under developed in Malaysia. There is no right to your own image photo. And the second delivery guy can take pic as he likes in public area.

 

Now I am quite worry about what will the second delivery guy or the food ordering company will do with the pic he captured, although I was only upper body shirtless. I'm scared they will share it through social platforms with the title like "beware this public jerker jerkoff in public, in address xxx"

 

 

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the question goes further to ask:

 

Is the apartment block a government apartment, if not the corridor and stairs would be private area. Only once outside the main door/ main gate to the pavement or road would be being in the public.

 

If they show your face at social media, most of them have their base in the US. Then you just need to write in and have the picture deleted. But they will ask for verification of your personal details, some ask for a photo of your passport and your face.

 

Malaysia still protects you against harassment if they capture your face and write something nasty.

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