Looking for gym buddy also go for look isit?

[budakmelayu]

Genuinely asking as why isit so difficult to make friends or gym buddy especially on that G app like dude I just need friends to gym with not like I wanna date or anything.... Well sure if it happens it happens but apart from that I just need support. Sedih sia

[bigboyclubsg]

i feel most guys on the app looking for gym buddies mean they are looking for dudes to have fun with post-gym kinda vibes, thus the looks become a filter point for them. i too try to look for gym buds but it's hard out there when sex seems to be on everyone's mind, especially on apps like G

[Rohanpune]

Controversial opinion but G app is mostly for hook ups. In all honesty we all are vain in some manner or the other. I mean if you are looking for gym buddy who is gay and if something happens along the way of course the other one is also expecting the same and if there is a possibility of fun he might want the buddy to be his type.

If you are looking for a buddy just go gym and im sure u will make friends over there. Some gym guys i know who are straight will become ur gym bro buddy eventually. 

 

[Wigeony]

Definitely not a controversial take on the G app. I tried multiple times to befriend other guys with similar hobbies, but none worked out. Most were trying to make "friend turned into lovers" happen rather than looking for a genuine friendship, and that will probably explain why they're looking for good looking gym buddies lol. You're better off hiring a PT for a few sessions to build a routine and the motivation to gym or maybe join some gym classes and make some friends.

[ERFAbangBear]

total side note but i signed up for af recently and saw some 'familiar' faces on the app at the gym and the weird stares are heavy. also if you pay attention, they're barely doing any proper workouts and just tryna make their presence known and leave once there's no 'game'. I would've entertained if they were just friendly instead of acting hella weird and cruisy. but yes the friendships are mostly cap and most just wanna fulfill some fantasy. 

[fun72]

SG gym have lots of gym hogger, aka, sit on equipment at chit chat instead of workout, compare to other country.

[budakmelayu]

3 hours ago, ERFAbangBear said:

total side note but i signed up for af recently and saw some 'familiar' faces on the app at the gym and the weird stares are heavy. also if you pay attention, they're barely doing any proper workouts and just tryna make their presence known and leave once there's no 'game'. I would've entertained if they were just friendly instead of acting hella weird and cruisy. but yes the friendships are mostly cap and most just wanna fulfill some fantasy. 

For me reason why i kinda need friends is to keep me motivated and im the kind that are actually afraid of people when im alone most of the time i would put on earpiece and close my eyes when using a machine if it happens to face another person . I just dont know how to approach people and say hi😭