kidster Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 Not in order. Don't copy. You may want to elaborate what each trait means to you. Heart - He loves you Character - He is a keeper. Better than your exes/dates Looks - Your type Body - Ideal height and weight and shape Dick - Size and shape Money - View on money Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 Have you ever heard the saying "Love is blind" ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted February 5 Report Share Posted February 5 13 hours ago, Steve5380 said: Have you ever heard the saying "Love is blind" ? Yes, often associated with blind to a fault and risk being cheated, betrayed and scammed? Unless, you meant "Love knows no boundary" which is totally different ball game. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted February 5 Report Share Posted February 5 (edited) 14 hours ago, kidster said: Not in order. Don't copy. You may want to elaborate what each trait means to you. Heart - He loves you Character - He is a keeper. Better than your exes/dates Looks - Your type Body - Ideal height and weight and shape Dick - Size and shape Money - View on money I buy 3 and get 3 more freebies. 1st Heart - The most centralised and vital part of his organs. If he is willing to give it whole-heartedly to you, you are secured with his Character too. 2nd Looks - Who didn't want a boyfriend who will drive the world crazy and envious of your possession and looks is not separated from Body shape. In combination, you already enjoyed the stimulants regardless of his dick size and shape. Last Money If you mean independence, kudos to you. Some not so wealthy person can be independence. Money is not a true measure of being independence. If your choiced candidate qualify the Heart and Looks, it very much suggest that he is already, more or less, self-sustainable to be able to maintain the quality you were looking for. So Money is placed last in my priority. Best is to keep "Money" out of the equation, because it can serves as tool to all evils thoughts and transactions. Edited February 5 by Why? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xiaoxianrou Posted February 5 Report Share Posted February 5 (edited) Heart - genuine, sincere and truly loves Character - aligns with your core values Looks - looking at his face alone will make you smile and feel that you're the luckiest guy on earth Body - your ideal body type. If he is wearing a sack over his head, you'd still be horny Dick - cut/uncut, your preferred size if you're a bottom. Money - Richer than you Ranking: *Heart > *character > #✓Looks > #money > #✓body > dick *Important as a partner # important when dating only. Can do without after a long while together. If you have the * ✓ important for fun / sex I realize dick is not important to me. Though I have slight preference for uncut. Edited February 5 by Xiaoxianrou Steve5380 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GayNomad Posted February 5 Report Share Posted February 5 Hmm, so far the replies are ranking heart first. Really? Because in my encounters so far, people are mostly asking for stats and face pics before entering into a conversation. And for those that I manage to have proper chats with for weeks before meeting up, they go quiet after the first meetup. Statistically I think it should be face or bod first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 5 Report Share Posted February 5 57 minutes ago, GayNomad said: Hmm, so far the replies are ranking heart first. Really? Because in my encounters so far, people are mostly asking for stats and face pics before entering into a conversation. And for those that I manage to have proper chats with for weeks before meeting up, they go quiet after the first meetup. Statistically I think it should be face or bod first. As the ranking refers to relationships, I assume the guys on the chat or meeting hoped for some luck for just fun, and weren't propably interested in a relationship at all. Most guys here on red dot fear relationships and prefer to visit saunas for the rest of their life. As said in a different thread don't overwhelm them on the first meet up and take it slowly and patiently until you propose a relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidster Posted February 5 Author Report Share Posted February 5 2 hours ago, GayNomad said: Statistically I think it should be face or bod first. Totally agreed based on my observation. Character is the second last and Heart is always the last. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GayNomad Posted February 5 Report Share Posted February 5 7 hours ago, singalion said: As the ranking refers to relationships, I assume the guys on the chat or meeting hoped for some luck for just fun, and weren't propably interested in a relationship at all. Some of the ppl I met were with the pretext of being friends and eventually entering into ltr if things work out. And they were not from hookup apps. Yup, and I am not even rushing to go into a relationship. Once I met this guy who said that he was looking for a partner and not a friend. He has enough friends already and if the person is not suitable to be his partner, then there is no point in continuing. He was able to conclude after 1 meet up. In such circumstances, do u think his ranking is based on heart/character? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted February 6 Report Share Posted February 6 1 hour ago, GayNomad said: Some of the ppl I met were with the pretext of being friends and eventually entering into ltr if things work out. And they were not from hookup apps. Yup, and I am not even rushing to go into a relationship. Once I met this guy who said that he was looking for a partner and not a friend. He has enough friends already and if the person is not suitable to be his partner, then there is no point in continuing. He was able to conclude after 1 meet up. In such circumstances, do u think his ranking is based on heart/character? Sometime, on the first meet up ,u able to rank the heart or character of a person u meet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidster Posted February 6 Author Report Share Posted February 6 58 minutes ago, cutejack said: Sometime, on the first meet up ,u able to rank the heart or character of a person u meet. 2 hours ago, GayNomad said: Once I met this guy who said that he was looking for a partner and not a friend. He has enough friends already and if the person is not suitable to be his partner, then there is no point in continuing. He was able to conclude after 1 meet up. In such circumstances, do u think his ranking is based on heart/character? How about those who are serious in finding a relationship. Went out with you for a few dates. Everything seems to be going well. Had sex. Then suddenly ghost you for a criteria you can't meet even though you checked all the other boxes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted February 6 Report Share Posted February 6 4 hours ago, kidster said: How about those who are serious in finding a relationship. Went out with you for a few dates. Everything seems to be going well. Had sex. Then suddenly ghost you for a criteria you can't meet even though you checked all the other boxes. Aiyah, some are purely into sex la.. Heart n character bullshit. Tasted u few times, that's it. Go for new meat. Huhu feilyxnixx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiusulnar Posted February 6 Report Share Posted February 6 I cannot imagine performing this analysis. Like some mentioned some criteria are linked to others. At the end of the day it's either it works or it doesn't. Regardless of the score And then 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidster Posted February 6 Author Report Share Posted February 6 9 hours ago, radiusulnar said: I cannot imagine performing this analysis. Like some mentioned some criteria are linked to others. At the end of the day it's either it works or it doesn't. Regardless of the score The overall package and the feelings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
And then Posted February 7 Report Share Posted February 7 On 2/6/2025 at 5:59 PM, radiusulnar said: I cannot imagine performing this analysis. Like some mentioned some criteria are linked to others. At the end of the day it's either it works or it doesn't. Regardless of the score exactly right. this kind of ranking game is inherently artificial. all kinds of permutations occur in real life to determine whether things will work out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 8 Report Share Posted February 8 On 2/6/2025 at 12:59 AM, radiusulnar said: I cannot imagine performing this analysis. Like some mentioned some criteria are linked to others. At the end of the day it's either it works or it doesn't. Regardless of the score Well... this analysis can lead to an interesting conversation, that's all. As a person who was married, I know that the same analysis can be made in the straight world. But THERE... the consequences can be much more serious and irreversible: THE CHILDREN! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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