What Is The Gayest Thing About You?

[JayRoss55]

i'm acting very straight and not even a slight chance when you see me that you can tell i'm gay. So perhaps the gayest thing for me is that I like having sex with another man.

[Damienzo]

Guessed for me it’s simply just being deeply in love with another man 

[Why?]

I am shy and very soft spoken.  That is the gayest me.

[Eddie Adrika]

The gayest thing about me? My skincare shelf looks like a Sephora branch… serums lined up like soldiers, toners alphabetized, and masks stacked higher than my rent. It’s basically a rainbow shrine of bottles and jars, where even my moisturiser has a backup moisturiser.

[Yoshisan]

Going to the gym. My friends and family have a notion that people who workout are highly likely to be gay. 

[radiusulnar]

38 minutes ago, Yoshisan said:

people who workout are highly likely to be gay

 

That's an interesting viewpoint

[Damienzo]

I would also include my elaborate skin care regime and frequent gym workouts. Cos all these are most concerted efforts of mine to ensure I look as good as possible. 
Most friends thinks that my skin care regime is even more detailed and intensive than ladies. I’m extremely vain 🤣

Edited February 23 by Damienzo

[Eddie Adrika]

1 hour ago, Damienzo said:

I would also include my elaborate skin care regime and frequent gym workouts. Cos all these are most concerted efforts of mine to ensure I look as good as possible. 
Most friends thinks that my skin care regime is even more detailed and intensive than ladies. I’m extremely vain 🤣

Detailed skincare? That’s not vanity, that’s gay excellence. 👏 

[Heron]

Mine would probably be the unintentional, habitual hand gestures (e.g. limp wrist flicks) that subconsciously happen during conversations or situations - where you don't realise until you review the video and go that looks really feminine and gay

[Damienzo]

6 hours ago, Eddie Adrika said:

Detailed skincare? That’s not vanity, that’s gay excellence. 👏 

Is it something which most gay guys will do? 

[doncoin]

My enjoyment for fashion. While work requires me to dress more or less in a suit or business casual, most of the time, I tend to accessorize with a nice bag, some jewelry, and shoes. Nothing crazy, but just stuff with designs I like which straight guys don't generally go for till much later. I remember about 12 years ago, i started wearing bracelets. Simple ones with beads like Tiger's eye or onyx. Sometimes I'd wear one, other times, I will wear 2 or 3 just for fun.

 

Next thing I knew, it became a trend. I see the finance bros started wearing bracelets, some even do the wraparound thing, where they take a necklace, and wrap it around their wrists to make a bracelet. I supposed we all want to express our individualism in a sea of navy/gray vests. 

 

And yes to the skincare and yes to the gym. 

 

 

[Eddie Adrika]

1 hour ago, Damienzo said:

Is it something which most gay guys will do? 

Plenty of straight guys do it too… but when a gay man does it, it’s an art form.

[Eddie Adrika]

@doncoin

 

Haha, I feel you… I was in fashion for years, so stylish dressing is second nature. Even now strangers sometimes assume I’m not local, just from the way I carry myself. Accessories are my armour and my joy: earrings, necklaces, bracelets, rings… I pile them on until they feel like a second skin. Too much bling might dazzle or even hurt the eyes, but without it I feel stripped bare, like I’ve left part of my soul at home. For me, it’s not decoration, it’s identity.

[klekriee]

My butt and thighs... Men's pants that fit others normally would not fit me, going true-to-size according to waist size is nearly impossible. I like to wear shorts that are not running shorts because they do not go with the rest of my outfit, but most of them look ugly on me if they are not made for women (which I am fine with, women's shorts are cute). I do get compliments for my butt size and thighs from other gay men, which I guess makes them my gayest ass-ets. Other things like skincare, androgynous clothing and cute accessories are also part of what might give off hints of gayness, but my body is permanently stuck with me at all times

[Giggidy]

Gayest thing about me? 

 

I love dicks- the shape of it is just so beautiful

It's good to lick, suck and when it is in you, so blissful. 

