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This is a warning to all the guys here who are attached with a girlfriend: Do not betray your girlfriend.

 

To the community here, I have nothing against you. I am here to call out a guy who seduced my boyfriend at one of the Safra swimming pool. He was fishing and attracting other guys in the changing room for sex. He got my boyfriend curious and begin chatting with him over many months. My boyfriend, the best guy I have ever met, was over time eaten by the curiosity this guy led him into and eventually addicted to gay pornography. They arranged to meet for two consecutive Fridays and I thwarted their appointment because my boyfriend in his excitement forgot to put his computer to sleep and I saw their conversation.

 

I spent the week understanding what happened to my boyfriend and I have chosen to forgive him. To the guy who seduced him, I wanted to speak to you in private but have removed your posts and telegram and so I do not want to confront you in private any longer. I have catfished members here who told me there is activity on your account in recent days. You may think you are safe, but I have catfished one guy who said to have slept with you and another who went on a date with you. They have provided me with leads and I have matched them with your face photo you sent to my boyfriend many months back.

 

To all the boyfriends doing this in private, I have used this episode to expose the dangers and warn my boyfriend against making naive mistakes like what this guy did. Others can share their private details with this guys with some coercing, the same likelihood could happened to any other of you here. Everything done in darkness will be brought to light when the sun rises.

 

To you. Please post your public apology hereon and quit sleeping around.

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Hello auntie, your bf was never 100% straight to begin with. No straight man would ever take an interest, let alone get hooked on, gay pornography. Pls wake up your idea and get your soiled kotex out of our forum.

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Could it be auntie's fault that bf cheated with another man instead of another girl? Maybe the experience was bad or the punani is stale already

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Dear Guest J’s Girl, you might need to go reflect on yourself if you are even suitable to be in any type of relationship at all.

 

First and foremost,  it is already bad enough for you to go "stumble" onto a computer and DELIBERATELY read his messages. That's really bad; Then you can actually blame HIM for have the human curiosity to explore the world, even if it is talking about homosexuality; And then you go CATFISH others just to spy on your bf and his fling; Now, last but not least, you come onto this forum to issue an open threat to the person whom he is seeing??? HOLY SHIT! WTF!

 

You say that he is the best guy you have ever met. But yet, instead of feeding him with love to keep him by your side, you want to control his each and every move just so that he will not leave you? Even pets are showered with love and attention just so that they follow you around with love. But yet you treat him like some animals in a cage??? You are only in the boyfriend-girlfriend stage, but your control freak nature is already frightening as it is. Will you be locking him in chains if the two of you are to ever get married? Will you be knifing him if he is to have an affair, even if it is with another woman, in those decades of marriage with you in the future, which I hope will NEVER happen?  What about your children in the future? OMG. All these thoughts send chills down my spine!

 

I really cannot imagine anyone living a life together with you like that. You might want to reflect on yourself a bit before you come onto this forum to issue any more threats to anyone. I have seen through how women manipulate people into loving them with tears and threats. But sorry, honey .. that trick is not going to sell on a forum where MATURE people like me lurks. I hope your bf sees this and reconsider his relationship with you. He might be the best guy you have ever met, but looking at your behviour here, I sincerely hope you are not the best girl he has ever known. If you are, I can easiy imagine why he would turn gay, because girls like you are the cause of homosexuality.

 

And by the way, before you do anything rash on your perception that you know the identity of the person, please remember doxxing and cyberbullying are both crimes in Singapore.  And no, I am not the person whom you are looking for, and I am definitely NOT your bf. But please reflect on yourself, not just a bit, but a LOT!!!

 

OMG!

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On 3/19/2022 at 2:17 AM, Guest Guest said:

If you are, I can easily imagine why he would turn gay, because girls like you are the cause of homosexuality.

Does anyone have a tube of aloe vera gel? Because the auntie OP just got burned 🔥 

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The story in this thread is as old as humanity itself.

 

There is no medicine, no procedure that can remedy what the TS is going through.  It is not in the past, because he continues in his relationship with the same guy and has not learned anything new that could correct the situation.  Talking to the offending parties is not a solution.

 

Maybe a solution is to recognize that no one OWNS anyone else.  We all have been created to be free and independent.  Any limitation of this freedom and independence in a relationship and because of a relationship should be voluntary, and this will has a strong cause:  love.

 

Open relationships are better protected from these kinds of conflicts.  If the partner has the heat for someone else, he can have him.  But the fact that he stays in his original relationship is indicative that he feels love for his original partner. This is the essence of the partnership.

