Will a 100% straight man yearns to try bottoming?

[Mickey.Lois]

For those into 10men would notice a recent post in that thread of a 'straight married guy' who went to 10men to experience bottoming.

 

I am no straight guy, hence I couldn't comprehend his desire for such experience. 

 

In reality, will a 100% straight man yearns for such experience? What is he looking for with such experience? Trying to understand his wife feeling being penetrated? What?? 

 

Or in reality, that was a gay or bi man, trying to camouflage his sexuality?? Puzzled me big time!!!

[transmissionsm]

They are certainly bi sexual. No amount of curiosity will make a straight man do that.

[cbm]

But there are also gay men who are not into anal. Why doesn't that puzzle you?

 

Personally, I find that labels like straight/gay/bi/etc not really useful when it comes to what they like when having fun.

 

Regardless of a man's orientation, up the ass is the prostate, man's g spot. It will feel good when it is stimulated. In that aspect, straight men can also enjoy bottoming without being gay. It can be a woman wearing a strap-on dildo topping him. This is called pegging. 

 

 

[transmissionsm]

Yup I can answer that . 

 

1. Not into anal because it hurts like hell for me even with lots of lube and I bleed after shitting so over time i don't yearn for anal anymore.
I learnt the term for this is a "Side"
 

2. I like cocks and cum , sometime the turn on is not being pleasured but the idea of pleasuring others . 

 

 

[singalion]

 

12 hours ago, Mickey.Lois said:

For those into 10men would notice a recent post in that thread of a 'straight married guy' who went to 10men to experience bottoming.

 

I am no straight guy, hence I couldn't comprehend his desire for such experience. 

 

In reality, will a 100% straight man yearns for such experience? What is he looking for with such experience? Trying to understand his wife feeling being penetrated? What?? 

 

Or in reality, that was a gay or bi man, trying to camouflage his sexuality?? Puzzled me big time!!!

 

10 hours ago, cbm said:

But there are also gay men who are not into anal. Why doesn't that puzzle you?

 

Personally, I find that labels like straight/gay/bi/etc not really useful when it comes to what they like when having fun.

 

Regardless of a man's orientation, up the ass is the prostate, man's g spot. It will feel good when it is stimulated. In that aspect, straight men can also enjoy bottoming without being gay. It can be a woman wearing a strap-on dildo topping him. This is called pegging. 

 

 

 

 

Also on Grindr you find guys stating they are straight but looking for male to male sex. 

 

I beg to differ though:

The real straight guy doesn't long for a male sex partner at all. 

Those pretend to be straight guys just don't want to admit to themselves that they are gay or bisexual. Background is a psychic fear being "discovered" or judged as gay, the still existing negative connotation of being gay. 

 

Sure some straight guys might at rare instances experience at young age but will quickly be aware what arouses him guys or girls (or both). 

 

In certain cases such deniers can turn violent to gays as they develop a hate against their own homosexuality which they can't accept and start attacking other gays. 

 

I personally don't buy this "I m straight thing" on guys who sexually play with other guys. I always avoid such guys because easily the develop a sort of paranoia that other people would categorise them as gay. 

 

 

Edited November 12, 2025 by singalion

[passinthenight]

Yeah, I agree what singalion said above. 

They're kidding themselves.

[cutejack]

Once a man have sex with another man, he is not str8 at all.100% cconfirmed. A str8 man Don't have sex with another man. 

And u r right. Some married man infact most like to be bottom n beg to me to anal them..speaking from experiences.  

Hope this clarifies. 

 

[bro man fun]

41 minutes ago, cutejack said:

Once a man have sex with another man, he is not str8 at all.100% cconfirmed. A str8 man Don't have sex with another man. 

And u r right. Some married man infact most like to be bottom n beg to me to anal them..speaking from experiences.  

Hope this clarifies. 

 

wow, how did u seduce those married men to btm for u? through ur massage?

n do u enjoy topping only married men?

