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Guest Do some introspection
On 10/10/2022 at 9:41 PM, Guest Confused said:

Why ah. 

Most topics are so lame and whiny. 

 

 

Isn't your topic here lame and whiny?

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Follow the trend mah. 

 

Where are all the gay raunchy stuff. 

Gay relationship with boss. 

 

How to avoid falling for your classmates? 

How to tell your teacher you gay? 

 

How to book into hotel without being suspected as gay?

 

You know. Which gym does most gay go. 

Where are the secret gay hangout? 

What are the secret gay code nowadays. 

 

Do ppl still use the term AJ? 

How to get invited to gay orgy?

Is there still secret gay orgy event exclusive to private members? 

 

So many gay stuff we can talk about. 

How to come out to your parents? 

How to be gay in NS? 

Come out as gay in NS or not? 

 

Yet we talk about lame stuff like what would you do if you have 4 weeks to love la, what will you try la. What won't you try la. 

 

Haiyoh. This one is gay forum or what 

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This is called inclusiveness of gays to society...

 

We talked about gossip topics such as bribed Miss World pageants events, why the tits of Sarah Jessica Parker look bigger than before or if Dolly Parton will ever have any wrinkles...  Same as topics here bump up of people that misbehave on the road, mrt... why Schooling got fatter whether some local social media influencers did hanky panky behind the back of their husband etc...

 

We now talk about all topics that straight people discuss also...

 

BW is a reflection of this...

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It has been hyjacked by people talking about foreign politics and what not.  It also has been hyjacked by very slutty stupid topics from the most needy and desperate people who didn't want to at least try to google for an answer first.  Then, you have repetitive topics but with different titles.  Icing on the cake, ended up bitching, pulling hairs and punching below the belt like watching  wrestlling match that drags on and on....   That is not all.  you have lengthy 10 pages answer sover a simple question that requires only one liner answer.  And then...and then.....a genuine topic will immediately followed by  nagative comment,  pointing at our own fault to even dare to ask or write ......

 

Furthermore,  we are so different from each other, thru experiences, background, age, status and cock size, we don't even know where to start.  

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This forum only has a handful of gay uncles who are the only ones talking among themselves in every thread. The only threads they really like are the sauna and Mediacorp tv drama gossip. 

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Frankly, being gay is only part of our entire lives. As such, we have many interests and topics of note, other than topics about gay sex and being gay. So, as an open forum, shouldn't there be many topics that do not just focus on "gay stuff"?

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On 10/13/2022 at 11:07 AM, sgmaven said:

Frankly, being gay is only part of our entire lives. As such, we have many interests and topics of note, other than topics about gay sex and being gay. So, as an open forum, shouldn't there be many topics that do not just focus on "gay stuff"?

 

Precisely.   And there is enough "gay stuff" in this forum that any true straight who happens to land at this website will leave it immediately and clear his browsing data,  therefore leaving BW exclusively for us gays to post about "gay stuff" and "not gay stuff".

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Guest Lost gay generation

When I chance upon this website 10 to 15 years ago its alot of gay stuff. 

 

Like poppers la, illegal or not. How to get. 

How to prepare anql to get fucked la. 

How or where to do outdoor gay sex la. 

Cruising spot la. 

Blowjob go where. Gaybar go where. 

Toilet fun how to do. Where to do. What to look out for? (I have personally went to those location and was shocked that it really exists - last time City link cubicle all locked and I also actually tapped my foot. And really got someone bend down and shoved his cock.) 

 

Or like swimming pool which cruisy one to go. (I also went and also actually managed to hook up with some dude who purposely shower with door open. I chose the cubicle across him also did the same as him shower without closing door and I showed him my ass and cock etc. Later he waited for me outside the pool and brought me back to his unit nearby and we did blowjob and anal. 

 

I dunno. I guess its that era or sgboy, fridae, mirc. Where gay forum like this is like a cove of wisdom where gay people can share or give out gay advice where normal straight people won't know. 

 

Its also from here where I met my first regular fuck buddy. Mirc was alot of time wasting spam not. 

 

Gay was mostly underground back then? Now it's like so normalised that it lost its culture. 

Say a new gay secondary school boy now come out as gay. He won't know all this history and culture of all the gay hidden spots. Raffles City level 2 toilet (been there before also from knowing it in forum and really got gays with hard cock standing at the urinal). 

 

You know... Those sort of things. 

 

I ask cause I wonder where is the new gay secret spots? Cause most of the old ones are gone. Clement met la. Golden Mile la. 

 

So the new gay meet where to explore gay stuff ah nowadays? 

