Guest adam_93 Posted April 1, 2023 Report Share Posted April 1, 2023 Is it really necessary? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abc_sg Posted April 1, 2023 Report Share Posted April 1, 2023 Why not? It’s part of things you guys can share if want to be bfs right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterFitMalaySG4U Posted April 1, 2023 Report Share Posted April 1, 2023 Nope. What the shoot you wanna for? His motive? What a red flag! Why need to give in everytime? If he dare to ask me that he gonna get f from me and NO SEX for a week or month haha you also have to test your relationship are you for kept? Or just for fun so that you have options he don't he knows who he is dealing with haha not my lost anyway. Haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Weird Posted April 1, 2023 Report Share Posted April 1, 2023 If a prospective boyfriend casually asked me this kind of question, especially when were just getting to know each other, he would immediately cease to be my prospective boyfriend because I can't see myself being life partners with someone who thinks this is appropriate and decent behavior. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 2, 2023 Report Share Posted April 2, 2023 I've always assumed that asking for the other person's penis size was something acceptable in the gay community. When I was in my 20s, I befriended a older gay man, and one of the first things he asked me was my penis size, both in the flaccid and erect state. At that time, I thought it was nothing wrong. So I actually really went home to take a ruler to measure, and then masturbated for awhile, and measured again. Then I dutifully texted him the figures. On my part, I never asked him for his size. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awolonline Posted April 2, 2023 Report Share Posted April 2, 2023 sure but do I say 8 inch or 20cm? Peachy 1 Quote I do not live in Singapore. Like kinky fun, dares, etc. You're welcome to request pics - just say what you would like to see hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peachy Posted April 2, 2023 Report Share Posted April 2, 2023 1 hour ago, awolonline said: sure but do I say 8 inch or 20cm? Definitely 8 inch awolonline 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted April 2, 2023 Report Share Posted April 2, 2023 that questions sounds a bit too catholic to me... Wanna have first sex only after you married? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ERFAbangBear Posted April 2, 2023 Report Share Posted April 2, 2023 Wait don't yall check the goods before buying? I mean... just say lah... at the end of the day also he's gonna go down on you and vice versa what. 😅 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Swimmingcruiser Posted April 3, 2023 Report Share Posted April 3, 2023 Lol, I guess it depends on how much I want to have fun with the guy I guess. I mean, what's the big deal if we will be getting naked soon right Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest curious Posted April 3, 2023 Report Share Posted April 3, 2023 19 hours ago, Guest Guest said: I've always assumed that asking for the other person's penis size was something acceptable in the gay community. When I was in my 20s, I befriended a older gay man, and one of the first things he asked me was my penis size, both in the flaccid and erect state. At that time, I thought it was nothing wrong. So I actually really went home to take a ruler to measure, and then masturbated for awhile, and measured again. Then I dutifully texted him the figures. On my part, I never asked him for his size. i think nothing wrong..esp after the 3rd or 4th meeting...its part and parcel of gay dating scene. I have done the same...people ask me and i have asked people too.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted April 3, 2023 Report Share Posted April 3, 2023 7 hours ago, ERFAbangBear said: Wait don't yall check the goods before buying? I mean... just say lah... at the end of the day also he's gonna go down on you and vice versa what. 😅 I think there is a difference if you are just looking for fun or looking into a relationship. However, I don't find the topic or question very realistic due to various factors: 1) Most guys nowadays would not go into a relationship without having had tried some sex 2) Nobody is a prospective boyfriend who you just chat or meet the first time... 3) When it comes to relationships, if the dick size is the major point, then what to say, probably the relationship won't be lasting or the basis for the relationship is already wrong 4) Would you seriously reject a guy as a partner that fits to you most suitable by character and you have good feelings for him if the dick is too small or too big? 5) Somebody who would ask this question is probably not seriously looking for a relationship... Leanmeat 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buffedbear Posted April 3, 2023 Report Share Posted April 3, 2023 Yes if you are big, no if you are small Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 4, 2023 Report Share Posted April 4, 2023 If the guy is attractive and you like him, just tell him: " Its for you to find out! " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Behrhunter Posted April 4, 2023 Report Share Posted April 4, 2023 I must honestly say that I am pleasantly surprised by the responses. Don't