Neh Neh Posted January 9, 2022 Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 Erwi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Erwi Posted January 9, 2022 Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 LOL @Neh Neh Ru in the same situation 😁 Probably u can consider make some videos of urself & I'll be ur great supporter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted January 9, 2022 Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 On 1/9/2022 at 4:44 PM, Neh Neh said: https://www.google.com/search?q=云吞他爹&oq=云吞他爹&aqs=chrome..69i57j0i512l4.12938j0j16&client=ms-android-oppo-rev1&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8 The son looks gay. Quote 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neh Neh Posted January 9, 2022 Author Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 On 1/10/2022 at 12:51 AM, fab said: https://www.google.com/search?q=云吞他爹&oq=云吞他爹&aqs=chrome..69i57j0i512l4.12938j0j16&client=ms-android-oppo-rev1&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8 The son looks gay. I think the son is a btm gay and can be quite slutty on bed ^^ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted January 9, 2022 Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 On 1/10/2022 at 3:43 AM, Neh Neh said: I think the son is a btm gay and can be quite slutty on bed ^^ Even the dad's bitchy stare is quite gay. yuquidam 1 Quote 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mantin30 Posted January 10, 2022 Report Share Posted January 10, 2022 On 1/10/2022 at 12:51 AM, fab said: https://www.google.com/search?q=云吞他爹&oq=云吞他爹&aqs=chrome..69i57j0i512l4.12938j0j16&client=ms-android-oppo-rev1&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8 The son looks gay. He got a very nice body Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Papaya Posted January 12, 2022 Report Share Posted January 12, 2022 @Neh Neh,if anybody 催婚,show your neh neh with bra, they will stop, no sweat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BY渎 Posted January 12, 2022 Report Share Posted January 12, 2022 On 1/13/2022 at 6:20 AM, Guest Papaya said: @Neh Neh,if anybody 催婚,show your neh neh with bra, they will stop, no sweat. LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superflawless Posted January 13, 2022 Report Share Posted January 13, 2022 Those busy bodies are really too much. But since it's CNY, just smile, ignore and change subject. If they refuse to accept that, then just leave. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted January 13, 2022 Report Share Posted January 13, 2022 Empower urself, shrug that topic off. These relatives just trying to make polite conversation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest An eye for an eye Posted January 14, 2022 Report Share Posted January 14, 2022 Divert the topic to something else and direct to somebody else e.g. 1. To a married cousin with no children yet: Aiyo, why no kid yet. Need to let doctor check up? 2. To a married cousin with children: Aiyo, why stress your mother taking care of you children. They should be enjoying their golden years. 3. To a married cousin with children schooling: Aiyo, why he cannot get into a better school. Thia Kong his school get many gangster students. 4. To a married cousin with children working: Aiyo, what job, how’s salary, blah blah. If you cannot win the Kay Pohs, fight them back with Kay Poh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 阿布埃拉 Posted January 17, 2022 Report Share Posted January 17, 2022 我哥哥要和他的新女友结婚,但他和他的妻子还没有离婚。他将在与家人共进晚餐时宣布婚礼。我该怎么办?我应该告诉他不要参加吗? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 劫咪菜 Posted January 17, 2022 Report Share Posted January 17, 2022 On 1/18/2022 at 2:11 AM, Guest 阿布埃拉 said: 我哥哥要和他的新女友结婚,但他和他的妻子还没有离婚。他将在与家人共进晚餐时宣布婚礼。我该怎么办?我应该告诉他不要参加吗? 你也带个男友参加 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neh Neh Posted January 18, 2022 Author Report Share Posted January 18, 2022 On 1/18/2022 at 7:20 AM, Guest 劫咪菜 said: 你也带个男友参加 哇。双喜临门。好不热闹。合家欢。彩! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted January 18, 2022 Report Share Posted January 18, 2022 While I am grateful I do not have to deal with nosy relatives during CNY, I do know and have some of these people in my family. For a long time I have always wondered what is the purpose of their questions? Do you have a girlfriend? When are you getting married? The only conclusion I can draw from such questions is that they need the time to save up for the big ang pow i am expecting from them on my wedding day. It is not so much really if I have gf or when i am getting married. The question really is where i am getting married, so that they can prepare the appropriate amount of money that is in line of the hotel. Just kindly remind them that they will know when the time is right and you expect a big ang pow from them. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 劫咪菜 Posted January 18, 2022 Report Share Posted January 18, 2022 On 1/18/2022 at 10:25 AM, Neh Neh said: 哇。双喜临门。好不热闹。合家欢。彩! 男友最好有一对跟你一样美美的neh neh。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wyclef Posted January 21, 2022 Report Share Posted January 21, 2022 On 1/18/2022 at 10:57 AM, doncoin said: While I am grateful I do not have to deal with nosy relatives during CNY, I do know and have some of these people in my family. For a long time I have always wondered what is the purpose of their questions? Do you have a girlfriend? When are you getting married? The only conclusion I can draw from such questions is that they need the time to save up for the big ang pow i am expecting from them on my wedding day. It is not so much really if I have gf or when i am getting married. The question really is where i am getting married, so that they can prepare the appropriate amount of money that is in line of the hotel. Just kindly remind them that they will know when the time is right and you expect a big ang pow from them. Aren't you afraid to grow old alone? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted January 23, 2022 Report Share Posted January 23, 2022 On 1/21/2022 at 12:05 PM, Guest Wyclef said: Aren't you afraid to grow old alone? I have several fears and growing old alone is not one of them. Steve5380 and mate69 1 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest CNY Questions Posted January 24, 2022 Report Share Posted January 24, 2022 Whenever relatives asked if you are seeing anyone and if you are getting married, what they usually mean is when they can stop giving you ang pow. So the wedding is the last ang pow you ever get. So after getting married, they will ask when you will be having children to know if you are planning to start a family. If you start a family, they will need to prepare more red packets. So theoretically, the last ang pows are wedding ang pows unless they count the children's too. Since their children's ang pow is sort of the parent's ang pow also. Such is the cycle of angpows during cny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted January 25, 2022 Report Share Posted January 25, 2022 On 1/24/2022 at 4:44 AM, doncoin said: I have several fears and growing old alone is not one of them. I have several fears and growing old alone is ABSOLUTELY not one of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted January 25, 2022 Report Share Posted January 25, 2022 On 1/24/2022 at 4:20 PM, Guest CNY Questions said: Whenever relatives asked if you are seeing anyone and if you are getting married, what they usually mean is when they can stop giving you ang pow. So the wedding is the last ang pow you ever get. So after getting married, they will ask when you will be having children to know if you are planning to start a family. If you start a family, they will need to prepare more red packets. So theoretically, the last ang pows are wedding ang pows unless they count the children's too. Since their children's ang pow is sort of the parent's ang pow also. Such is the cycle of angpows during cny Where I am living now, such questions are totally taboo, intrusive and out of line Everyone knows not to ask these for fear of being called out yuquidam and fab 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Peh Phak Wah Posted January 30, 2022 Report Share Posted January 30, 2022 On 1/13/2022 at 4:25 PM, superflawless said: Those busy bodies are really too much. But since it's CNY, just smile, ignore and change subject. If they refuse to accept that, then just leave. Do you think it is necessary? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tan29 Posted January 31, 2022 Report Share Posted January 31, 2022 Just fought with my brother. I regret going back home Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuquidam Posted January 31, 2022 Report Share Posted January 31, 2022 On 1/31/2022 at 8:25 PM, Guest Tan29 said: Just fought with my brother. I regret going back home Truly sorry to hear that. Hope things will improve when heads are cooler. mate69 and fab 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted January 31, 2022 Report Share Posted January 31, 2022 May cooler heads prevail during this time Please enjoy the festivities and focus on the good stuff and always count your blessings yuquidam 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neh Neh Posted February 1, 2022 Author Report Share Posted February 1, 2022 Day 1 passed and survived 😁 from all acid tongues. The taichi push pull going on tomorrow yuquidam 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Papaya Posted February 4, 2022 Report Share Posted February 4, 2022 Show them your neh neh, they might stop Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dennis Kwey Posted January 6, 2023 Report Share Posted January 6, 2023 On 1/9/2022 at 11:42 PM, fab said: Even the dad's bitchy stare is quite gay. True. LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Colton Posted January 15, 2023 Report Share Posted January 15, 2023 On 1/24/2022 at 4:44 AM, doncoin said: I have several fears and growing old alone is not one of them. You're just saying that now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted January 16, 2023 Report Share Posted January 16, 2023 3 hours ago, Guest Colton said: You're just saying that now Perhaps. but I am too set in my ways to ever want to adjust myself for another person. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted January 16, 2023 Report Share Posted January 16, 2023 Moral of the story (videos), don't stay with your parents. Go look for your own place and and take pleasure in the freedom from obtrusive and upsetting people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted January 16, 2023 Report Share Posted January 16, 2023 On 1/14/2022 at 10:49 AM, Guest An eye for an eye said: Divert the topic to something else and direct to somebody else e.g. 1. To a married cousin with no children yet: Aiyo, why no kid yet. Need to let doctor check up? 2. To a married cousin with children: Aiyo, why stress your mother taking care of you children. They should be enjoying their golden years. 3. To a married cousin with children schooling: Aiyo, why he cannot get into a better school. Thia Kong his school get many gangster students. 