 

Other benefits can also keep an open relationship together,  like material things.  If the one who provides the material things is agreeable with this, the partnership can also persist, and with time the love can extend to both partners, especially when they get old. 

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Difference between men and women. Men look for sex, women look for security. 

So this accounts for the expectations each party has in a relationship.

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To J's Girl:

 

So did you guys break up or not? Got one time, also got second time leh ...

 

Your bf is bisexual?

 

The guy who "seduced" or made love to your bf is "Guy 1992"?

 

Frankly, do you feel "less hurt or more relieved" when the seducer is a guy 👍 rather than a young, pretty, beautiful lady? Means you lose out to your "own same gender species". 😎

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The sarcasm of the replies are pathetic, reflects very badly on them, what a shame. 
 

J’s girl, it was wrong of you to catfish but I could get where you are coming from. Damn unlucky for the guy who seduced your boyfriend and for his flings to sold him out. I do pity him a little because it takes two consenting parties, your boyfriend should not get away with it.

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On 3/19/2022 at 3:51 AM, Steve5380 said:

The story in this thread is as old as humanity itself.

 

There is no medicine, no procedure that can remedy what the TS is going through.  It is not in the past, because he continues in his relationship with the same guy and has not learned anything new that could correct the situation.  Talking to the offending parties is not a solution.

 

Maybe a solution is to recognize that no one OWNS anyone else.  We all have been created to be free and independent.  Any limitation of this freedom and independence in a relationship and because of a relationship should be voluntary, and this will has a strong cause:  love.

 

Open relationships are better protected from these kinds of conflicts.  If the partner has the heat for someone else, he can have him.  But the fact that he stays in his original relationship is indicative that he feels love for his original partner. This is the essence of the partnership.

 

Other benefits can also keep an open relationship together,  like material things.  If the one who provides the material things is agreeable with this, the partnership can also persist, and with time the love can extend to both partners, especially when they get old. 


There are also responsibilities & moral obligations to both parties in any relationship that comes with real love.

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On 3/18/2022 at 9:30 PM, Guest Voice said:


There are also responsibilities & moral obligations to both parties in any relationship that comes with real love.

 

Yes, responsibilities and obligations come with relationships.  And these are for the two who love each other to define.  There is no User Manual for relationships.

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That’s why I keep saying straight guys are yummy. The more angry the gf are, the happier the 小三are.

 

frankly I makan a couple of straight guys! They are yummy as they struggle, shy , in denial but curious to try. This made me want to Makan them more. Made my adrenaline high high. Bird bird hard.

 

in conclusion, gf who afraid of bf makan by others be it boys or girls. Please feed your bf full full. You don’t feed him and he will go out to look for ppl who want to feed him. So don’t blame others like 泼妇骂街。

 

so straight guys are yummy. This post confirmed that! No gays will come here to 泼妇骂街的。

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On 3/19/2022 at 1:04 AM, Guest J’s Girl said:

This is a warning to all the guys here who are attached with a girlfriend: Do not betray your girlfriend.

 

To the community here, I have nothing against you. I am here to call out a guy who seduced my boyfriend at one of the Safra swimming pool. He was fishing and attracting other guys in the changing room for sex. He got my boyfriend curious and begin chatting with him over many months. My boyfriend, the best guy I have ever met, was over time eaten by the curiosity this guy led him into and eventually addicted to gay pornography. They arranged to meet for two consecutive Fridays and I thwarted their appointment because my boyfriend in his excitement forgot to put his computer to sleep and I saw their conversation.

 

I spent the week understanding what happened to my boyfriend and I have chosen to forgive him. To the guy who seduced him, I wanted to speak to you in private but have removed your posts and telegram and so I do not want to confront you in private any longer. I have catfished members here who told me there is activity on your account in recent days. You may think you are safe, but I have catfished one guy who said to have slept with you and another who went on a date with you. They have provided me with leads and I have matched them with your face photo you sent to my boyfriend many months back.

 

To all the boyfriends doing this in private, I have used this episode to expose the dangers and warn my boyfriend against making naive mistakes like what this guy did. Others can share their private details with this guys with some coercing, the same likelihood could happened to any other of you here. Everything done in darkness will be brought to light when the sun rises.

 

To you. Please post your public apology hereon and quit sleeping around.

which safra pool? i wanna seduce him

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On 3/19/2022 at 10:35 AM, Guest Guest said:

Do the market sell lock that can lock the men's penis at sex shop.To prevent them from being horny with gal and guy.

