Do you always get anal fissure after having sex with condom?

[juicyass]

As a bottom myself, I always find that having anal fissure after sex is pretty irritating, esp one using with condom. 

I always get anal soreness at the right bottom corner close to the anus after having sex with condom. But I have no issue when having bareback sex. 

Not like I am against sex with condom, but it is starting to irk me that I get anal fissure every time I have sex with condom. 

I am using silicone lube and latex condom for the top, I applied the lube quite a good amount though. But still, the condom sometimes feel dry-ish when it slide in and out of my anus.

 

How do you prep yourself to prevent anal fissure?  

[aroundhume]

Honestly, feels like it hasn’t fully healed or not really a fissure. I’ve had some soreness but really only had a fissure due to dieting at the time then went to the doctor. Let it heal and never really had that problem ever again after finishing the treatment of creams

 

 

[SociNerd]

i agree. condom sex makes my hole very sore compared to raw. it’s just the friction of the material against the anal lining and honestly it can’t be helped. i have tried many different types in the past. the polyurethane(?) one is the worst, usually found in the thinnest condoms. latex is your next best thing already. your best bet is to just stretch your hole prior to meeting, and also use copious amounts of lube. u just blacklist those condoms that gave u a bad experience. 

 

i find featherlite ultima the best fit for me, and invisible for durex. not sure about you though.

[juicyass]

On 7/8/2026 at 3:39 PM, SociNerd said:

i agree. condom sex makes my hole very sore compared to raw. it’s just the friction of the material against the anal lining and honestly it can’t be helped. i have tried many different types in the past. the polyurethane(?) one is the worst, usually found in the thinnest condoms. latex is your next best thing already. your best bet is to just stretch your hole prior to meeting, and also use copious amounts of lube. u just blacklist those condoms that gave u a bad experience. 

 

i find featherlite ultima the best fit for me, and invisible for durex. not sure about you though.

 

I cant afford to buy those expensive condom therefore I always buy those condom by Watson brand. They always have offer 2 boxes at RM19 like that. 1 box has 12 pcs of condom. I believe they are latex condom. So far my top has no complain as long as I provide him condoms. 

[singalion]

On 6/25/2026 at 11:23 AM, juicyass said:

As a bottom myself, I always find that having anal fissure after sex is pretty irritating, esp one using with condom. 

I always get anal soreness at the right bottom corner close to the anus after having sex with condom. But I have no issue when having bareback sex. 

Not like I am against sex with condom, but it is starting to irk me that I get anal fissure every time I have sex with condom. 

I am using silicone lube and latex condom for the top, I applied the lube quite a good amount though. But still, the condom sometimes feel dry-ish when it slide in and out of my anus.

 

How do you prep yourself to prevent anal fissure?  

 

May I ask whether you usually have very hard motion or constipation? 

Is the source of the anal fissure truly anal sex? 

 

If the cut or bleeding is very bad, then my advice would be, refrain from anal sex until it is fully healed first. May take up to six weeks in bad cases. 

Because I assume, the regular anal fun, may always cause the fissure to re-open again. 

Just do light fun for the meantime. 

For treatment for fast healing it is recommended to place your anus into a bowl with warm water 3 - 5 times a day for about 20mins. 

Also look that your stool is softer during these weeks. (Linseed can help, one to two teaspoons in yoghurt per day in the morning, avoid anything too much that makes hard stool = rice!)

 

My other advice in general for the future is: 

I noted plenty of bottoms don't apply sufficient lubricant. Worse if it is with a condom because the rubber rubs at the anus and if there is no lubricant, there might be too much friction. It also applies for bare fun, just please lubricate well. 

Don't rely on the top to bring lub and always have your own with you and force tops to take sufficient. 

Some tops don't even bring and take their spit, but that's not sufficient. 

Always lubricate the area sufficiently and also the top's dick. 

 

If the cause is also hard motion and frequent constipation, don't worry to PM me. Both issues might come together. 

 

Speedy recovery and maybe just take a bit of a break into anal fun for some time. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[juicyass]

55 minutes ago, singalion said:

 

May I ask whether you usually have very hard motion or constipation? 

Is the source of the anal fissure truly anal sex? 

 

If the cut or bleeding is very bad, then my advice would be, refrain from anal sex until it is fully healed first. May take up to six weeks in bad cases. 

Because I assume, the regular anal fun, may always cause the fissure to re-open again. 

Just do light fun for the meantime. 

For treatment for fast healing it is recommended to place your anus into a bowl with warm water 3 - 5 times a day for about 20mins. 

Also look that your stool is softer during these weeks. (Linseed can help, one to two teaspoons in yoghurt per day in the morning, avoid anything too much that makes hard stool = rice!)

 

My other advice in general for the future is: 

I noted plenty of bottoms don't apply sufficient lubricant. Worse if it is with a condom because the rubber rubs at the anus and if there is no lubricant, there might be too much friction. It also applies for bare fun, just please lubricate well. 

