Hooking up while traveling overseas

[Guest Inexperienced Traveler]

Hi BWers, I’m traveling solo in Germany for a few days before friends join and chatted up a cute fit local guy my age yesterday. We’re gonna meet up for dinner and drinks somewhere near my centrally located hostel later tonight, and there’s a chance we might do more.

 

His place (apparently a student accommodation) however is a bit further out and I’ve never been in this city (Munich) before - anyone with experience hooking up overseas has any tips if it’s safe or wise to go to his place? Or should I risk bringing him to my hostel even though it’s officially against the rules?

 

Kinda nervous as I have never hooked up overseas before or met up with a white guy for more before - but at the same time curious and horny haha.

[GachiMuchi]

Seriously, I think your own personal safety never cross your mind when you travel, do you?

 

1. stranger's place.

2. overseas.

3. If something happens, who can you call for help?

4. Does Jeffrey Dahrmer ring any bells?

 

Don't let your sperm lead you astray.

[Guest Guest]

You could ring my bell inform someone if u not back within 24 hrs  to report missing in person.

[Guest Serious]

On 4/11/2022 at 1:06 AM, Guest Inexperienced Traveler said:

Hi BWers, I’m traveling solo in Germany for a few days before friends join and chatted up a cute fit local guy my age yesterday. We’re gonna meet up for dinner and drinks somewhere near my centrally located hostel later tonight, and there’s a chance we might do more.

 

His place (apparently a student accommodation) however is a bit further out and I’ve never been in this city (Munich) before - anyone with experience hooking up overseas has any tips if it’s safe or wise to go to his place? Or should I risk bringing him to my hostel even though it’s officially against the rules?

 

Kinda nervous as I have never hooked up overseas before or met up with a white guy for more before - but at the same time curious and horny haha.

What if he is a serial killer

[TEY2005]

On 4/11/2022 at 2:01 AM, Guest Serious said:

What if he is a serial killer

What if he is a serial rapist? Gangbang?

[Guest Red Runner]

Met this young guy the next morning I arrived in Tokyo. He msg me on Grindr and we met and we fucked. Decided to give him my underwear since I thought his underwear were really ugly. After that we did not managed to meet and I thought that was it.

[Guest Scared cat]

When I was backpacking solo across Europe ďid not even dare for once to turn on my grindr or jack'd So many afrikaans, middle easterners and eastern Europeans around I felt vulnerable. Gay asian double minority identity might kena hate crime or robbed.

[Guest Angel]

On 4/11/2022 at 10:12 AM, Guest Scared cat said:

When I was backpacking solo across Europe ďid not even dare for once to turn on my grindr or jack'd So many afrikaans, middle easterners and eastern Europeans around I felt vulnerable. Gay asian double minority identity might kena hate crime or robbed.

Be v careful.  After robbing, raping, next is killing.

[Guest Wtf]

On 4/11/2022 at 10:12 AM, Guest Scared cat said:

When I was backpacking solo across Europe ďid not even dare for once to turn on my grindr or jack'd So many afrikaans, middle easterners and eastern Europeans around I felt vulnerable. Gay asian double minority identity might kena hate crime or robbed.

 

On 4/11/2022 at 11:31 AM, Guest Angel said:

Be v careful.  After robbing, raping, next is killing.

so scared of the world, you should just stay home.

 

then more space for the rest of us to enjoy it. 

[Topper]

Do not bring him back to your hostel because many hostels have a strict no guest staying over policy - even more so when you're sharing with others because theft can occur if the person goes through other patrons belongings. Hostels are usually manned and there's CCTV around. The Germans take rules very seriously.

 

One of the joys of traveling solo as a gay guy is being able to meet other local gay guys but you have to exercise caution and remind yourself that the other person is a stranger and despite being friendly, you don't really know them. So if you're bringing a money bag/passport with you and take off your clothes for fun, make sure you do not go to the bathroom/toilet without taking them with you - a Malaysian friend who visited Melbourne, met up with an Aussie guy at his apartment for fun and had all his travel cash stolen from his wallet. The Aussie guy told my friend to go to the jacuzzi first and he'd follow later because he wanted to use the toilet and my friend stripped off in his room leaving behind his clothes and wallet on the floor.  My friend only discovered his money had been stolen when he left the building and went to retrieve some money for public transport.

