Faizal Hasan Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 I just find out that my crush which is my father in law is a gay/bisex (this is real, I'm not creating a fairy tale stories). I accidentally saw the gay porn browsing history from his phone when I helped him with IT things. When I check his FB interests, it appears the same. He searched a lot about gay profiles. What am I supposed to do? Should I tell him that I saw everything, just confront him and say that we have the same interest? I know this sounds crazy, but I can't hold myself anymore when I found out that he is gay. Please give me some advice and suggestion. Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IcarusCQC Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 8 minutes ago, Faizal Hasan said: I just find out that my crush which is my father in law is a gay/bisex (this is real, I'm not creating a fairy tale stories). I accidentally saw the gay porn browsing history from his phone when I helped him with IT things. When I check his FB interests, it appears the same. He searched a lot about gay profiles. What am I supposed to do? Should I tell him that I saw everything, just confront him and say that we have the same interest? I know this sounds crazy, but I can't hold myself anymore when I found out that he is gay. Please give me some advice and suggestion. Thanks. You may have the information but what are you expecting here? Will you be able to handle things if your confrontation goes south? He is your father in law after all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiusulnar Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 If this was a movie plot, maybe both come out, both divorce, both go off in sunset together happily ever after Or if more thriller type, manipulate FIL to hand over all assets, divorce and go off with younger crush. If this is real life, let it be. You both have our own lives to live and don't rock the boat weekly and passinthenight 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pubico1 Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 (edited) Living discreetly to fit into society’s many expectations and norms must be so exhausting especially for his generation. Edited July 1 by Pubico1 passinthenight 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jcboy18 Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 imo i dont think you shld confront him coz he might like become rlly defensive and start blaming you for snooping around too much, in reality rn theres not much that can happen to you thats positive if you do end up confronting him. so your best resort is to just let him be and not try to do make any advances/confrontations passinthenight 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QinWei Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 yah What is there to confront about being gay? sharki and auscent 1 1 Quote there are more than one option avail in googling me https://x.com/gnnbccb?s=21&t=WxsKRj9hm-pT2wyoEmonPQ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 1 hour ago, QinWei said: yah What is there to confront about being gay? Exactly Let it be lah, why so kaypoh here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horchew Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 You should "accidentally" let him discover gay porn on your mobile phone too. Then maybe he'll make the first move on you. Leanmeat and Faizal Hasan 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 You think his lust for men will be greater than his love for his daughter or not? horchew's suggestion make some sense. But then again..if he 'happen' to know you are bi, do you think he won't feel upset Abt his daughter's situation? Strange Fruit 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naked_boi Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 11 hours ago, Faizal Hasan said: I just find out that my crush which is my father in law is a gay/bisex (this is real, I'm not creating a fairy tale stories). I accidentally saw the gay porn browsing history from his phone when I helped him with IT things. When I check his FB interests, it appears the same. He searched a lot about gay profiles. What am I supposed to do? Should I tell him that I saw everything, just confront him and say that we have the same interest? I know this sounds crazy, but I can't hold myself anymore when I found out that he is gay. Please give me some advice and suggestion. Thanks. You and everyone forgot about the most important and vicious of all : the wife aka the female aka the Alien queen xenomorph. she knows you popping or bopping her daddy what do you think is gonna happen? and if there’s kids then it gets really batshit crazy. if it all goes south and it ends up in family court; you might lose everything. Don’t ever forget our system is still very conservative. don’t let your dick stage a coup with your head. Good luck 🤞🏼 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cbm Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 So you are married to a woman and you have a crush on her dad. And you know he's into watching gay porn. If I was in this situation, I would keep quiet and not do anything that would rock the boat. It is way too risky. Because, you having a crush on him doesn't mean he likes you that way. Do you think he would be fine with sucking on your dick that has been inside his daughter? Or what if both of you prefer to bottom? Or what if both of you prefer to top? There's just too many things that can go wrong. Leanmeat and jcboy18 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post yhtang Posted July 1 Popular Post Report Share Posted July 1 12 hours ago, Faizal Hasan said: I just find out that my