Raising awareness on date rape

[Leanmeat]

17 hours ago, Malabird said:

My friend Norman (not the real name) told me his encounter years back- He dated a ‘Bear’ guy named Kevin from Fridae, who worked in MCYS years ago.
 

The Kevin bear guy spoke very well and looked a little cute. He used to live in the point blocks at Dover Cresent near Sg Poly.

 

He asked Norman to drive him to the nearby Rochester park, a military compound built by the British. It was used and left behind by 5 SIR in early 2000s. 
 

once there they parked behind a two storey empty building and the Kevin bear started playing rough in the back seats, he torn Norman’s shirt and grabbed his dick like a hungry beast, while pushing Norman to swallow his bear dick.
 

In fear Norman tricked him to come out from the parked vehicle and into the empty building , the door was already broken and it was likely a place for many adventurers. 
 

Norman was already partly naked due to the wrestling and clothes torn by the bear. In the dark building kevin bear took out a rope and attempted to tie up Norman. To get out of the situation Norman tried to buy time, he stripped thé bear and gave him a good licking from chest down all the way. Then he gave the bear a strong kick and push, the beast fell on the floor. 

 

Norman grabbed the bear’s clothing,  dashed out of the building and jumped into his car, sped off.

 

Was the self defence too harsh ? 

 

 

Harsh? Not at all. But if want to be a little kind can throw his pants out while driving off. That will be the kindest thing for the bastard bear. 

Edited June 13, 2023 by Leanmeat

[Yas1950]

7 hours ago, Guest Never Again! said:

I met this very fit guy, a head taller than me model bod and looks at a park in the east.

 

He approached me and I was of course elated and wanted to have fun with this attractive guy in his late 20s, I was 22.

 

I was new to the scene then. He led me into a toilet cubicle. I really thought it was just hj or bj, kissing and romancing.

 

Who would have thought that he would literally pin me against the wall and fuck the hell out of me with no lube and no protection for the next 25 min.

 

I struggled and pleaded with him to stop to no avail. He was just like a mad bull so unlike his gentle demeanour when we first spoke. The worst thing was I had a raging hard on oozing precum despite the very terrible and excruciating pain. That made him think I was enjoying it. I came while he was still fucking me. The level of pain was even worse after I came. He got more excited and rammed me hard till he came in me. 

 

I bled for a week. How to report to police? Police, like some members here, would say I asked for it. Good thing he was clean.

 

It turned out that he was bi. After the ordeal he passed me his hp number and invited me join him with 2 gals the following week.

 

Did I call him? No! The good thing out of it was I hated being fucked and became a not only a top, but a considerate one. Will never fuck a guy like he did. 

 

Another near rape was at Kallang mrt stn toilet. The lean fit foreign worker, clean shaven, innocent looking guy, not more than 25yo. Good thing I matched his physique and manage to bolt out of the cubicle after 5 min of struggle.

 

I hope these people understand that wanting to have fun doesn't necessary mean the other party wants to be fucked against his will.

 

Good thing is, so far, gay and bimarried members here I met have respected that. 

 

 

I am so sorry for your unpleasant ordeal.

[Andrew240577]

On 6/13/2023 at 12:10 PM, Guest Never Again! said:

I met this very fit guy, a head taller than me model bod and looks at a park in the east.

 

He approached me and I was of course elated and wanted to have fun with this attractive guy in his late 20s, I was 22.

 

I was new to the scene then. He led me into a toilet cubicle. I really thought it was just hj or bj, kissing and romancing.

 

Who would have thought that he would literally pin me against the wall and fuck the hell out of me with no lube and no protection for the next 25 min.

 

I struggled and pleaded with him to stop to no avail. He was just like a mad bull so unlike his gentle demeanour when we first spoke. The worst thing was I had a raging hard on oozing precum despite the very terrible and excruciating pain. That made him think I was enjoying it. I came while he was still fucking me. The level of pain was even worse after I came. He got more excited and rammed me hard till he came in me. 

 

I bled for a week. How to report to police? Police, like some members here, would say I asked for it. Good thing he was clean.

