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On 4/13/2022 at 12:24 PM, Guest Scared cat said:

 

It's a fact certain nationals in certain countries or areas are more aggressive due to contexts, history and religion. I was just sharing to caution all. Your remarks about Asians and Asian dicks on the other hand, are not funny but distasteful, condescending, patronising, bitchy and judgemental and reflected very well your arrogance towards Asians in general.

 

Do you think I don't know what Guest is hiding behind your profile. 

 

The smaller size of South East Asian and East Asian dicks compared to other regions is no secret. It has nothing to do with condenscending. It is a fact. 

 

Your repeated aim here is to always harass me with painting me negatively by all means. 

 

In psychological terms you are suffering an inferiority complex otherwise you hadn't come up with your post. 

 

You are the one having mental and other personal problems. 

 

My personal message to all boys irrespective of race, skin colour and dick size is: Be proud of your tool and make the best out of it. 

 

 

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On 4/11/2022 at 8:04 PM, Guest Inexperienced Traveler said:

Thanks @Topper and @singalion for the helpful advice! Gonna just ignore those overtly racist and unhelpful ones for sure.

 

Anyway, yesterday we did meet up for dinner and drinks, and had a great conversation (including finding out he’s hoping to do an exchange in Singapore this or next year). Was surprised that even though he was younger than me, he was gentlemanly enough to walk me back to my hostel. Got really horny when he gave a goodbye kiss, so invited him to “check out” my hostel room since there weren’t that many people around and the reception was unmanned at that time. 
 

Was super lucky that there wasn’t anyone else in the shared room yesterday, so once we sat down on my bed I took the initiative to start making out and playing with each other’s boners. Was super turned on by his big and hard dick which by then I had released from the zipper of his jeans, so tried to put on a condom that I brought from Singapore to do more, but the first two broke before I could fully unroll it and apparently during my third attempt I was grabbing his dick too hard while trying to keep his foreskin pulled back and rolling the condom too much on his sensitive spot that he geysered all over our t-shirts and jeans. Thought that was it after cleaning up a bit but then he mentioned how it’s not fair that I wasn’t done yet so he kneeled in front of me and started blowing me hard. Not sure if it was his skill or me getting super turned on at that point with his blue eyes staring directly into mine the whole time, but I pretty much blew my load under a minute! 😅

 

He had to rush to catch his train after that, but we’re meeting for lunch today and he offered to take me sightseeing. 😉 If I do go to his place later today, I will definitely send my location to a friend and ask them to check in every now and then or so - don’t see any red flags so far but I guess better to be safe than sorry!



Sounds like a sweet friendship blossoming - i approve 100%.

 

go enjoy each other and collect lots of memories! keep in touch and revisit each other often.

 

i hope you get to do all you want to do with him, and more!!! jiayou!

 

 

🌑🌒🌓🌔🌕🌖🌗🌘🌑

 

 

 

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On 4/13/2022 at 2:31 PM, singalion said:

 

Do you think I don't know what Guest is hiding behind your profile. 

 

The smaller size of South East Asian and East Asian dicks compared to other regions is no secret. It has nothing to do with condenscending. It is a fact. 

 

Your repeated aim here is to always harass me with painting me negatively by all means. 

 

In psychological terms you are suffering an inferiority complex otherwise you hadn't come up with your post. 

 

You are the one having mental and other personal problems. 

 

You are paranoid. I am not that free to target you when I don't even know you! Freudian slip - I never said you have mental or personal problems but you accidentally admitted to having those problems yourself. 🤣 But is also obvious you have mental problems otherwise you wouldn't have made so many enemies online with your unsolicited catty remarks. BTW I am not the guest you think I am, you are such a neurotic and strange person!!!

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On 4/13/2022 at 8:41 AM, tomcat said:



Sounds like a sweet friendship blossoming - i approve 100%.

 

go enjoy each other and collect lots of memories! keep in touch and revisit each other often.

 

i hope you get to do all you want to do with him, and more!!! jiayou!

