pleasehelpus Posted January 28, 2025 Posted January 28, 2025 Just came across some information about Erwin, who’s now operating under Rehat Spa at Icon@Changi, offering men's massages: https://www.carousell.sg/u/aerwinsy/ Apparently, his approach involves inviting guys to his spa for a free massage, which must be fully nude, during which the person is vulnerable. Afterward, he pressures them to leave reviews. He also offers “photoshoots” at his spa or secluded locations, often involving underwear or fully nude shoots. Some models suggest that changing sometimes takes place in his car or random areas, and he secretly takes photos or videos during these moments without the person’s knowledge. If anyone rejects his advances, he’s known to post cryptic messages on IG or TikTok, accusing the person of being unappreciative, rude, or disrespectful during the photoshoot. He also allegedly sends long messages to gaslight and insult the person while portraying himself as the victim, all while withholding the photos for a long time. There’s also mention of him being active on Grindr, where he uses claims of depression and being unable to “sleep alone” as a way to invite people over to “innocently” cuddle. Since the first forum was n 2012, this seems to be going on for over a decade. Does anyone else have experiences or stories to share? It seems like there’s more to this pattern. Quote
ckasey Posted December 24, 2025 Posted December 24, 2025 On 1/28/2025 at 11:15 PM, pleasehelpus said: Just came across some information about Erwin, who’s now operating under Rehat Spa at Icon@Changi, offering men's massages: https://www.carousell.sg/u/aerwinsy/ Apparently, his approach involves inviting guys to his spa for a free massage, which must be fully nude, during which the person is vulnerable. Afterward, he pressures them to leave reviews. He also offers “photoshoots” at his spa or secluded locations, often involving underwear or fully nude shoots. Some models suggest that changing sometimes takes place in his car or random areas, and he secretly takes photos or videos during these moments without the person’s knowledge. If anyone rejects his advances, he’s known to post cryptic messages on IG or TikTok, accusing the person of being unappreciative, rude, or disrespectful during the photoshoot. He also allegedly sends long messages to gaslight and insult the person while portraying himself as the victim, all while withholding the photos for a long time. There’s also mention of him being active on Grindr, where he uses claims of depression and being unable to “sleep alone” as a way to invite people over to “innocently” cuddle. Since the first forum was n 2012, this seems to be going on for over a decade. Does anyone else have experiences or stories to share? It seems like there’s more to this pattern. Do u mean this person? p_win139? Quote
Wongtowind Posted January 6 Posted January 6 OH MY GOD AGAIN HE IS BEING CONSTANTLY BROUGHT UP. 😅🥲 YES, @P_WIN139 IS HIM. FINALLY HEARD HIS LUKE WARM SPA BUSINESS HAD WRAPPED UP DUE TO HIS SELECTIVE NATURE IN CUSTOMERS. NOT FIT NOT CHN FORGET ABOUT GOING. I HAVE NOT EVEN VISITED YET. HE USED TO CLAIM HIMSELF AS A POPULAR PHOTOGRAPHER MADE FUN OF OTHER REKNOWN PHOTOGRAPHERS AND NOW IT'S DELETED TOO. CHECK THIS NOW HE IS A TRAINER AT F45. @F45TANJONGKATONG ON INSTA. ANYONE BEEN THERE AND SEEN HIM NOT? Quote
Wongtowind Posted January 26 Posted January 26 Just got info from Massage Grooming thread he has no more REHAT insta and now renamed to XIN SPA aka Boutique Spa Aesthetic. Anyone if know is where and price list let us know k. Quote
Wongtowind Posted February 9 Posted February 9 Has any of you gays been to F45 Tanjong Katong and being trained by that "Coach" Erwin? Please share your views ya. Quote
ckasey Posted March 2 Posted March 2 Looks like its really popular I keep seeing hot hunks and studs coming to patronize his services. Lol it has piqued my curiosity. Only know about it cuz I gym nearby. Quote
Wongtowind Posted March 4 Posted March 4 Should be closed down already ba many of us couldn't find, no more searchable on IG etc. People transformed to f45 Coach now at tanjong katong f45 I heard and saw leh. Dunno how to carry out his high fashion bling items to gym everyday. IG: f45tanjongkatong Quote
Aviavi Posted March 13 Posted March 13 On 1/26/2026 at 9:05 AM, Wongtowind said: Just got info from Massage Grooming thread he has no more REHAT insta and now renamed to XIN SPA aka Boutique Spa Aesthetic. Anyone if know is where and price list let us know k. YES HE DID REBRAND TO XIN SPA. I remembered I got blocked by him then my friend send me and I cannot open it Quote
Wongtowind Posted March 14 Posted March 14 Monster offering cuddling service. Would you all pay for that? Quote
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