But then still got the mouth and tongue ....and the hands ... unless you make his whole body numb and a vegetable lor .... 😱

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On 3/19/2022 at 1:04 AM, Guest J’s Girl said:

This is a warning to all the guys here who are attached with a girlfriend: Do not betray your girlfriend.

 

To the community here, I have nothing against you. I am here to call out a guy who seduced my boyfriend at one of the Safra swimming pool. He was fishing and attracting other guys in the changing room for sex. He got my boyfriend curious and begin chatting with him over many months. My boyfriend, the best guy I have ever met, was over time eaten by the curiosity this guy led him into and eventually addicted to gay pornography. They arranged to meet for two consecutive Fridays and I thwarted their appointment because my boyfriend in his excitement forgot to put his computer to sleep and I saw their conversation.

 

I spent the week understanding what happened to my boyfriend and I have chosen to forgive him. To the guy who seduced him, I wanted to speak to you in private but have removed your posts and telegram and so I do not want to confront you in private any longer. I have catfished members here who told me there is activity on your account in recent days. You may think you are safe, but I have catfished one guy who said to have slept with you and another who went on a date with you. They have provided me with leads and I have matched them with your face photo you sent to my boyfriend many months back.

 

To all the boyfriends doing this in private, I have used this episode to expose the dangers and warn my boyfriend against making naive mistakes like what this guy did. Others can share their private details with this guys with some coercing, the same likelihood could happened to any other of you here. Everything done in darkness will be brought to light when the sun rises.

 

To you. Please post your public apology hereon and quit sleeping around.

 

My dear girl, your boyfriend who can be seduced by a man is definitely not straight. At the very least, he is a bisexual who enjoys the company of other men. Even if you managed to thwart his actions now, you may not be able to put him on the leash in the future (unless you hold his future/material wealth). Once he has the taste of the dick/asshole, he will be back for more.

 

Think about it. 

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On 3/19/2022 at 10:26 AM, Guest Voice said:

The sarcasm of the replies are pathetic, reflects very badly on them, what a shame. 
 

J’s girl, it was wrong of you to catfish but I could get where you are coming from. Damn unlucky for the guy who seduced your boyfriend and for his flings to sold him out. I do pity him a little because it takes two consenting parties, your boyfriend should not get away with it.

 

There's no excuse for catfishing and doing all the things that she did. There is no shame in calling her out for what she is: a mistrusting gf who needs to be on her own for a few more decades to figure out how to love.

 

On 3/19/2022 at 10:30 AM, Guest Voice said:


There are also responsibilities & moral obligations to both parties in any relationship that comes with real love.

 

Looking at the way TS has behaved, her maturity is at such a low low level that I don't think she even knows what real love is. If she can behave that way at the beginning of a relationship, I wonder what will happen in the future. She got a looooooong way to go before she even talks about responsibilities & moral obligations iin any relationship. Look at what she has done: reading her bf's messages, stalking his private life, catfishing on other people to investigate him, and coming here to issue threats on the entire gay community becasue of a suspected affair. If the bf had been seeing a woman, what would she have done? Published out an advertisement in every single media? 

 

I think there are lots and lots of horror movies involving straight cheating couples like that. But usually if the girl has gone that far derange like this, someone usually ends up dead.  This is not sarcasm. This is as genuine as it can be. TS really do not deserve a bf at all. It will be disastrous for both of them.

 

On 3/19/2022 at 10:35 AM, Guest Guest said:

Do the market sell lock that can lock the men's penis at sex shop.To prevent them from being horny with gal and guy.

 

Yes, honey, they do. But guess what? That doesn't decrease horniness but increases it. Besides, men can still use their asses for fun. And also, thank you for showing us just what type mature replies she is getting from you. People cheats, so just deal with it. Men has testosterone while women has ovaries. Men gets horny and women gets bitchy. This is not a psychological issue. It is just plain old god-given HUMAN BIOLOGY! If you have any issues with that, go to church and lodge a complaint with the Big Boss. It only crosses the line when a bastard child appears at the doorstep asking to see his father, which thankfully will never happen if he is making out with another man.

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On 3/19/2022 at 11:56 AM, Guest Guest said:

 

There's no excuse for catfishing and doing all the things that she did. There is no shame in calling her out for what she is: a mistrusting gf who needs to be on her own for a few more decades to figure out how to love.

 

 

Looking at the way TS has behaved, her maturity is at such a low low level that I don't think she even knows what real love is. If she can behave that way at the beginning of a relationship, I wonder what will happen in the future. She got a looooooong way to go before she even talks about responsibilities & moral obligations iin any relationship. Look at what she has done: reading her bf's messages, stalking his private life, catfishing on other people to investigate him, and coming here to issue threats on the entire gay community becasue of a suspected affair. If the bf had been seeing a woman, what would she have done? Published out an advertisement in every single media? 

