Why it is alright to let go people who once were close to your heart?

[Guest Viktor24]

Letting go of people who were once close to your heart can be a difficult and emotional process, but sometimes it is necessary for our own personal growth and well-being. Here are a few reasons why it may be alright to let go of people from our lives:

 

Personal growth: As we grow and change over time, our needs and priorities may shift, and the people who were once important to us may no longer be a good fit for our lives. Letting go of relationships that no longer serve us can be a way to make room for new connections and experiences that align with our current values and goals.

 

Toxicity: Sometimes, relationships can become toxic or unhealthy over time, and it may be necessary to distance ourselves from people who bring negativity, drama, or harm into our lives. Letting go of toxic relationships can be a way to protect our mental, emotional, and physical health and create a more positive and peaceful environment for ourselves.

 

Life circumstances: Sometimes, people may grow apart due to changing life circumstances, such as moving to a new city, starting a new job, or entering into a new phase of life. While it can be difficult to let go of these relationships, it is important to recognize that distance and change are a natural part of life and that it is okay to let go of relationships that no longer fit into our lives.

 

In summary, while it can be hard to let go of people who were once close to our hearts, it is sometimes necessary for our own personal growth, well-being, and happiness. It is important to approach the process with compassion, understanding, and a commitment to self-care, and to remember that letting go does not necessarily mean that the love or memories we shared with that person are invalidated.

[Guest Try and see]

Happened to me.

Had a few friends whom I was very close to since primary/secondary school days.

Used to joke and laugh on the phone for hours during those pre-internet days; walked around Orchard Rd in our school uniform after school; had lots of fun with sleepovers at each other's house during the Dec school holidays, as well as the occasional school trips overseas.

 

Somehow, as they got older, they changed, or maybe I changed to; I don't know.

Some became more bad-tempered, less tolerant, more quarrelsome, more controlling and possessive, some became very petty and calculative, more cynical, more materialistic, more competitive, etc.

 

Overall, it can be summed up by saying it's a loss of their boyhood, childlike innocence.

 

Just have to let them go in order to keep your sanity.

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

if you extrovert you no need to worry since you sociable you can make friends easily the sad part is they come and go. N always expect initiation...

 

The good part about introvert is they take time or space to know someone once they know friendship can be quite long it is all depends on the vibes etc...the sad part is hard to find again if you have misunderstanding etc...

 

So overall both have good and bad sides in other words, keep the ones who also value or treasure or appreciate friendship this kind of person is hard to find nowadays. Those whom you think lots of drama..toxic....ghost...ONS...etc...just let them go...n move on..no need closure...Waste your time energy....