Don't rely on the top to bring lub and always have your own with you and force tops to take sufficient. 

Some tops don't even bring and take their spit, but that's not sufficient. 

Always lubricate the area sufficiently and also the top's dick. 

 

If the cause is also hard motion and frequent constipation, don't worry to PM me. Both issues might come together. 

 

Speedy recovery and maybe just take a bit of a break into anal fun for some time. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I don't have issue in constipation. I frequently eat high fiber food for gut health. 

I believe my frequent anus fissure happens since I started doing hair laser removal treatment around my anus. Since then, my anus get tear easily esp after hard pounding. But I have stopped going for laser for almost 2 years now. Sometime I get mild fissure at the same localized spot, I have to apply some vaseline (with aleo vera) for a day or two then it becomes better. If pain persists, I would do a sit-bath and then apply some antibiotic ointment.

[singalion]

3 minutes ago, juicyass said:

 

I don't have issue in constipation. I frequently eat high fiber food for gut health. 

I believe my frequent anus fissure happens since I started doing hair laser removal treatment around my anus. Since then, my anus get tear easily esp after hard pounding. But I have stopped going for laser for almost 2 years now. Sometime I get mild fissure at the same localized spot, I have to apply some vaseline (with aleo vera) for a day or two then it becomes better. If pain persists, I would do a sit-bath and then apply some antibiotic ointment.

 

In that case, it seems to be lacking lubrication. the rubber would rub too dry at the same area. 

Also. stop in between and tell the top to add some lubricant. One time at the start might be not sufficient. 

I read in your post that you can't afford buying expensive condoms. I wouldn't think the watson ones are bad quality, but just ask the sex partner to buy or bring condoms n lub instead. If guys are horny, for sure they would do. Don't be shy to ask. 

 

[juicyass]

1 minute ago, singalion said:

 

In that case, it seems to be lacking lubrication. the rubber would rub too dry at the same area. 

Also. stop in between and tell the top to add some lubricant. One time at the start might be not sufficient. 

I read in your post that you can't afford buying expensive condoms. I wouldn't think the watson ones are bad quality, but just ask the sex partner to buy or bring condoms n lub instead. If guys are horny, for sure they would do. Don't be shy to ask. 

 

 

Yes, if the dick is big, the condom get dry fairly fast. Amongst all the lube I use, ONE silicone lube by far the best one I use. 

If it is used during bareback sex, apply a fair amount can last forever. 

If it is used on condom, sometimes need to reapply 2nd time. 

Watson brand condom quality is good. Because I don't use it for myself but only for the tops, so I buy the cheap one for them. lol 

[cutejack]

4 hours ago, juicyass said:

 

Yes, if the dick is big, the condom get dry fairly fast. Amongst all the lube I use, ONE silicone lube by far the best one I use. 

If it is used during bareback sex, apply a fair amount can last forever. 

If it is used on condom, sometimes need to reapply 2nd time. 

Watson brand condom quality is good. Because I don't use it for myself but only for the tops, so I buy the cheap one for them. lol 

I have alot of unused condoms with me. Not that I'm becoming a monk.(🤣🤣) but hardly have anal fun nowadays la.

Almost in my every bag I carry out. Text me if u r in spore ya. Haha

[Sexyass]

I never had the problem with condoms.

 

only to say pre preparation is impt, where I begin to lube up before arriving at sauna

 

in sauna, after Top wears the condom, lube condom immediately again before penetration. The lube on the condom itself is insufficient.

 

during sex, don’t be shy to stop halfway to apply more lube

 

esp when Top is very well hung, and goes at you fast and deep thrusting, I find after couple minutes, need relube again.

 

doing the above, i been able to enjoy bottoming for a few Tops in one evening with no issues…each encounter getting me more wet more aroused, rather than more dry and hurting.

 

 

[fattycatty162]

Have u tried different condom

[fetish69]

On 6/25/2026 at 11:23 AM, juicyass said:

As a bottom myself, I always find that having anal fissure after sex is pretty irritating, esp one using with condom. 

I always get anal soreness at the right bottom corner close to the anus after having sex with condom. But I have no issue when having bareback sex. 

Not like I am against sex with condom, but it is starting to irk me that I get anal fissure every time I have sex with condom. 

I am using silicone lube and latex condom for the top, I applied the lube quite a good amount though. But still, the condom sometimes feel dry-ish when it slide in and out of my anus.

 

How do you prep yourself to prevent anal fissure?  

Hi you try Okamotto  super thin 0.0003. As for me after I have enough of eating his ass to those botton only condom I used the smallest syringes and pump Japanese lube in his asshole than I lube my cock with condom it will makes the bottom feel comfortable also prevent anal fissure. I applied that to my raw session or to the first timer. It glides smoothly as it makes the cock goes deep in smoothly.

[singalion]

The Okamoto condoms have one big issue, for bigger Tools above 6.5 they seems to tight and makes it uncomfortable for the top.