Meet this guy in a public place first like a drinking tavern or cafe and take it from there - your instincts need to be sharp and you will have to trust your gut. Munich is a beautiful city and the locals are more friendly compared to the north. There are gay saunas in that city if you feel the need to have fun and that's always a safer place to go rather than his or your own place. You may also find other hot guys in the sauna...

 

Good luck and have fun

[Guest Wtf]

On 4/11/2022 at 12:42 PM, Topper said:

Do not bring him back to your hostel because many hostels have a strict no guest staying over policy - even more so when you're sharing with others because theft can occur if the person goes through other patrons belongings. Hostels are usually manned and there's CCTV around. The Germans take rules very seriously.

 

One of the joys of traveling solo as a gay guy is being able to meet other local gay guys but you have to exercise caution and remind yourself that the other person is a stranger and despite being friendly, you don't really know them. So if you're bringing a money bag/passport with you and take off your clothes for fun, make sure you do not go to the bathroom/toilet without taking them with you - a Malaysian friend who visited Melbourne, met up with an Aussie guy at his apartment for fun and had all his travel cash stolen from his wallet. The Aussie guy told my friend to go to the jacuzzi first and he'd follow later because he wanted to use the toilet and my friend stripped off in his room leaving behind his clothes and wallet on the floor.  My friend only discovered his money had been stolen when he left the building and went to retrieve some money for public transport.

Meet this guy in a public place first like a drinking tavern or cafe and take it from there - your instincts need to be sharp and you will have to trust your gut. Munich is a beautiful city and the locals are more friendly compared to the north. There are gay saunas in that city if you feel the need to have fun and that's always a safer place to go rather than his or your own place. You may also find other hot guys in the sauna...

 

Good luck and have fun

great advice and much more helpful than all the people saying ‘what if he is a serial killer’ or making racist remarks. 

[Guest Duh]

On 4/11/2022 at 12:04 PM, Guest Wtf said:

 

so scared of the world, you should just stay home.

 

then more space for the rest of us to enjoy it. 

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/aug/29/spate-of-attacks-across-uk-sparks-fear-among-lgbtq-community

 

Have fun play safe!

[Guest Try and see]

On 4/11/2022 at 12:04 PM, Guest Wtf said:

so scared of the world, you should just stay home.

 

then more space for the rest of us to enjoy it. 

 

Somebody sour grapes because he cannot afford to go overseas.

 

It's okay; you can use your Grindr at Sentosa and hook up with a Banglah cleaner 🤣

[Guest Try and see]

On 4/11/2022 at 1:19 PM, Guest Duh said:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/aug/29/spate-of-attacks-across-uk-sparks-fear-among-lgbtq-community

 

Have fun play safe!

 

No need to teach Guest Wtf.

Let him get murdered while trying to hook up strangers.

Then there will be one less idiot on this planet.

[singalion]

On 4/11/2022 at 1:06 AM, Guest Inexperienced Traveler said:

Hi BWers, I’m traveling solo in Germany for a few days before friends join and chatted up a cute fit local guy my age yesterday. We’re gonna meet up for dinner and drinks somewhere near my centrally located hostel later tonight, and there’s a chance we might do more.

 

His place (apparently a student accommodation) however is a bit further out and I’ve never been in this city (Munich) before - anyone with experience hooking up overseas has any tips if it’s safe or wise to go to his place? Or should I risk bringing him to my hostel even though it’s officially against the rules?

 

Kinda nervous as I have never hooked up overseas before or met up with a white guy for more before - but at the same time curious and horny haha.

 

a) I never heard that in Europe you can't bring visitors to a hostel?

Rules may say, visitors can't stay overnight. 

 

b) Why can't do a whatsapp video chat before you meet?

 

c) As to my best experience Germans are quite direct if not the most direct species on earth. Just ask if he plans for more after dinner and what his likings are. 

 

d) Germans public transport is quite extensive. Before you go you can check online when the last bus will depart back to city or the nearest underground from his student hostel if you don't plan overnight. 

 

e) You should make up your mind during dinner whether the guy is trustworthy or not. You're lucky if he is into Asians. 

 

f) if you join him back, risk minimising:

- have emergency call no's ready on your phone

- bring your own drinks, don't allow him to offer any drink at his place.

- discuss already fetishes at dinner. 

 

g) please report your sex adventure in detail here after your meet up. 

 

 

You might worry too much if he 's just into vanilla play. 

 

Usually , nobody would commit crimes in a student accommodation, there are so many people around. 