[Mickey.Lois]

19 hours ago, cbm said:

But there are also gay men who are not into anal. Why doesn't that puzzle you?

 

Personally, I find that labels like straight/gay/bi/etc not really useful when it comes to what they like when having fun.

 

Regardless of a man's orientation, up the ass is the prostate, man's g spot. It will feel good when it is stimulated. In that aspect, straight men can also enjoy bottoming without being gay. It can be a woman wearing a strap-on dildo topping him. This is called pegging. 

 

 

 

Gay is about sexuality, whether you like men or women or both and the term follows accordingly. Anal sex is an act. They are not the same. Is the same as some top guy don't suck or rim. It is an act of which you like or don't. Nothing to puzzle.

 

But I do find your last paragraph interesting. The prostate is a man's g-spot. If it is simulated there, it can climax a man, and thus even a straight may want to be penetrated. But I wonder how many men do feel that?? Whatever, I think most 'straight' men in gay dating apps are merely in self-denial....

 

 

Edited November 13, 2025 by Mickey.Lois
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[Why?]

In my opinion, men who are 100% Straight don't want to be treated like a woman. This include being fucked by another guy. 

 

On the other hand, they may want to enjoy penetration, carried out by another woman,  in the form of fingering or an object. 

 

My point is, for a 100% straight guy wanting to experience penetration (bottoming?) is not the same as wanting to experience gay. 

[NonShy71]

Agree with CBM. All these definitions are just some labels to identify certain type or groups of people.But in reality, it's all depends on how we experience our desires. just because it has been defined in such a term, doesn't mean one has to agree and stock to it. Just my humble opinion.

[cbm]

Oh the topic title got changed. They identify as straight but they did not specifically state that they are 100% straight mah... 

 

Gay is about not only sexual attraction, but also romantic and emotional attraction right?

 

If going by romantic and emotional attraction, they may still consider themselves straight because they don't have such feelings towards men.

 

It's not so rigidly black and white. There can be variations in between. 

 

One of my subs identifies as straight and he bottoms for me and we have lots of fun together. So I'm not sure what the concern is. Don't overthink it lah. 

 

[leckmich]

i suppose nobody is hundred percent this or that.

 

it is not mutually exclusive.  franky, do we care, lol

[Giggidy]

I've a close friend who is straight.

 

We had a deep conversation one night and the topic of my sexuality came up. 

He did admit he found some guys good looking but in a non sexual way and that if he were to be with a guy, he would never bottom

[cutejack]

On 11/13/2025 at 9:21 AM, bro man fun said:

wow, how did u seduce those married men to btm for u? through ur massage?

n do u enjoy topping only married men?

I said those married men begs, not that I seduced them. Forced sex is not my cup of tea. Everything comes mutually  include sex for both to enjoy. 

N where the hell did i say I only enjoy topping only married men? 

I'm sure, u failed in yr dictation. Kidding ya. 

[fetish69]

Now generation is where is the mindset is very opened about color, styles, trend and lifestyles. The lifestyle is very vibrant now compared to in the 80s or 90s which was shared to me through my mature encountered be Bi Married or Gays. One very good example is the fashion now some lady's handbag has been appreciated by men especially when they in fashion industries or exposed and surrounded by fashion, so they well verse the trend is as what in and what out. Look at the department store especially the men's underwear department you can see that the color is very vibrant not just that the cut and types of underwear like thong, G-string, jockstrap, butthole brief, low rise thick band brief and mini tanga low rise. In term fabrication of men's underwear from basic cotton to satin finish which very cooling. Women also buy those skimpy ones like thong, G-string and jockstrap for their partner as well. The reason I say when I shop for my undies and when I hit the gym, I see more married man in skimpy undies like thong and G-string they seem like something in their ass. I see them in those skimpy undies when they change to gym attire worst if their locker at bottom part as they bending, I get really hard remind me those men I top or deflowered as I fuck them in their undies on. 