 

I think there are lots and lots of horror movies involving straight cheating couples like that. But usually if the girl has gone that far derange like this, someone usually ends up dead.  This is not sarcasm. This is as genuine as it can be. TS really do not deserve a bf at all. It will be disastrous for both of them.

 

 

Yes, honey, they do. But guess what? That doesn't decrease horniness but increases it. Besides, men can still use their asses for fun. And also, thank you for showing us just what type mature replies she is getting from you. People cheats, so just deal with it. Men has testosterone while women has ovaries. Men gets horny and women gets bitchy. This is not a psychological issue. It is just plain old god-given HUMAN BIOLOGY! If you have any issues with that, go to church and lodge a complaint with the Big Boss. It only crosses the line when a bastard child appears at the doorstep asking to see his father, which thankfully will never happen if he is making out with another man.


GAY JUSTICE WARRIOR trying too hard to justify. Not every men or women is a s****** like you or how you stereotype them to be.  

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On 3/19/2022 at 11:57 AM, Guest Hmmm said:

Eh is it even real anot. Maybe just a troll thread!


Try to find out who is the member!

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On 3/19/2022 at 11:57 AM, Guest Hmmm said:

Eh is it even real anot. Maybe just a troll thread!

Even not real, at least got something for us “to do and pass time”. Just like HWZ ppl …. LOL!

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On 3/19/2022 at 11:57 AM, Guest Hmmm said:

Eh is it even real anot. Maybe just a troll thread!


the responses r turning it into a troll thread

 

the values of the members and guests r … 被狗吃了 猪狗不如

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On 3/19/2022 at 12:07 PM, Guest Munching Popcorn said:


Try to find out who is the member!

I am more keen to know who is this bf. Which Safra pool? Keen to visit and may be lucky enough to get this type of straight guy! Sure nice to play with. Safra full of straight fit guys. 
 

recently caught one straight guy! Look like my company director fit straight looking innocent looking tanned and smell nice.
 

Once I open the gift box, he got cut cock, big balls, hairy pubic, hairy body, hard nipples. With some rubbing, his cock is hard like rock.
 

Then after ten minutes of fondling, he whispered his gf is waiting outside. Got to go now. No choice and I let him go! Straight guy is fun to play but you must know when to let go! If not, three parties will be sad, bf gf and yourself. 
 

sometimes open one eye close one eye helps to sustain a relationship. Everyone wants fresh meat.

 

As long as you go out to have fun, you know when to crawl back and wear condom. This is an experience talk from my friend with twenty years relationship. 

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On 3/19/2022 at 12:23 PM, Guest Guy1993 said:

I am more keen to know who is this bf. Which Safra pool? Keen to visit and may be lucky enough to get this type of straight guy! Sure nice to play with. Safra full of straight fit guys. 
 

recently caught one straight guy! Look like my company director fit straight looking innocent looking tanned and smell nice.
 

Once I open the gift box, he got cut cock, big balls, hairy pubic, hairy body, hard nipples. With some rubbing, his cock is hard like rock.
 

Then after ten minutes of fondling, he whispered his gf is waiting outside. Got to go now. No choice and I let him go! Straight guy is fun to play but you must know when to let go! If not, three parties will be sad, bf gf and yourself. 
 

sometimes open one eye close one eye helps to sustain a relationship. Everyone wants fresh meat.

 

As long as you go out to have fun, you know when to crawl back and wear condom. This is an experience talk from my friend with twenty years relationship. 


your fren 没没良心 and 狼心狗肺 still brag 

 

are we able to have some 尊严 as gays and as community if we have lost our 良心 and morals

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On 3/19/2022 at 12:30 PM, Guest ashamed gay said:


your fren 没没良心 and 狼心狗肺 still brag 

 

are we able to have some 尊严 as gays and as community if we have lost our 良心 and morals

Don’t be a drama queen. Don’t act like a princess. Which cat never steal fish to makan? Either they steal male or female fish to makan! Having said that, if you can tahan not to steal fish to eat, please maintain! I am so proud of you! I respect you! Everything is situation driven! 

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Was there honest conversations on his sexuality with the bf before this

: would the gf herself pursue a girl/girl affair? If not, what does that say abt the sexuality of the bf to begin with?

 

How is the mental connection like before between the bf and gf

: is it just routine company?