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To "Lost Gay Generation"

 

While reading your post it seems that your concept of gay essentially just relates to sex and cruising.

 

Other times different means of meeting other gays...

 

There are some critics who say that gays focus more or less on looks, body, gym, fashion and beauty... I don't think that goes for all.

 

But I think gay life does not just relate to sex and cruising... but surely encompasses to other life issues.

I think your concept of gay life is a bit too limited to these two topics...

There is much more,... maybe you never explored it.

 

 

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To singalion, 

Most gay only accept being gay after doing the gay stuff.

Or for closet straight who are curious. 

 

That's why the new age gay have lost the chance to be criminalised by society. 

They missed the opportunity to hate themselves and try to fit in and pretend to like girls. 

They lost the very essence (or that important part) of coming out. 

 

No wonder the new gays all so proud come out in tik tok etc. 

They have nothing to lose. In some places, you still can get killed for being gay. 

 

Anyway few years ago, this forum also have lots of cock pic. 

Or nipple topless pic. 

Or ass pic. 

Looks like all this have beeb removed by moderator to become less gay. 

 

That's why I wonder whada the point of this forum anymore. 

Everyone can just go hardwarezone or reddit. Or just start a thread in reddit.... 

 

Even xtube already gone. This forum also kinda lost its purpose. 

You must be the part of the new gay who don't want to talk about the real gay stuff. The cock inside dirty ass stuff. 

 

I mean a straight sex forum also talk about sex stuff what. Not like people go to Sammy boys to talk about politics haha 

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Anyway few years ago, this forum also have lots of cock pic. Or nipple topless pic. Or ass pic. 

Looks like all this have beeb removed by moderator to become less gay. 

That's why I wonder whada the point of this forum anymore. 

Everyone can just go hardwarezone or reddit. Or just start a thread in reddit.... 

Even xtube already gone. This forum also kinda lost its purpose. 

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The laws have changed. The cock pics etc can no longer be displayed as the website would be considered as a porn site and shut down.

Also privacy laws in Singapore have changed. If it was not your own image, then all persons involved would have needed to give their consent for such pics to be published.

 

If your only interest in Blowing Wind was in cock and nipple pics and some raunchy invented sex stories, then ok, you are free to like or what interests you.

 

But if you go back to the start of Blowing Wind, you will see that there were already guys during those early times that discussed gay issues such as 377 or other things in society.

 

Surely, in hardwarezone or reddit the straight guys or girls do not publish dick and tit pics or any sexually related pictures.

 

If you think this forum lost its purpose, then why are you still here?

 

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That's why the new age gay have lost the chance to be criminalised by society. 

They missed the opportunity to hate themselves and try to fit in and pretend to like girls. 

They lost the very essence (or that important part) of coming out. 

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Why should any gay hate himself?

And why do they need to pretend to like girls?

 

The important part of coming out is telling others about your sexual orientation and not that society considered you to be a criminal.

 

The view by the society on homosexuality has changed.

 

I don't think that the repeal of 377A will bring any immediate change. For example, at the workplace it might still not be the appropriate place to "come out".

Plenty of guys will probably still require to pretend to like girls.

 

One point which has been missing in the repeal of 377A discussion so far is how the military (SAF) will treat gays in future...

 

I found your line on "missing the opportunity to hate themselves" a bit weird.

 

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This forum , long ago has moved away from it original purpose 

It is now called Miscellaneous or Kindergarten forum 

U can ask anything seriously; what brand of toilet paper you guys prefer .....etc 

 

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The BW forum definitely does discuss plenty of "gay stuff".

 

But the fact that we also discuss non-stereotypically gay topics shows that we gay guys don't just think about anal sex all the time, contrary to what straight people accuse us of.

If anything, it shows that we gay guys are just regular guys with regular struggles, needs, and concerns, same as everyone else.

 

We are not freaks in a laboratory, nor do we belong to a different species of guys.

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28 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

The BW forum definitely does discuss plenty of "gay stuff".

 

But the fact that we also discuss non-stereotypically gay topics shows that we gay guys don't just think about anal sex all the time, contrary to what straight people accuse us of.

If anything, it shows that we gay guys are just regular guys with regular struggles, needs, and concerns, same as everyone else.

 

We are not freaks in a laboratory, nor do we belong to a different species of guys.

Fei Hua 

Other than we man like man , what is diff ?? 

We dont have parents ah 
We dont have siblings ah 
We dont need to work ah 
We dont need to party , relax , go holiday , gossip abt ppl shopping etc ?? 

 

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