 

 The word of bisexual starts than this word Metrosexual in those days in 80s or 90s no such things even those undies I mentioned you can't get any department store. According to my mature friends they say the one wear thong or G-string is gay and back than the only brand sells thong and G-string are HOM. If you buy them when you make a payment it the cashier or salesperson looking at you and raise their brows. There no such things you 100% straight if you with another men in bed or some kind liaison together. The moment you have intimate liaison together you consider bisexual curious, top and bottom. It just you in denial or hate to be judge as bisexual why worried and think so much being bisexual just enjoyed what you do just as good at eating good at saving. Make sure you wipe your mouth clean before returned to your family. As for me I love to give a strawberry kiss mark hidden secret place where he himself nor partner see it on me to mark my spot.

 

Since the words of Metrosexual afloat all the straight men want took looked good as what they see on media and social media as well surrounding from office colleague outside world. Looked at Korean guy they do face job put on make-up, yet they are straight only GOD know how straight they are. By looking all this plus if they have gay colleague who is very discrete and closeted type looking at their gay colleague looking good everything place, muscle fit bods' skin as smooth as baby butt, smelling good fresh yet alluring. So, this straight guy wants to make changes on personal grooming make over they will confide in colleague who looked at best all the time.

 

To men's or guys out there don't worry about sexuality important part know what you are doing as long you don't cause any harm or hurting the other parties. For those who are married my advised you can eat outside but make sure wipe clean your mouth make sure don't bring any stain or debris home least but not least don't bring any STD to your married wife as she is innocent party as she the one looking after the family. What I'm saying is based on my experience that married men much kinkier and raunchier.

 

They fall into this bisexual is curiosity once they fall into those gays love giving oral and rimming jobs this where they don't get from their partner. The feeling is so sensual plus the usage of poppers getting them to next level this when they opened their leg wide from admired muscle bods lead to bedroom Once they get the feel of cock in their mouth or asshole no turning back. According to those Bi that I top before they are saying that the feeling is painful as my cock penetrate in after the poppers kicks in it change to something hard to describe not something bad but great pleasure as my cock passes through asshole glands which deeper in as second hole.  They will moan quiver, spasm and squirming. So, guys don't worry about sexuality just knew your ground and enjoyed your just found sexual fulfillment as well satisfaction.

[loveseeker]

I have seen guys turning from Straight with gf to Curious who keep going sauna enjoy getting sucked and licked, then become Bi Top who find fcking ass roughly more pleasurable. Then one day turning to Bi Btm and to Pure Btm whom get addicted being fcked by hard cocks. Some transition to slutty btm and womanize at later stage.

[cutejack]

7 hours ago, loveseeker said:

I have seen guys turning from Straight with gf to Curious who keep going sauna enjoy getting sucked and licked, then become Bi Top who find fcking ass roughly more pleasurable. Then one day turning to Bi Btm and to Pure Btm whom get addicted being fcked by hard cocks. Some transition to slutty btm and womanize at later stage.

So many stages of transformers ar.🤣🤣

[Want to try]

20 hours ago, loveseeker said:

I have seen guys turning from Straight with gf to Curious who keep going sauna enjoy getting sucked and licked, then become Bi Top who find fcking ass roughly more pleasurable. Then one day turning to Bi Btm and to Pure Btm whom get addicted being fcked by hard cocks. Some transition to slutty btm and womanize at later stage.

Same person changing..... One in a million lah

[Why?]

13 hours ago, Want to try said:

Same person changing..... One in a million lah

The lottery effect, the guy hit the jackpot G-spot. 

[loveseeker]

Who is at the bi btm or pure btm stage?

[Want to try]

Actually pure straight men may be curious enough to want to know how his wife feels when he fucks her so he too wants to be fucked like how he fucks his wife to experience that feeling... Any straight men want to confirm? 

[Balestier]

19 hours ago, Want to try said:

Same person changing..... One in a million lah

Maybe vagina sex is too boring. Need fresh experience. Not married so can try

[Damienzo]

On 11/13/2025 at 11:09 PM, cbm said:

Oh the topic title got changed. They identify as straight but they did not specifically state that they are 100% straight mah... 