: was there any missing growth or chemistry that led the bf to be enticed by third party?

 

Was there common understanding on seeing other ppl based on the bf's/gf's value systems?

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On 3/19/2022 at 12:06 PM, Guest Munching Popcorn said:


GAY JUSTICE WARRIOR trying too hard to justify. Not every men or women is a s****** like you or how you stereotype them to be.  

 

What's there for any gays to "justify" over here? U dun believe? Go take bio lessons.

 

Reading her bf's messages, stalking his private life, catfishing on other people to investigate him, and coming here to issue threats on the entire gay community? All these are just wrong.

 

She is only at the gf-bf stage. Not married, and not even her fiancee! The bf can go sleep around for all he wants. It is not as if the gf will be less angry if he had been sleeping with other women instead of being gay.

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On 3/19/2022 at 12:35 PM, Guest Guy1994 said:

Don’t be a drama queen. Don’t act like a princess. Which cat never steal fish to makan? Either they steal male or female fish to makan! Having said that, if you can tahan not to steal fish to eat, please maintain! I am so proud of you! I respect you! Everything is situation driven! 

Well said … no one is perfect when it comes to sexual lust …. 

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On 3/19/2022 at 12:40 PM, Guest Guest said:

 

What's there for any gays to "justify" over here? U dun believe? Go take bio lessons.

 

Reading her bf's messages, stalking his private life, catfishing on other people to investigate him, and coming here to issue threats on the entire gay community? All these are just wrong.

 

She is only at the gf-bf stage. Not married, and not even her fiancee! The bf can go sleep around for all he wants. It is not as if the gf will be less angry if he had been sleeping with other women instead of being gay.

Having said that, maybe the girl is third party. And the so called straight guy got secret male lover. The girl blur blur thought someone steals his bf. In actual fact, she’s just the smoke screen for all this drama. We can’t hear one sided story. Please be mature! 
 

if the girl already forgive and forget the drama, she won’t come here to Kao Peh Kao mu. So she still buay gan Wan the gay eat his bf cock. 
 

there’s all kind of permutation! If she dares, put up her real name and photos. If not, we shall treat it as entertainment purposes. No need to be so serious over a Kao Peh Kao mu Xiao za Bor! 

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On 3/19/2022 at 12:40 PM, Guest Guest said:

What's there for any gays to "justify" over here? U dun believe? Go take bio lessons.

Reading her bf's messages, stalking his private life, catfishing on other people to investigate him, and coming here to issue threats on the entire gay community? All these are just wrong. She is only at the gf-bf stage. Not married, and not even her fiancee! The bf can go sleep around for all he wants. It is not as if the gf will be less angry if he had been sleeping with other women instead of being gay.

 

You are right, the girl should have not spied into his bf's private matters.

But if the bf is negligent, did not close down the pc, then what to do.

You don't know whether they shared the same laptop on times.

When people suspect something or are jealous characters then they do such things.

Some women even hire a private investigator to find out hanky panky of their bfs or husbands. 

We all know of such acts when someone is jealous or possessive...

 

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On 3/19/2022 at 1:04 AM, Guest J’s Girl said:

This is a warning to all the guys here who are attached with a girlfriend: Do not betray your girlfriend.

 

To the community here, I have nothing against you. I am here to call out a guy who seduced my boyfriend at one of the Safra swimming pool. He was fishing and attracting other guys in the changing room for sex. He got my boyfriend curious and begin chatting with him over many months. My boyfriend, the best guy I have ever met, was over time eaten by the curiosity this guy led him into and eventually addicted to gay pornography. They arranged to meet for two consecutive Fridays and I thwarted their appointment because my boyfriend in his excitement forgot to put his computer to sleep and I saw their conversation.

 

I spent the week understanding what happened to my boyfriend and I have chosen to forgive him. To the guy who seduced him, I wanted to speak to you in private but have removed your posts and telegram and so I do not want to confront you in private any longer. I have catfished members here who told me there is activity on your account in recent days. You may think you are safe, but I have catfished one guy who said to have slept with you and another who went on a date with you. They have provided me with leads and I have matched them with your face photo you sent to my boyfriend many months back.

 

To all the boyfriends doing this in private, I have used this episode to expose the dangers and warn my boyfriend against making naive mistakes like what this guy did. Others can share their private details with this guys with some coercing, the same likelihood could happened to any other of you here. Everything done in darkness will be brought to light when the sun rises.

 

To you. Please post your public apology hereon and quit sleeping around.

