gumordie Posted March 28, 2011 Report Share Posted March 28, 2011 maybe he just had too much to drink Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 28, 2011 Report Share Posted March 28, 2011 maybe he just had too much to drinkThen why got 100 pics with him? He's lucky the straight guy did not 'golden shower' him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gumordie Posted March 28, 2011 Report Share Posted March 28, 2011 Then why got 100 pics with him? He's lucky the straight guy did not 'golden shower' him.i bet he'll enjoy it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mohring, appldir Posted April 2, 2011 Report Share Posted April 2, 2011 http://news.xin.msn.com/en/singapore/article.aspx?cp-documentid=4750661I spoken to him a few times in local bars.It can happen to some of us who lives alone, no partner, away from family (or parents who both passed away).Imagine one is dead and no close friends or family members? Probably rot away in the flat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest alien Posted April 2, 2011 Report Share Posted April 2, 2011 Sometimes this is the bad thing living alone, esp if u are sick or not feeling well, very difficult to manage alone. But even u have close friends and family members ard, but they also cannot be everytime visit u la. So sometimes i wld get quite worried for myself, as i will eventually live alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
willo Posted April 2, 2011 Report Share Posted April 2, 2011 sad... he looks familiar though ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted April 2, 2011 Report Share Posted April 2, 2011 Memorial service for JEFFREY LAI will be held at Geylang Chinese Methodist Church, next to Aljunied mrt stn at 4 pm on 3 April Sunday. Please help to spread this message to people who know and care for him. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 2, 2011 Report Share Posted April 2, 2011 looks eurasian.did he pass away due to illness or commit suicide? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 2, 2011 Report Share Posted April 2, 2011 Sometimes this is the bad thing living alone, esp if u are sick or not feeling well, very difficult to manage alone. But even u have close friends and family members ard, but they also cannot be everytime visit u la. So sometimes i wld get quite worried for myself, as i will eventually live alone.Good to start a support group for single gays who live alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
matthewleon Posted April 2, 2011 Report Share Posted April 2, 2011 My condolences to his family members Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Yunfeiyang Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 RIP Jeff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 Sometimes this is the bad thing living alone, esp if u are sick or not feeling well, very difficult to manage alone. But even u have close friends and family members ard, but they also cannot be everytime visit u la. So sometimes i wld get quite worried for myself, as i will eventually live alone.There is really no need to worry about staying alone, and eventually dead without others knowing it ... i believe this is so much better than having the wrong partner and makes your life worse than dying alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 even if u die alone, u r dead...do u care the fuk who organise ur funeral or how they handle ur body if let say, u dont believe afterlife? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gay singaporean Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 There is really no need to worry about staying alone, and eventually dead without others knowing it ... i believe this is so much better than having the wrong partner and makes your life worse than dying alone.I could not agree with you more!One can be living alone but need not be lonely.Bless his soul, Jeffrey was living alone but he did have immediate family members around.So I think we can safely assumed he was definately not a lonely person and had many friends especially with a career as an air steward. So live life to its fullest and when the time comes... We all have to go sometimes or other! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 So, how did he die? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest alien Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 There is really no need to worry about staying alone, and eventually dead without others knowing it ... i believe this is so much better than having the wrong partner and makes your life worse than dying alone.Quite true, nothing to worry abt if it is the time for me to go. If i die w/o much torture, i dun mind dying alone. Only scare to die and cannot die and torture for long time then can die! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahgreg Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 So, how did he die?Please don't tell me is OD >_< Bad press for gay ppl.Bless him handsome face and soul. May he find peace. Quote I don't wish to be everything to everyone... but I would like to be something to someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 So, how did he die?guess 1) heart attack 2) drugs mix with alcohol 3) lose hugh sum of money at casino. 4) boy friend dump him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mercutio Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 Jeff was a friend. I'm sorry for the times we'll never have.As for cause of death: i hope the question was posed for practical reasons relevant to you as the enquirer. Otherwise I'm not sure how it serves any purpose respectful to his memory. If you say it's for the rest of us to learn, my reply would be that I should imagine most of you are mature and intelligent enough to figure out or to learn from sources like the Internet as to what is safe and what is dangerous, and I would very much prefer that Jefrrey not be turned into some cautionary tale that can only (and in this case erroneously) besmirch his reputation.My observation is that we are too fond of scandal and sensationalism. And even actively create it when there's none to be found.So leave the departed in peace. Please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahgreg Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) Jeff was a friend. I'm sorry for the times we'll never have.As for cause of death: i hope the question was posed for practical reasons relevant to you as the enquirer. Otherwise I'm not sure how it serves any purpose respectful to his memory. If you say it's for the rest of us to learn, my reply would be that I should imagine most of you are mature and intelligent enough to figure out or to learn from sources like the Internet as to what is safe and what is dangerous, and I would very much prefer that Jefrrey not be turned into some cautionary tale that can only (and in this case erroneously) besmirch his reputation.My observation is that we are too fond of scandal and sensationalism. And even actively create it when there's none to be found.So leave the departed in peace. Please.You put us to shame. >_<But Singaporeans being Singaporeans, we just HAVE to know cuz we are born kaypoh :S Edited April 3, 2011 by ahgreg Quote I don't wish to be everything to everyone... but I would like to be something to someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 sad... he looks familiar though ...He is active in the scene,,,,Fort Road,Katong Park, Delta Pool; you name it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 He is active in the scene,,,,Fort Road,Katong Park, Delta Pool; you name it.Err.........."is" or "was" - if "is"...........err....