 

Gay is about not only sexual attraction, but also romantic and emotional attraction right?

 

If going by romantic and emotional attraction, they may still consider themselves straight because they don't have such feelings towards men.

 

It's not so rigidly black and white. There can be variations in between. 

 

One of my subs identifies as straight and he bottoms for me and we have lots of fun together. So I'm not sure what the concern is. Don't overthink it lah. 

 

I agree that romantic and emotional attraction plays a part, in fact a bigger part than sex. I started wanting to explore having side fun and oral with guys and in beginning I thought that I’m straight but maybe sexual pleasure is what I’m looking for. But after sometime, I start to realise I derive no enjoyment from the oral I received, because I have no feelings for the other guy. Eventually I realise what I wanted is a boyfriend, a romantic relationship and companionship, not really sexual pleasure. I can’t do anything sexual with a person I have no feelings for

[Damienzo]

5 hours ago, Want to try said:

Actually pure straight men may be curious enough to want to know how his wife feels when he fucks her so he too wants to be fucked like how he fucks his wife to experience that feeling... Any straight men want to confirm? 

Pure straight men definitely finds sex with another men disgusting. 

[Lol4321]

They would not yearn bottoming, but some may be more open to try. Even gays, there are pure tops, let alone straight guys who would not want their holes touched. I have had my fair share in fingering or topping straight guys. More than half stopped me after a few poking. It was a sight to behold though to see their bodies react to their holes being played.

[Cumquats]

As a pansexual married man who looks at women 99% of the time; who lets a big cock into me with painful difficulty but then after am squealing in orgasms later, whats so hard to understand?

Edited November 19, 2025 by Cumquats

[lok_koi]

Physical pleasure and emotional attraction can be two different things. No need to label, if i enjoy getting fucked, i enjoy getting fucked. If i don't check out hot dudes, but just women, what am I? is it meaningful to label and how will that label help all of us ? just ask me if i like a dick in my ass, or if i like to have my cock in your mouth. i will tell you yes. if you ask me if i am bi, straight , curious , etc, i can't do it with such ease. and asking me that will not allow us to move on to what gives us physically pleasure. 

 

i do want to fuck all the women i see, but do i think about getting fucked by all the men i see on the streets, not at all. life is hard enough, lets just enjoy what floats your boat. 

[lok_koi]

 

 

On 11/15/2025 at 3:14 AM, loveseeker said:

I have seen guys turning from Straight with gf to Curious who keep going sauna enjoy getting sucked and licked, then become Bi Top who find fcking ass roughly more pleasurable. Then one day turning to Bi Btm and to Pure Btm whom get addicted being fcked by hard cocks. Some transition to slutty btm and womanize at later stage.

 i am one of them. from enjoying my cock being sucked, to one day getting fucked, to enjoying sucking a cock, to slutty btm who would suck a few cocks and get fucked at the same time. the only thing i have not begin to enjoy is fucking a man. 

[SlimguyNE]

Hmm to me I think when I get horny, I get that feeling that I want to be used.

But so far not to the point where I want to be a top if that makes sense?

I am 100% clear that I love woman, like know that I will settle down with a women.

For now I am trying to understand how people is pleasured from anal itself that they cum just like that.

 

[lok_koi]

40 minutes ago, SlimguyNE said:

Hmm to me I think when I get horny, I get that feeling that I want to be used.

But so far not to the point where I want to be a top if that makes sense?

I am 100% clear that I love woman, like know that I will settle down with a women.

For now I am trying to understand how people is pleasured from anal itself that they cum just like that.