judge me, if he was already a potential bf, I've always made the assumption that many would have already starting f*king let alone need to ask for the size. I dunno, I have been told that I am too slow in the progression of relationship by my past dates. It usually takes me about 2 - 6 months prior to deciding that one is a potential bf. I frequently got comments by the ones that got away that cos we didnt have sex that i was not interested. Or friends who asked something like what another poster said - "You haven't tested the goods?" max001 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dick jealousy Posted April 4, 2023 Report Share Posted April 4, 2023 I hate my small dick. Actually my dick is not that small but I feel its small compared to porn star. I can't accept my own insecurity. But I can accept my bf if he has small dick. But I cannot accept myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
And then Posted April 4, 2023 Report Share Posted April 4, 2023 If you are potentially heading for an intimate relationship, and your dick is "unusual", then I think it is nice to let the other party know. By unusual, that could mean extra small, extra huge, weird shape, phimosis, non-functional, etc Much better than both parties having invested emotionally and then to have this deal breaker dick spring up mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.0284 Posted April 5, 2023 Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 i would just say 16cm long and 15cm girth. it is up to him to believe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted April 5, 2023 Report Share Posted April 5, 2023 If he asked, just tell him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lol Posted April 6, 2023 Report Share Posted April 6, 2023 If he ask, just ask him to pull down your pants and make it hard and see or measure lo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guo Posted April 7, 2023 Report Share Posted April 7, 2023 on grindr when they said 6inch, turn out 5inch nia, 99% of the time, i wonder how people measure their dick? from balls? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mojohomme Posted April 7, 2023 Report Share Posted April 7, 2023 47 minutes ago, Guest guo said: on grindr when they said 6inch, turn out 5inch nia, 99% of the time, i wonder how people measure their dick? from balls? lol usually from the dorsal side bone press from the pelvic bone. so if they say 6 inch, they really are from the pelvic bone. but fats pad might have buried a some of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted April 8, 2023 Report Share Posted April 8, 2023 19 hours ago, Guest guo said: on grindr when they said 6inch, turn out 5inch nia, 99% of the time, i wonder how people measure their dick? from balls? lol I agree!! Never believe what you are told especially on Grindr/Jack'D (whatever gay apps). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
And then Posted April 8, 2023 Report Share Posted April 8, 2023 1 hour ago, bluerunner said: I agree!! Never believe what you are told especially on Grindr/Jack'D (whatever gay apps). yeah.... fake photo, fake age, fake height, fake weight, fake size just take the info as a reference point only, haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Poor Taste Posted April 8, 2023 Report Share Posted April 8, 2023 On 4/4/2023 at 11:19 AM, Steve5380 said: If the guy is attractive and you like him, just tell him: " Its for you to find out! " Sounds very rude!!! Those short statement, used to be very common in the old days, is enough to piss off many gays in the chat room and in the dating scene. It was like saying to the other guys: ..."you don't stand a chance to know more than what I wanted you to know". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest wahahahahaha Posted April 8, 2023 Report Share Posted April 8, 2023 On 4/4/2023 at 2:58 PM, Guest Dick jealousy said: I hate my small dick. Actually my dick is not that small but I feel its small compared to porn star. I can't accept my own insecurity. But I can accept my bf if he has small dick. But I cannot accept myself. You must be a "TOP". If so, you are not required to have a huge dick or even one at all......wahahahahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted April 8, 2023 Report Share Posted April 8, 2023 I'm starting to wonder if this is a "gay" forum because this topic, among other issues, bored me to death.🥱 Doing the most gay thing is the most rational gay behavior. If I or the other person displays interest development on our first or subsequent dates, I am "not so polite." I will go all out to grab the guy's middle ground if he lets me touch his thigh affectionately; no measurement device, no stripping, no further questions necessary. Silence is all that is required, and it takes 99.9% of the time before you even start to feel anything......the guy already has HARD ON!! Which is to be expected in my cases 😝 My story still a surprise to you?🙄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiPJ Posted April 10, 2023 Report Share Posted April 10, 2023 i don't mind them knowing. mine is not big, and so i would prefer to let the size queens know beforehand, so they won't be too disappointed when they see it IRL... lol... sad but true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted April 10, 2023 Report Share Posted April 10, 2023 On 4/5/2023 at 8:15 AM, D.0284 said: i would just say 16cm long and 15cm girth. it is up to him to believe. Then it is better to say 21cm long and 15cm girth... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted April 10, 2023 Report Share Posted April 10, 2023 On 4/7/2023 at 7:40 PM, Guest guo said: on grindr when they said 6inch, turn out 5inch nia, 99% of the time, i wonder how people measure their dick? from balls? lol I assume they measure from the ground... 😂 Better are those who reply "never measured" . to that is an indication much below average size... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Small dick energy Posted April 10, 2023 Report Share Posted April 10, 2023 It's not the dick size la. Its the guy. I met a bottom before with small dick I think only 3.5 inch when hard. But thick. Because of his dick size, he workout to build his body. Got the amateur body build type. Wow when he lift both legs up exposing the hole and let me fuck him, and his hard small dick looks so sexy as fuck sia... I never reject him because of dick size. In fact I find it cute haha. It suits him. He is also kinda short. Short and compact. Very huggable. Very fuck able. Very nice. But alas, he feel so insecure that everytime after sex he will feel depressed. I mean my dick is not even that big. Only 6".not like those eporn stR 9". But he feels so sad. Always ask me to abuse him Call him faggot when I fuck him. Ask me to demean him. Make fun of his small cock. But I don't want... He can't get off and stopped meeting up with me. Some guys... Their whole identity revolves around their dick. Their ego match their dick size. Very sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.0284 Posted April 10, 2023 Report Share Posted April 10, 2023 2 hours ago, singalion said: Then it is better to say 21cm long and 15cm girth... um, why lie? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted April 10, 2023 Report Share Posted April 10, 2023 1 hour ago, D.0284 said: um, why lie? On 4/5/2023 at 8:15 AM, D.0284 said: i would just say 16cm long and 15cm girth. it is up to him to believe. 15cm girth realistic? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.0284 Posted April 11, 2023 Report Share Posted April 11, 2023 (edited) 14 hours ago, singalion said: 15cm girth realistic? actually 14-16cm girth circumference quite common de. well, a lot of folks round off to the nearest 5mm. Edited April 11, 2023 by D.0284 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted April 11, 2023 Report Share Posted April 11, 2023 A study of over 15,000 men found an average flaccid length of 3.6 inches and an average flaccid circumference (girth) of 3.7 inches (9.3cm). When erect, the penises had an average length of 5.1 inches and an average circumference of 4.5 inches (11.4cm). Girths are circumference measures at standard anatomical sites around the body. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.0284 Posted April 11, 2023 Report Share Posted April 11, 2023 (edited) 4 hours ago, singalion said: A study of over 15,000 men found an average flaccid length of 3.6 inches and an average flaccid circumference (girth) of 3.7 inches (9.3cm). When erect, the penises had an average length of 5.1 inches and an average circumference of 4.5 inches (11.4cm). Girths are circumference measures at standard anatomical sites around the body. let's not divert the topic too much, the discipline master might not be happy. perhaps many men measured wrongly. many men does not knows they are well endow until they visit a urologist for annual checks. therefore i believe there are a lot of very well endow men around us. many are growers. no need to lie, just tell. after all they might not believe de lah. Edited April 11, 2023 by D.0284 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted April 11, 2023 Report Share Posted April 11, 2023 5 minutes ago, D.0284 said: let's not divert the topic too much, the discipline master might not be happy. perhaps many men measured wrongly. Sure, we don't want to drop into a discussion of BBC... 😂 While I searched for the average girth size of dicks, there were many health articles that cited the exaggeration of dick sizes by men... haha More relevant would be the reasons, why guys don't intend to disclose their dick size to a potential bf? Isn't it better to be honest from onset? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.0284 Posted April 11, 2023 Report Share Posted April 11, 2023 (edited) 12 minutes ago, singalion said: Sure, we don't want to drop into a discussion of BBC... 😂 While I searched for the average girth size of dicks, there were many health articles that cited the exaggeration of dick sizes by men... haha More relevant would be the reasons, why guys don't intend to disclose their dick size to a potential bf? Isn't it better to be honest from onset? we cannot change anything about the size.(unless surgery). most of us are of reasonable good size. why hide leh? why afraid potential BF would flee after knowing your size? if a potential BF runaway after knowing the size. then let him go, he is not worth. dun waste your time on someone like him. ooh, if size is too big , then i believe you should really tell him (if he is bottom). at least he knows whats coming. Edited April 11, 2023 by D.0284 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Gay Posted April 11, 2023 Report Share Posted April 11, 2023 On my first blind date, I send my date home. I asked him to pull down his pants, lie down on the bed. Raise both legs up and spread his ass. I want to see his hole. He kicked me out. Not bf quality. Haha. Gay like cock. Just go eat chicken rice. Gay like guy. Then can be bf play the love love thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted April 11, 2023 Report Share Posted April 11, 2023 (edited) 2 hours ago, D.0284 said: we cannot change anything about the size.