Asiange Posted December 24, 2021 Report Share Posted December 24, 2021 (edited) Knowing that we are incompatible and both decided to chop it off, but the wound is fresh and healing is painful. 😓 Where/Who or What do you guys go to seek help to heal from break-up? Edited December 24, 2021 by Asiange typo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted December 24, 2021 Report Share Posted December 24, 2021 Going through a heartbreak is a crystallization process. It helps to let you know what you want in your next relationship. Sometimes you have to go through several heartbreaks before you gain that clarity. Cry and grief all you want, but it will help you become better. Asiange 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted December 25, 2021 Report Share Posted December 25, 2021 On 12/25/2021 at 4:25 AM, Asiange said: Knowing that we are incompatible and both decided to chop it off, but the wound is fresh and healing is painful. 😓 Where/Who or What do you guys go to seek help to heal from break-up? Incompatible in what way? As long as both still each other, learn to reconcile the difference. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asiange Posted December 25, 2021 Author Report Share Posted December 25, 2021 On 12/25/2021 at 9:22 AM, fab said: Incompatible in what way? As long as both still each other, learn to reconcile the difference. Various aspects of personality, goals, temperament, etc after whirlwind intense romance Reconcile? = easier said than done, better chop it off @ the head so the healing begins. Where/Who or What do you guys go to seek help to heal from break-up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Heart Posted December 25, 2021 Report Share Posted December 25, 2021 On 12/25/2021 at 12:24 PM, Asiange said: Reconcile? = easier said than done, better chop it off @ the head so the healing begins. Looking back .. What have you learned about yourself? Where there were differences in 'Various aspects of personality, goals, temperament, etc after whirlwind intense romance', who played the most role NOT to mend it/talk it over? How long was the relationship? Are you able to forgive yourself as much you can forgive him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dart Posted December 25, 2021 Report Share Posted December 25, 2021 On 12/25/2021 at 12:24 PM, Asiange said: Various aspects of personality, goals, temperament, etc after whirlwind intense romance Reconcile? = easier said than done, better chop it off @ the head so the healing begins. Where/Who or What do you guys go to seek help to heal from break-up? It's the chop off emotional attachment that is causing the pain. Remind yourself it's futile to continue in a relationship which could end up with more frustration. Take this as an opportunity to learn and to meet up with someone more compatible. Meanwhile shift your focus to something useful like a pursuit and work towards achieving the goal. Getting involve in sport develops a healthy mind and body. An idle mind will chance to bring back painful memory. Asiange and fab 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudakFit Posted December 25, 2021 Report Share Posted December 25, 2021 Only you can heal yourself....the heart need lots of your attention...if you have a bestie he or she would be a great help as you talk it all out or rant it.... Love yourself first... Splurge yourself Do your fav activity or hobbies... Walking to the beach... Stroll sg river to mbs skyline is nice...or anywhere.. Plan a goal or something.. But don't do anything stupid that can hurt yourself. Asiange 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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