 

 

 

I agree with @tomcat, hopefully TS and the guy he met both now have a friendship going and keep it especially if he's going to Singapore for an exchange as TS mentioned! That's how I met some really good gay friends overseas.  @TS do let us know how the second day went, we want to hear the tea. 😝

 

Don't know how much covid has changed things but back then,  hostels were a great way to meet people and hook up if you want (both for straight and gay people). Had my fair share of experiences and saw a lot, from sleeping boners (especially common in hot summers), to guys jerking off, all the way to walking into people giving bjs or having full on sex (though most involved straight people lol).

 

I would also ignore the trolls (or is it the same person using different aliases) here creating overhysterical alarmist statements, especially those layered with "casual" racism - I wish the mods would delete those irrelevant posts with racist overtones!

 

Personally my additional tips from back when I was a student travelling Europe: 

- Leave a physical note on paper with the guy's name, contact and address under your pillow at the hostel or hotel. Add a note that you are expected to be at that address from this time to that time, asking them to call you if you're not back at a certain time. If things go wrong, this is an additional safety net.

- Send a trusted friend the above details too on top of your live location during the whole thing, and if possible, some screenshots of the guy's pics. Will help if things go wrong!

- Always meet in public first where possible. Have your phone in your hand or pocket with emergency dialling or buttons activated in case things go wrong, only putting your phone down (but always near you) just before you start the deed. Be empowered to say no or stop at any time and leave.

- If you take a drink, just take tap water. Make sure you see them pouring or opening it in front of you, stop drinking if you run it tastes funny.

- Be firm and don't need to be paiseh (a lot of Asians seem to have this issue). Worst case scenario, scream and make as much noise as you can to attract attention!

- Most of the EU and western Europe are fine, but be extra careful or just forget about hooking up in countries where homosexuality is still illegal, conflict zones, or if you are in very remote locations. German cities like Munich or Berlin are fine and help is nearby for most parts.

 

That said I have never been in any difficult situations in my years of escapades overseas. Singaporeans and Asians are just as racist, even if it's not as in your face - recall how this crazy uncle attacked food store staff just over a pride flag! Just use your brains and guts to judge the situation and remove yourself from it the moment you don't feel 100%! But don't let unnecessary racist scaremongering stop you from venturing out and gaining new experiences - or perhaps even unwittingly finding a new partner! 😉

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On 4/13/2022 at 5:48 PM, Guest Overseas Singaporean said:

 

I agree with @tomcat, hopefully TS and the guy he met both now have a friendship going and keep it especially if he's going to Singapore for an exchange as TS mentioned! That's how I met some really good gay friends overseas.  @TS do let us know how the second day went, we want to hear the tea. 😝

 

I would also ignore the trolls (or is it the same person using different aliases) here creating overhysterical alarmist statements, especially those layered with "casual" racism - I wish the mods would delete those irrelevant posts with racist overtones!

 

most of the time, the haters in here are just haters.

 

just  bitter and jealous that others are experiencing the lives they wished they have.

 

for many, not only has the ship sailed, but it also sank liao. at the bottom of the ocean rotting away, lol.

 

i just ignore cos honestly, it has nothing to do with me, but everything to do with them.

 

if others, young gays or otherwise, are on the brink of something fun and healthy? of course i encourage and approve!

 

life is too short to be sour grapes. and what we allow ourselves to feel for others, we eventually invite for ourselves!

 

you gave great tips on how to stay safe, and to remain respectful. good advice for young gays.

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On 4/19/2022 at 11:38 AM, MNH said:

The last time I went to Vienna, a local guy from an app brought me to the Christmas market and what not. For a moment, I thought I was in love.

Best tour guide ever! Envious of you 😍

Did anything else with him? 😄 

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On 4/19/2022 at 10:30 PM, Guest Brugess said:

Hi, watch all Hostel movies so that you can get an idea travelling alone.in Europe especially Germany.

When I was in Europe, there were hot guys in every hostel room of every city or town j stayed in, but most of the time, it was either he moved in and I soon moved out, or I am moved in and he soon moved out. Felt like crying or changing my itinerary but I have already booked all my flights, hostels, even train rides and transports to airports. 

 

My biggest tip to facilitate more chances of friendship, sightseeing or travelling together: forego the cheap tickets, go FREE AND EASY WHEN STAYING IN HOSTELS.

