Bareback / Raw Sex Discussion + Fucking Without A Condom / Bareback = Trust ?(compiled)

[auscent]

When that feeling between two men in heat seems powerful enough to stop everyth in the world....

 

But that feeling doesnt stop HIV.

[Guest Outraged]

My friend's recent sauna experience (a guy desperately wanted to take his dick raw) reminded me that far too many guys are far too casual about barebacking, even when the other guy wants to use a condom, as if they are completely oblivious to all of the diseases they could be exposed to! Or they want to expose others to diseases! I can understand barebacking if two guys are in a serious committed relationship (although there is still the potential for cheating and bringing outside diseases into the couple), but I can never understand why people will bareback in saunas, public toilets, changing rooms, with one night stands, and so on! A few minutes of pleasure are not worth a lifetime of daily medication and potential health complications!

[lovehandle]

bespectacled is better
Raw or not - not critical
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[Guest bbcream]

Hss anyone tried bareback? Is it safe? Does it feel good?

[Deedee5525]

Bareback is never safe among gay

[upshot]

To say most have never is a lie really. But yes for me, I have it. But with people I am very familiar and comfortable with for years. Anyone else would be a questionable risk and one you have to take very mindfully. TRUST is a very hard virtue to see among passing encounters no matter how innocent some of them might look. Demeanor is very misleading. from the 90s onward, I never leave home with them. Rubbers. And I am talking good ones not those cheap ones that tears. And I check over time during fucking to ensure it has not torn as many top could not bother to check till it is too late.

 

Raw feels.... well  it feels more tactile. You get more sensation for sure. It is skin on skin and with less lube or thinner lube you feel it more but lube it really good and it feels like you are wearing condom. Sex is really 70% mental and 30% physical. A btm not entirely clean might deposit shit bits on your cock instead of a condom? How does that sound to you? heheh It can and does happen. Some swear then they take their cock out of their ass, clean it and the btrm blow it and can small shit. Is that also okay with you? heheh So ya.. there are pro and con there too. The right size cock and length plays a part for sure too.

 

THIS IS NOT an endorsement to go try hor. You want to know what it is like, like about orgy, I am giving you the full scope of it with a cautionary disclaimer.

The feeling of have sperm shot into you, how much you feel is subjective and more imaginary then real. The rectum is not full of pain sensory nerves thus you have to be careful what you shove inside your ass. You only know something is wrong when you see blood flowing out of your ass. Most of the time, i do not feel it, a tiny warm but not like some porn movie of hot spurts shooting up your ass kinda thing. As a cock cums, some guys spam their brother and you feel it throb or expand a little. Again, not much but some btm make a big deal out of that like some '99 level of grey novel'.

 

And of course with that means, going to clean your ass if he cum a lot as it will flow out and if you are OCD or squeamish about being so dirty like that and need to clean up, ya.. something you will need to attend to right after he finish in you. No issue for me. Kinda slutty feeling to see it leak out or I push down to force more out and stand up to see it flow out heheheh

 

But again, that's just me and I have this long time friend who sort me out as he hardy get any action from his wife and we were orgy buddies fro way back and have since been fuck buddies occasionally he feels the need and he cums a lot! Suffice to say, when he call, I sure to agree heheh. Do do i enjoy it as much as with condom on? It's bout the same. Sex is really 70% mental and 30% physical. Over time it's not a big criteria for good sex.

 

Even before AIDS, it is always best to use condom with people you are not sure of. STD are no fun too. If you can ever maintain a relationship with someone you know is pretty faithful with you, maybe. But it's on you if something happens. heh i know curiosity will get the better of some of you heh. Your decision as it is your life. Have fun with eyes open wide. No one can stop you.

Edited August 29, 2020 by upshot

[upshot]

15 minutes ago, Deedee5525 said:

Bareback is never safe among gay

 

It's never safe for anyone...

[Deedee5525]

6 minutes ago, upshot said:

 

It's never safe for anyone...

If it is never safe to anyone you would not have been born in this world. 