 

[singalion]

On 4/11/2022 at 10:12 AM, Guest Scared cat said:

When I was backpacking solo across Europe ďid not even dare for once to turn on my grindr or jack'd So many afrikaans, middle easterners and eastern Europeans around I felt vulnerable. Gay asian double minority identity might kena hate crime or robbed.

 

Unfortunately, you will never have the chance to complete visiting the 7 World Wonders...

 

 

[Guest Scared cat]

On 4/11/2022 at 12:04 PM, Guest Wtf said:

 

so scared of the world, you should just stay home.

 

then more space for the rest of us to enjoy it. 

I am no shrinking violet but I avoid exposure in public with gay apps. I did visit a gay leather bar and sex shop (forgotten the names) in Amsterdam, Le Depot (double story dance club with indoor cruising streets with private rooms), Le Raidd (dance club with gogo boy shower shows) and Les Mots a la Bouche (gay bookstore) in Paris, Coming Out gay restaurant bar in Rome, Pleasuredrome sauna and Ku Bar in London and Sauna Gay Casanova in Barcelona. Lol

[Guest Scared cat]

Omg I sounded like a bona fide sex tourist lol. What to do I had 21 days in Europe. And no, I did not visit the Vatican despite being in Rome for 2 days, ain't go no time for fairy tale states lol.

[Guest Berlin]

Chemsex is widespread in Germany. The risk is that you get KO drops in his place and get gang raped. If you have a separate room in the hostel, I suggest you bring him there. At most, the hostel administration can require that he leaves, if noticed. Or you would need to pay for an extra day if he stays overnight.

[singalion]

On 4/11/2022 at 2:03 PM, Guest Berlin said:

Chemsex is widespread in Germany. The risk is that you get KO drops in his place and get gang raped. If you have a separate room in the hostel, I suggest you bring him there. At most, the hostel administration can require that he leaves, if noticed. Or you would need to pay for an extra day if he stays overnight.

 

Please don't overdo. 

 

From my app experience "chem" seems to be a bigger problem and more widespread in South East Asia, Singapore inclusive. Singapore, Thailand and Malaysia very widespread. I encountered more guys here asking for "chem" than in Europe. 

 

Not all European gays into "chems". However younger people tend to smoke joints on times. 

 

The TS can clarify this with the guy during the dinner. It is supposed to be a 1 to 1 and not a sex party...

 

 

[Guest Exoticity]

He asked means he's being careful. If you can't be polite, don't advice.

 

I admit that I'm a sex tourist myself. But unlike those who visit bars and saunas in Bangkok, I'm more into local ordinary men and their ordinary lives.

I myself is a middle aged Chinese. So foreign men see me as harmless and well, to be honest, easy meat but exotic too.

 

I've been taken home from the 500yen by a Japanese uncle who's a typical salary man.

His flat is so small yet neat and functional. Unfortunately, he was out of job that time. He showed me around the neighborhood, the popular  restaurants and the public baths. He looked very mild mannered but a beast in bed. I can feel his pent up frustrations as he fucked me for 2 days and nights.

He had all kinds of kinky toys that worried me so I refused to be tied up by him.

By the 3rd night, he brought me to that infamous Ueno park to meet his 2 friends. They brought me to that dim slope and gang raped me while there's a baseball game going on down there.

On the way to the train station, he checked out that infamous toilet and met another friend. They discussed in some Japanese and I was passed to that guy for the night. His flat is no better and quite far away.

 

I stayed for 1 day and left before he take me out for trading again.

 

Frankly, the sex was thrilling but knowing how fickle men are, I don't want to overstay my welcome. I know they are very careful themselves about taking in strangers unless they really like me. But still after 3 days of fucking me, I can forgive that he's bored with me.

 

In London, I met another pot bellied uncle in  Hamstead Heath, infamous for George Michael with pot-bellied van driver Norman Kirtland. He brought me around the bars then home half drunk.

His flat was a mess.

We didn't have sex immediately, we watched jap gay porn. He had trouble getting it up and blamed the alcohol. 

He's complaining about his ex wife and his job. Anyway, he offered me a massage instead of direct sex. Then he started talking dirty about dirty Japanese men, my dirty cock, my dirty nipples, my dirty butt, my dirty balls, my dirty cunt that so many Japanese men fucked.

He massaged my dirty cunt till I cummed. His massage and fingering was very good and I think that's how he pleased men.