 

Fully understood but maybe not by many. Getting pounded or fingered aggressively and wanting more, faster and harder is a realm of pleasure that only a few "straight" men will ever get to experience. More so that you are supposed to be "straight" but pushing boundaries to physical pleasure that has nothing to do with your emotional orientation 

[kimlo777]

In my many years of sexual adventure I have yet to meet a straight  men who yearns or have a desire to be a bottom.  Most of them treat us merely as cum dump - their attitude has always been a mouth is a mouth and a hole is a hole as long as I can deposit my pent-up spunk in them, it is good enough.  Straight men do not pursue emotional relationship or attachment of any form.  So if a straight man says he likes to find out what it is like to bottom for someone, I would say he is latently a bi-sexual or is still exploring his sexuality.  He can't be 100% straight.

[bro man fun]

On 11/14/2025 at 2:46 PM, cutejack said:

I said those married men begs, not that I seduced them. Forced sex is not my cup of tea. Everything comes mutually  include sex for both to enjoy. 

N where the hell did i say I only enjoy topping only married men? 

I'm sure, u failed in yr dictation. Kidding ya. 

 

they beg you instead? ＷＯＷ!

u must be SUPER HOT!

juz the sight of ur attractive tool makes them forget their wives' pussies, n instead they beg u to use their bussies

wicked! 😂

[kjs2221]

Now the new millennia people like to "experience".... hahaha

 

[banmian_1990]

4 hours ago, kjs2221 said:

Now the new millennia people like to "experience".... hahaha

 

It's true! You can see they're very open even if bro bro will still touch each other here and there

[kjs2221]

Just testing water.

[FattChoy]

Can you name a public figure who identifies as 100% straight man?  Obama?  Messi?

[doncoin]

Think about it, if you are "100%" straight, you don't need to go to a gay sauna to bottom. You can always ask the gf or hire a hooker/escort/professional sex worker, to peg you with a strap on. I am sure there are dominatrix around in Singapore who will do the job for the right fee. 

[Firstimer92]

I guess it is really how you define a straight guy as. I am married but also bicurious and want to explore being a btm. Maybe it's from my younger days. But yeah, do I count as a straight guy here?

Edited December 29, 2025 by Firstimer92

[bluerunner]

On 12/30/2025 at 1:00 AM, Firstimer92 said:

I guess it is really how you define a straight guy as. I am married but also bicurious and want to explore being a btm. Maybe it's from my younger days. But yeah, do I count as a straight guy here?

To me, you are GAY as hell.

Married and/or fucking a woman does not prove anything. 

Of course, if you still think you are straight or bi or whatever you want to label yourself to make you feel better, go ahead, as long as that makes you feel good. 
It will not change the fact that you are ….. (again, fill in the blank on how you like it to be) 😊

[Anon_cock]

hehe, unpopular opinon here I think all straight man are kinda gay, they love touching cock, stroking cock, making cock cum. own cock is still cock. so its kinda gay. haha. the other night, i accidentally slipped my cock into a pussy sex toy and i accidentally hump it, in and out in and out. did i accidentally made myself straight? im 100% gay though. i really don't know. i think man just want to try things that pleasure them... including sucking their own cock! can u imagine how gay is it for a straight man who can auto-fellatio to self suck and cum in their own mouth!?!? but hey, man are man. thats why i love man!! gay or straight! yum!

Edited January 4 by Anon_cock

[Want to try]

Why is it important to label someone as straight or gay or bi or whatever. Some people are more sexual than others. So why does it bother anyone if you want to try different things to pleasure yourself sexually, be it on your own jerking off or using sex toys or with the opposite sex like the so-called normal people. If you are sexually adventurous, you would want to try how it feels to hold a hard cock, to feel a soft cock growing in your mouth, to feel a hard cock stiffening up in your mouth  just before shooting his load, to feel the cum load hitting your throat, to feel a hard cock twitching and stiffening inside your ass while your ass muscles tighten the grip on it just before it explodes inside you and to feel the cum load hitting your prostate.... To a sexually active person all these are shiok experiences but of course to many others it is disgusting to think of using your ass other than to pass motion. So, no need to try to figure out why some straights can stray while others absolutely won't, different people have different sexual needs and there is no right or wrong here. 

Edited January 4 by Want to try

[cbm]

@Anon_cock accidentally? 🤔