[upshot]

5 minutes ago, Deedee5525 said:

If it is never safe to anyone you would not have been born in this world. 

 

Well... That's comparing apple to oranges subject wise. Procreation was never the focus of the thread here. But we don't just also have gays here, we have bisexuals, str8 curious ..etc. Sexual ills do not discriminate. Unless you are discriminating that gays are the problem lot that likely only spreads STDs and AIDS?  heh.

Edited August 29, 2020 by upshot

[Deedee5525]

On the contrary, it is relatable. It is scientifically proven that gay is more STD prone. Dont tell me this is discriminatory :)) logically anal sex which popular among gay is more STD prone than vagina intercourse. Therefore, bareback is of course never safe but with abovementioned is safer among heterosexual couple. Hope this enlightens you

[upshot]

6 minutes ago, Deedee5525 said:

On the contrary, it is relatable. It is scientifically proven that gay is more STD prone. Dont tell me this is discriminatory :)) logically anal sex which popular among gay is more STD prone than vagina intercourse. Therefore, bareback is of course never safe but with abovementioned is safer among heterosexual couple. Hope this enlightens you

 

No you are just looking for justification to get more folks to try it so you can have your pick of the litter here.

Edited August 29, 2020 by upshot

[Deedee5525]

1 minute ago, upshot said:

 

No you are just looking for justification to get more into it so you can have your pick of the litter here.

Cheers then =))

[Guest Incognito]

yes me me.

 

Quite a while back, I used to hook up with punjabi construction hunks whom I picked up mostly at weekends. Most of them have really huge cocks and dun like condoms as they find it too tight and very uncomfortable to put on. Oh and when they cum inside me, trust me its not just cum, they're explosions. When they cum, I can feel the sudden pulsating of their thick cocks around my anus, followed by powerful jets of hot sperm shooting against the inside of my anus.  I was so sure that if I am a woman, they would have shot their sperm right up to my ovary and make me pregnant instantly LOL ! That's how strong and powerful their cocks are. Can't wait for this covid pandemic to be over so I can hook up with my regulars again.

[FattChoy]

35 minutes ago, Deedee5525 said:

Cheers then =))

What to do but laugh, right? BW full of jibai trolls. Can just lol at them... 

[Deedee5525]

6 minutes ago, FattChoy said:

What to do but laugh, right? BW full of jibai trolls. Can just lol at them... 

Sorry you dont make sense to me

[fab]

It is only safe for responsible monogamous couples.

 

 

[Guest Winkly]

7 hours ago, Guest bbcream said:

Hss anyone tried bareback? Is it safe? Does it feel good?

Now pinoyland got massive HIV infection.  Barebacking must choose the right place.  Don't anyhow choose just because someone winked at you.

[m88]

I think for myself back about 12 years ago when everyone was just a little bit more innocent to the scene and I had my first partner, we trusted one another fully to the extent we would head to DSC for a full work up and ensured we were both clean before we sealed the deed (bareback).And why the love was innocent and honest then was because whenever he cheated, he would be upfront about it. 

 

But now in this timeline we are in, this mutual trust and confiding in one another would be harder to come by. Anyway going bareback does not mean you'd be immune to other STIs like urethritis. Just a heads up.

[Guest barebacker]

Trust me, when you barebacked, you won't turn back. Nothing feels as good as a bare cock up your ass and the explosion and overflowing jizz from your ass.

[Guest Blank]

Yes only bb

 

Exclusive so v safe for us but we rarely have sex 

 

Feels good, no idea how a condom feels like but heard from friends say with condom less feeling

[caindukker]

I've mostly gone bareback with people I dated in the past. But never gone bareback with ONS. It's never really safe, even if the person is your boyfriend. One of my exes gave me ghonorea after dating for more than 3 months. And I was like 'you little slut'! 😤

 

As for how it feels. As a bottom doing bareback, I feel like a dirty whore, and that's a great thing to feel during sex. Love it especially when the top fills my ass with his warm cum and having it drip out of my hole slowly. 