4. To a married cousin with children working: Aiyo, what job, how’s salary, blah blah. If you cannot win the Kay Pohs, fight them back with Kay Poh. Instead of coming up with flawed reasons or pointing to others, it is better to achieve the strength to counter such talk on your own terms. Best is to say that you have not found the right partner and that your parents (relatives) surely don't prefer you to rush into something that ends in disaster. After the repeal of 377A I also find, that more guys in their 30s can open up to their parents. This will just end the talk and nagging. Why do you want to go on with the same issue every year. 3 years later they found out about your real you, then how, but give your parents some time to come to terms. Since 377A has been repealed it is time also for the Singapore society to come to terms with homosexuality. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted January 16, 2023 Report Share Posted January 16, 2023 1 hour ago, singalion said: Instead of coming up with flawed reasons or pointing to others, it is better to achieve the strength to counter such talk on your own terms. Best is to say that you have not found the right partner and that your parents (relatives) surely don't prefer you to rush into something that ends in disaster. After the repeal of 377A I also find, that more guys in their 30s can open up to their parents. This will just end the talk and nagging. Why do you want to go on with the same issue every year. 3 years later they found out about your real you, then how, but give your parents some time to come to terms. Since 377A has been repealed it is time also for the Singapore society to come to terms with homosexuality. In east Asian's culture and values, the stigma of having gay children will not be gone simple because 377a is repealed. Quote 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiusulnar Posted January 16, 2023 Report Share Posted January 16, 2023 change topic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted January 16, 2023 Report Share Posted January 16, 2023 (edited) 5 hours ago, fab said: In east Asian's culture and values, the stigma of having gay children will not be gone simple because 377a is repealed. We are talking about Singapore... And Singapore seems a South East Asian country. In China this isn't any issue any longer to most parents since the decriminalisation. After gay etc has been pulled through all media channels the past months. I think the last cleaning auntie at hawker centers has understood there is something like gay! 🤣 To fight negative stigma of gay children you have to start somewhere. If people stay in the closet in Singapore then the repeal of 377A was quite futile. In every country that went through decriminalisation of homosexuals, the gays had to come out at a certain stage... At least start with your parents, then they will automatically stop dragging you on in asking to marry or when you will marry. In most cased parents who are informed are smart enough to respond to other family members who are nagging. Edited January 16, 2023 by singalion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Vermin Posted January 23, 2023 Report Share Posted January 23, 2023 So last night i had quarrel again with my sister as she wants me to take out from our parents will because I'm gay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryuki Posted January 23, 2023 Report Share Posted January 23, 2023 (edited) Not understand why people is troubled by this except ur parents put in a will that you can Inherited their multi billion dollar asset or property without having married.. else u should live your own life.. the parents chase ask them to married themselves.. I see so many after marriage then all problem arise end up divorce and so on.. making the kids suffering when they fight for guardianship and so on.. Think 3 times before u do something.. don't just do because you plan to please your parents.. well the inheritance part might be different story.. for me.. I don't care I can inherit anything or not as I can 白手起家不靠人 so nobody can have the ability to chase me for my marriage .. it's my life not theirs at the end of the day... Edited January 23, 2023 by Ryuki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kurt Posted January 24, 2023 Report Share Posted January 24, 2023 On 1/9/2022 at 6:17 PM, Erwi said: LOL @Neh Neh Ru in the same situation 😁 Probably u can consider make some videos of urself & I'll be ur great supporter True Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yhtang Posted January 25, 2023 Report Share Posted January 25, 2023 On 1/23/2023 at 3:57 PM, Guest Vermin said: So last night i had quarrel again with my sister as she wants me to take out from our parents will because I'm gay. Could it be that your sister is greedy and wants your share of the inheritance, with you being gay a convenient excuse? If your parents write you out of their Wills, there is not much you can do. It just shows how (not) valued you are in your parents' eyes. Anyway, back to the subject of parents urging their children to get married, if your parents know you are gay and have accepted that you are not going to marry a female to reproduce, would it be more acceptable if you introduce a man to them and tell them this is the man you are dating and planning to marry? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 25, 2023 Report Share Posted January 25, 2023 On 1/15/2023 at 6:24 PM, doncoin said: Perhaps. but I am too set in my ways to ever want to adjust myself for another person. It is positive to cultivate our flexibility and remain adaptable to adjust ourselves for another person. In fact, the loss of this ability contributes to us becoming old. One way of losing inflexibility, help adaptability, is to realize how unimportant, how transient our life is. What does it matter if it has to change somehow? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryuki Posted February 18, 2023 Report Share Posted February 18, 2023 为何非结婚不可? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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