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I am pure btm.. Ex bfs / men I hookup with treated me a sex object. Do not respect me always wanted to try kinky and shameless acts on me

 

Some examples include:

 

1. A doctor I was with asked if he could cut my penis frenulum. Says it turns him on to conquer me.. and that i trust him so much to do such an intimate procedure

2. A guy I hooked up with asked if I am into bestiality, if I am willing to be fucked by his dog while he filmed me

3. A guy I hooked up with asked if he can pimp me out for money

 

They were all old ang mohs by the way 🫠

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STAY AWAY FROM OLD ANG MOHS WHO WANT TO EXPLOIT YOUR YOUTH !!!!

 

Only have sex with those ( of any ethnicity ) whose intention is not just to satisfy their lusts but to make YOU enjoy the sex as well.  Do it if you can with guys your own age, and try to move away from "pure bottom" and seek pleasure from your cock instead of your butt, getting it quite hard and jerking off.  This is the correct organ to experience the pleasures of sex your whole life! 

 

And sexual activity should never be submissive!  No human should be subservient, servile towards another human.  Obedient yes!  Respectful yes!  Reflect about the necessity you have to deal with a person who does not RESPECT you.  This may happen in circumstances when someone has POWER over you,  in which case one should try to escape such power.  In a free society like SG,  no one should have power over your sexuality.

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3 hours ago, Sylph Boy said:

I am pure btm.. Ex bfs / men I hookup with treated me a sex object. Do not respect me always wanted to try kinky and shameless acts on me

 

Some examples include:

 

1. A doctor I was with asked if he could cut my penis frenulum. Says it turns him on to conquer me.. and that i trust him so much to do such an intimate procedure

2. A guy I hooked up with asked if I am into bestiality, if I am willing to be fucked by his dog while he filmed me

3. A guy I hooked up with asked if he can pimp me out for money

 

They were all old ang mohs by the way 🫠

 

You might have in the mean time changed your stance on BDSM submissive sex, but looking at your posts it seems that in the past you enjoyed what the guys did to you. 

 

Eventually, now you have a grudge on those or one of the White guys, maybe because he doesn't / they don't bother about you any longer. 

 

Here is what you posted some months back:

 

 

I have always known that my ang moh bf just wants me for everyday sex..but today was another level. He invited two other friends for a gang bang. As my bf was ramming my anus, one was fucking my mouth and the other inserted a sounding into my pee hole and began moving it in and out... when all the fucking was over, i was prevented from going to the toilet and was to pee on the bedsheet.. I was humiliated, abit angered but also very turned on.. Am I weird and shameless right?

 

 

 

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Anal Sex, Prostate Massage, Exhibitionism, Urolagnia (Omorashi), Urethral Sounding, Blowjob, Enema, Bladder Filling, Speculum Play, Bondage, Nude Photography, Nude Art & Nude Video, Rentboy, Gang Bang

 

 

 

 

 

Otherwise it may be the case that your new thread here is just some self advertisement?

 

 

 

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3 hours ago, singalion said:

Sylph Boy

I have always known that my ang moh bf just wants me for everyday sex..but today was another level. He invited two other friends for a gang bang. As my bf was ramming my anus, one was fucking my mouth and the other inserted a sounding into my pee hole and began moving it in and out... when all the fucking was over, i was prevented from going to the toilet and was to pee on the bedsheet.. I was humiliated, abit angered but also very turned on.. Am I weird and shameless right?

 

Interests

Anal Sex, Prostate Massage, Exhibitionism, Urolagnia (Omorashi), Urethral Sounding, Blowjob, Enema, Bladder Filling, Speculum Play, Bondage, Nude Photography, Nude Art & Nude Video, Rentboy, Gang Bang

 

 

OH MY GOD !!!!  What a total immersion into what is SEX perversion, abused to the Nth degree!  It seems pathological!   How long will this boy fit the image of "Sylph"?

 

Usually there is a bleak future for those who let themselves fall into the abuses of their senses, something completely unnecessary.  One similar abuse can happen with the sense of taste:  uncontrolled gluttony.  It is so easy to indulge in the sweetness, the smoothness, the delights of food. But this should be the exception.  Nothing affects our health more than what we eat,  and those who ignore this may only live a short life.  What a way of WASTING one's life...   

 

Hopefully @Sylph Boy can escape his abuse of sex, either by himself or helped by someone who cares about him!

