What happened after you gave your cheating partner a second chance?

[Guest NotANinjaTurtle]

What happened after you gave your cheating partner a second chance?

Do you trust him again?

[Guest Arshavin]

After giving a cheating partner a second chance, the relationship may continue, and the couple may work through their issues together. In some cases, the cheating partner may feel remorse and work to regain their partner's trust by being transparent and making efforts to rebuild the relationship. However, there is also the possibility that the cheating partner may repeat their behavior, and the trust may never fully be restored. Ultimately, the outcome will depend on the individuals involved and the steps they take to move forward. It's important to consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor to work through these challenges and improve communication in the relationship.

[auscent]

...Or if ur values are so compromised that u have keep having doubts, forgiving his repeated actions - then you should do what is good for yourself

[Guest Breed me please.]

那一支猫咪不偷腥

 

A leopard never changes its spots

 

A tiger never changes its stripes

 

Harimao tidak hilang belang. 

 

The only constant in life is situation changes, nothing.stays the same.

 

Besides there are more bottoms needing to be bred. 

 

Let them get themselves filled till overflow.

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

If I were you just MOVE ON ignore block your PAST! Why you wanna still be in that shitty past or TOXIC past? Aren't you tired of give in etc....? Why you even bother to THINK or give 2nd chances they have their own motive though....

 

Either you get CHEATED again with lots of drama n excuses or you r one of the rare ones who r so DAMN LUCKY! To have that PAST person Change FOR YOU! 

 

Since you give him chances let him prove it to you....let him initiate...plan... surprise you....see if got improve in sex skills and in public places see if he feel paiseh or etc ....you can definitely tell the  difference haha 

 

Good luck. 

[singalion]

On 3/29/2023 at 12:36 AM, Guest NotANinjaTurtle said:

What happened after you gave your cheating partner a second chance?

Do you trust him again?

 

The question is much too hypothetical. You can't predict the future.

 

Your second sentence seems to hint to the point that you only know monogamous relationships. But is this the norm or reality in gay relationships?

 

What may happen?

 

a) The cheating partner cheats again

b) the cheating partner ends the relationship

c) both partner agreed to go on with a open relationship

d) The cheating partner promised not to cheat again

 

Being realistic, all responses may lead to another event of cheating in the future and the cheated partner will end up in the same situation again.

 

 

[Guest jw2023d]

Giving a cheating partner a second chance can have different outcomes depending on the individual situation. In some cases, the relationship can heal and become stronger, while in other cases, the trust may never fully be restored, and the relationship may ultimately end.

 

If both partners are committed to rebuilding the relationship, it will take time, effort, and a willingness to be open and honest with each other. The cheating partner must be willing to take responsibility for their actions and make changes to rebuild trust. The other partner must also be willing to forgive and work on rebuilding trust.

 

However, if the cheating partner is not willing to take responsibility or make changes, or if the other partner cannot forgive and move forward, the relationship may not be salvageable.

 

It's important to remember that every situation is different, and there is no right or wrong decision when it comes to giving a cheating partner a second chance. Ultimately, it's up to the individuals involved to decide what is best for them and their relationship.

[doncoin]

One thing important thing when you agree to move forward is to stop punishing him. If you are still punishing him, whatever form that may be, from silent treatment, to outburtsts, then you are not ready to move forward. It is not about forgetting what he did, it is about what he is doing now to lessen the pain and the memory of his transgression. 

 

Just be mindful of not bringing up what he had done wrong in the past when you guys get into an argument. When you are in an argument, focus on what was done wrong in the present, than in the past. 

[Guest Wonderguy]

Giving a cheating partner a second chance is a personal decision that should be based on individual circumstances and personal values. Every situation is different, and the outcomes can vary depending on several factors, such as the reasons behind the infidelity, the commitment of the partner to change and rebuild trust, and the willingness of both partners to work on the relationship.

 

In some cases, giving a cheating partner a second chance can lead to a stronger and more resilient relationship, where both partners work to address the issues that led to the infidelity and build trust and communication. In other cases, however, the relationship may not survive, and the hurt and betrayal may cause irreparable damage to the trust and intimacy.

 

It's important to note that forgiveness and rebuilding trust take time and effort from both partners, and there is no guarantee of a positive outcome. Ultimately, the decision to give a cheating partner a second chance should be based on careful consideration of the situation and the willingness of both partners to work on the relationship.