MeeMee Posted December 1, 2024 Report Share Posted December 1, 2024 A little backstory: I’m nearing my 30s and I’ve yet to lose my virginity (it’s not really a big deal, guess I’m a wizard now) and have not experienced a proper relationship with a partner due to my own insecurities and religion. I don’t really use dating apps due to the fear of being exposed. I’ve never really tried to explore my sexuality as I know since young that I’m gay as fuck. But that’s besides the point. I know I can’t risk getting married to a girl who loves me wholeheartedly while I secretly like men. I mean I tried dating girls but I don’t seem attracted to them at all even if i wanted to. I’ve liked a few guys throughout my life but I’ve never confessed to anyone before, being afraid of rejection and ridiculed. But then I met this guy at work, who is few years younger than me. He’s 6/10 in terms of looks but he’s cute to me at least. He’s slightly taller than me, and he’s not that skinny and has really slender hands (compared to my rough ass hands). I told my self to not crush or fall in love with anyone unnecessarily at work and tried to convince myself that he’s unattractive but apparently that didn’t work. He’s really a gentleman. I shall not go into details (because it’s gonna take awhile) but he’s extremely thoughtful and treat his friends like gems. It’s the little things that he does that made me like him even more than I should have. We talk a lot and got to know each other and eventually became close buddies. I know for a fact that he’s single and straighter than a ruler but i can’t help the fact that I get jealous whenever he talks about girls he’s interested in. All in all, I didn’t let my feelings show and thought through the situation rationally and gave him honest advice. Well, the reason why I decided to rant was that I felt that this was the final time I’m gonna crush on someone( at age 30 no less). He felt like the ONE you know? But alas, he’s straight ;/ Unrequited love hurts like a truck and I do fantasize my dreams and future with him. But I know thats not gonna happen. I do not plan to get married in the future and just live the rest of my life alone peacefully, somewhere quiet I guess. Love comes and goes and I can never forget the ones I gave my heart to. Hey GS, if you’re reading this(which I don’t think will ever happen but oh well), I just want to let you know that I’ve liked you for some time now and I think that you’re really attractive and a great guy. Some people can’t seem to notice how nice of a human being you are and please know that I appreciate you being there for me. Gifting is my love language. So I shall pass you your parting gift (my last gift I swear) which was the item that you wanted. Please do let me know if you ever need anything. Your # 1 fan, MS. Quote Link to comment
Jellapho Posted December 2, 2024 Report Share Posted December 2, 2024 Don't be sad. At least you have made a kind friend. Not easy to even find a trustworthy friend, let alone a partner in this time, age and society. Quote Link to comment
maturechubby Posted December 2, 2024 Report Share Posted December 2, 2024 sometimes having him as a friend much be much better than having him as a partner. Quote Link to comment
QinWei Posted December 2, 2024 Report Share Posted December 2, 2024 14 hours ago, MeeMee said: 14 hours ago, MeeMee said: I get jealous whenever he talks about girls he’s interested in. that he’s unattractive but apparently that didn’t work 6/10 is still not that bad & u ddint try to strike a convo further on gals? GS? 14 hours ago, MeeMee said: Hey GS, if you’re reading this Quote Link to comment
cckbtm Posted December 2, 2024 Report Share Posted December 2, 2024 (edited) . Edited December 4, 2024 by cckbtm maturechubby 1 Quote Link to comment
egal Posted December 3, 2024 Report Share Posted December 3, 2024 agree with the rest. dont risk it. plus u might find others Quote Link to comment
KINKYMALAY Posted December 3, 2024 Report Share Posted December 3, 2024 If he's straight - then don't pursue. You'll end up getting hurt badly. Speaking from experience. Just look and admire maybe - but don't even think beyond that. Quote Link to comment
egal Posted December 3, 2024 Report Share Posted December 3, 2024 it is like a straight guy trying to convert a gay guy; it will not work Quote Link to comment
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