 

As a top, in my opinion, feels the same as having a thin condom on. I don't really feel the difference. But I do like to use my cum as lube to keep pounding after my first orgasm. 😂 Current boyfriend loves this. Haha. 

 

Anyway, I am not endorsing unsafe sex. It's always better to be safe than sorry. 

 

 

[And then]

To me as a bottom,

bareback is more risky, more messy, and to be honest, the physical sensation is not much different, but I still do it.

Going to the toilet afterwards to get rid of the cum is troublesome and strangely erotic at the same time. I always put tissue in the toilet to see the cum.

 

I can only put it down to mental factors.

[mate69]

Yes not much difference in terms of sensation

[Guest Kendric]

Yes. Better do it with someone you really know. It feels great

[IntoBJonly]

On 8/29/2020 at 4:22 PM, Deedee5525 said:

Bareback is never safe among gay

You think safe for heterosexuals?🤣

[IntoBJonly]

On 8/30/2020 at 5:26 AM, caindukker said:

I've mostly gone bareback with people I dated in the past. But never gone bareback with ONS. It's never really safe, even if the person is your boyfriend. One of my exes gave me ghonorea after dating for more than 3 months. And I was like 'you little slut'! 😤

 

As for how it feels. As a bottom doing bareback, I feel like a dirty whore, and that's a great thing to feel during sex. Love it especially when the top fills my ass with his warm cum and having it drip out of my hole slowly. 

 

As a top, in my opinion, feels the same as having a thin condom on. I don't really feel the difference. But I do like to use my cum as lube to keep pounding after my first orgasm. 😂 Current boyfriend loves this. Haha. 

 

Anyway, I am not endorsing unsafe sex. It's always better to be safe than sorry. 

 

 

ghonorea!!! Aiyo. Must sue him!

[IntoBJonly]

On 8/29/2020 at 5:10 PM, Guest Incognito said:

.....and when they cum inside me, trust me its not just cum, they're explosions... I was so sure that if I am a woman, they would have shot their sperm right up to my ovary and make me pregnant instantly LOL ! That's how strong and powerful their cocks are...

 

 

 

Their ejaculation won't stop at the ovary. It goes all the way up from my tight virgin ass. I tried many times. It gushes up and I got choked and coughed non-stop!  I thought I was drowning and I cried for help. Then thick sperm came out from my nose, ears and eyes. 

Edited June 11, 2021 by IntoBJonly

[Ironrod]

Even as a 100% top, I don't encourage BB with strangers. Only BB with ppl u know well enough and will not regret if u kenna anything. 

[Red_martian]

3 minutes ago, Ironrod said:

Even as a 100% top, I don't encourage BB with strangers. Only BB with ppl u know well enough and will not regret if u kenna anything. 

I only had bareback with my boyfriend. We lasted 4 years and yeah everytime we had sex was bb. I dont suggest it but if you are really exclusive then i guess its up to you haha

[upshot]

9 hours ago, IntoBJonly said:

Wah kinky.....my bf always point his 7incher gun at me and ask me to swallow...poor me

hahahahah.... Don't get me wrong. I am not saying everyone totally give up raw sex or swallow cum if that is what they fancy. BUT be discerning as to who you let do that to you or you onto them. I only do raw sex with two close friends who are also my fuck buddies without question as I trust them since I know and have been sexing with them for over 20 yrs off and on. We each are more discipline, especially me since I am the non-married person of the lot and still do others that I have checked out, plus usually I use rubbers. For swallow, I do not enjoy it at all. The times I do it for more my buddies' sake, but I spit out after.

 

We just should be careful who we do this with. I know of people who do not care as in their "HEAD" they have already made up the maths that chances of them getting anything is like 1:1million so they are just going to go with it. Their choice lah. Who are we to be around them to help protect them from themselves. heheh..