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Shayla Posted April 5, 2011 Report Share Posted April 5, 2011 RIP JL.PPL know u even ur not ard anymore. ppl are asking questions on what had happened. u r famous.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest HH Posted April 7, 2011 Report Share Posted April 7, 2011 He is active in the scene,,,,Fort Road,Katong Park, Delta Pool; you name it.Mind your own words and fxxxing biz... whether he is active or not... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superflawless Posted April 8, 2011 Report Share Posted April 8, 2011 Why are people so defensive and protective?Were you that protective of him when he was alive?Ask yourself that before you start attacking the living on this board. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 9, 2011 Report Share Posted April 9, 2011 .........not forgetting he was on every floor of the old Plaza Singapura, Ann Siang Hill, Amoy Street. Did I left out any of his favourite haunt ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superflawless Posted April 9, 2011 Report Share Posted April 9, 2011 .........not forgetting he was on every floor of the old Plaza Singapura, Ann Siang Hill, Amoy Street. Did I left out any of his favourite haunt ?You tell me, which one of us PLUs have not been to those places you mentioned?People who live in glass houses..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest x Posted April 9, 2011 Report Share Posted April 9, 2011 He said he had a brain tumor once 2 years ago, one that causes him to lose consciousness and blank out at times. So I guess he must have blanked out at home and didn't wake up. Let him rest in peace guys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 9, 2011 Report Share Posted April 9, 2011 died of unconciousness w/o any feeling of pain is a better way to die than being sick and tortured.its just a waste he is still young to go early. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest boy Posted April 13, 2011 Report Share Posted April 13, 2011 died of unconciousness w/o any feeling of pain is a better way to die than being sick and tortured.its just a waste he is still young to go early.do you know what? OMG he is very active in sauna, see him every day of the week there everytime. And guess what? He always like to force people including me to have sex with him and think he's damn good looking, he think that noone can reject him and give you the snobbish look if you do.Good riddance! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ironrod Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 do you know what? OMG he is very active in sauna, see him every day of the week there everytime. And guess what? He always like to force people including me to have sex with him and think he's damn good looking, he think that noone can reject him and give you the snobbish look if you do.Good riddance!U mean can FORCE ppl in sauna? I didn't know that......Can provide details how to force ppl so perhaps we can device a way to stop such things from happening in SAUNA? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 do you know what? OMG he is very active in sauna, see him every day of the week there everytime. And guess what? He always like to force people including me to have sex with him and think he's damn good looking, he think that noone can reject him and give you the snobbish look if you do.Good riddance!You are deplorable! Speaking of a deceased in such a manner. *slaps* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest boy Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 You are deplorable! Speaking of a deceased in such a manner. *slaps*so wads if he's dead, he was deplorable in life and i have all right to sayhe force as in grab other people's crotch, do not know a "no" for an answer, will still push them inside the room, once he tried to rape me, push me into a room and took off my towel, i gave him a hard kick in his face Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imchaser Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 (edited) so wads if he's dead, he was deplorable in life and i have all right to sayhe force as in grab other people's crotch, do not know a "no" for an answer, will still push them inside the room, once he tried to rape me, push me into a room and took off my towel, i gave him a hard kick in his faceU think u r Daniel Wu? Who will believe u.Well i guess being talked abt after death is better than not being remembered at all.... Edited April 14, 2011 by imchaser Quote Volunteering for the underwear association for third world countries. Please donate your used underwear to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gummibear Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 so wads if he's dead, he was deplorable in life and i have all right to sayhe force as in grab other people's crotch, do not know a "no" for an answer, will still push them inside the room, once he tried to rape me, push me into a room and took off my towel, i gave him a hard kick in his faceThis is really despicable.Honestly, speaking about the deceased in that manner makes you far worst than the person you make him out to be in your claims. The man is already dead, you are alive and kicking, even if he did what you accuses him of, LET IT GO ALREADY! What are you? Freaking 9 year old?!?No one is gonna believe your one sided rant anyway, the man is dead and he cannot even defend himself, why should anyone listen to you claims of indignation? You described that you managed to defend yourself from his advances with a kick to the face, very conceited about this mockery over your achievement...no? If