 

[radiusulnar]

the common thread appears to be:

1. gym

2. skincare

3. fashion

 

[Eddie Adrika]

1 hour ago, radiusulnar said:

the common thread appears to be:

1. gym

2. skincare

3. fashion

 

Gym builds the body, skincare soothes the soul, fashion dresses the spirit. That’s the gayest thing: the way routine becomes ritual, and ritual becomes identity.

[stock-top]

5 hours ago, radiusulnar said:

the common thread appears to be:

1. gym

2. skincare

3. fashion

 

I also care about no 1 and 2.

My no 3 is probably fragrance. 

[youdoyou]

My underwear

[Damienzo]

7 hours ago, radiusulnar said:

the common thread appears to be:

1. gym

2. skincare

3. fashion

 

All 3 is equally important for me. Maybe No.2 is a bit ahead than 1 and 3

[doncoin]

7 hours ago, youdoyou said:

My underwear

 

 

That falls under fashion. 

[simply_me]

Gayest thing about me is following guys in IG with huge bulge hahaha and following their X account. Hahahahha

[leckmich]

cam with guys

[littlesub]

I like to eat my own cum after masturbating. Sometimes while masturbating while sitting on a chair, I will cum so hard it will shoot all the way to my mouth and I imagine receiving a facial from people after sucking their cocks

[passinthenight]

I've always thrown a ball like a girl for some reason.

[JayRoss55]

Maybe being too dramatic. Realizing I was out of coffee filters on a Monday morning sent me into a theatrical tailspin, complete with anguished questions to the universe and a dramatic collapse onto the kitchen floor. I mourned my lost caffeine future, ultimately concluding that my decaffeinated fate was a tragedy worse than death itself.

[Nivek]

Omg lol.

[JayRoss55]

On 2/23/2026 at 3:00 PM, Eddie Adrika said:

The gayest thing about me? My skincare shelf looks like a Sephora branch… serums lined up like soldiers, toners alphabetized, and masks stacked higher than my rent. It’s basically a rainbow shrine of bottles and jars, where even my moisturiser has a backup moisturiser.

Honestly, your skincare shelf sounds less like a Sephora and more like the Pentagon of Pampering, fully mobilized and ready for deployment. Alphabetized toners? That’s not just organization, that’s a love language. And giving your moisturizer a backup? That’s not just planning, that’s commitment.

 

If that’s the gayest thing about you, then consider your shrine blessed. It’s not a collection; it’s a carefully curated army of self-care, standing at attention. The only logical next step is to start naming them. I suggest “Bottled Lightning” for your vitamin C serum.

[ToughGuy]

On 2/24/2026 at 12:44 AM, Eddie Adrika said:

Plenty of straight guys do it too… but when a gay man does it, it’s an art form.

Unfortunately, I dun...too much hassle and time consuming 😭😭

[ToughGuy]

On 3/8/2026 at 8:54 PM, JayRoss55 said:

Maybe being too dramatic. Realizing I was out of coffee filters on a Monday morning sent me into a theatrical tailspin, complete with anguished questions to the universe and a dramatic collapse onto the kitchen floor. I mourned my lost caffeine future, ultimately concluding that my decaffeinated fate was a tragedy worse than death itself.

Coffee?...a must...a must

 

Always need to have back up like several sachets of instant coffee when I can have my black paper filtered home brew😂😂😂

[riverrobles]

My voice and I am really not into any sport like football, basketball, soccer. I just like to play when its shower time 🙂

[Nivek]

Same, my voice. It's hard to hide a gay voice... Sigh. 

[passinthenight]

On 3/8/2026 at 11:54 PM, JayRoss55 said:

Maybe being too dramatic. Realizing I was out of coffee filters on a Monday morning sent me into a theatrical tailspin, complete with anguished questions to the universe and a dramatic collapse onto the kitchen floor. I mourned my lost caffeine future, ultimately concluding that my decaffeinated fate was a tragedy worse than death itself.

 You would feel right at home in Melbourne, where all the serious coffee action occurs.