"Tell me, is that how Japanese men fuck your dirty cunt, you whore" as he paused the video where the Japanese uncle was dripping with juices from his gaping hole after being gang raped. I might have mentioned my gang rape to him accidentally( I'm drunk too) that excited his fetish.

[mate69]

omg so graphic LOL 

[Guest Guest]

On 4/11/2022 at 12:04 PM, Guest Wtf said:

 

so scared of the world, you should just stay home.

 

then more space for the rest of us to enjoy it. 

So brave....you should rot in the wild. Then more fertilizers for the plants.

[milky_boi]

don't fuck raw haha

[Guest Inexperienced Traveler]

Thanks @Topper and @singalion for the helpful advice! Gonna just ignore those overtly racist and unhelpful ones for sure.

 

Anyway, yesterday we did meet up for dinner and drinks, and had a great conversation (including finding out he’s hoping to do an exchange in Singapore this or next year). Was surprised that even though he was younger than me, he was gentlemanly enough to walk me back to my hostel. Got really horny when he gave a goodbye kiss, so invited him to “check out” my hostel room since there weren’t that many people around and the reception was unmanned at that time. 
 

Was super lucky that there wasn’t anyone else in the shared room yesterday, so once we sat down on my bed I took the initiative to start making out and playing with each other’s boners. Was super turned on by his big and hard dick which by then I had released from the zipper of his jeans, so tried to put on a condom that I brought from Singapore to do more, but the first two broke before I could fully unroll it and apparently during my third attempt I was grabbing his dick too hard while trying to keep his foreskin pulled back and rolling the condom too much on his sensitive spot that he geysered all over our t-shirts and jeans. Thought that was it after cleaning up a bit but then he mentioned how it’s not fair that I wasn’t done yet so he kneeled in front of me and started blowing me hard. Not sure if it was his skill or me getting super turned on at that point with his blue eyes staring directly into mine the whole time, but I pretty much blew my load under a minute! 😅

 

He had to rush to catch his train after that, but we’re meeting for lunch today and he offered to take me sightseeing. 😉 If I do go to his place later today, I will definitely send my location to a friend and ask them to check in every now and then or so - don’t see any red flags so far but I guess better to be safe than sorry!

[Guest 滥贱 冰冰]

On 4/11/2022 at 11:31 AM, Guest Angel said:

Be v careful.  After robbing, raping, next is killing.

 

 

先   奸   ，  后   解   体 ，再

 分  尸

 

 

👍👍👍👍

 

Some people need to learn life survival skills the hard way.

 

They don't have plan B , plan   C,  plan  D , plan E .

 

Because the guy is German , Caucasian , have pink white skin dick , have 7.5 inch dick . 

 

Ready to F, 

 

That is all that matters to them 🥶🥶🥶

 

BY THE WAY , JEFFREY DAHMER, name was spelt wrongly. 

 

There are a plenty of  potential murderers and psychos out there that u might meet, and think they are charming and hot, 

 

Psychopaths and serial M.know how to hook.their meat and turn on the charm . 

 

I luckily already 上 岸。 脱 离  淫欲 海 liow , 

 

And before that I was very careful not to end up on a cold mortuary slab , marked unsolved cases.

 

 

 

 

[Topper]

On 4/11/2022 at 10:04 PM, Guest Inexperienced Traveler said:

Thanks @Topper and @singalion for the helpful advice! Gonna just ignore those overtly racist and unhelpful ones for sure.

 

Anyway, yesterday we did meet up for dinner and drinks, and had a great conversation (including finding out he’s hoping to do an exchange in Singapore this or next year). Was surprised that even though he was younger than me, he was gentlemanly enough to walk me back to my hostel. Got really horny when he gave a goodbye kiss, so invited him to “check out” my hostel room since there weren’t that many people around and the reception was unmanned at that time. 
 

Was super lucky that there wasn’t anyone else in the shared room yesterday, so once we sat down on my bed I took the initiative to start making out and playing with each other’s boners. Was super turned on by his big and hard dick which by then I had released from the zipper of his jeans, so tried to put on a condom that I brought from Singapore to do more, but the first two broke before I could fully unroll it and apparently during my third attempt I was grabbing his dick too hard while trying to keep his foreskin pulled back and rolling the condom too much on his sensitive spot that he geysered all over our t-shirts and jeans. Thought that was it after cleaning up a bit but then he mentioned how it’s not fair that I wasn’t done yet so he kneeled in front of me and started blowing me hard. Not sure if it was his skill or me getting super turned on at that point with his blue eyes staring directly into mine the whole time, but I pretty much blew my load under a minute! 😅

 

He had to rush to catch his train after that, but we’re meeting for lunch today and he offered to take me sightseeing. 😉 If I do go to his place later today, I will definitely send my location to a friend and ask them to check in every now and then or so - don’t see any red flags so far but I guess better to be safe than sorry!