you were able to defend yourself and nothing actually happened, then shut the fxxk up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zombie Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 This is really despicable.Honestly, speaking about the deceased in that manner makes you far worst than the person you make him out to be in your claims. The man is already dead, you are alive and kicking, even if he did what you accuses him of, LET IT GO ALREADY! What are you? Freaking 9 year old?!?No one is gonna believe your one sided rant anyway, the man is dead and he cannot even defend himself, why should anyone listen to you claims of indignation? You described that you managed to defend yourself from his advances with a kick to the face, very conceited about this mockery over your achievement...no? If you were able to defend yourself and nothing actually happened, then shut the fxxk up.Or maybe it was he who pushed the steward into the room, attempted to rape him, THEN got kick in the face instead, then come here to cry wolf to justify his own indignation and shame....ever thought of that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 so wads if he's dead, he was deplorable in life and i have all right to sayhe force as in grab other people's crotch, do not know a "no" for an answer, will still push them inside the room, once he tried to rape me, push me into a room and took off my towel, i gave him a hard kick in his faceU r just another story maker , pls look yrself in the mirror and becareful of karma ....!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sonder Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 U r just another story maker , pls look yrself in the mirror and becareful of karma ....!!!!!!!I think boy speaks some truth, my friends and I had similar experiences with him in TC b4 it closed, he wasn't so aggressive with me, just plain rude I supposed, didn't know he was an air steward, heard he love <<No Drugs Posting>> too. But yes, I think he should let it go, afterall the man is gone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Haha Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 I think boy speaks some truth, my friends and I had similar experiences with him in TC b4 it closed, he wasn't so aggressive with me, just plain rude I supposed, didn't know he was an air steward, heard he love <<No Drugs Posting>> too. But yes, I think he should let it go, afterall the man is gone.Another idiot.. Jus wait for your retribution Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sonder Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 Another idiot.. Jus wait for your retributionWhat did I say? I just said told him to let it rest. You are the idiot here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 Jeffrey is gone and at peace now but he's amused that those living are still bitching among themselves.Right or wrong is no longer at this point of time. Guys, live this moment lah. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Haha Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 Nowadays pp like to talk bad abt pp but do they think abt themselves Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Body & Mind Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 I hope this episode of living and staying alone bring up some good suggestions for everyone to ponder since the consequence is so predictable with such trend hitting the news. The population is aging, I hope oocchaagga (sorry I cant pronounce the name)or any organisations....offers more aged friendly forum and seminar on monthly basis and everyone get to know each others, make friends and blend in well. I hope gay community can be more united as compared to the past instead of...being alone at our own risk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jericho Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 I think boy speaks some truth, my friends and I had similar experiences with him in TC b4 it closed, he wasn't so aggressive with me, just plain rude I supposed, didn't know he was an air steward, heard he love <<No Drugs Posting>> too. But yes, I think he should let it go, afterall the man is gone.when i saw his pic, it didnt trigger any familiarity - just thot that jeffrey is a handsome guy. however after reading these posts, i do recall now. i too have my own experience with him.But whatever it is, the guy has passed away, let him rest in peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lala Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 i not sure wat you guys said above is true.if true i envy him.isnt tat a good way to enjoy life??travel round te world wif SQ.. have lots of fun all the time...then die peacefully...fit n handsome life is short n he enjoyed it welli tink he had a good life... RIP Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irus1966 Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 I wonder if he has contracted AIDS and wish to go faster by over-dosing on some drugs?? I hope all those guys who have had some wild sessions with him to monitor your own status. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Centrino Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 i gave him a hard kick in his faceIf he died because of internal injuries caused by a hard kick in his face....erm...that makes you a murderer???!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest boy Posted April 15, 2011 Report Share Posted April 15, 2011 If he died because of internal injuries caused by a hard kick in his face....erm...that makes you a murderer???!!!!if that is he died four years back, which he didnt, wished he did thenhe is not good looking and got flabby boobs, pics can be deceiving Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2011 Report Share Posted April 16, 2011 He tried to hit on me before, in TC, then $!^*|. He was kinda scary when he did that.I do agree, whatever he has done, pls let the matter rest. He's gone.Made me think about dying alone, but I have learn to accept it. When I am dead and rotting, I wouldnt be alive to smell it anyway. Thats life. Live, eat, drink, fxxk, die.-------------Moderator Note : No ad in the MainEdited by Mod Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest butterfy Posted April 17, 2011 Report Share Posted April 17, 2011 I do agree with boy and sonder. Although he is already dead, but when he was alive, he was 'overly forthcoming' when he was in the saunas.Yes, and he behaved as tho he is god's gift to gay and like making pple do things to him as tho he was one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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