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On 4/19/2022 at 10:17 PM, MNH said:

Nope, but honestly thought he was the one. When I had to move to the next city, I was pretty devastated. HAHA!

I can imagine. I was pretty devastated when I had to leave London and a hot Korean oppa behind in the hostel room. He also travelled alone, was friendly and initiated conversations with me, sheepishly told me he had visited the Eiffel tower ALONE 4 times during the 2 weeks he was in Paris, and felt funny seeing all the lovers around near the tower. I had to leave for Paris one day before he had to leave for Brussels. He borrowed my nail clippers. We exchanged traveling tips.

 

Devastated, but I had to physically and mentally MOVE ON....

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So far i have no issue in Europe i feel comfortable but in USA  I,m not that feel comfortable esp like in New York, LA if you walk at the wrong time or date you in the middle of gun shooting or fighting or racisim. I feel European much better of it scenery, shopping,histories as well agri culture.

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While I feel it is always an interesting adventure to hook up with a local in a foreign country, there is also an element of danger. 

 

My preferred way to play with the locals is to go to a local gay sauna - at least the playing field is more level there. 

 

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On 4/20/2022 at 2:16 PM, Guest Berlin said:

There is absolutely no racism in the gay community in Berlin. As an asian, you would be warmly welcome in any sauna and bar.

 

I wouldn't use the word "absolutely".

 

You never know, there might be travellers from other parts of Germany or countries and they might be not behaving appropriate.

 

But from my experience in many continental Western European countries nowadays you don't face racism or discrimination being an Asian gay, and probably not in gay saunas. France, Belgium, Netherlands etc has a lot of "domestic" Asians

However, I still think that the majority of Europeans are not really into Asians (but some are) . and those some should be sufficient to be "warmly" welcomed.

 

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On 4/19/2022 at 10:17 PM, MNH said:

Nope, but honestly thought he was the one. When I had to move to the next city, I was pretty devastated. HAHA!

Devastated never got into any action? Me too. I was all along too rational and cool headed, immersed and totally focused on my itinerary. I may have come off as too robotic, stressed out, icy cold and standoffish at times when he expressed human warmth and friendliness. My fault.

 

But oh well he could be straight as an arrow. Doesn't look gay at all. Just friendly. And maybe curious.

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As with any big European city or capital, full of migrants from troubled places and conflict zones.

 

That's why you get pickpocketed there. I won't be surprised majority of hate crimes commited by the same people too.

 

To all the woke for the sake of woke people, this is caution, not racism.

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Daddy travels to all regions of the world both for work and leisure. Where ever he has been Daddy has met up with guys. To be safe all that is needed is common sense and some basic knowledge about attitudes to same sex relationships in the country concerned. But one thing is certain. Wherever you go there are guys looking for sex with other men. Even the most homophobic countries have vibrant same sex scenes - if you know where to look.

 

Before the Internet it was a matter of meeting guys when out and about. Making eye contact with a guy can still be the best introduction if done discreetly. Daddy is straight looking and acting, but even today when sitting having coffee in a mall or his hotel Daddy can spot and usually link up with interesting guys. Toilets too have always been places for guys to meet. In every toilet you spot the guys taking ages to piss or wash their hands, furtively looking around and peeking, doing the toilet tango. But they can be scary places. In some countries Daddy has seen guys openly fucking and sucking at urinals. Daddy once went for a piss at the toilets in Central Market in KL and was immediately surrounded by guys wanking their cocks and trying to feel Daddy's arse and grab his cock to suck and wank. Similarly with saunas. The guys are there for one primary purpose - sex. The advantage is what you see is what you get, so by applying common sense and experience you are relatively safe. Hotel gyms and spas are another good place to meet guys when travelling, particularly if they are open to locals. Using the steam room without wearing your towel or taking a shower and leaving the curtain slightly open usually attracts interest from like minded guys. In all these situations you can see, maybe chat with and weigh up the other guy before getting involved and being alone with him.

 

Meeting guys from the Internet is where danger may lie. You never really know who you are meeting until it may be too late. Daddy is wary of using Internet sites as experienced shows many profiles are fake and so many guys have magic cameras that take pictures totally different to the person being photographed. Most hotels where Daddy stays require room cards to use the lifts so you have to meet your guest in the public areas giving a chance to check them out. If Daddy does invite a boy to his hotel room then everything of value is locked in the safe and the boy is never left alone in the room. Mobile phones are also switched off.  