Wow hot encounter, you lucky devil   

Hope the 2nd meeting is a hot and steamy one too!

[singalion]

On 4/12/2022 at 8:51 AM, Topper said:

Wow hot encounter, you lucky devil   

Hope the 2nd meeting is a hot and steamy one too!

 Yeah , I m also happy for him that it turned out positive.

 

But he's a lost case! He will become an Ang Moh Lover and size queen. 

 

I assume he will be begging for more German sausages...

 

😂

 

[And then]

On 4/12/2022 at 9:30 AM, singalion said:

 Yeah , I m also happy for him that it turned out positive.

 

But he's a lost case! He will become an Ang Moh Lover and size queen. 

 

I assume he will be begging for more German sausages...

 

😂

 

get over it... i've had hundreds of white sausages, but now I'm simply not interested.

Firmly in the lup cheong camp.

 

[And then]

On 4/11/2022 at 8:04 PM, Guest Inexperienced Traveler said:

Thanks @Topper and @singalion for the helpful advice! Gonna just ignore those overtly racist and unhelpful ones for sure.

 

Anyway, yesterday we did meet up for dinner and drinks, and had a great conversation (including finding out he’s hoping to do an exchange in Singapore this or next year). Was surprised that even though he was younger than me, he was gentlemanly enough to walk me back to my hostel. Got really horny when he gave a goodbye kiss, so invited him to “check out” my hostel room since there weren’t that many people around and the reception was unmanned at that time. 
 

Was super lucky that there wasn’t anyone else in the shared room yesterday, so once we sat down on my bed I took the initiative to start making out and playing with each other’s boners. Was super turned on by his big and hard dick which by then I had released from the zipper of his jeans, so tried to put on a condom that I brought from Singapore to do more, but the first two broke before I could fully unroll it and apparently during my third attempt I was grabbing his dick too hard while trying to keep his foreskin pulled back and rolling the condom too much on his sensitive spot that he geysered all over our t-shirts and jeans. Thought that was it after cleaning up a bit but then he mentioned how it’s not fair that I wasn’t done yet so he kneeled in front of me and started blowing me hard. Not sure if it was his skill or me getting super turned on at that point with his blue eyes staring directly into mine the whole time, but I pretty much blew my load under a minute! 😅

 

He had to rush to catch his train after that, but we’re meeting for lunch today and he offered to take me sightseeing. 😉 If I do go to his place later today, I will definitely send my location to a friend and ask them to check in every now and then or so - don’t see any red flags so far but I guess better to be safe than sorry!

great experience!

that's how life and travel should be.

to be adventurous yet not too naive or blindly trusting.

 

cannot understand people who are just worried about everything non stop

[Guest Scared cat]

Racist? Knowing what went down in those countries with influx of migrants from which countries, their dominant religion and the crimes they have commited to gays and especially after 2 years of pandemic you don't know what they think about chinese people whether they would be even more likely the racist ones now...

 

Eg. Albanians even though they are eastern Europeans they are dominant muslims and are known to be particularly aggressive and racist.

 

[Guest Guest]

Beware of china mb in china they demand more money  and ready to rob u  .But if u are smart allow them to access to yr safe box in hotel room.u know why?

[singalion]

On 4/12/2022 at 11:42 AM, And then said:

get over it... i've had hundreds of white sausages, but now I'm simply not interested.

Firmly in the lup cheong camp.

 

 

Probably the white guys exercised too extensively in Asia...😄

[singalion]

On 4/12/2022 at 11:45 AM, And then said:

cannot understand people who are just worried about everything non stop

 

it's just jealousy! 

 

While the TS explores the German sausages, they can only jerk in front of twitter looking at Ang Moh schlongs and dreaming of a healthy load...

Just jealous. 

Those gosip makciks just want to spoil mood. 

 

[singalion]

On 4/12/2022 at 11:51 AM, Guest Scared cat said:

Racist? Knowing what went down in those countries with influx of migrants from which countries, their dominant religion and the crimes they have commited to gays and especially after 2 years of pandemic you don't know what they think about chinese people whether they would be even more likely the racist ones now...