 

It turned out that he was bi. After the ordeal he passed me his hp number and invited me join him with 2 gals the following week.

 

Did I call him? No! The good thing out of it was I hated being fucked and became a not only a top, but a considerate one. Will never fuck a guy like he did. 

 

Another near rape was at Kallang mrt stn toilet. The lean fit foreign worker, clean shaven, innocent looking guy, not more than 25yo. Good thing I matched his physique and manage to bolt out of the cubicle after 5 min of struggle.

 

I hope these people understand that wanting to have fun doesn't necessary mean the other party wants to be fucked against his will.

 

Good thing is, so far, gay and bimarried members here I met have respected that. 

 

 

No offend regarding how big that guy is and how small you are. It is hard to be rape in this situation unless you are half hearted give in. I have smiliar experience too.

 

Unless you been beaten until unconscious or been chloroform. In the cubicle there are a lot of way you can protect your arse to be raped is this situation. Plus as long as you shouted for help. He will run away regarding the place this incident happen.

[Guest Vurgin]

20 hours ago, Andrew240577 said:

No offend regarding how big that guy is and how small you are. It is hard to be rape in this situation unless you are half hearted give in. I have smiliar experience too.

 

Unless you been beaten until unconscious or been chloroform. In the cubicle there are a lot of way you can protect your arse to be raped is this situation. Plus as long as you shouted for help. He will run away regarding the place this incident happen.

Yah loh....where got so easy....

[Guest Wtf]

22 hours ago, Andrew240577 said:

No offend regarding how big that guy is and how small you are. It is hard to be rape in this situation unless you are half hearted give in. I have smiliar experience too.

 

Unless you been beaten until unconscious or been chloroform. In the cubicle there are a lot of way you can protect your arse to be raped is this situation. Plus as long as you shouted for help. He will run away regarding the place this incident happen.

don’t you understand the definition of rape? If it’s non consensual, it’s rape. If someone says no, it’s rape.
 

Doesn’t matter how big one person or the other is, the point is about consent. 

[Guest Guest]

On 10/30/2023 at 1:46 PM, Guest Wtf said:

don’t you understand the definition of rape? If it’s non consensual, it’s rape. If someone says no, it’s rape.
 

Doesn’t matter how big one person or the other is, the point is about consent. 

Don't act smart when you are seriously very dumb. 

 

Read his text properly.  He said it is "hard" to be raped.  He never said rape is consensual.

 

You are just an idiot trying to act intelligent.

[Guest Wtf]

4 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Don't act smart when you are seriously very dumb. 

 

Read his text properly.  He said it is "hard" to be raped.  He never said rape is consensual.

 

You are just an idiot trying to act intelligent.

suggest you work on your comprehension skills before calling other people idiots. 

[cutegeek]

On 6/13/2023 at 12:10 PM, Guest Never Again! said:

I met this very fit guy, a head taller than me model bod and looks at a park in the east.

 

He approached me and I was of course elated and wanted to have fun with this attractive guy in his late 20s, I was 22.

 

I was new to the scene then. He led me into a toilet cubicle. I really thought it was just hj or bj, kissing and romancing.

 

Who would have thought that he would literally pin me against the wall and fuck the hell out of me with no lube and no protection for the next 25 min.

 

I struggled and pleaded with him to stop to no avail. He was just like a mad bull so unlike his gentle demeanour when we first spoke. The worst thing was I had a raging hard on oozing precum despite the very terrible and excruciating pain. That made him think I was enjoying it. I came while he was still fucking me. The level of pain was even worse after I came. He got more excited and rammed me hard till he came in me. 

 

I bled for a week. How to report to police? Police, like some members here, would say I asked for it. Good thing he was clean.

 

It turned out that he was bi. After the ordeal he passed me his hp number and invited me join him with 2 gals the following week.

 

Did I call him? No! The good thing out of it was I hated being fucked and became a not only a top, but a considerate one. Will never fuck a guy like he did. 

 

Another near rape was at Kallang mrt stn toilet. The lean fit foreign worker, clean shaven, innocent looking guy, not more than 25yo. Good thing I matched his physique and manage to bolt out of the cubicle after 5 min of struggle.