 

 

Edited June 11, 2021 by upshot

[Kenjikenji]

58 minutes ago, upshot said:

hahahahah.... Don't get me wrong. I am not saying everyone totally give up raw sex or swallow cum if that is what they fancy. BUT be discerning as to who you let do that to you or you onto them. I only do raw sex with two close friends who are also my fuck buddies without question as I trust them since I know and have been sexing with them for over 20 yrs off and on. We each are more discipline, especially me since I am the non-married person of the lot and still do others that I have checked out, plus usually I use rubbers. For swallow, I do not enjoy it at all. The times I do it for more my buddies' sake, but I spit out after.

 

We just should be careful who we do this with. I know of people who do not care as in their "HEAD" they have already made up the maths that chances of them getting anything is like 1:1million so they are just going to go with it. Their choice lah. Who are we to be around them to help protect them from themselves. heheh..

 

 

Agreed . I think it is the buddy you do with . Should go for check if wanted to do raw or other stuff . Once u have staunch buddy , we need to be discipline and responsible 

[Guest Guest]

4 hours ago, upshot said:

hahahahah.... Don't get me wrong. I am not saying everyone totally give up raw sex or swallow cum if that is what they fancy. BUT be discerning as to who you let do that to you or you onto them. I only do raw sex with two close friends who are also my fuck buddies without question as I trust them since I know and have been sexing with them for over 20 yrs off and on. We each are more discipline, especially me since I am the non-married person of the lot and still do others that I have checked out, plus usually I use rubbers. For swallow, I do not enjoy it at all. The times I do it for more my buddies' sake, but I spit out after.

 

We just should be careful who we do this with. I know of people who do not care as in their "HEAD" they have already made up the maths that chances of them getting anything is like 1:1million so they are just going to go with it. Their choice lah. Who are we to be around them to help protect them from themselves. heheh..

 

 

True... PLAY IT SAFE.

I only go raw with my close army buddy who is also a married family man. He is a discreet bi and the only sex partner I have. We started having sex 25 years ago when we were in the army. Yes, we trusted each other and this is why we can maintain our fuck buddy relationship till now. On and off I swallow his cum because he enjoy me doing but usually he shoot them into my hole. He love whispering at my ear "you are mine" after shooting in. 

[upshot]

39 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

True... PLAY IT SAFE.

I only go raw with my close army buddy who is also a married family man. He is a discreet bi and the only sex partner I have. We started having sex 25 years ago when we were in the army. Yes, we trusted each other and this is why we can maintain our fuck buddy relationship till now. On and off I swallow his cum because he enjoy me doing but usually he shoot them into my hole. He love whispering at my ear "you are mine" after shooting in. 

Sound like a great partnership. Trust takes a long while to build up and when it does, you have no worry of trust and safety.

[Hottersausage]

On 10/9/2011 at 7:06 PM, TheVisitors said:

We are not really talking about trust here. It is more about logic and hygenie issue.

I am sharing from my own personal experience.

We are talking about two people who are very healthy, HIV free with no other health issues.

One of my ex was a ex commando, dragonboater, and yes he had a bod and a face that many would die for.

But what was very rare was a simple kind loyal and intelligent heart, coming from someone looking like that

We were casual friends, until 4 months we had feelings fro each other,that finally, that took us both into a relationship that lasted 5 years.

Both are more top but he is more domineering, so I let him have his way.

As we are both health freaks, and went for frequently health screening, we declared to be safe, thus we do bareback, for 5 years when we were living as a couple, with his family. My "Mother-in Law" is an open minded loving person.

Doing barebare symbolizes a relationship that has attained a higher level of trust, commitment and love.

To feel someone, inside you, without the barriers of a rubber, heightens this intimacy, that when your partner, climaxes inside you, this intimacy reached the summit of love united.

However, there is another setback when doing BB.

I am not taking about STD or HIV related issues.

Both the vagina and anus can be penetrated by the penis, althought the former exist for a more.... legitimate reason.

However, both also have inner microscopic bacteria, that can affect the penis when it enters them raw.

Many may not know , that when a woman has undetected yeast infection, it actualy can affected an unprotected penis, causing redness and itching.

Thus smiliarly, the walls of the rectumn is lined with many forms of bacteria, which can give a nasty itch and redness to an unprotected penis.