 

If the whole post is not fake at all, the best part to me is that the girl forgives her bf but just blames the gay guy.

The bf did not do anything wrong?

 

More interesting is to know what catfished guy had slept with others.

I think more intimate details on this would thrill most guys here much more than your warning to married or bisexual guys...

 

Babe, if you are really true, then please just start to accept that a few guys enjoy having sex with other men and your bf seems to be one of them. 

 

Either you accept it or let go.

There is no need to pinpoint to the guy your bf had fun with, he did nothing wrong.

 

 

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On 3/19/2022 at 1:33 PM, Guest Guy1995 said:

Having said that, maybe the girl is third party. And the so called straight guy got secret male lover. The girl blur blur thought someone steals his bf. In actual fact, she’s just the smoke screen for all this drama. We can’t hear one sided story. Please be mature! 
 

if the girl already forgive and forget the drama, she won’t come here to Kao Peh Kao mu. So she still buay gan Wan the gay eat his bf cock. 
 

there’s all kind of permutation! If she dares, put up her real name and photos. If not, we shall treat it as entertainment purposes. No need to be so serious over a Kao Peh Kao mu Xiao za Bor! 

Woah this is like the 🇹🇼 movie dear ex sia ~ 

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So J's Girl (J = Jack, Joseph, James etc. ???) must sort out with her bf (it can also be anyone related to her - her brother, sister, dad, mom, cousin etc. 😱)? 

 

Blame on her bf for not being careful - want to have fun but yet left some traces behind ...

 

Also, benefit of doubt, believe Guy1992 just wanted to have casual fun with the bf ... don't think he wanted to destroy the relationship? In fact, I think most gay guys will understand .... when they are the 小三,to keep it verydiscreet and low profile ...

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Not a single drop of contrition to all the BW ers who replied to this ,  

 

Someone has been hurt, someone has been wronged  and yet people like to blame the victim, shame the victim. 

 

Not even the slightest.contrition on any of the contributors. 

 

 

The bloody heart is made of stone. 

 

All they are about cock, cock , cock and more cock.

 

To hell with tepping on somebody along the way, if caught , blame the.Bf, blame.the gf. 

 

他们 心是 石头  做的, 流的是硫酸 血

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On 3/19/2022 at 5:15 PM, Guest O.L. said:

Not a single drop of contrition to all the BW ers who replied to this ,  

 

Someone has been hurt, someone has been wronged  and yet people like to blame the victim, shame the victim. 

 

Not even the slightest.contrition on any of the contributors. 

 

 

The bloody heart is made of stone. 

 

All they are about cock, cock , cock and more cock.

 

To hell with tepping on somebody along the way, if caught , blame the.Bf, blame.the gf. 

 

他们 心是 石头  做的, 流的是硫酸 血

 

 

You want to know who the victims really are? They are those whom the gf catfished and all of us gays who are issued the open threat here.

 

We have only seen her side of the story. So, even if the bf cheated on her, we cannot know for sure if the gf is really the victim, or whether she is the cause of all these problems with all her control-freak tendencies?

 

不是我们的心肠硬,不是我们的血硫酸。是你们女人的一哭二闹三上吊手法我们都领教过了,所以少来这里博同情。  給我滚蛋去!!

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On 3/19/2022 at 6:45 AM, Guest Guest said:

You want to know who the victims really are? They are those whom the gf catfished and all of us gays who are issued the open threat here.

 

I agree that the guys who were catfished can be considered victims, and her actions were wrong. 

 

On 3/19/2022 at 6:45 AM, Guest Guest said:

 

We have only seen her side of the story. So, even if the bf cheated on her, we cannot know for sure if the gf is really the victim, or whether she is the cause of all these problems with all her control-freak tendencies?

 

Control freak or not, that is not an excuse for the bf to cheat. If the bf has issues with her, he should discuss them with her. Cheating is not really discussing with her or communicating that he has a problem with her or their relationship. 

 

Granted we do not have full details of their relationship, or maybe he tried talking to her etc. However, in cheating, he is showing a complete lack of respect for her and her feelings. The bf had sex with another guy while he is still with her. That is the problem. Even if you are planning to be in a polyamorous relationship, you should always discuss first to let the person you are currently in a relationship with know and get their feedback. It is respecting the relationship and the other person. 

 

I mean clearly from what she has shared, she is raised to have certain conservative/traditional values of what a relationship means. She is not ready for an open relationship much less one where the bf is potentially bisexual or gay. It reflects the societal values we are raised with. 

 

I know of polyamorous couples where they both explore relationships with both men and women, and it works for them as long as they are respectful and communicate openly. SO we have very little of such drama. 