 

I hope these people understand that wanting to have fun doesn't necessary mean the other party wants to be fucked against his will.

 

Good thing is, so far, gay and bimarried members here I met have respected that. 

 

 

having a hard cock with pre-cum or even cumming whilst being raped is a physiological response of the body to ease the trauma i believe.

[Guest Huh]

5 hours ago, cutegeek said:

having a hard cock with pre-cum or even cumming whilst being raped is a physiological response of the body to ease the trauma i believe.

what a load of complete crap - what makes you believe that? 

[btmslut]

 

On 7/21/2024 at 5:01 AM, Guest Huh said:

what a load of complete crap - what makes you believe that? 

 

i've been in a few situations which if i was a girl the guy would be considered a rapist.

 

one was outright rape and it was painful when he penetrated me with his fingers and then his penis with only a bit of saliva for lube. i kept saying no. but i was hard and he kept masturbating me. he kept telling me that being hard was proof that i wanted it. unlike some of the rape fantasies that i read in this forum, its not fun at all. it was painful despite having erections now and then during the rape. to give you and idea, he could not enter my anus with his cock as i was clenching it shut, so while pushing it in he suddenly slapped my balls and then squeezed really hard and the shock and before the when the stomach ache came, i couldnt clench my butt shut and he rammed it in. yet after a while of him thrusting in me, he somehow managed to touch me in the front and made me hard. 

 

another he was on top of me doggystyle but i was lying flat on the bed. his entire weight was on me, and he had his hand over my mouth and and another strangling my neck. i actually ejaculated hands free (but it was more becasue of prostate and the rubbing on the bedsheet) and i remember when i stopped struggling and shuddered, he reached under and touched my cock and felt the wetness, the look on his face, his stupid smirk as if he felt that he was the best top. after i came he continued and i stopped struggling, but i kept crying. i didnt know if i was humilated, raped, enjoying it, mind says no. the heart said no. but yet the body had an orgasm. 

 

another time i was drunk and he took me to a hotel. i suspect he spiked my drink. i kept saying "no no" and then in then end i just said "condom condom" becasue i knew that he wouldnt take "no" as an answer. in flashes i remember he sucked me and i was hard, but couldnt really feel anything. i woke up in the hotel alone with my stomach covered with dried semen.

 

not sure if its a "physiological response of the body to ease the trauma" but i do know that what the mind and heart doesnt want, the body sometimes acts differently. 

[Naveyafluz]

Very difficult but hope this person can get out of it soon. Not everyone is that scary.

[Guest guest]

Having a hard cock with pre-cum or even cumming doesn't mean that guy is enjoying it, like what mentioned here, it might be a physiological response of the body.

[singalion]

The problem in some of these topics here is :

 

You never know whether some post their fantasies (veiled under writing about an incident)  or whether it a true account...

[Guest Guest]

On 6/13/2023 at 12:10 PM, Guest Never Again! said:

I met this very fit guy, a head taller than me model bod and looks at a park in the east.

 

He approached me and I was of course elated and wanted to have fun with this attractive guy in his late 20s, I was 22.

 

I was new to the scene then. He led me into a toilet cubicle. I really thought it was just hj or bj, kissing and romancing.

 

Who would have thought that he would literally pin me against the wall and fuck the hell out of me with no lube and no protection for the next 25 min.

 

I struggled and pleaded with him to stop to no avail. He was just like a mad bull so unlike his gentle demeanour when we first spoke. The worst thing was I had a raging hard on oozing precum despite the very terrible and excruciating pain. That made him think I was enjoying it. I came while he was still fucking me. The level of pain was even worse after I came. He got more excited and rammed me hard till he came in me. 

 

I bled for a week. How to report to police? Police, like some members here, would say I asked for it. Good thing he was clean.

 

It turned out that he was bi. After the ordeal he passed me his hp number and invited me join him with 2 gals the following week.

 

Did I call him? No! The good thing out of it was I hated being fucked and became a not only a top, but a considerate one. Will never fuck a guy like he did. 

