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Many yrs ago i was straight and only interested in girls. Then one day overseas got forcefully sodomised by 2 guys. A yr later suddenly hv urge to be f by men again. But didnt take the first step until many yrs after marriage. 
So now i fuck my wife by get fucked by men. 
When do u guys start gay sex?

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For me at age 6 I already felt like I was different from other boys. Like observing their behaviour and type of games, i felt repulsed by their boorishness but also found girls to be too self-righteous. Saying all of this in a general sense of course.

 

Enter teenage years when hormones kick in and suddenly everything starts to feel sexualized; around that time I start to discover and connect with others 'similar' to me who later eventually also realized that they themselves are LGBTQ - no, there wasn't any hanky panky with schoolmates because all those who were either coming out or who were camp enough to get labelled weren't my 'type' and were only friends.

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1 hour ago, Guest Riding said:

Many yrs ago i was straight and only interested in girls. Then one day overseas got forcefully sodomised by 2 guys. A yr later suddenly hv urge to be f by men again. But didnt take the first step until many yrs after marriage. 
So now i fuck my wife by get fucked by men. 
When do u guys start gay sex?


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7 hours ago, TLC said:

You don't just "start being gay".

Btw, you are bisexual.

Hope these helped to clarify your predicament.

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Agreed, i do not think you can start being gay. Gay is born, not start. So for TS case, like you said, he is likely to be bi but he did not find out the other side of gay earlier.

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Yes. Being gay is not a switch that you can turn on or off. You are gay or you're not. Sexuality is a spectrum. More importantly, did you ever seek help/therapy from your forced sexual encounter by the 2 men? In other words, you were raped. This whole desire to engage with m2m sex could stem from the trauma. Please seek professional help so that you can have a more insightful view of your trauma as it relates to your desire to be submissive to other men. 

Love. 

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2 hours ago, doncoin said:

Yes. Being gay is not a switch that you can turn on or off. You are gay or you're not. Sexuality is a spectrum. More importantly, did you ever seek help/therapy from your forced sexual encounter by the 2 men? In other words, you were raped. This whole desire to engage with m2m sex could stem from the trauma. Please seek professional help so that you can have a more insightful view of your trauma as it relates to your desire to be submissive to other men. 

 

I second your opinion that being raped by a man is not "an introduction to being gay".

 

I believe that we become aware of our sexual orientation in childhood as our sexuality gradually emerges. At least this happens when we have a healthy upbringing.  I don't know much about cases where little boys exhibit since early infancy traits that belong to the feminine gender,  like playing with dolls and wanting to wear dresses, which can be a wrong "sexual identity".

 

I might be wrong, but I don't think that a desire to be fucked by men is an "orientation".  It might instead be a masochistic trauma, as you suggest.  "Orientation" has more to do with how we naturally seek sexual pleasure by gravitating to a particular gender.

 

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10 hours ago, doncoin said:

Yes. Being gay is not a switch that you can turn on or off. You are gay or you're not. Sexuality is a spectrum. More importantly, did you ever seek help/therapy from your forced sexual encounter by the 2 men? In other words, you were raped. This whole desire to engage with m2m sex could stem from the trauma. Please seek professional help so that you can have a more insightful view of your trauma as it relates to your desire to be submissive to other men. 

Gay or straight, you cannot choose what you want. It is born.

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I believe that we were already homosexual when we were born. I don't think it's a result of or a cause of something stressful. Because of how our parents were raised, the traumatizing aspect may have caused you to become disoriented. Similarly to brainwashing us into believing that girls are for guys and vice versa.

 

When I was in first grade, my uncle sexually assaulted me. But I genuinely understand that I am homosexual. Unfortunately, I find it fulfilling because, in my thoughts, it makes me feel like a girl who is loved by someone. But I believe it got worse when my cousins began fucking me up until I was in college. Only after I arrived in Singapore for work did it cease.

 

Anyway, my major point is that I was aware of my sexual orientation from an early age and and I know that I am gay.

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11 hours ago, Guest guest said:

Gay or straight, you cannot choose what you want. It is born.