Your behaviour would be considered normal and acceptable.

[HC-B]

Fashion! 😜

[earth_tone]

The fact that I do not fit into any gay stereotypes at all is screaming gay.

[earth_tone]

On 2/23/2026 at 5:17 PM, Eddie Adrika said:

Detailed skincare? That’s not vanity, that’s gay excellence. 👏 

Gaycellence

[JayRoss55]

On 3/17/2026 at 6:48 AM, passinthenight said:

 You would feel right at home in Melbourne, where all the serious coffee action occurs.

Your behaviour would be considered normal and acceptable.

You're saying my attention to detail and passion for quality would fit right in with Melbourne's renowned coffee culture. In that city, my behavior would be considered completely normal and even appreciated. Melbourne sets a high standard where dedication to craft is valued. You're either a local or someone who deeply understands the city's character. Overall, it's a compliment about belonging somewhere that shares my values.

[mate69]

On 2/23/2026 at 10:41 AM, Damienzo said:

Is it something which most gay guys will do? 

 

Nope

[JayRoss55]

On 2/26/2026 at 5:20 PM, littlesub said:

I like to eat my own cum after masturbating. Sometimes while masturbating while sitting on a chair, I will cum so hard it will shoot all the way to my mouth and I imagine receiving a facial from people after sucking their cocks

You shared that you sometimes ingest your own semen after masturbating, and that during certain positions it can reach your mouth, which ties into a fantasy of receiving a facial after oral sex with others. This behavior is generally not harmful as long as it feels safe, consensual, and doesn’t cause you distress. If you experience shame, confusion, or disruption in daily life, speaking with a sex-positive therapist could help you understand and integrate these desires.

[AppleEater]

the gayest thing about me is probably the huge collection of gay photography books by the likes of Robert Mapplethorpe, Herb Ritts, Bjorn, David Vance and etc. Otherwise I am very straight acting and nothing about me shouts gay.

[Why?]

On 2/23/2026 at 6:08 PM, Heron said:

Mine would probably be the unintentional, habitual hand gestures (e.g. limp wrist flicks) that subconsciously happen during conversations or situations - where you don't realise until you review the video and go that looks really feminine and gay

I've witnessed a lot of these giveaways in public, particularly from men who would frequently roll their eyes while speaking.

 

My passion for collecting pastel-hued objects, such as stationery, notes pads, ornaments, photos, colored pencils, notebooks, and even candies with similar wrappings, is what makes me looks gay.

[JayRoss55]

The eye-rolling you’ve noticed from men during public giveaways might be a subtle form of judgment or impatience, perhaps directed at what they see as “unmanly” enthusiasm. Meanwhile, your love for pastel-colored objects and curated collections is being read by some as a signal of being gay, not because of anything inherent to pastels, but because of cultural stereotypes that associate soft colors, detailed collecting, and certain aesthetics with femininity or queerness.

[Nivek]

I never associated pastel colors with gay. I thought neon colors are gay.

[simply_me]

Gayest thing about me is being on X and following same gay sex massage videos hahahahha

[Kopi Gao]

Is being super neat, super tidy and being obsessed with cleanliness a "sign of gayness"? 😮😨

[Jo L]

For me, it is fantasizing about having something romantic, sensual and sexual with men that I like.

[JayRoss55]

7 hours ago, Jo L said:

For me, it is fantasizing about having something romantic, sensual and sexual with men that I like.

That's a natural and common form of fantasy, many people explore desires for romance, sensuality, and sexuality in their imagination as a way to understand their attractions or simply for personal enjoyment. As long as it remains a healthy part of your inner life and doesn't cause distress or harm, there's nothing wrong with having those thoughts.

[EastSgDad]

Gayest thing?

Total belief in monogamous and exclusivity

 

 

[JayRoss55]

12 hours ago, EastSgDad said:

Gayest thing?

Total belief in monogamous and exclusivity

 

 

what Feng Shui is saying about it?

[EastSgDad]

50 minutes ago, JayRoss55 said:

what Feng Shui is saying about it?

Not into feng shui