What Is The Gayest Thing About You?

[JayRoss55]

On 4/13/2026 at 10:32 AM, AppleEater said:

the gayest thing about me is probably the huge collection of gay photography books by the likes of Robert Mapplethorpe, Herb Ritts, Bjorn, David Vance and etc. Otherwise I am very straight acting and nothing about me shouts gay.

Your collection speaks volumes about your identity even if your everyday demeanor doesn't "read" as gay. Ultimately, the art you love is just as authentic a part of you as how you act.

[QinWei]

-dance to the tunes of Music
but not in a womanly way or mimic the dance steps of Madonna ... 
I appreciate the songs and lyrics from a music appreciation angle 

actually this has nothing to do with Orientation right?

-Dressing well at times? as they tend to say Gays tend to dress well and skin-care well
but I hardly looked at the mirror at all
I am shocked that men can spend time looking at their own reflection for more than 1 seconds at the toilet 

 

[Excite]

The gayest thing about myself would be that i often broadcast myself and just be expose myself(spreading my legs, showing my buttcheeks to people online etc) while they masturbate to me. I would pleasure myself together with them.

 

But the second after my release, i feel disgusted and have to stop for days/weeks before I do that again.

[practease]

I like to be taken up the ass.

[lx]

I like to put on the cock cage and wear a jockstrap under my usual decent clothing.. 

[JayRoss55]

On 4/23/2026 at 3:44 PM, Excite said:

The gayest thing about myself would be that i often broadcast myself and just be expose myself(spreading my legs, showing my buttcheeks to people online etc) while they masturbate to me. I would pleasure myself together with them.

 

But the second after my release, i feel disgusted and have to stop for days/weeks before I do that again.

The cycle you're describing, intense arousal followed by disgust and withdrawal, is a classic shame-driven loop, not a reflection of your core worth or identity. That immediate post-orgasm disgust suggests your brain is reacting against the behavior itself, not your sexuality, and breaking the pattern usually starts with separating the act from self-judgment. Speaking with a sex-positive therapist could help you understand the emotional triggers (loneliness, validation, stress) behind the urge, so you can regain a sense of control without the crash.

[Raydes]

Friend:” Oii! Leng lui!!! … you are not watching? Are you gay?”

me:……!!!

[JayRoss55]

That sharp post-orgasm disgust is a sign of shame conditioning, not a true reflection of your desires or worth. Recognizing that the cycle is about the emotional context, not your core identity, gives you the power to interrupt it.