 

Another near rape was at Kallang mrt stn toilet. The lean fit foreign worker, clean shaven, innocent looking guy, not more than 25yo. Good thing I matched his physique and manage to bolt out of the cubicle after 5 min of struggle.

 

I hope these people understand that wanting to have fun doesn't necessary mean the other party wants to be fucked against his will.

 

Good thing is, so far, gay and bimarried members here I met have respected that. 

 

 

Must report to police lah....come here to tell also no use.

[Guest Guest]

On 8/15/2024 at 7:23 PM, btmslut said:

 

 

i've been in a few situations which if i was a girl the guy would be considered a rapist.

 

one was outright rape and it was painful when he penetrated me with his fingers and then his penis with only a bit of saliva for lube. i kept saying no. but i was hard and he kept masturbating me. he kept telling me that being hard was proof that i wanted it. unlike some of the rape fantasies that i read in this forum, its not fun at all. it was painful despite having erections now and then during the rape. to give you and idea, he could not enter my anus with his cock as i was clenching it shut, so while pushing it in he suddenly slapped my balls and then squeezed really hard and the shock and before the when the stomach ache came, i couldnt clench my butt shut and he rammed it in. yet after a while of him thrusting in me, he somehow managed to touch me in the front and made me hard. 

 

another he was on top of me doggystyle but i was lying flat on the bed. his entire weight was on me, and he had his hand over my mouth and and another strangling my neck. i actually ejaculated hands free (but it was more becasue of prostate and the rubbing on the bedsheet) and i remember when i stopped struggling and shuddered, he reached under and touched my cock and felt the wetness, the look on his face, his stupid smirk as if he felt that he was the best top. after i came he continued and i stopped struggling, but i kept crying. i didnt know if i was humilated, raped, enjoying it, mind says no. the heart said no. but yet the body had an orgasm. 

 

another time i was drunk and he took me to a hotel. i suspect he spiked my drink. i kept saying "no no" and then in then end i just said "condom condom" becasue i knew that he wouldnt take "no" as an answer. in flashes i remember he sucked me and i was hard, but couldnt really feel anything. i woke up in the hotel alone with my stomach covered with dried semen.

 

not sure if its a "physiological response of the body to ease the trauma" but i do know that what the mind and heart doesnt want, the body sometimes acts differently. 

You were "raped" by him a few times but each time he asked you out, you still go and let him fuck backside.....of cos the idea is you crave for it and like rough sex.

 

Next time don't clench your ass.....when he fuck you, you release and shit...see he dare fuck you or not

[Guest Guest]

On 10/29/2023 at 2:59 PM, Andrew240577 said:

No offend regarding how big that guy is and how small you are. It is hard to be rape in this situation unless you are half hearted give in. I have smiliar experience too.

 

Unless you been beaten until unconscious or been chloroform. In the cubicle there are a lot of way you can protect your arse to be raped is this situation. Plus as long as you shouted for help. He will run away regarding the place this incident happen.

Yah loh.....I think he wants it.  Make the top high....

[memyselfandi]

Story the author shared is only what the friend told him. However, how transparent or how truth the story being told? I had a friend who gone through similar situation. Things take 2 hands to clap. If the victim do not present himself to the raper, things wouldn't had happened. Worse was, the victim was rated by 4 different person.

[Guest A thought]

10 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

Rape is physical abuse, and there are unexpected opportunities for being physically abused.  Rape is just one particular case.

 

 

 

 

True.  Many self-inflicted injury like performing dangerous stunt, taking roller coaster ride when you have high blood pressure, watching scary movies when you are afraid of the dark,  overdose of medication, alcohol, smoking...all these are considered physical abuse too.  Rape by a handsome hunky cute looking man...hmmm....it depends whether it is considered physical abuse or pleasurably abuse.  I guess, it all boils down to the "victim", how he felt after the incident.  

 

However, if the person has diseases and he raped you, regardless he is good or ugly looking, it is illegal rape and ought to be reported to authority for passing the disease to you. 

[GachiMuchi]