 

Eg. Albanians even though they are eastern Europeans they are dominant muslims and are known to be particularly aggressive and racist.

 

 

And what does it serve the TS. 

 

Probably, he is happy to explore the variety from BBC to clean cut 8" Arab tools and also 8" uncut latino boys. 

 

He will pass the 7 world wonders in just a week and probably ask for asylumn in Germany.

 

For your info: Germany got already many Asians, Chinese etc also. 

 

It is gay heaven if you are open minded and take race as an affluence of human sexual nature and attraction. 

 

 

Do you eat Hainanese chicken rice every day?

 

Edited April 12, 2022 by singalion

[Guest Vegan]

On 4/12/2022 at 1:52 PM, singalion said:

 

And what does it serve the TS. 

 

Probably, he is happy to explore the variety from BBC to clean cut 8" Arab tools and also 8" uncut latino boys. 

 

He will pass the 7 world wonders in just a week and probably ask for asylumn in Germany.

 

For your info: Germany got already many Asians, Chinese etc also. 

 

It is gay heaven if you are open minded and take race as an affluence of human sexual nature and attraction. 

 

 

Do you eat Hainanese chicken rice every day?

 

Why nobody in Singapore want to eat your full of msg and lard pepperoni sausage is it? 

[Guest Violence Alarm]

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Spate of attacks across UK sparks fear among LGBTQ+ community

Hate crimes related to sexual orientation and gender identity have increased year on year since 2015

Libby Brooks and Jessica Murray

Sun 29 Aug 2021 07.24 EDT

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Two weeks ago, Ranjith “Roy” Kankanamalage, 50, was discovered with a fatal head injury in Tower Hamlets Cemetery Park, east London. The brutal attack was, police believe, motivated by homophobia and a man has been arrested on suspicion of murder.

A day earlier, a couple called Rob and Patrick were attacked with broken bottles in Birmingham’s gay village, leaving one unconscious and the other with extensive cuts. Three men have been arrested on suspicion of robbery and wounding.

On 30 July, in Edinburgh, a married gay couple were punched, kicked and spat at as they walked down a busy city centre street. Three men have been charged in connection with alleged assaults and homophobic crimes.

 

 

And in Liverpool, during Pride month, hundreds of people joined a protest on 22 June after at least three street attacks on young men within the space of a few weeks.

Local activists and national campaigners have told the Guardian that this spate of attacks across the UK, while unconnected, underscores a climate of fear endured by the LGBTQ+ community on the streets.

Since 2015, hate crimes related to sexual orientation and gender identity have increased year on year, according to government data for England, Wales and Scotland. In the year to March 2020 in England and Wales, sexual orientation hate crimes rose by 19% to 15,835, and transgender identity hate crimes by 16% to 2,540 – averaging more than 50 reports each day.

 

 

Sasha Misra, the associate director of campaigns at the LGBTQ+ rights charity Stonewall, said: “The recent incidents in Edinburgh, Birmingham, Liverpool and London are a stark reminder that in 2021, lesbian, gay, bi, trans and queer people do not feel safe to be ourselves.” Misra also pointed to Stonewall data from 2017 indicating that four in five such incidents go unreported, with LGBTQ+ victims often reluctant to go to the police.

This is backed by the National Police Chiefs’ Council lead for hate crime, deputy chief constable Mark Hamilton. “Traditionally, homophobic and transphobic hate crimes have been significantly underreported,” he said, though he argued that the work of LGBTQ+ liaison officers with specific responsibility for building community links was among initiatives that were paying off.

“We believe some of the increase may be down to better reporting.”

 

 

But local activists describe what they perceive as an escalation in public hostility. Lawrence Barton, the director of Birmingham Pride, who runs a number of venues in the gay district, said: “There has been an increase in this type of activity, locally and nationally. We had a homophobic attack on a drag queen only a few weeks ago.

“I’m out regularly in the gay district on a weekend, and it staggers me how many people come out with homophobic remarks, shout from their car windows and make comments as they’re walking past,” he added.

Barton said he was “disappointed with the reduced amounts of police presence” in the area, although West Midlands police said they have recently increased high-visibility patrols and wanted to reassure anyone who is targeted that their report would be treated with sensitivity.