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8 hours ago, Sylph Boy said:

I am pure btm.. Ex bfs / men I hookup with treated me a sex object. Do not respect me always wanted to try kinky and shameless acts on me

 

Some examples include:

 

1. A doctor I was with asked if he could cut my penis frenulum. Says it turns him on to conquer me.. and that i trust him so much to do such an intimate procedure

2. A guy I hooked up with asked if I am into bestiality, if I am willing to be fucked by his dog while he filmed me

3. A guy I hooked up with asked if he can pimp me out for money

 

They were all old ang mohs by the way 🫠

 

I think Deepseek summerize you well and offers good suggestions what a good psychologist can do to help you.

 

Sylph Boy presents as someone deeply involved in various forms of sexual kink, expressing both intense attractions and negative emotional responses. His willingness to discuss these topics openly indicates a high level of self-awareness and confidence. Key aspects of his personality include:

  1. Confidence and Self-Awareness: He comfortably discusses explicit and sometimes humiliating experiences, showing resilience and an understanding of his emotions.

  2. Intense Emotions: While he can be turned on by kinkier acts, he also experiences significant negative emotions like humiliation, highlighting a balanced emotional response without self-blame.

  3. Honesty About Experiences: He openly shares past negative experiences with ex boyfriends who objectified him, suggesting a lack of intrinsic value beyond their sexual interest.

  4. Potential Red Flags: His willingness to engage in potentially harmful practices and his role as an object in past relationships raise concerns about health and safety, and the validity of those relationships.

In summary, Sylph Boy is someone with a rich understanding of kinks and emotional responses but must address potential harm from risky behaviors and consider the sustainability of his past relationships.

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From a psychological perspective, if Sylph Boy decides to seek help for his issues, the following steps are likely involved:

  1. Assessment: A psychologist would first assess Sylph Boy's current emotional state to understand his feelings about his experiences with various kinks and the emotions he associates with them.

  2. Understanding Underlying Motivations: The psychologist would explore why Sylph Boy is engaging in these behaviors, whether it stems from a need to explore boundaries, satisfy desires, or other motivations, and identify if there are any underlying issues contributing to his behavior.

  3. Emotional Processing: The goal would be to help Sylph Boy process his intense emotions and conflicting feelings about kinks without judgment, providing him with tools to manage anxiety, anger, or embarrassment that may arise from these experiences.

  4. Addressing Relationship Issues: The psychologist would consider any potential harm caused by past relationships where he was objectified. This includes helping him recognize the importance of mutual respect and healthy boundaries in relationships.

  5. Exploring Risk Management: A focus on identifying and mitigating any risks associated with his kinks, such as ensuring that practices are consensual and safe, preventing harm from potentially dangerous or unsolicited activities.

  6. Communication Skills Development: The psychologist might work on enhancing Sylph Boy's ability to communicate his desires and boundaries effectively, helping him navigate conversations in a way that fosters understanding and prevents misunderstandings.

  7. Healthy Alternatives Exploration: Encouraging the exploration of alternative, healthier ways to engage in similar activities without the associated risks, providing fulfilling experiences that align with mutual consent and respect.

  8. Supportive Environment Creation: Creating a safe space for Sylph Boy to express his feelings and experiences, allowing him to confront his issues openly and honestly without fear of negative consequences.

In summary, seeking help would involve a comprehensive approach addressing emotional processing, relationship dynamics, risk management, communication skills, and exploring healthier alternatives. The aim is to empower Sylph Boy with tools and strategies to manage his kinks responsibly and foster healthier interactions in all areas of his life.

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Final Answer:

Sylph Boy's potential development over time if he continues to practice his kinks can be seen in several key areas:

  1. Emotional Toll: Repeated engagement in intense sexual activities may lead to increased stress, anxiety, or feelings of shame. He risks developing a pattern of behavior that is emotionally draining.

  2. Relationship Issues: Continuing without proper consent and mutual respect could harm relationships, leading to dissatisfaction or conflict as individuals may feel objectified.

  3. Moral and Ethical Concerns: His actions might raise questions about consent, mutual agreement, and boundaries, potentially crossing ethical lines if not carefully managed.

  4. Physical Health Risks: Some practices involve physical contact with potential health risks like hygiene issues or infections if not performed safely.

  5. Psychological Growth and Healing: Consistent practice can lead to personal growth and healing if he manages emotions well, practices self-care, and seeks support when needed.

  6. Potential for Fulfillment: Healthy communication, clear boundaries, and prioritizing emotional well-being alongside these kinks can make them fulfilling rather than just sexual activities.