 

So never be afraid of meeting guys when you travel. Just exercise common sense and caution.

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On 4/11/2022 at 1:01 AM, Guest Serious said:

What if he is a serial killer

The chances of this are clearly infinitesimal - but as @GachiMuchi mentioned, could the next Jeffrey Dahmer be lurking on the internet? For those whose memory does not go back to the early 1990s, Dahmer was a loner who lived in America and came to be nicknamed the Milwaukee Cannibal. He was a serial killer and sex offender who preyed on young men and boys. By the time of his arrest and trial he had killed 17, most of whom he encountered in or near gay bars. He sometimes had sex with the bodies of guys he had killed and usually cut up their bodies after death.

 

It was one of the most grisly, ghastly tales which was sadly very true. What I particularly remember about this case is that of a 14-year old Laotian boy he met in 1991. He quickly gave the boy alcohol laced with drugs. He then drilled a small hole is his skull and injected hydrochloric acid. After several days duringhich the boy was repeatedly drugged and raped by Dahmer - on a bed where there was the decomposing body of another of Dahmer's victims, he eventually escaped. That evening he was found naked on a street by three ladies. Unfortunately Dahmer was passing by, told them the boy was his friend and attempted to take him back to his home. The ladies were not convinced and police were called. When the officers arrived, Dahmer explained that the boy was actually his 19-year old boyfriend. He was drunk and should go home. Still the ladies were not convinced, the more so when one noticed blood on the boy's testicles and that he was bleeding from his anus. But the police told the woman to "Shut the hell up!"

 

Eventually the police not only believed Dahmer, they astonishingly escorted him and the boy back to Dahmer's home. Even though one of the officers noticed a strange smell, they left the two together with the comment that Dahmer should take more care of his boyfriend. After they left, Dahmer injected more acid into the boy's skull after which he died. The police report stated it was a case of "domestic dispute". After Dahmer was sent to jail, he was murdered by some of the inmates.

 

Thinking of what happened to that poor Lao boy almost brings me to tears even three decades later. All this took place before the internet dating sites had started to appear. While anything even remotely like Dahmer's case is unlikely to occur again, it is a cautionary tale for all who use them. Take the utmost care when trying to find a date on the internet.

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On 5/13/2022 at 12:08 AM, MasterDaddy1 said:

Daddy travels to all regions of the world both for work and leisure. Where ever he has been Daddy has met up with guys. To be safe all that is needed is common sense and some basic knowledge about attitudes to same sex relationships in the country concerned. But one thing is certain. Wherever you go there are guys looking for sex with other men. Even the most homophobic countries have vibrant same sex scenes - if you know where to look.

 

Before the Internet it was a matter of meeting guys when out and about. Making eye contact with a guy can still be the best introduction if done discreetly. Daddy is straight looking and acting, but even today when sitting having coffee in a mall or his hotel Daddy can spot and usually link up with interesting guys. Toilets too have always been places for guys to meet. In every toilet you spot the guys taking ages to piss or wash their hands, furtively looking around and peeking, doing the toilet tango. But they can be scary places. In some countries Daddy has seen guys openly fucking and sucking at urinals. Daddy once went for a piss at the toilets in Central Market in KL and was immediately surrounded by guys wanking their cocks and trying to feel Daddy's arse and grab his cock to suck and wank. Similarly with saunas. The guys are there for one primary purpose - sex. The advantage is what you see is what you get, so by applying common sense and experience you are relatively safe. Hotel gyms and spas are another good place to meet guys when travelling, particularly if they are open to locals. Using the steam room without wearing your towel or taking a shower and leaving the curtain slightly open usually attracts interest from like minded guys. In all these situations you can see, maybe chat with and weigh up the other guy before getting involved and being alone with him.

 

Meeting guys from the Internet is where danger may lie. You never really know who you are meeting until it may be too late. Daddy is wary of using Internet sites as experienced shows many profiles are fake and so many guys have magic cameras that take pictures totally different to the person being photographed. Most hotels where Daddy stays require room cards to use the lifts so you have to meet your guest in the public areas giving a chance to check them out. If Daddy does invite a boy to his hotel room then everything of value is locked in the safe and the boy is never left alone in the room. Mobile phones are also switched off.  