crush which is my father in law is a gay/bisex (this is real, I'm not creating a fairy tale stories). I accidentally saw the gay porn browsing history from his phone when I helped him with IT things. When I check his FB interests, it appears the same. He searched a lot about gay profiles. What am I supposed to do? Should I tell him that I saw everything, just confront him and say that we have the same interest? I know this sounds crazy, but I can't hold myself anymore when I found out that he is gay. For all you know, your father-in-law is browsing this forum and may suspect you are his gay son-in-law. Strange Fruit, Bahamut LGH, cutejack and 4 others 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 You do not have the right to out your FIL. Coming out is his prerogative. Obviously you have daddy issues which you have to resolve. If your crush is not your FIL, it probably will be another older male. Think of the changes in the family dynamics if you out your FIL. Will family gatherings become awkward moving forward? Will his relationship with his daughter, your wife, be impacted? It is not your lust for your FIL that should be guiding your decisions. There is a place where you can let your dick do the thinking, but just not in your daily life. brandyneattt, olderisgood75 and DunKnow 2 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted July 1 Report Share Posted July 1 18 hours ago, Faizal Hasan said: I just find out that my crush which is my father in law is a gay/bisex (this is real, I'm not creating a fairy tale stories). I accidentally saw the gay porn browsing history from his phone when I helped him with IT things. When I check his FB interests, it appears the same. He searched a lot about gay profiles. What am I supposed to do? Should I tell him that I saw everything, just confront him and say that we have the same interest? I know this sounds crazy, but I can't hold myself anymore when I found out that he is gay. Please give me some advice and suggestion. Thanks. You can have "crushes" with thousands of other men. Why you want to involve a member of your family? Why would we, as gay men who want our information to remain private, OUT someone else for some "crush" and disturb his privacy or cause him irreparable damage? If you were a father in law with sexual orientation issues, how would you like if a son in law reveals that he knows about you and starts invading your privacy? Live and let live! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted July 2 Report Share Posted July 2 5 hours ago, Steve5380 said: You can have "crushes" with thousands of other men. Why you want to involve a member of your family? Why would we, as gay men who want our information to remain private, OUT someone else for some "crush" and disturb his privacy or cause him irreparable damage? If you were a father in law with sexual orientation issues, how would you like if a son in law reveals that he knows about you and starts invading your privacy? Live and let live! Gay people are generally nice and kind and considerate. Unfortunately, when they start crossing the line in this situation, I find them really disgusting. As such I have to admit that I am beginning to find them less attractive. Steve5380 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
earth_tone Posted Saturday at 04:59 PM Report Share Posted Saturday at 04:59 PM If both your wife and your mother in law are still alive: Not only will you single-handedly destroy your own marriage, you'll also end your wife's parent's marriage. Congrats. If your wife is dead and your mother in law is still alive: Maybe you can still not be bothered as much, because who are these two elderly to you right? After all, doesn't most gay people just too preoccupied with their lust over everything else. Technically you're just ending ONE marriage and not two here. You'll be saving your father in law's happiness, you think. If your wife is alive and your mother in law is dead: Could there be a possibility that you live a double life with your father in law and your wife may never know? Poor FIL so lonely, so badly in need of some TLC. You can be his savior. Wouldn't that be wonderful. I can foresee you will never be able to truly be an honest man. Constantly hiding and watching your back, maybe deleting all your inbox and messages in your phone so nobody would ever know. What an ideal life that would be huh? If both your wife and your mother in law are dead: F-yeah! Fairytale! You can now live happily ever after and maybe moved somewhere nobody know you both and start everything afresh. What's at stake here? Not much really. If anyone find out, you'll only be losing the respect from people who knows you, your friends be talking behind your back, relatives gossip behind you and oh, you'll just lose some credibility at work (why?) because your integrity is shit, that's all. Sorry, we're Asians, we typically judge people like that here. Of course, your own family will also be very ashamed of you. Yes, your parents will have to hide their faces worrying that people might talk. Maybe you do not give a F, you want to live your life to the max and do the things you most wanted to do so that you'll be happy right! Sure, you can. You're just too selfish and blind to care, I get that. I don't know if you have child/children, they'll be so proud of you Dad. I truly hope you haven't got any kids. All these because you saw his phone accidentally, check his browser accidentally and his Facebook accidentally, and decide that you wanna try and out your FIL and maybe you both can f at the sofa right there and then! We're not sure if your father in law has any interest in YOU to begin with but you certainly have alot of