 

8 hours ago, simply_me said:

 

I believe that we were already homosexual when we were born. I don't think it's a result of or a cause of something stressful. Because of how our parents were raised, the traumatizing aspect may have caused you to become disoriented. Similarly to brainwashing us into believing that girls are for guys and vice versa.

 

 

We share an impartial and honest belief that homosexuality is in our nature.  This gives us a tremendous advantage over straights,  who also honestly find that heterosexuality is in THEIR nature, and therefore erroneously estimate that all men must be straight by nature.  And therefore,  any deviation from heterosexuality is an ACT OF WILL against nature,  becoming a SIN or something else that is bad.

 

So, straights easily fall into this erroneous condemnation of homosexuality that so many organized religions exploit.  We gays should take advantage of having our piece of TRUTH to challenge the stories of the organized religions,  their doctrines, dogmas, because... because a religion that is TRUE cannot include falsities. 

 

So we might reach the fortunate state of being AGNOSTIC, not necessarily being against religions but simply not accepting any doctrinal constraints by them. 

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On 3/11/2023 at 2:02 AM, doncoin said:

Yes. Being gay is not a switch that you can turn on or off. You are gay or you're not. Sexuality is a spectrum. More importantly, did you ever seek help/therapy from your forced sexual encounter by the 2 men? In other words, you were raped. This whole desire to engage with m2m sex could stem from the trauma. Please seek professional help so that you can have a more insightful view of your trauma as it relates to your desire to be submissive to other men. 

No at that time feeling ashamed to be forced upon by 2 men. Got dragged into backlane of pub. Didnt tell anyone. 

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15 hours ago, Guest Riding said:

No at that time feeling ashamed to be forced upon by 2 men. Got dragged into backlane of pub. Didnt tell anyone. 

 

Well, it is time you have a talk with a professional about it. Past traumas can manifest themselves in our present lives in different ways. The sooner you discussed it with someone about it, the more insights it can provide you with how it is affecting your life. 

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When u start being gay?

 

My answer:

Once you engage on a regular basis in homosexual sex acts and your attraction is to men. 

 

Reason: Getting aroused by watching gay sex, doesn't make you gay, there must be experience also.

Second, I wrote regular, because, those one time, two time or accidental gay sex acts might not turn you gay.

I think also such sex acts must be interactive. Two guys just jerking together without touching the other has nothing to do with being gay.

 

 

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On 3/10/2023 at 8:41 AM, Guest Riding said:

Many yrs ago i was straight and only interested in girls. Then one day overseas got forcefully sodomised by 2 guys. A yr later suddenly hv urge to be f by men again. But didnt take the first step until many yrs after marriage. 
So now i fuck my wife by get fucked by men. 
When do u guys start gay sex?

 

Did you ever seek any psychological assistance on this.

 

Your case sounds a bit like suffering parts of the Stockholm syndrome to me.

 

Eventually the fact that you were "sodomised" by two rapists is not the cause of having an attraction to gay sex?

It is probably just incidental.

You might have been gay or bisexual otherwise also.

 

The second question to me is: What do you do if your wife is not around or are you seeking gay sex without your wife also? Are you sexually aroused by seeing a dick, do you fantasise about gay sex?

 

I would seek some psychological expert to clarify on this.

 

 

 

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Mine was in primary one when I had a huge crush on this cute male classmate.

I wasn't molested or sexually abused as a child, did not have access to porn, was not jilted by a girl, or sexually groomed.

 

Just naturally gravitated towards guy as far back as I can remember. All of my childhood sexual and romantic fantasies involved guys.

 

Thought that it was something I would eventually outgrow.

 

Never outgrew it.

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On 3/11/2023 at 4:51 AM, Steve5380 said:

I believe that we become aware of our sexual orientation in childhood as our sexuality gradually emerges. At least this happens when we have a healthy upbringing.  I don't know much about cases where little boys exhibit since early infancy traits that belong to the feminine gender,  like playing with dolls and wanting to wear dresses, which can be a wrong "sexual identity".

 

Actually, I don't really understand what you try to say with that sentence.

 

Isn't that kid's play of putting on dresses of your mother or trying her lipstick etc just some play with no much meaning in that age? I place that into admiration to your mother and not as the start of being homosexual or even trans.