 

 

On 3/19/2022 at 6:45 AM, Guest Guest said:

 

不是我们的心肠硬,不是我们的血硫酸。是你们女人的一哭二闹三上吊手法我们都领教过了,所以少来这里博同情。  給我滚蛋去!!

 

I don't think she is looking for sympathy. She is misdirecting her anger, pain, and hurt. You see, even though she says she has forgiven her bf, she hasn't really. By staying in the relationship, she is clinging to the pain and demanding apology, catfishing etc. If she had truly forgive, she would have let go of all the negative emotions. It is going to take a lot of work on herself to let go, and TBH, as long as she is with the bf, it is even harder. She would be better off making a clean break and focusing on herself and healing. 

Love. 

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On 3/19/2022 at 5:15 PM, Guest O.L. said:

Not a single drop of contrition to all the BW ers who replied to this ,  

 

Someone has been hurt, someone has been wronged  and yet people like to blame the victim, shame the victim. 

 

Not even the slightest.contrition on any of the contributors. 

 

 

The bloody heart is made of stone. 

 

All they are about cock, cock , cock and more cock.

 

To hell with tepping on somebody along the way, if caught , blame the.Bf, blame.the gf. 

 

他们 心是 石头  做的, 流的是硫酸 血


I agree the girlfriend is a 受害者

 

cheat behind girlfriend is wrong, casual fun or not, you cannot right a wrong just by terming it casual fun . why so many here are delusional about basic right and wrong.

 

the bf cannot shrink responsibilities of wrongdoing and cheating, the seducer cannot too if he is in the know that the guy is someone else’s bf. lagi worse, he knows and leave trail of food to 勾引 him to be curious and try sex, 放长线钓大鱼

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On 3/19/2022 at 10:23 PM, doncoin said:

Granted we do not have full details of their relationship, or maybe he tried talking to her etc. However, in cheating, he is showing a complete lack of respect for her and her feelings. The bf had sex with another guy while he is still with her. That is the problem. Even if you are planning to be in a polyamorous relationship, you should always discuss first to let the person you are currently in a relationship with know and get their feedback. It is respecting the relationship and the other person. 

 

I mean clearly from what she has shared, she is raised to have certain conservative/traditional values of what a relationship means. She is not ready for an open relationship much less one where the bf is potentially bisexual or gay. It reflects the societal values we are raised with. 

 

 

There wouldn't be pages of cheating bf's gay or straight at different forums or at BW, if it doesn't happen.

I m just too realistic that truly monogamous relationships don't seem to be the norm. While I am aware that there are monogamous loving couples, I see them as a minority,

in particular if you bump at so called monogamous couples at certain sex related places...

Cheating partners are out there. if that is a total lack of respect is a question of what relationship they have.

We actually don't know.

She could also call him bf, while he considered their relationship as some casual sex meet ups.

 

As long we don't know the full story and the extent of the relationship it is difficult to talk about it.

 

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moral of story: be prepared to be found out and judged when you cheat or get cheated.

 

the seducer flings looks to have sold him out easily if what the girl say is real.
 

so damn unlucky and unfortunate for this dude, this girl imply her bf witness this guy cruising for sex. 

 

anyone went to find out who is this 1992 safra cruiser blowingwind member?

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On 3/19/2022 at 1:04 AM, Guest J’s Girl said:

This is a warning to all the guys here who are attached with a girlfriend: Do not betray your girlfriend.

 

To the community here, I have nothing against you. I am here to call out a guy who seduced my boyfriend at one of the Safra swimming pool. He was fishing and attracting other guys in the changing room for sex. He got my boyfriend curious and begin chatting with him over many months. My boyfriend, the best guy I have ever met, was over time eaten by the curiosity this guy led him into and eventually addicted to gay pornography. They arranged to meet for two consecutive Fridays and I thwarted their appointment because my boyfriend in his excitement forgot to put his computer to sleep and I saw their conversation.

 

I spent the week understanding what happened to my boyfriend and I have chosen to forgive him. To the guy who seduced him, I wanted to speak to you in private but have removed your posts and telegram and so I do not want to confront you in private any longer. I have catfished members here who told me there is activity on your account in recent days. You may think you are safe, but I have catfished one guy who said to have slept with you and another who went on a date with you. They have provided me with leads and I have matched them with your face photo you sent to my boyfriend many months back.