interest in him from your narratives. NeitherHereNorThere and auscent 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted Sunday at 05:04 AM Report Share Posted Sunday at 05:04 AM We all deserve privacy as long as no harm done to anyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiusulnar Posted Sunday at 05:35 AM Report Share Posted Sunday at 05:35 AM 30 minutes ago, auscent said: We all deserve privacy Agree 💯 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kopi Gao Posted Sunday at 06:28 AM Report Share Posted Sunday at 06:28 AM On 7/1/2025 at 9:18 AM, Faizal Hasan said: I just find out that my crush which is my father in law is a gay/bisex (this is real, I'm not creating a fairy tale stories). I accidentally saw the gay porn browsing history from his phone when I helped him with IT things. When I check his FB interests, it appears the same. He searched a lot about gay profiles. What am I supposed to do? Should I tell him that I saw everything, just confront him and say that we have the same interest? I know this sounds crazy, but I can't hold myself anymore when I found out that he is gay. Please give me some advice and suggestion. Thanks. For you to have a crush with your FIL, then I assume your FIL must be very handsome, manly and charming DILF. 🥰 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted Sunday at 10:08 AM Report Share Posted Sunday at 10:08 AM On 7/1/2025 at 9:18 AM, Faizal Hasan said: I just find out that my crush which is my father in law is a gay/bisex (this is real, I'm not creating a fairy tale stories). I accidentally saw the gay porn browsing history from his phone when I helped him with IT things. When I check his FB interests, it appears the same. He searched a lot about gay profiles. What am I supposed to do? Should I tell him that I saw everything, just confront him and say that we have the same interest? I know this sounds crazy, but I can't hold myself anymore when I found out that he is gay. Please give me some advice and suggestion. Thanks. Plot twist - he deliberately let you find out . Mister M 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlifBttm Posted Sunday at 10:58 AM Report Share Posted Sunday at 10:58 AM On 7/1/2025 at 9:18 AM, Faizal Hasan said: I just find out that my crush which is my father in law is a gay/bisex (this is real, I'm not creating a fairy tale stories). I accidentally saw the gay porn browsing history from his phone when I helped him with IT things. When I check his FB interests, it appears the same. He searched a lot about gay profiles. What am I supposed to do? Should I tell him that I saw everything, just confront him and say that we have the same interest? I know this sounds crazy, but I can't hold myself anymore when I found out that he is gay. Please give me some advice and suggestion. Thanks. there are something which shouldnt cross. If u found out by any chance, I believe u should not interfere or ask or even tell him that u know he is gay or bi. As you urself married, u dont want others to expose u, so u can just continue to admire him w/o having intention to do anything funny aitez.. stay cool there buddy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted Sunday at 07:37 PM Report Share Posted Sunday at 07:37 PM (edited) Old Man Song by Neil Young ‧ 1972 Old man, look at my life I'm a lot like you were Old man, look at my life I'm a lot like you were Old man, look at my life Twenty four and there's so much more Live alone in a paradise That makes me think of two Love lost, such a cost Give me things that don't get lost Like a coin that won't get tossed Rolling home to you Old man, take a look at my life, I'm a lot like you I need someone to love me the whole day through Ah, one look in my eyes and you can tell that's true Lullabies, look in your eyes Run around the same old town Doesn't mean that much to me To mean that much to you I've been first and last Look at how the time goes past But I'm all alone at last Rolling home to you Old man, take a look at my life, I'm a lot like you I need someone to love me the whole day through Ah, one look in my eyes and you can tell that's true Old man, look at my life I'm a lot like you were Old man, look at my life I'm a lot like you were => The young man is actually the same as the old one! Then, why does he (the young one) complain? Edited Sunday at 07:38 PM by singalion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgstr8fun Posted Monday at 09:36 AM Report Share Posted Monday at 09:36 AM Easy la. You one day deliberately wank and let him peep n see. Let him watch u wank. See if he comes help. 🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaddyHunter41 Posted Monday at 03:10 PM Report Share Posted Monday at 03:10 PM Leave your FIL alone. If he wants to come out of the closet let him do it at hid own comfort. Respect him. ✌️ BanTin 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oralb Posted yesterday at 07:05 AM Report Share Posted yesterday at 07:05 AM Ultimate plot twist: Wife already suspected husband prefer more than oyster and get her father to go test by deliberately left the "clues" in the devices.... Jokes aside: Simple dont... He is your crush but are you his? Do you think he will hurt his own daughter just to satisfy your/ his urge? Quote When I Think It, I Do It, I Win It! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Preppy Popiah Posted 7 hours ago Report Share Posted 7 hours ago How's things now? sgstr8fun 1 Quote Join my Telegram Channel (Queer Qonnection) to sign up for orgies, Edging Sessions, Potluck Parties, & Karaoke sessions! https://t.me/QueerQonnection Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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