 

 

While preventing attacks was important, Barton said tackling the wider problem of homophobic views is his biggest concern. “Some people delude themselves into thinking that we live in a society that’s very progressive, and that we enjoy all these equalities and freedoms. But actually, when you cut underneath the surface, it’s clear there’s still a massive journey to true equality.”

LGBTQ+ hate crimes do not often make headlines, said Divina de Campo, a drag queen from Manchester, who said she was aware of a number of recent assaults in the city, including one of a transgender woman.

De Campo, who spearheaded fundraising efforts after LGBTQ+ murals in the city’s gay village were defaced at the end of June, said: “I’m very aware that the atmosphere and environment on the street is much more hostile. A lot of this is linked to how the press talk about transgender people and the government’s stance on conversion therapy, rolling back reform of the Gender Recognition Act and funding for schools education. It sends out a clear message to people who are bigoted and want to do LGBTQ+ people harm that it’s OK.”

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Public acceptance may have improved dramatically over the past half century but there is still a long way to go, said Linda Riley, the publisher of Diva magazine and founder of Lesbian Visibility Week, who first drew attention to the Birmingham attack on social media after she was alerted by a friend.

“When I was 17, walking down the street it was the norm to be verbally abused; now I’m nearly 60 and it’s a hate crime,” she said. “But if you surveyed the whole community about how safe they feel walking down the street holding hands, men or women, they’d say it’s still always a worry.”

 

 

 

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[singalion]

On 4/12/2022 at 7:55 PM, Guest Vegan said:

Why nobody in Singapore want to eat your full of msg and lard pepperoni sausage is it? 

 

Wrong. I even bought a queue number machine like at government offices here to accommodate the requests... 

 

It goes like a pigeon house. My neighbours already asked what I m working as, I just said "Oh I audition local talents for advertising purposes and marketing campaigns."

 

😂 

[Guest Aesthetics Queen]

On 4/12/2022 at 9:30 AM, singalion said:

 Yeah , I m also happy for him that it turned out positive.

 

But he's a lost case! He will become an Ang Moh Lover and size queen. 

 

I assume he will be begging for more German sausages...

 

😂

 

Don't be a greedy 🐷 ! Size is not everything. Too big is also useless. The shape is important too!

[singalion]

On 4/12/2022 at 8:07 PM, Guest Aesthetics Queen said:

Don't be a greedy 🐷 ! Size is not everything. Too big is also useless. The shape is important too!

 

I didn't say I m a size queen. Being in Asia if someone says it's 7.5" and turns out to be 6, be happy and enjoy. 

 

You can check my role at my profile, so... 

 

 

But I guess most Asians going Europe intend to explore bigger tools...

 

[Guest Lie detector]

On 4/12/2022 at 8:04 PM, singalion said:

 

Wrong. I even bought a queue number machine like at government offices here to accommodate the requests... 

 

It goes like a pigeon house. My neighbours already asked what I m working as, I just said "Oh I audition local talents for advertising purposes and marketing campaigns."

 

😂

Pig house you mean? Auditioning for plus sized models? 

 

During covid period..... interesting.

[singalion]

On 4/12/2022 at 8:15 PM, Guest Lie detector said:

Pig house you mean? Auditioning for plus sized models? 

 

During covid period..... interesting.

 

How many guests were you permitted to accommodate during Covid per day?

 

Plus sized tool you meant, correct?

 

And:

Sorry to disappoint you, but I prefer doggy. 

 

 

Edited April 12, 2022 by singalion

[Steve5380]

On 4/11/2022 at 12:26 AM, Guest Try and see said:

 

No need to teach Guest Wtf.

Let him get murdered while trying to hook up strangers.

Then there will be one less idiot on this planet.

 

Your post reveals that there is one more idiot posting in BW.

 

On 4/10/2022 at 12:06 PM, Guest Inexperienced Traveler said:

Hi BWers, I’m traveling solo in Germany for a few days before friends join and chatted up a cute fit local guy my age yesterday. We’re gonna meet up for dinner and drinks somewhere near my centrally located hostel later tonight, and there’s a chance we might do more.

 

His place (apparently a student accommodation) however is a bit further out and I’ve never been in this city (Munich) before - anyone with experience hooking up overseas has any tips if it’s safe or wise to go to his place? Or should I risk bringing him to my hostel even though it’s officially against the rules?

 

Kinda nervous as I have never hooked up overseas before or met up with a white guy for more before - but at the same time curious and horny haha.