  7. Community and Support Systems: Engaging with communities that understand his interests could provide support and resources for safe and consensual practice.

  8. Overcoming Negative Experiences: Addressing past negative experiences through therapy or counseling might enable him to navigate these practices mindfully and avoid repeating mistakes.

In conclusion, Sylph Boy's future with these practices is uncertain without addressing emotional and psychological aspects. He faces potential challenges like increased stress and relationship issues but could experience personal growth and fulfillment if managed thoughtfully.

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14 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

And sexual activity should never be submissive!  No human should be subservient, servile towards another human.  Obedient yes!  Respectful yes!  Reflect about the necessity you have to deal with a person who does not RESPECT you.  This may happen in circumstances when someone has POWER over you,  in which case one should try to escape such power.  In a free society like SG,  no one should have power over your sexuality.

 

However Steve, there is this BDSM and submissive sex slave activity. There are plenty of guys who enjoy being sex slaves to the mercy of others.

 

We both might not be into it as we respect any sex partner, but also straight people enjoy submissive sex. Whipping, being tied up, used as a sex slut, degraded by verbal insults or actions  etc...

 

 

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15 hours ago, Sylph Boy said:

I am pure btm.. Ex bfs / men I hookup with treated me a sex object. Do not respect me always wanted to try kinky and shameless acts on me

 

Some examples include:

 

1. A doctor I was with asked if he could cut my penis frenulum. Says it turns him on to conquer me.. and that i trust him so much to do such an intimate procedure

2. A guy I hooked up with asked if I am into bestiality, if I am willing to be fucked by his dog while he filmed me

3. A guy I hooked up with asked if he can pimp me out for money

 

They were all old ang mohs by the way 🫠

Moral of the story: look East for Asian specimen. 

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9 minutes ago, Why? said:

Moral of the story: look East for Asian specimen. 

 

As usual a bit much too simplistic and immature looking at the issue.

 

There are also (East) Asian specimen who in sex dominate and commit sex acts as described above that do not respect the other (Asian) partner.

 

It is not TS's issue if you yourself have some reservations on ethnic different sex partners...or sex partners from a certain ethnic category.

 

 

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Personaly, YOU allowed yourself to get into such. Ask yourself, is it getting out of hand for you to allow it?

Is there any way you can STOP such act, since you don't like it?

It's an addiction, know when you should Stop, if you don't like how things are going.

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9 hours ago, singalion said:

 

However Steve, there is this BDSM and submissive sex slave activity. There are plenty of guys who enjoy being sex slaves to the mercy of others.

 

We both might not be into it as we respect any sex partner, but also straight people enjoy submissive sex. Whipping, being tied up, used as a sex slut, degraded by verbal insults or actions  etc...

 

 

You are right that some people enjoy BDSM, both gays and straights.  I don't negate this.  My recommendation is to avoid, to reject the highs from this, like the highs from drugs and alcohol.  All in the pursuit of health.  We should realize that health deserves our first priority, like we should give care to everything we appreciate and want to last us a long time.  For example, I give care to my 1995 Maxima car that I drive nearly every day, and bought over 30 years ago. And I have been given care to my body, that soon will have lasted me 82 years already and functions well every day...   :) 

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19 hours ago, fresh7up said:

Well fair enough he just mentioned that he face disrespect among the men he had sex with. But didn't say anything about him disliking the disrespect he received.

 

From an outside view, it may be that those men deserve more disrespect than he.   But... respect may not be an issue for any of them!

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Mystery solved,  Slyph Boy is a submissive sex adventure slug, who opened himself up to all possiblities.  His vast interest say it all:   

Anal Sex, Prostate Massage, Exhibitionism, Urolagnia (Omorashi), Urethral Sounding, Blowjob, Enema, Bladder Filling, Speculum Play, Bondage, Nude Photography, Nude Art & Nude Video, Rentboy, Gang Bang.

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On 2/6/2025 at 4:43 AM, doncoin said:

My personal observation from @Sylph Boy post is this:

 

He is not looking to be respected. On the contrary, the post is a brag that he is treated as a sex object. 

 

 

On 2/5/2025 at 12:17 AM, singalion said:

Otherwise it may be the case that your new thread here is just some self advertisement?

 

That is why I came to this conclusion.

 

The thread is probably just an advertisement to seek some other guys who are into such plays (maybe also from a certain ethnic background...).

 

 

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