Jo L Posted June 12 Posted June 12 On 6/6/2026 at 9:26 PM, JayRoss55 said: Your past connections involved physical intimacy without sustained commitment, which likely contributed to their short-lived nature. Your current standard of requiring consistent behavioral proof over time helps distinguish between fleeting attraction and genuine readiness for a relationship. To be seen and forgotten when someone who does not know you makes comments about your past and current behaviors. 😂 Quote
JayRoss55 Posted June 14 Author Posted June 14 On 6/12/2026 at 12:37 PM, Jo L said: To be seen and forgotten when someone who does not know you makes comments about your past and current behaviors. 😂 That painful irony of being superficially seen but fundamentally misunderstood then easily dismissed, captures a uniquely exhausting part of navigating a mixed-race identity. Quote
Jo L Posted June 15 Posted June 15 7 hours ago, JayRoss55 said: That painful irony of being superficially seen but fundamentally misunderstood then easily dismissed, captures a uniquely exhausting part of navigating a mixed-race identity. Psycho Quote
tns Posted June 28 Posted June 28 (edited) I got scolded the other day by him because... When we were having lunch facing each other on a small table in the cafe, the lighting just shines on his eyes and I took a long stare and I said something like "Your eyes are so beautiful, macam pakai contact lens yang ada design and color." Then I got a scolding (teasing), "Dah empat tahun baru perasan!" Time flies... didn't realized we are together for 4 years already. Edited June 28 by tns Kimochi 1 Quote
cutejack Posted June 28 Posted June 28 2 hours ago, tns said: I got scolded the other day by him because... When we were having lunch facing each other on a small table in the cafe, the lighting just shines on his eyes and I took a long stare and I said something like "Your eyes are so beautiful, macam pakai contact lens yang ada design and color." Then I got a scolding (teasing), "Dah empat tahun baru perasan!" Time flies... didn't realized we are together for 4 years already. U didnt tell him. Coz I always looking at yr brother who is cuter.🤣🤣🤣 Quote
tns Posted June 28 Posted June 28 2 hours ago, cutejack said: U didnt tell him. Coz I always looking at yr brother who is cuter.🤣🤣🤣 Woi... I only met his brother like 3 times. And I don't snatch people punya husband ok. lol cutejack 1 Quote
cbm Posted June 28 Posted June 28 5 hours ago, tns said: I got scolded the other day by him because... When we were having lunch facing each other on a small table in the cafe, the lighting just shines on his eyes and I took a long stare and I said something like "Your eyes are so beautiful, macam pakai contact lens yang ada design and color." Then I got a scolding (teasing), "Dah empat tahun baru perasan!" Time flies... didn't realized we are together for 4 years already.  You know you're in a proper relationship when you try to flirt and your partner scolds you instead. Awwwwww... tns 1 Quote
Dart Posted June 29 Posted June 29 I would. As long as we have the chemistry. Naturally I prefer fair & smooth skin dudes and of course good looking ones 😉 Quote
JayRoss55 Posted July 1 Author Posted July 1 On 6/29/2026 at 3:58 PM, Dart said: I would. As long as we have the chemistry. Naturally I prefer fair & smooth skin dudes and of course good looking ones 😉 That totally makes sense, chemistry is what really carries a relationship, not ethnicity. And hey, we all have our natural preferences, nothing wrong with being honest about yours. Fair skin and smooth features clearly catch your eye, but it's cool that you're still open beyond that. At the end of the day, good looks might draw you in, but personality and connection are what keep you there. Sounds like you know exactly what you want and aren't afraid to say it. Quote
juicyass Posted Monday at 04:03 AM Posted Monday at 04:03 AM On 6/29/2026 at 10:58 PM, Dart said: I would. As long as we have the chemistry. Naturally I prefer fair & smooth skin dudes and of course good looking ones 😉  I, on the other hand, only prefer dark skin toned men. I am very generally attracted to Indian men since I was young. Not sure why. Maybe because my ex neighbors are mostly indians, and I always mingle around with them.  Quote
Guest guest Posted Monday at 06:51 AM Posted Monday at 06:51 AM 2 hours ago, juicyass said:  I, on the other hand, only prefer dark skin toned men. I am very generally attracted to Indian men since I was young. Not sure why. Maybe because my ex neighbors are mostly indians, and I always mingle around with them.  b careful ar... wait some1 will call u racist u noe u noe... lol lol... Quote
Guest Chinese Posted Monday at 12:59 PM Posted Monday at 12:59 PM 6 hours ago, Guest guest said: b careful ar... wait some1 will call u racist u noe u noe... lol lol...  Its the same for me. I am a Chinese, but I am very into Malay and Indian dudes. Non chinese's features are more manly. And yes, I am racist....toward my own race. 😀 Quote
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