have you ever loved someone so much that you settled for being friends just to keep that person in your life?

[Guest Jira]

Have you?

[mith]

yes

 

[Guest Guest]

Of cos not, i love myself more.

[fab]

Lover or stranger.

 

No friend. 

[Guest A victim]

After going through a lot in life, I will not settle for anything less. Either lover or no.

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

Nope...it take 2 hands 2 clap. Don't expect me be the one who keep give in and intiating....who keep planning outings etc....then you do what? Just enjoy the ride is it? 

 

That is why I am so sick and tired of going thru the process of dating I might as well be friends we go out etc...if you like enjoy my company etc...then we can pursue it slowly eventually not rushing....

 

And for now I rather have those fit  ones coz I been given fair chances to those from skinny to bodyfats..all the same...thought I saw something different but same...

 

I guess life need to move on and your soulmate or that someone whom you been searching for is somewhere out there....just leave it to cupid 💘 or fate....not in sauna or not in cage or not in someone place...

[Guest Guest]

yes

[Guest Guest]

This happens when your social circle is not wide enough and you spend too much time on one person. 

[sg89ailikesi]

I love someone, but he don’t like me, also suggested to be friends as friends can be forever. 
 

lover also can be forever is just whether will be successful a not. Friends also may not be forever.

 

anyway I am those will try to win his heart. If one day, he is being touched then at least I can be with him. If not then no choice.

[Nwzw]

Me too.

 

It also didn’t help that I fell for my best friend.

Always tried to convince myself that I have given up but he is always the person I think of when drunk.

 

sighh

[notd]

I have.

 

Currently going through a similar experience, though my friend has the added point of being straight. One in KL, the other in SG. It's pretty much never going to happen. One night, while gaming together, some misunderstanding happened and it caused him to throw a fit. With no other way to salvage the friendship, I had to reveal my feelings to him to help him understand the root of the misunderstanding. Needless to say... I don't enjoy reveal such private feelings like that, but it is what it is and I would rather keep him in my life than have him cut me off. 

 

Another one, S, whom I meet on this server is someone I still long for deeply. He realized I had feelings for him, cut me off. I tried to remain friends, but he no longer replies me. Hopefully we'll be able to meet again some day.  

[Guest Guest]

On 7/18/2022 at 1:58 PM, notd said:

 

Another one, S, whom I meet on this server is someone I still long for deeply. He realized I had feelings for him, cut me off. I tried to remain friends, but he no longer replies me. Hopefully we'll be able to meet again some day.  

dude, you need to move on.

i read your long post previously.

clearly, S is not interested to develop further.

do yourself a favour, close this chapter and bury it deep inside your heart. 
life is short, youth is short, love yourself more. 

[lean n mean]

Its the worst. I had this experience when i was in my 20s. He will tell you who he likes when you are both out socialising and u will be sick with jealousy but yet have to listen and feign interest. 

Edited July 18, 2022 by lean n mean

[Enci]

On 7/18/2022 at 12:33 AM, sg89ailikesi said:

I love someone, but he don’t like me, also suggested to be friends as friends can be forever. 
 

lover also can be forever is just whether will be successful a not. Friends also may not be forever.

 

anyway I am those will try to win his heart. If one day, he is being touched then at least I can be with him. If not then no choice.

Before I was married, I had a crush on one guy who told me the same thing, the pain is forever. 

[Enci]

On 7/18/2022 at 2:11 PM, Guest Guest said:

dude, you need to move on.

i read your long post previously.

clearly, S is not interested to develop further.

do yourself a favour, close this chapter and bury it deep inside your heart. 
life is short, youth is short, love yourself more. 

Easier said then to be done, but that is the reality of life. 

[sg89ailikesi]

On 7/18/2022 at 11:06 PM, Enci said:

Before I was married, I had a crush on one guy who told me the same thing, the pain is forever. 

What to do. Somethings cannot be forced. At least u are married now.

[Enci]

On 7/19/2022 at 9:48 AM, sg89ailikesi said:

What to do. Somethings cannot be forced. At least u are married now.

But my heart remains painful for the past decade or so 

[Enci]

On 7/18/2022 at 12:33 AM, sg89ailikesi said:

I love someone, but he don’t like me, also suggested to be friends as friends can be forever. 
 

lover also can be forever is just whether will be successful a not. Friends also may not be forever.

 

anyway I am those will try to win his heart. If one day, he is being touched then at least I can be with him. If not then no choice.

Encountered the same words 

[Enci]

On 7/19/2022 at 12:50 PM, Enci said:

But my heart remains painful for the past decade or so 

Infact I think the same way you need, I tell u don't waste yr time, let it be, otherwise u will end up with nothing like me after a decade. 

[Why?]

The best method to keep that person in your life may well be through this.   Throughout the day, I remained my friend's friend. As night falls, we let our options run wild.  

[deg143]

Yes I did. I think it's better to end up as friends if you still want to keep him and if he also wants to keep you as well. Atleast you still get to see and bond with him. Eventually, you will learn to accept it la. I still tease him that I like him many times but he got used to hearing it already. haha. I can feel that he cares for me though so that alone is enough for me to keep him. 🙂

Edited August 10, 2022 by deg143

[Ryuki]

Friend, companion, platonic relationship.. many people have many own ways to manage this..

[DMassage]

On 7/17/2022 at 7:42 AM, Guest Jira said:

Have you?

yes.