I assume many straight guys who never touched any dick in their whole life such behaviour as kids.

 

It is similar to smoking the cigarettes of your dad. Same as playing with dolls in a setting where you have one or more sisters. Kids just play together.

 

Sensing to be attracted to the same sex should probably start just around puberty.

While to be honest, not every signal or attraction must turn out true. Guys who admire the masculinity and manly body of a football player in your class must not mean you turn to be gay. Even some closeness to guys (scouts), sleeping in the same tent etc or even jerks, doesn't make one gay. There is a natural curiosity to compare (if your body is normal) on dick size etc in such young ages even around puberty time. That doesn't result in your being gay later on.

I guess most straight guys have such experiences also.

 

Just ask yourself, did you ever had any urge to have sex with a girl after puberty?

I assume most gay men would say, no, because they simply just got hard thinking of dicks and sex with other men.

 

 

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On 3/16/2023 at 2:28 PM, singalion said:

 

Did you ever seek any psychological assistance on this.

 

Your case sounds a bit like suffering parts of the Stockholm syndrome to me.

 

Eventually the fact that you were "sodomised" by two rapists is not the cause of having an attraction to gay sex?

It is probably just incidental.

You might have been gay or bisexual otherwise also.

 

The second question to me is: What do you do if your wife is not around or are you seeking gay sex without your wife also? Are you sexually aroused by seeing a dick, do you fantasise about gay sex?

 

I would seek some psychological expert to clarify on this.

 

 

 

Yes i do get aroused by seeing a dick. In fact i do enjoy giving blowjobs to guys before getting anal. 

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On 3/10/2023 at 8:41 AM, Guest Riding said:

Many yrs ago i was straight and only interested in girls. Then one day overseas got forcefully sodomised by 2 guys. A yr later suddenly hv urge to be f by men again. But didnt take the first step until many yrs after marriage. 
So now i fuck my wife by get fucked by men. 
When do u guys start gay sex?

 

Not only you. When I m at a go go bar in bkk, I booked a guy for overnite. During chatting on bed, he shared his customers' story with me. He told me alot of his customers fxxk their wife or gf out there but come here for man to fxxk them.

 

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I start at age 14. Basically it started at age 13 when i do not bring my p.e attire to school. Then during p.e lesson. I am told to attend the lesson shirtless.

 

Later i start to enjoy exercise shirtless. Dunno why. I get excited when i see boys or men exericse shirtless. Every time i see it. My heart keep pounching.

 

But during my time 33 year ago. Pc still using floppy disk. Internet not so advance. People spreading new like example been gay is not blessed by god or other bad stuff.

Age 13 still not so mature. Alway believe what other people saying.

 

Later on i been enjoying bathing at safra tampines naked and enjoy watching men bathing naked there.

 

One day i been molested by a gay man there. It my first experience. I so scare and run away.

 

Later when i return home. My mind keep thinking about it and learn masturbating from this guy.

 

Eventually i return and get molested by a difference guy and this time i do not run. But just handplay nothing else.

 

Then he suggested gay sex i disagree because of what i written on top. Scare the buddist reglious i praying not happy about it.

 

 

So we become friend. It take a year then he invited me to a gay private party.

During the one year. I keep buying bodybuilder magazine to look at those muscular men body.

This friend also teach me self fingering which i feel nothing about it but i do self fingering sometime depend on my mood. Which cause my hole not so tight.

 

At this party i been drugged and raped. When i awake Someone is raping my ass.

 

Because it is body to body contact anal. I feel kind of good and somehow enjoy the anal raping. After this i become gay bottom and love to fucked by man/men.

 

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On 3/10/2023 at 8:41 AM, Guest Riding said:

Many yrs ago i was straight and only interested in girls. Then one day overseas got forcefully sodomised by 2 guys. A yr later suddenly hv urge to be f by men again. But didnt take the first step until many yrs after marriage. 
So now i fuck my wife by get fucked by men. 
When do u guys start gay sex?

I have heard many such stories. But only this time I realize the conversion is not immediate but plays out over a year....

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