(unless surgery). most of us are of reasonable good size. why hide leh? why afraid potential BF would flee after knowing your size? if a potential BF runaway after knowing the size. then let him go, he is not worth. dun waste your time on someone like him. ooh, if size is too big , then i believe you should really tell him (if he is bottom). at least he knows whats coming. I concur. However, I think the issue won't crop up for 99.8% of potential bf situations, because both sides have already seen the other partner's dick. And someone asking you - being bf material - is that already considered a relationship? "Prospective bf", what is that? I don't think people enter into relationships just after one non sexual meet up or a date after an app chat. Sure, there might be guys who meet first for a cup of coffee after some app chat, ... But I still think, most if they intend to get into a relationship would do some sex sooner or later... Maybe 80 years ago there were people who had sex only after they married, but this never applied for gays at all. I find that the question from TS refers to a totally out of date and unrealistic scenario. Edited April 11, 2023 by singalion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitefuck Posted April 11, 2023 Report Share Posted April 11, 2023 My one and only ex bf did ask me about my cock size on our first meet up. i replied him "i dun know. For a precise measurements, you should use your 2 holes to measure." He did and we had a great 6 years together, till i married my pussy. ReubenH 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.0284 Posted April 11, 2023 Report Share Posted April 11, 2023 4 hours ago, whitefuck said: My one and only ex bf did ask me about my cock size on our first meet up. i replied him "i dun know. For a precise measurements, you should use your 2 holes to measure." He did and we had a great 6 years together, till i married my pussy. i must agree most dun reach the second. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fitcubsg Posted April 12, 2023 Report Share Posted April 12, 2023 hang on a second didn't everyone here share photos of there bod prior to meeting up? oppps maybe just me, just my 50 cents worth, you would have checked the goods prior to engaging in the act :-). For the size department, am happy with what I have......dont need to measure it but been told that i am more then acceptable for an asian, none the less in this day and age, photos are 20% but the real time is best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koumin Posted June 23, 2023 Report Share Posted June 23, 2023 On 4/12/2023 at 5:46 PM, fitcubsg said: hang on a second didn't everyone here share photos of there bod prior to meeting up? oppps maybe just me, just my 50 cents worth, you would have checked the goods prior to engaging in the act :-). For the size department, am happy with what I have......dont need to measure it but been told that i am more then acceptable for an asian, none the less in this day and age, photos are 20% but the real time is best. that's a good one, photo always adds 20% more to size fitcubsg 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 24, 2023 Report Share Posted June 24, 2023 19 hours ago, koumin said: that's a good one, photo always adds 20% more to size Photo is for illustration purpose only. 😆 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yhtang Posted June 26, 2023 Report Share Posted June 26, 2023 The title of the thread is "Are you guys willing to share your dick size if your prospective bf casually ask you?" Since we are talking about prospective boyfriends, this means is will be a long term relationship as opposed to a one night stand. If it is a long term relationship, I would truthfully declare my penis size. If the prospect does not like that, I would bless my lucky starts because I would immediately know the other party is not suitable for me for a long term relationship. It would have spared me a lot of wasted time and energy, and most probably a heartache. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted June 27, 2023 Report Share Posted June 27, 2023 If u consider him a prospect, show him n cut short the chase (or relationship:) yhtang 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonelyboy90 Posted July 5, 2023 Report Share Posted July 5, 2023 meet first then show. Kimochi 1 Quote Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest White guy in SG Posted August 12, 2023 Report Share Posted August 12, 2023 8inc and thick, and it's annoying Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest No point Posted August 12, 2023 Report Share Posted August 12, 2023 If the guy is a TOP and I am a Bottom, it is not necessary for him to ask about my dick size since I am not allowed to use it on it. Any TOP here wanted to verify my point? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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