 

So never be afraid of meeting guys when you travel. Just exercise common sense and caution.


The information/advice you give is correct and helpful.

 

Your habit of referring to yourself in the third person as ‘daddy’ is cringe-making in the extreme and a compete turn off. No need to try so hard at your age. 

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On 5/12/2022 at 10:32 PM, InBangkok said:

The chances of this are clearly infinitesimal - but as @GachiMuchi mentioned, could the next Jeffrey Dahmer be lurking on the internet? For those whose memory does not go back to the early 1990s, Dahmer was a loner who lived in America and came to be nicknamed the Milwaukee Cannibal. He was a serial killer and sex offender who preyed on young men and boys. By the time of his arrest and trial he had killed 17, most of whom he encountered in or near gay bars. He sometimes had sex with the bodies of guys he had killed and usually cut up their bodies after death.

 

It was one of the most grisly, ghastly tales which was sadly very true. What I particularly remember about this case is that of a 14-year old Laotian boy he met in 1991. He quickly gave the boy alcohol laced with drugs. He then drilled a small hole is his skull and injected hydrochloric acid. After several days duringhich the boy was repeatedly drugged and raped by Dahmer - on a bed where there was the decomposing body of another of Dahmer's victims, he eventually escaped. That evening he was found naked on a street by three ladies. Unfortunately Dahmer was passing by, told them the boy was his friend and attempted to take him back to his home. The ladies were not convinced and police were called. When the officers arrived, Dahmer explained that the boy was actually his 19-year old boyfriend. He was drunk and should go home. Still the ladies were not convinced, the more so when one noticed blood on the boy's testicles and that he was bleeding from his anus. But the police told the woman to "Shut the hell up!"

 

Eventually the police not only believed Dahmer, they astonishingly escorted him and the boy back to Dahmer's home. Even though one of the officers noticed a strange smell, they left the two together with the comment that Dahmer should take more care of his boyfriend. After they left, Dahmer injected more acid into the boy's skull after which he died. The police report stated it was a case of "domestic dispute". After Dahmer was sent to jail, he was murdered by some of the inmates.

 

Thinking of what happened to that poor Lao boy almost brings me to tears even three decades later. All this took place before the internet dating sites had started to appear. While anything even remotely like Dahmer's case is unlikely to occur again, it is a cautionary tale for all who use them. Take the utmost care when trying to find a date on the internet.

 

There is no need to be so fear mongering.  Cases like Jeffrey Dahmer are extremely rare.   More helpful is to advise our young gays here on how to be more protected.

 

Try not to look vulnerable.  Try not to BE vulnerable.  A martial art helps.  You don't need to be a black belt, just have some practice to react instinctively to danger.  Don't accept drinks made by any stranger.  Don't let anyone playfully put hand cuffs on you.  Stay always alert and distrust everybody who is not a young nice guy like you.  Older uncles and handsome grandpas like me should be suspected the most. 

 

But if you want to be the safest,  try to hook up in gay saunas.  I did this in my sex tourism,  many times. They offer not only convenience but protection as well. My case was different because my heart was already taken by my bf.  This recommendation may not apply to people like InBangkok who allegedly dislike gay saunas.  But then, the risk for him to be seduced is very low.

 

To be vigilant and safety conscious does not put down the person you come in intimate contact with, and you don't need to show it.  The nice covers of a book may not always reveal what is inside.

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On 5/14/2022 at 10:22 PM, Steve5380 said:

There is no need to be so fear mongering.  Cases like Jeffrey Dahmer are extremely rare.   More helpful is to advise our young gays here on how to be more protected.

Fear mongering? I was merely amplifying what @Guest Curious had stated earlier. Given that few reaing this forum will be aware who Jeffrey Dahmer was and what he did, it is a cautionary tale that everyone should at least know about.

 

In any event, you give strange advice when it comes from a man who lives in the USA. Dahmer operated in the USA. Also in the USA there was the mass shooting of 49 gay men and the wounding of 53 others who were enjoying a night out in a gay nightclub in Florida in 2016? Where should a gay man be more safe than in a dedicated gay bar?