 

When I go on sex tourism in foreign cities, my place to hook up is in gay saunas.  There, everyone has his purpose, and there are no issues like my place or your place.  The atmosphere is right and the facilities are optimum.  After a good hookup, sometimes our relationship continues on the outside.

[Guest Pork belly]

On 4/12/2022 at 8:29 PM, singalion said:

 

How many guests were you permitted to accommodate during Covid per day?

 

Plus sized tool you meant, correct?

 

And:

Sorry to disappoint you, but I prefer doggy. 

 

 

Plus sized tool - you mean your protruding belly to cushion his forebead from banging against you? Looking at your profile photo I can see why 🐖

[Guest Scared cat]

On 4/12/2022 at 9:44 PM, Steve5380 said:

 

Your post reveals that there is one more idiot posting in BW.

 

 

When I go on sex tourism in foreign cities, my place to hook up is in gay saunas.  There, everyone has his purpose, and there are no issues like my place or your place.  The atmosphere is right and the facilities are optimum.  After a good hookup, sometimes our relationship continues on the outside.

Even though I an not a sex tourist i agree. Hooking up in European saunas, the likelihood of hate crime vs on the streets on in private room, is much much lower. I imagine only a dumb homophobe will choose to attack his target in a gay sauna, unless he is closeted and wishes to be gang-banged!

[Guest Guest]

They use scissors to snip off your penis then you know....then remove your cornea, kidney....see if still dare to meet them in Europe

[Guest Measuring tape]

On 4/12/2022 at 8:11 PM, singalion said:

 

I didn't say I m a size queen. Being in Asia if someone says it's 7.5" and turns out to be 6, be happy and enjoy. 

 

You can check my role at my profile, so... 

 

 

But I guess most Asians going Europe intend to explore bigger tools...

 

Such dick racism remarks. Some ang moh got small dicks. You should know 😏 

[singalion]

Sure everywhere got big n small. 

It can even happen BBC is less than 6". 

Because average , is average size. which means if average size in Nigeria is 16.8cm then you have a range from 12cm to 22cm. 

 

Yes , some Ang Moh got also small dicks but they are below average. 

 

However, from statistics the average size in South East Asia or East Asia is much smaller than in Europe. 

It is a fact. Live with it. 

That has nothing to do with racism. 

 

Anyhow dick size is not all. 

 

On 4/12/2022 at 1:52 PM, singalion said:

 

And what does it serve the TS. 

 

Probably, he is happy to explore the variety from BBC to clean cut 8" Arab tools and also 8" uncut latino boys. 

 

He will pass the 7 world wonders in just a week and probably ask for asylumn in Germany.

 

For your info: Germany got already many Asians, Chinese etc also. 

 

It is gay heaven if you are open minded and take race as an affluence of human sexual nature and attraction. 

 

 

Do you eat Hainanese chicken rice every day?

 

 

Take my above post with humour. 

I simply disliked the one post talking racist and prejudiced about other races. 

 

He can eat Hainanese Chicken rice every day, but others would travel and explore various type of sausages. 

 

[Guest Scared cat]

 

On 4/13/2022 at 7:19 AM, singalion said:

Sure everywhere got big n small. 

It can even happen BBC is less than 6". 

Because average , is average size. which means if average size in Nigeria is 16.8cm then you have a range from 12cm to 22cm. 

 

Yes , some Ang Moh got also small dicks but they are below average. 

 

However, from statistics the average size in South East Asia or East Asia is much smaller than in Europe. 

It is a fact. Live with it. 

That has nothing to do with racism. 

 

Anyhow dick size is not all. 

 

 

Take my above post with humour. 

I simply disliked the one post talking racist and prejudiced about other races. 

 

He can eat Hainanese Chicken rice every day, but others would travel and explore various type of sausages. 

 

It's a fact certain nationals in certain countries or areas are more aggressive due to contexts, history and religion. I was just sharing to caution all. Your remarks about Asians and Asian dicks on the other hand, are not funny but distasteful, condescending, patronising, bitchy and judgemental and reflected very well your arrogance towards Asians in general.

[Guest Guest]

On 4/13/2022 at 12:24 PM, Guest Scared cat said:

 

It's a fact certain nationals in certain countries or areas are more aggressive due to contexts, history and religion. I was just sharing to caution all. Your remarks about Asians and Asian dicks on the other hand, are not funny but distasteful, condescending, patronising, bitchy and judgemental and reflected very well your arrogance towards Asians in general.

Agree. His parents should rot in hell for bring him up this way