[Unfiltered Gay Podcast] What Gays REALLY Think About Closeted Men

[GachiMuchi]

 

 

[StockBottom]

Ahem ... 🙃

 

[GachiMuchi]

Yes, it seems there are lots of closeted gays in Blowing Wind. Some are married looking for hookups, some are young virgins looking to know more about gays stuff, etc.

Then there are those who are just looking for someone who "knows them" or someone that they can relate or "talk" to.

[Why?]

I thought the podcast hosts used this forum as well, or at least read it.   

 

I don't think being closeted is a decision, and depending on the situation, it might not be totally negative.   Numerous rejections, unpleasant relationship experiences, family conflicts, drama queens went rampant, aging population and job threats are just a few of the many reasons why someone might be afraid to come out of the closet.   

 

A closet gay person may not necessarily be an introvert too.  They don't go around to publicly display they are loud and proud, yet they are just as gregarious as everyone else and some of them do occassional cruise, with cautions.  They just prefer to keep a low profile and don't want to draw too much attention from someone who has a propensity for drama. 

 

Being bitchy and screechy with behaviors, whether for self-entertainment, humor, or simply don't give a shit (as may be the case of unclosetted individual).......

is not romantic as I view it.     Thus, It is not your responsibility to make a gay stranger uncomfortable when you go on a date. They aren't there for circus entertainment or a freaky prank .  Remain calm, keep basic ethics in mind, and allow both parties to get together without frightening the others. Then, you might observe how the relationship develops. Believe me, if things didn't work out as planned, the closet isn't the main cause.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[FattChoy]

Sounds like they have a lot of contempt and bigoted generalization of people who do not disclose their sexuality.

 

I've (by choice) chosen to only  socialized with probably 500-1000 homosexual or bisexual people who are mostly like myself, 'ie don't wear their sexuality on their sleeves'. 

 

In general, they're kind, warm, caring, interesting, brings something to the table and they're not dumb.  Rather they're very intelligent, empathic, helpful.  In short they're human and good human, and I don't regret knowing any of  them.  Therefore I would respectfully disagree with these podcasters povs and opinions, some of which are very painfully shallow, I kinda have to wonder if it's a click bait. This podcast kinda justifies my decision to avoid loud, dramatic gay people.  Dramatic gay and dramatic women kinda have this chaotic energy which borders on tearing things down, as opposed to peaceful men (and women) who have good aura and tend to build and nurture wonderful things.

 

As for my opinion of out, loud and proud gays, well I can't really put one out because it wouldn't be fair because I hardly have more than 2 friends who are out and loud.  

 

Out, loud and proud people, in my mind, just happen to exist or be put into a invisible ghost plane/dimension/zone/radar of people that I would really like to avoid.  Specifically, among the types of  people who appear invisible to me includes :- females, twinks, long haired men, loud gays, transexuals, crossdressers, non cisgender people and definitely toxic loud misandry loving feminists. 

 

I don't hate these invisible-to-me people or have contempt for them.  I just don't have any interest to socialize with them.  Plus, socializing with these invisible-to-me people has a yuuge opportunity cost to me, because the time and energy/resource that I would I expend on these people comes at the cost of me having a great time socializing with cute bears or gmen who do not wear their sexuality on their sleeves.

 

Like my fucking irritating cousin brother would say, "To each his own". 

 

And as I would say, "You do You"

 

 

 

 

 

Edited May 17 by FattChoy