 

Or elsewhere, the 14 gay men brutally killed in Toronto's Gay Village in the mid-1970s. Or the series of killings of 11 gay men in Chiapas in Mexico in the 1990s. Or the 88+ murders of young gay men by the so-called Gay Gangs in Sydney between 1970 and 2010? These were all near gay bars or gay cruising places. Serial killers of gay men exist and many of the perpetrators often turn out to be merely a "young nice guy like you." As @Steve5380 points out, you have to look after yourself.

 

As for meeting on the apps, I suggest never going to a location you do not know. So if a guy invites you to his apartment, that would surely be a no no! Get him to come to your hostel or hotel and make sure you have details like names and accurate phone numbers that can be left at the reception desk. And make sure any valuables are very secure. Be careful.

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On 5/13/2022 at 11:32 AM, InBangkok said:

The chances of this are clearly infinitesimal - but as @GachiMuchi mentioned, could the next Jeffrey Dahmer be lurking on the internet? For those whose memory does not go back to the early 1990s, Dahmer was a loner who lived in America and came to be nicknamed the Milwaukee Cannibal. He was a serial killer and sex offender who preyed on young men and boys. By the time of his arrest and trial he had killed 17, most of whom he encountered in or near gay bars. He sometimes had sex with the bodies of guys he had killed and usually cut up their bodies after death.

 

It was one of the most grisly, ghastly tales which was sadly very true. What I particularly remember about this case is that of a 14-year old Laotian boy he met in 1991. He quickly gave the boy alcohol laced with drugs. He then drilled a small hole is his skull and injected hydrochloric acid. After several days duringhich the boy was repeatedly drugged and raped by Dahmer - on a bed where there was the decomposing body of another of Dahmer's victims, he eventually escaped. That evening he was found naked on a street by three ladies. Unfortunately Dahmer was passing by, told them the boy was his friend and attempted to take him back to his home. The ladies were not convinced and police were called. When the officers arrived, Dahmer explained that the boy was actually his 19-year old boyfriend. He was drunk and should go home. Still the ladies were not convinced, the more so when one noticed blood on the boy's testicles and that he was bleeding from his anus. But the police told the woman to "Shut the hell up!"

 

Eventually the police not only believed Dahmer, they astonishingly escorted him and the boy back to Dahmer's home. Even though one of the officers noticed a strange smell, they left the two together with the comment that Dahmer should take more care of his boyfriend. After they left, Dahmer injected more acid into the boy's skull after which he died. The police report stated it was a case of "domestic dispute". After Dahmer was sent to jail, he was murdered by some of the inmates.

 

Thinking of what happened to that poor Lao boy almost brings me to tears even three decades later. All this took place before the internet dating sites had started to appear. While anything even remotely like Dahmer's case is unlikely to occur again, it is a cautionary tale for all who use them. Take the utmost care when trying to find a date on the internet.

 

In the UK it was Dennis Nilsen in mid - late 80s. (17 victims). 

 

More recently in Mid 2015s UK had Stephen Port on grindr also in UK. 4 victims could be associated to him, but about 10 are unresolved or it is not proven that he was involved. He gave K.O. drops to his victims. 

Always have your own drink with you. 

 

The good news both were not into Asians. 

 

But I still would say, guys shouldn't take such exceptional cases as the norm. 

 

Maybe better to meet a guy in your hotel room than joining one to his own home. 

 

 

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On 5/13/2022 at 12:08 AM, MasterDaddy1 said:

Daddy travels to all regions of the world both for work and leisure. Where ever he has been Daddy has met up with guys. To be safe all that is needed is common sense and some basic knowledge about attitudes to same sex relationships in the country concerned. But one thing is certain. Wherever you go there are guys looking for sex with other men. Even the most homophobic countries have vibrant same sex scenes - if you know where to look.