This is especially more prone, if the receptor's immune system is weak , when recently recovered from a flu, or if he is suspectible to irritable bowels syndrome , or dysbiosis, due to weak digestive system or an unbalanced in the good and bad digestive enyzeme bacteria.

I am sharing from my experience, because my ex was affected by these bacterias when we BB.

Lab test actually showed the results were STD or HIV unrelated. A simple antibiotic and a cream heals the ailments within a week.

It is smiliar to how a penis can be infected by yeast bacteria from a vagina.

After that inconvenient experience, we did with protecttion

From my experiences, put aside romanticism.

Hygiene and health issues comes first

Thk u for sharing, both of u must be lovely couple, must be memorable 5 years. 

[Guest Armpits]

On 6/24/2021 at 6:03 AM, Hottersausage said:

Thk u for sharing, both of u must be lovely couple, must be memorable 5 years. 

Trust = bareback = love

That's not even correlated. Good luck with that

[Guest Curious]

On 6/24/2021 at 11:03 AM, Hottersausage said:

Thk u for sharing, both of u must be lovely couple, must be memorable 5 years. 

I'm sure that's what the husbands caught being part of the KTV cluster tried to say to persuade their wives not to divorce them.

[Guest Guest]

On 6/11/2021 at 3:10 PM, Red_martian said:

I only had bareback with my boyfriend. We lasted 4 years and yeah everytime we had sex was bb. I dont suggest it but if you are really exclusive then i guess its up to you haha

I too only have bareback with my bf. We exchange roles and shoot in each other.

[Hottersausage]

On 7/27/2021 at 10:28 AM, Guest Guest said:

I too only have bareback with my bf. We exchange roles and shoot in each other.

So sweet

[BudakFit]

BB only to those mutuals and of course BF or partner. Rest is condoms. 

 

Sometime as a Master Top with big dick it is best to be just Top. Not turn on at all to be fuck. Grinding Sliding Rubbing is Fine. Haha 

 

When you are Master Top you are in control lead skills etc...shiok. 

 

Nevertheless, doesn't matter what roles. Just create your own. 

[musictea1]

BB = Reckless

[gregzeters]

BB in serious love relationship =  trust
BB for ONS =  Lust

[HotIce]

Once u go raw, it’s difficult to turn back. Especially with prep, u just feel a lot safer. 
 

i know prep doesn’t prevent other diseases apart from HIV, but the kind of assurance provided is why u see so many people turning to raw sex nowadays. 

[Guest 脏子姨]

On 6/12/2021 at 5:19 AM, Guest Guest said:

True... PLAY IT SAFE.

I only go raw with my close army buddy who is also a married family man. He is a discreet bi and the only sex partner I have. We started having sex 25 years ago when we were in the army. Yes, we trusted each other and this is why we can maintain our fuck buddy relationship till now. On and off I swallow his cum because he enjoy me doing but usually he shoot them into my hole. He love whispering at my ear "you are mine" after shooting in. 

 

Wow, that's damn hot...

[Zyscgk]

On 11/13/2021 at 5:00 AM, HotIce said:

Once u go raw, it’s difficult to turn back. Especially with prep, u just feel a lot safer. 
 

i know prep doesn’t prevent other diseases apart from HIV, but the kind of assurance provided is why u see so many people turning to raw sex nowadays. 

Yup. On daily PreP. Would bareback in a heartbeat.  🤣

[Zyscgk]

On 10/9/2011 at 7:06 PM, TheVisitors said:

We are not really talking about trust here. It is more about logic and hygenie issue.

I am sharing from my own personal experience.

We are talking about two people who are very healthy, HIV free with no other health issues.

One of my ex was a ex commando, dragonboater, and yes he had a bod and a face that many would die for.

But what was very rare was a simple kind loyal and intelligent heart, coming from someone looking like that

We were casual friends, until 4 months we had feelings fro each other,that finally, that took us both into a relationship that lasted 5 years.

Both are more top but he is more domineering, so I let him have his way.

