Guest Ahboy Posted April 12, 2021 Report Share Posted April 12, 2021 Like just have an older brother to be around? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest boiboi Posted April 12, 2021 Report Share Posted April 12, 2021 yes!!! definitely.. i grow up being extremely curious and i feel like if i have an older brother things might have been different. i always hear stories of brothers comparing their dick sizes, or just simply stripping naked in front of each other and stuff... i guess the reason why i'm so not comfortable with being naked in front of guys and my sexual attraction to guys is because i never see enough when i was younger... i might be wrong but this is how i feel all the time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nip_fun Posted April 12, 2021 Report Share Posted April 12, 2021 14 minutes ago, Guest Ahboy said: Like just have an older brother to be around? I always do have that wish but too bad it’s life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lovely Posted April 12, 2021 Report Share Posted April 12, 2021 Actually yes. I’m the youngest in my family, and have 3 sisters. Even the youngest sister is like a big age gap between us..so we don’t really have anything in common. I was dressed like a girl when I was small, that’s what I heard from my mom 😅 so sometimes I really wish I had a brother to make me more “manly” 😂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 12, 2021 Report Share Posted April 12, 2021 I didn't have a father, so I would have liked very much to have an older brother. But instead I got an older sister. We were good friends then, and we are good friends now. 70 years later, there is nobody around anymore who knows about our childhood, but we do, and this makes our relationship special. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 3 hours ago, Steve5380 said: I didn't have a father https://animals.mom.com/animals-dont-male-reproduction-9838.html ANIMALS THAT DON'T HAVE A MALE FOR REPRODUCTION Virgin female hammerhead and blacktip sharks ; Jellyfish, sea anemones and flatworms ; Greenflies, stick insects, aphids, water fleas, scorpions, termites and honey bees ; boa constrictor, monitor lizard and Komodo dragon ; Chickens and turkeys Looking at the lack of a brain, I don't think you are anything big to be a "Virgin female hammerhead and blacktip sharks ; boa constrictor, monitor lizard and Komodo dragon ; Chickens and turkeys". Judging by your spineless nature, I'd think you should be a "Jellyfish, sea anemones and flatworms", but you have been buzzing round the forum like some insect, so that might make you a "Greenflies, stick insects, aphids, water fleas, scorpions, termites and honey bees". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Brother Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 Why you want a brother? To sayang you? To look up to? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 2 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: https://animals.mom.com/animals-dont-male-reproduction-9838.html ANIMALS THAT DON'T HAVE A MALE FOR REPRODUCTION I know,.. I know... I should have written: "I didn't get to know my father". But... could I really not have had a father? No, I don't have any doubts of the existence of my father. Because my mom told me, and photos confirmed it, that I am all as handsome as my father was. I have much of his Latin charm, dark eyes, dark hair, tall slim figure, a strength not in need of bulging muscles and a mental strength not in need of any bad character or machism. And she predicted: women will fall in love with you for the same reasons I fell in love with your father. And so it happened Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hahahha Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 Would have a brother make us any less gay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Curious Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 4 hours ago, Steve5380 said: my mom told me, and photos confirmed it, that I am all as handsome as my father was. I have much of his Latin charm, dark eyes, dark hair, tall slim figure, a strength not in need of bulging muscles and a mental strength not in need of any bad character or machism. And she predicted: women will fall in love with you for the same reasons I fell in love with your father. And so it happened What a ridiculous narcissus! He’s totally in love with himself! The 19th century English sexologist Havelock Ellis used the term “narcissus-like” in reference to excessive masturbation, whereby the person becomes his own sex object. A year later Paul Nacke, the German psychologist and criminologist, used the term narcissism in his study of sexual perversions. He agreed with Ellis’ conclusion. In Ovid’s version of the Narcissus myth, Narcissus dies by a pool gazing at his own reflection that he falls in love with. He has no concern for anything or anyone around him. He dies looking at the image he will never have but so badly desires. Wank away @Steve5380. But be careful of mirrors and pools! Hahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Brother love Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 What if you have a brother And you secretly in love with your own brother. How ah? Very jialat. I think better not have brother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Arachnophobia Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 5 hours ago, Guest Guest said: https://animals.mom.com/animals-dont-male-reproduction-9838.html ANIMALS THAT DON'T HAVE A MALE FOR REPRODUCTION Virgin female hammerhead and blacktip sharks ; Jellyfish, sea anemones and flatworms ; Greenflies, stick insects, aphids, water fleas, scorpions, termites and honey bees ; boa constrictor, monitor lizard and Komodo dragon ; Chickens and turkeys Looking at the lack of a brain, I don't think you are anything big to be a "Virgin female hammerhead and blacktip sharks ; boa constrictor, monitor lizard and Komodo dragon ; Chickens and turkeys". Judging by your spineless nature, I'd think you should be a "Jellyfish, sea anemones and flatworms", but you have been buzzing round the forum like some insect, so that might make you a "Greenflies, stick insects, aphids, water fleas, scorpions, termites and honey bees". Naughty you 🤣🤣🤣 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Popi Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 14 minutes ago, Guest Brother love said: What if you have a brother And you secretly in love with your own brother. How ah? Very jialat. I think better not have brother I actually had a fantasy over my cousin. He was (and is) so darn handsome. I still remember I was like 12 years old, and he was 18. We were actually playing video games in the living room, and then I pushed him against wall, trying to kiss him. He freaked out and we don’t talk ever since.