 

To all the boyfriends doing this in private, I have used this episode to expose the dangers and warn my boyfriend against making naive mistakes like what this guy did. Others can share their private details with this guys with some coercing, the same likelihood could happened to any other of you here. Everything done in darkness will be brought to light when the sun rises.

 

To you. Please post your public apology hereon and quit sleeping around.

 

What an amazing story.  If only Mediacorp can buy your story it will be win/win - u and the audiences. 

If you are a regular individuals (which you are) you behave exactly what you have did and will do - which every drama has shown us.  

If you are above those regular, in hindsight you shd thanks the seducer - Go figure out 

 

(I always secretly hope someone will seduce my bf to see behavior and respond) 

 

 

 

 

 

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On 3/19/2022 at 5:15 PM, Guest O.L. said:

Not a single drop of contrition to all the BW ers who replied to this ,  

 

Someone has been hurt, someone has been wronged  and yet people like to blame the victim, shame the victim. 

 

Not even the slightest.contrition on any of the contributors. 

 

 

The bloody heart is made of stone. 

 

All they are about cock, cock , cock and more cock.

 

To hell with tepping on somebody along the way, if caught , blame the.Bf, blame.the gf. 

 

他们 心是 石头  做的, 流的是硫酸 血

For someone out with so much vengence deserves no sympathy.

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On 3/19/2022 at 5:15 PM, Guest O.L. said:

Not a single drop of contrition to all the BW ers who replied to this ,  

 

Someone has been hurt, someone has been wronged  and yet people like to blame the victim, shame the victim. 

 

Not even the slightest.contrition on any of the contributors. 

 

 

The bloody heart is made of stone. 

 

All they are about cock, cock , cock and more cock.

 

To hell with tepping on somebody along the way, if caught , blame the.Bf, blame.the gf. 

 

他们 心是 石头  做的, 流的是硫酸 血


If you even believe the original post is real (I have my doubts), why should anyone hear show contrition for the acts of others just because they happen to have same sexual preference?

 

And what did the ‘seducer’ do wrong? As others have said, anyone so easily seduced is not straight in the first place and it is not for the seducer to manage the personal life of the seduced. 
 

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On 3/20/2022 at 12:20 PM, Guest Guest said:

Why J's Girl so far never come out to say something? 


yes! provide us juicy content like photos, identity and blowing wind account name of seducer. which safra, tampines, toa payoh or mount faber?

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On 3/19/2022 at 1:04 AM, Guest J’s Girl said:

This is a warning to all the guys here who are attached with a girlfriend: Do not betray your girlfriend.

 

To the community here, I have nothing against you. I am here to call out a guy who seduced my boyfriend at one of the Safra swimming pool. He was fishing and attracting other guys in the changing room for sex. He got my boyfriend curious and begin chatting with him over many months. My boyfriend, the best guy I have ever met, was over time eaten by the curiosity this guy led him into and eventually addicted to gay pornography. They arranged to meet for two consecutive Fridays and I thwarted their appointment because my boyfriend in his excitement forgot to put his computer to sleep and I saw their conversation.

 

I spent the week understanding what happened to my boyfriend and I have chosen to forgive him. To the guy who seduced him, I wanted to speak to you in private but have removed your posts and telegram and so I do not want to confront you in private any longer. I have catfished members here who told me there is activity on your account in recent days. You may think you are safe, but I have catfished one guy who said to have slept with you and another who went on a date with you. They have provided me with leads and I have matched them with your face photo you sent to my boyfriend many months back.

 

To all the boyfriends doing this in private, I have used this episode to expose the dangers and warn my boyfriend against making naive mistakes like what this guy did. Others can share their private details with this guys with some coercing, the same likelihood could happened to any other of you here. Everything done in darkness will be brought to light when the sun rises.

 

To you. Please post your public apology hereon and quit sleeping around.

 

"I have used this episode to expose the dangers and warn my boyfriend against making naive mistakes like what this guy did. the voyeuristic"?

 

Wow.... I hope the boyfriend sees this and break it off with her immediately.  If she can go spy on her boyfriend now, what will she do to a husband in the future?   

 

Yes, cheating is bad.  But this cheating episode exposed some deeper issues of hers.  Hey J, wake up your idea and see for yourself if this is the type of person you want to spend the rest of your life with.  This might just be the tip of the iceberg to all her other underlying psychological issues. Be careful! 

 

I sure hope those guys who were catfished and the guy whom the boyfriend met will csi her out. Let the entire community know who this bitch is.

 

Who anyone sleeps around,  is also not any of her concern. Who is she to go warn anyone on that? Seriously.... and she even think she has the right to go demand an apology from anyone for that? 

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