As we are both health freaks, and went for frequently health screening, we declared to be safe, thus we do bareback, for 5 years when we were living as a couple, with his family. My "Mother-in Law" is an open minded loving person.

Doing barebare symbolizes a relationship that has attained a higher level of trust, commitment and love.

To feel someone, inside you, without the barriers of a rubber, heightens this intimacy, that when your partner, climaxes inside you, this intimacy reached the summit of love united.

However, there is another setback when doing BB.

I am not taking about STD or HIV related issues.

Both the vagina and anus can be penetrated by the penis, althought the former exist for a more.... legitimate reason.

However, both also have inner microscopic bacteria, that can affect the penis when it enters them raw.

Many may not know , that when a woman has undetected yeast infection, it actualy can affected an unprotected penis, causing redness and itching.

Thus smiliarly, the walls of the rectumn is lined with many forms of bacteria, which can give a nasty itch and redness to an unprotected penis.

This is especially more prone, if the receptor's immune system is weak , when recently recovered from a flu, or if he is suspectible to irritable bowels syndrome , or dysbiosis, due to weak digestive system or an unbalanced in the good and bad digestive enyzeme bacteria.

I am sharing from my experience, because my ex was affected by these bacterias when we BB.

Lab test actually showed the results were STD or HIV unrelated. A simple antibiotic and a cream heals the ailments within a week.

It is smiliar to how a penis can be infected by yeast bacteria from a vagina.

After that inconvenient experience, we did with protecttion

From my experiences, put aside romanticism.

Hygiene and health issues comes first

Once a year antibiotics like Doxycycline or azithromycin should do thr trick. 

[Guest Wtf]

On 11/13/2021 at 8:21 AM, Zyscgk said:

Once a year antibiotics like Doxycycline or azithromycin should do thr trick. 

Is this a joke? Antibiotic resistance - due in part to them being over used - is a massive problem and there are antibiotic-resistant strains of STIs already circulating.

 

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/antibiotic-resistance 

[Guest Guest]

On 5/27/2018 at 11:08 AM, Guest Funchub said:

I am one of those guys that let's the small Head take over. When a guys raws me, I will give a weak resistance while at the same time moaning like a slut. After a while I will just go from a soft 'stop' to loud  'yes fuck me'. The though of being forced on and and being dominated like I am his slut is quite intoxicating. It's funny near the end all I am thinking is I want his cum inside me as if it will complete me.

 

yeah me too!

[Guest Oiyru]

On 11/13/2021 at 12:04 PM, Guest Wtf said:

Is this a joke? Antibiotic resistance - due in part to them being over used - is a massive problem and there are antibiotic-resistant strains of STIs already circulating.

 

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/antibiotic-resistance 

 

Idiots will be idiots  , beauty fades and dumb is forever. 

 

Just leave these idiots to rot and fester with their incurable brain dead and let them get incurable disease. 

 

They wanna have fun, let them feel the full consequences.

 

Even if you tell them.the truth they wont listen . 

 

Even doctors advice they will twist it around to fit their own twisted fantasies. 

 

Let them just rot.

[Guest Fluteguan]

On 11/13/2021 at 5:00 AM, HotIce said:

Once u go raw, it’s difficult to turn back. Especially with prep, u just feel a lot safer. 
 

i know prep doesn’t prevent other diseases apart from HIV, but the kind of assurance provided is why u see so many people turning to raw sex nowadays. 

 

👋

[Guest bottom_boi]

On 5/27/2018 at 11:08 AM, Guest Funchub said:

I am one of those guys that let's the small Head take over. When a guys raws me, I will give a weak resistance while at the same time moaning like a slut. After a while I will just go from a soft 'stop' to loud  'yes fuck me'. The though of being forced on and and being dominated like I am his slut is quite intoxicating. It's funny near the end all I am thinking is I want his cum inside me as if it will complete me.

being dominated and wanting the top to seed us, as if we have a womb and can get pregnant, it's a natural feeling for bottoms, i'm glad reading this, i can so relate