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sad Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 17 hours ago, Guest Ahboy said: Like just have an older brother to be around? Hell yes. Not for the gross, sad reasons that've been brought up, but because I wouldn't be the only son in my family then, alleviating me of the stresses that come with this; I still feel bad that I probably won't be continuing the family line / giving them grandchildren. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 2 minutes ago, MNH said: I have an older brother, but I wish I didn't had one loooool Y u said that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 I had one elder bro but he is no longer around. Sad n miss him much. He treated me like his little bro always. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Yogurt Gun Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 I love my little brother and often play with him. ☺️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 33 minutes ago, MNH said: Cause he's annoying. Can't wait for him to move out LOL What he does? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eded90838 Posted April 13, 2021 Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 21 hours ago, Guest Ahboy said: Like just have an older brother to be around? Yes, pls! 🖐🏻 Perhaps things may b diff for me by now... 😅 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Beinglessgay Posted April 14, 2021 Report Share Posted April 14, 2021 Would have a brother make me less gay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted April 14, 2021 Report Share Posted April 14, 2021 Looks like many regret for being gay. With having brothers around can be less gay or diff situation now. Haha...i think so too coz from younger days till now I'm surrounded by bitches. Sadly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 14, 2021 Report Share Posted April 14, 2021 I have an older brother (no other siblings), and I also wish I never had one. He and I never did any of those fun things together like some of you said, playing sports, doing manly stuff, comparing dick sizes, etc. In fact, until now, I try to have as little to do with him as possible. He was (and still is) a cowardly, bad-tempered, foul-mouthed, petty, quarrelsome, lazy, ill-disciplined person. The bulk of my aunts and uncles don't like him, and my cousins avoid him also. My mum hates talking to him, and my dad doesn't talk to him at all, except when necessary. His own school friends avoid him too. A long time ago, even my grandfather told my mum that there's something wrong with my brother; not physically, but in terms of behaviour and attitude. At that time, my brother was in pri 6 or so. He did absolutely nothing to affirm or validate my masculinity. He basically bullied my younger cousins and I while we were growing up. It was so bad that at one dinner in a restaurant, my younger cousin (she was in pri sch at that time) asked my mum if my brother was attending the dinner also, cos she was so scared of seeing him! And as to whether I've ever been attracted to him, no 🤮 In fact, I wish I had a sister instead, whether younger or older, never mind. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 14, 2021 Report Share Posted April 14, 2021 5 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: I have an older brother (no other siblings), and I also wish I never had one. He and I never did any of those fun things together like some of you said, playing sports, doing manly stuff, comparing dick sizes, etc. In fact, until now, I try to have as little to do with him as possible. He was (and still is) a cowardly, bad-tempered, foul-mouthed, petty, quarrelsome, lazy, ill-disciplined person. The bulk of my aunts and uncles don't like him, and my cousins avoid him also. My mum hates talking to him, and my dad doesn't talk to him at all, except when necessary. His own school friends avoid him too. A long time ago, even my grandfather told my mum that there's something wrong with my brother; not physically, but in terms of behaviour and attitude. At that time, my brother was in pri 6 or so. He did absolutely nothing to affirm or validate my masculinity. He basically bullied my younger cousins and I while we were growing up. It was so bad that at one dinner in a restaurant, my younger cousin (she was in pri sch at that time) asked my mum if my brother was attending the dinner also, cos she was so scared of seeing him! And as to whether I've ever been attracted to him, no 🤮 In fact, I wish I had a sister instead, whether younger or older, never mind. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. P.S. Some of you are thinking that having an older brother can help you better develop your masculinity and make you more manly. I believe it can turn out that way, but it's not always the case. It didn't work in my case because such an older brother would need to be very caring, protective and supportive of you, and clearly my wasn't. And as to whether having an older brother would make you less gay and "straighter", I'm not sure. As bad and lousy as my older brother is, I don't think he's the reason that I'm gay. Btw, this is a very cute video of a pair of cute identical twins playing Truth Or Drink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted April 15, 2021 Report Share Posted April 15, 2021 17 hours ago, Guest Guest said: I have an older brother (no other siblings), and I also wish I never had one. He and I never did any of those fun things together like some of you said, playing sports, doing manly stuff, comparing dick sizes, etc. In fact, until now, I try to have as little to do with him as possible. He was (and still is) a cowardly, bad-tempered, foul-mouthed, petty, quarrelsome, lazy, ill-disciplined person. The bulk of my aunts and uncles don't like him, and my cousins avoid him also. My mum hates talking to him, and my dad doesn't talk to him at all, except when necessary. His own school friends avoid him too. A long time ago, even my grandfather told my mum that there's something wrong with my brother; not physically, but in terms of behaviour and attitude. At that time, my brother was in pri 6 or so. He did absolutely nothing to affirm or validate my masculinity. He basically bullied my younger cousins and I while we were growing up. It was so bad that at one dinner in a restaurant, my younger cousin (she was in pri sch at that time) asked my mum if my brother was attending the dinner also, cos she was so scared of seeing him! And as to whether I've ever been attracted to him, no 🤮 In fact, I wish I had a sister instead, whether younger or older, never mind. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. Sad.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mantin30 Posted April 15, 2021 Report Share Posted April 15, 2021 17 hours ago, Guest Guest said: I have an older brother (no other siblings), and I also wish I never had one. He and I never did any of those fun things together like some of you said, playing sports, doing manly stuff, comparing dick sizes, etc. In fact, until now, I try to have as little to do with him as possible. He was (and still is) a cowardly, bad-tempered, foul-mouthed, petty, quarrelsome, lazy, ill-disciplined person. The bulk of my aunts and uncles don't like him, and my cousins avoid him also. My mum hates talking to him, and my dad doesn't talk to him at all, except when necessary. His own school friends avoid him too. A long time ago, even my grandfather told my mum that there's something wrong with my brother; not physically, but in terms of behaviour and attitude. At that time, my brother was in pri 6 or so. He did absolutely nothing to affirm or validate my masculinity. He basically bullied my younger cousins and I while we were growing up. It was so bad that at one dinner in a restaurant, my younger cousin (she was in pri sch at that time) asked my mum if my brother was attending the dinner also, cos she was so scared of seeing him! And as to whether I've ever been attracted to him, no 🤮 In fact, I wish I had a sister instead, whether younger or older, never mind. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. Sometimes I wonder if having siblings with compatible zodiac (allies zodiac) will make a different? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Brobro Posted April 15, 2021 Report Share Posted April 15, 2021 Yes i wish i hv a bro to teach me how to be a man :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FattChoy Posted April 15, 2021 Report Share Posted April 15, 2021 (edited) On 4/12/2021 at 11:09 PM, Guest Ahboy said: Like just have an older brother to be around? Generally most people would welcome that idea as a good sibling can be enriching to ones lives. However if your sibling is a lame duck, and there are many lame duck siblings out there who are just flat out disappointing, you might as well go find someone unrelated but had the right attitude towards life, family and friends to spend your time with. The requirement of having someone pop out from the same birth canal, doesn't add value to the relationship between both of you, unless you need his kidney or liver. Edited April 15, 2021 by FattChoy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FattChoy Posted April 15, 2021 Report Share Posted April 15, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, Guest Brobro said: Yes i wish i hv a bro to teach me how to be a man There's at least 5 YouTube influencers whom I have in the tip of my mind, who can do better at teaching you how to be a man. You don't need another kidult who has yet to mature and get a good grasp of life to tell you "This is what you gotta do", esp when he's clueless loser and fucked in life. Like I said, there's no added value in having someone pop out from the same birth canal as you did. Edited April 15, 2021 by FattChoy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Brobro Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 Maybe the kind to be listen to me and and to goof around with me. Non sexually of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axefactor Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 Yes. I miss having someone that I can do sports with and look after. renoma1069 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notd Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 12 minutes ago, axefactor said: Yes. I miss having someone that I can do sports with and look after. Ngawww. That's so sweet. axefactor 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 5 hours ago, axefactor said: Yes. I miss having someone that I can do sports with and look after. Not being look after ? Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 A hot gay brother would be nice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 6 hours ago, axefactor said: Yes. I miss having someone that I can do sports with and look after. U can have someone out there too. Not necessarily a blood brother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Imagie Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 Imagine putting your face to your brother’s sweaty armpits and groin after his exercise or work, and taking a whiff and licks.. Woohua! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axefactor Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 17 hours ago, LeanMature said: Not being look after ? Prefer to be the one doing it. I've always been protective of people I care for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axefactor Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 17 hours ago, cutejack said: U can have someone out there too. Not necessarily a blood brother. Yes, I used to have a gay swim buddy. I really cherished the times we had together. We communicated very often even after he went overseas to study but we lost contact after he decided to move on with his own life. davlim76 and Sportychn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sportychn Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 10 minutes ago, axefactor said: Yes, I used to have a gay swim buddy. I really cherished the times we had together. We communicated very often even after he went overseas to study but we lost contact after he decided to move on with his own life. That is nice. I know what you mean when the companionship matters more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axefactor Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 2 minutes ago, Sportychn said: That is nice. I know what you mean when the companionship matters more. Yes, we were so comfortable with each other that even when we showered tgt naked alone at the pool showers, We even slapped each other's butts while showering but we never once did anything sexual. We were just happy doing what we liked, swimming and egging each other to improve. Those were great times. Sportychn, share and Theguyingreen 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sportychn Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 9 minutes ago, axefactor said: Yes, we were so comfortable with each other that even when we showered tgt naked alone at the pool showers, We even slapped each other's butts while showering but we never once did anything sexual. We were just happy doing what we liked, swimming and egging each other to improve. Those were great times. So are u the only child or son? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axefactor Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 3 minutes ago, Sportychn said: So are u the only child or son? Only son. Also felt like an only child even when I had a sister as we were not close when we were growing up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sportychn Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 1 minute ago, axefactor said: Only son. Also felt like an only child even when I had a sister as we were not close when we were growing up. Same here. At least you will not be the sore caregiver to your parents eventually when the time comes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axefactor Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 3 minutes ago, Sportychn said: Same here. At least you will not be the sore caregiver to your parents eventually when the time comes. Haha..that's wishful thinking. My sister decided to do away with that responsibility when she decided to just pack up and relocate to the US nearly 20 years ago. And it was done at such short notice. So now I'm the only one caring for my mum. Sportychn 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twink7inchbedok_east Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 8 minutes ago, axefactor said: Haha..that's wishful thinking. My sister decided to do away with that responsibility when she decided to just pack up and relocate to the US nearly 20 years ago. And it was done at such short notice. So now I'm the only one caring for my mum. Thats pretty irresponsible of your sister hope she stills keep in touch with y'all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axefactor Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 3 minutes ago, Twink7inchbedok_east said: Thats pretty irresponsible of your sister hope she stills keep in touch with y'all haha..she calls to ask how we are and comes back once in 4 years. I was very angry and bitter when she left but i've learnt to accept and understand her decisions. And I get to manage my expectations and responsibilities of being the only son. It's challenging but that's what makes you a better person as you age. Sportychn, mate69, caindukker and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axefactor Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 29 minutes ago, Sportychn said: Same here. At least you will not be the sore caregiver to your parents eventually when the time comes. So how was your experience growing up as the only son? I suppose you have a sister as well? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eminent82 Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 Being the only child, it has always been quite lonely growing up with nobody to confide in except for my mum. Now parents are growing old & the burden of taking care of them is ever increasing. Sometimes really hope to have an older bro (or sis) who can at least be with me when my parents are not around anymore nip_fun and Hungtall 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryan Lance Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 2 minutes ago, eminent82 said: Being the only child, it has always been quite lonely growing up with nobody to confide in except for my mum. Now parents are growing old & the burden of taking care of them is ever increasing. Sometimes really hope to have an older bro (or sis) who can at least be with me when my parents are not around anymore same here bro.... im an only child. quite afraid on what will happen when my parents are gone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axefactor Posted April 17, 2021 Report Share Posted April 17, 2021 We just have to face what's the inevitable. Death of our loved or close ones. I for one have been learning to cope with being alone. While I have close friends, I do think of the future in a more positive way and thinking of ways to keep myself occupied. I know that when I'm alone, I will spend most of my time travelling around the world or doing the things I have not had the time to accomplish. yuquidam, Nightshade and eminent82 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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