 

Before the Internet it was a matter of meeting guys when out and about. Making eye contact with a guy can still be the best introduction if done discreetly. Daddy is straight looking and acting, but even today when sitting having coffee in a mall or his hotel Daddy can spot and usually link up with interesting guys. Toilets too have always been places for guys to meet. In every toilet you spot the guys taking ages to piss or wash their hands, furtively looking around and peeking, doing the toilet tango. But they can be scary places. In some countries Daddy has seen guys openly fucking and sucking at urinals. Daddy once went for a piss at the toilets in Central Market in KL and was immediately surrounded by guys wanking their cocks and trying to feel Daddy's arse and grab his cock to suck and wank. Similarly with saunas. The guys are there for one primary purpose - sex. The advantage is what you see is what you get, so by applying common sense and experience you are relatively safe. Hotel gyms and spas are another good place to meet guys when travelling, particularly if they are open to locals. Using the steam room without wearing your towel or taking a shower and leaving the curtain slightly open usually attracts interest from like minded guys. In all these situations you can see, maybe chat with and weigh up the other guy before getting involved and being alone with him.

 

Meeting guys from the Internet is where danger may lie. You never really know who you are meeting until it may be too late. Daddy is wary of using Internet sites as experienced shows many profiles are fake and so many guys have magic cameras that take pictures totally different to the person being photographed. Most hotels where Daddy stays require room cards to use the lifts so you have to meet your guest in the public areas giving a chance to check them out. If Daddy does invite a boy to his hotel room then everything of value is locked in the safe and the boy is never left alone in the room. Mobile phones are also switched off.  

 

So never be afraid of meeting guys when you travel. Just exercise common sense and caution.

 

I think most items on above post refer to Asian destinations. 

 

Be more cautious in hotel spa's and saunas in Europe or US. Many straight guys turn violent when they are made an object of voyeurism or sex aproach, in particular if they are in a group or more than 1, note also you often don't understand their mother tongue...

 

Which means better don't your specific Asian cruising culture into Western countries. 

 

Those countries mostly have gay spots or establishments were hook ups or cruising is easy. 

 

 

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Gays and lesbians are broadly accepted in Europe today. In a hotel or sauna, you can tell a person you are gay. Is it OK for him? If he is not interested, he would just politely reply, no thank you.

 

There are many money boys, most from East Europe. Be careful with them, they are often petty criminals. Local recognize them through their manners and accent. They are not violent, but can steal money or valuables from you.

 

The safest way is to have sex in a sauna or a gay bar. Your hotel room is the second choice.

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On 5/13/2022 at 2:18 PM, Guest Good advice but said:

The information/advice you give is correct and helpful.

 

Your habit of referring to yourself in the third person as ‘daddy’ is cringe-making in the extreme and a compete turn off. No need to try so hard at your age. 

May I add my view that writing in any chat room in the third person is not just weird - it is definitely "cringe-making". Of course very poster has the freedom to write as he wishes within the Board regulations, but I suggest that when a post is written in the third person, most readers will turn off.

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On 5/16/2022 at 11:34 PM, InBangkok said:

May I add my view that writing in any chat room in the third person is not just weird - it is definitely "cringe-making". Of course very poster has the freedom to write as he wishes within the Board regulations, but I suggest that when a post is written in the third person, most readers will turn off.

 

I'll drink to that... and one for Mahler. :)

 

 

Love. 

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On 7/16/2022 at 10:09 AM, Dr Max 69 said:

If any Singaporeans come to London and want to have fun, please let me know. Love your country and had a lot of fun there….. miss that fun! Just send me a pm. 
 

safe travels. 

 

Sounds like an ad to me...

Better watch out...

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On 7/16/2022 at 10:09 AM, Dr Max 69 said:

If any Singaporeans come to London and want to have fun, . Love your country and had a lot of fun there….. miss that fun! 
 

safe travels. 

 

Probably anyone going to London these days should keep his dick in his closed pants... and abstain.

 

 

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On 7/16/2022 at 11:45 AM, singalion said:

 

Probably anyone going to London these days should keep his dick in his closed pants... and abstain.

 

 

Nonsense.  I had a good time sucking cocks of different sizes almost everyday.  Easy to get horny guys.  You are just a  stupid old man sprouting nonsense.  Go back to your rocking chair.

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Sure, but watch your body the next 21 days, if any bumps and rashes will turn up...

 

Just wonder how someone would know my age... LOL

 

(Maybe you did not understand the hint... but for those with limited abilities here:)

 

 

 

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